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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you learn from your mistakes?

If someone has upset you, do you tell them or keep it to yourself?

What mistakes have you learned from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned from some of my mistakes because they really had an impact.

Others I keep making over and over again and I'll never learn. But mistakes can feel so right at the time of doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learn from most of my mistakes. But there’s two I keep going back too.

And I’m getting better at telling people why they’ve upset me. I wouldn’t say I’m argumentative or anything, but I’m pretty straight up now about how I feel about things. If you’ve bothered or upset me, chances are I’ll let you know.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do learn by my mistakes yes. Thats why we make them. Some have had an epic impact on my life but i learnt the hard way.

Ive always said to my son its not the mistakes you make its what you learn from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mistake was made when I was young and inexperienced. I won't make that one again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah i am bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally learn from my mistakes so that the next time I do it again, I understand that I'm actually doing it deliberately. Hence it's no longer a mistake..

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Usually not I’m too forgiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally learn from my mistakes so that the next time I do it again, I understand that I'm actually doing it deliberately. Hence it's no longer a mistake.."

I like this way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I learn from most of my mistakes. But there’s two I keep going back too.

And I’m getting better at telling people why they’ve upset me. I wouldn’t say I’m argumentative or anything, but I’m pretty straight up now about how I feel about things. If you’ve bothered or upset me, chances are I’ll let you know. "

If you know they won't care do you still tell them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do learn by my mistakes yes. Thats why we make them. Some have had an epic impact on my life but i learnt the hard way.

Ive always said to my son its not the mistakes you make its what you learn from them"

I like that way of thinking.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I could write a book about them.. believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learn from most of my mistakes. But there’s two I keep going back too.

And I’m getting better at telling people why they’ve upset me. I wouldn’t say I’m argumentative or anything, but I’m pretty straight up now about how I feel about things. If you’ve bothered or upset me, chances are I’ll let you know.

If you know they won't care do you still tell them? "

Yep. Maybe in the years to come they’ll reflect on it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Once bitten, twice shy, is my motto, but I did fuck up on several occasions in ma early 20's. I suppose it depends on what sort of mistake is involved and whether you're prepared to take the gamble that history won't repeat itself.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm pretty good at learning from my mistakes, especially in relationships. At least in the sense that I've made just about every relationship mistake a guy can make, but never the same one twice and ultimately i ran out of mistakes to make and found an awesome wife.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always learning, especially from my mistakes. Thankfully I have not made too many big ones.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you learn from your mistakes?

If someone has upset you, do you tell them or keep it to yourself?

What mistakes have you learned from?

"

1. Some. Others I tweak and make them again with a new twist.

2. Keep it to myself.

3. A recent one is to go against my natural behaviours with a particular person in order to effect a change.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I hope I learn from my mistakes, though there are some I repeat for sure. I am someone who needs to tell people if they upset me, but I try to do it in a thoughtful, calm manner and not with anger. I can be volatile if provoked though!

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman
over a year ago

St Helens

I actually like making mistakes. Means I am trying at least.

Some of my mistakes have involved men which I have learned from.

With dating at one point a few years back I tried to be someone I wasn't. It didn't work. So now I'm completely me. Don't hide anything. If I'm not for them then they can walk away and I won't chase.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you learn from your mistakes?

If someone has upset you, do you tell them or keep it to yourself?

What mistakes have you learned from?

1. Some. Others I tweak and make them again with a new twist.

2. Keep it to myself.

3. A recent one is to go against my natural behaviours with a particular person in order to effect a change.

"

1. I'm always finding new ways to make the same mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually like making mistakes. Means I am trying at least.

Some of my mistakes have involved men which I have learned from.

With dating at one point a few years back I tried to be someone I wasn't. It didn't work. So now I'm completely me. Don't hide anything. If I'm not for them then they can walk away and I won't chase.

"

I really like that way of looking at it- your first paragraph.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Do you learn from your mistakes?

If someone has upset you, do you tell them or keep it to yourself?

What mistakes have you learned from?

1. Some. Others I tweak and make them again with a new twist.

2. Keep it to myself.

3. A recent one is to go against my natural behaviours with a particular person in order to effect a change.

1. I'm always finding new ways to make the same mistake again. "
what is it that keeps you making the same mistake

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