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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before?" I used to get loads but tbh, I don’t use it as much anymore and I think the novelty has worn off a bit. I can be swiping over 50 times and not see anyone I like the look of. | |||
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"I get matches but no fucker chats "I sent a few messages recently and not one reply. Prefer Bumble. | |||
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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before?" Have you put yourself in as a single male.. that d be the obvious reason.  | |||
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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before?" I never get any matches! Ever | |||
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"I get matches but no fucker chats
I sent a few messages recently and not one reply. Prefer Bumble. "Same story on there for me  | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s." Which Sainsbury's? I'm always in the look out in supermarkets but never really get the look | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s." Bump in to their trolley. Much less subtle | |||
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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before? I never get any matches! Ever" Snap. Although I know that the boost feature does work, you appear more often isn’t it?... but is there not something to do with new user? They’re kinda at the end of the deck? | |||
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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before? I never get any matches! Ever" I thought it was just me | |||
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"So I rejoined Tinder today after a break. Been on 8 hours, used a boost, but not got a single match. Last time I was on I got lots of matches only an hour in. Anyone had this problem before? I never get any matches! Ever Snap. Although I know that the boost feature does work, you appear more often isn’t it?... but is there not something to do with new user? They’re kinda at the end of the deck? " I thought new users were always put first. I was on last year and I got loads of matches and a few meets. Having none today!! | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s. Which Sainsbury's? I'm always in the look out in supermarkets but never really get the look" Which one do you shop at?  | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s. Bump in to their trolley. Much less subtle "Noted | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s." ^^^^^^^^ this  | |||
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"Set the distance to 1 mile. Anyone that appears who is more than 1 mile away from you must have swiped right on you "Thanks for the top tip. It works x | |||
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"Set the distance to 1 mile. Anyone that appears who is more than 1 mile away from you must have swiped right on you
Thanks for the top tip. It works x"You're welcome! | |||
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" They’re kinda at the end of the deck? I thought new users were always put first. I was on last year and I got loads of matches and a few meets. Having none today!!" Hmm.... you could try a refresh of the app, could be a possibly bug issue in it (you know when sometimes it doesn’t show the first picture, but does for the rest) Delete and then reinstall? Apart from that... all I can think of is that they’ve lost their ability of sight in your radius | |||
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"I started as a new user with a new FB account x" Same photos? Now I'm puzzled  | |||
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"It's just so weird that the same people are popping up again and again and again. I swipe on them....then later on I see them again. Happening loads. Is my app just messed up?" I would totally delete the app and start again, sounds like there is a glitch ! | |||
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"It's just so weird that the same people are popping up again and again and again. I swipe on them....then later on I see them again. Happening loads. Is my app just messed up? I would totally delete the app and start again, sounds like there is a glitch ! " I had that once. I logged out and back in again and it stopped. | |||
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"I’ve not used tinder for ages... is it still just a place to get quick sex? " No idea as I’ve never used it for that. | |||
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"I’ve not used tinder for ages... is it still just a place to get quick sex? " Not really, the majority of women are looking for relationships. | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s." This sounds like a good plan. | |||
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"I’ve not used tinder for ages... is it still just a place to get quick sex? Not really, the majority of women are looking for relationships." They say they are, but my female friends always say that he hasn't been back in touch since so he was only after one thing. When asked if he got it they say yes. Ffs girl you just gave it him. | |||
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"Ok I deleted app, logged in again, and basically everyone I saw today already popped up again! Ah so frustrating! Why is this happening? And still no matches!" The people that are popping up are probably people that have liked you. Try the tip above and put it to one mile and anyone over that will be people that have swiped right for you. | |||
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"Is it just Sainsbury's and is there a best time or secret clues I can give out that I'm available? " Any supermarket. Meals for one work best. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand!" Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense " It’s very different. When you match, you have both decided to swipe right. On here, guys send messages uninvited. | |||
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"Oh I know, I was on last year and got loads of matches. I rejoined today and not one match in 8 hours and I am seeing the same profiles come up again and again." Like I said earlier, I used it much more last year than I have this year. I think competition means people are using other newer site possibly. | |||
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"I ran out of swipes yesterday  it’s pretty grim for me "Ran out of swipes?! Is that a thing? | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand!" Bit arrogant. | |||
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"Oh I know, I was on last year and got loads of matches. I rejoined today and not one match in 8 hours and I am seeing the same profiles come up again and again. Like I said earlier, I used it much more last year than I have this year. I think competition means people are using other newer site possibly. " Tinder is still the go to as far as I'm aware | |||
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"Oh I know, I was on last year and got loads of matches. I rejoined today and not one match in 8 hours and I am seeing the same profiles come up again and again. Like I said earlier, I used it much more last year than I have this year. I think competition means people are using other newer site possibly. Tinder is still the go to as far as I'm aware" I use bumble as seems a better standard of guys on there. | |||
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"I ran out of swipes yesterday it’s pretty grim for me
Ran out of swipes?! Is that a thing? "Does she mean no more available in the area. I’ve run out on Bumble. If I go back later then more appear. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant." Not being arrogant, but I'm nice looking and last year I had a lot of matches within an hour. Ive been on 8 hours and no matches. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense " In the few days I was on Tinder I had a few conversations out of quite a lot of matches. I didn't end up meeting any of them and left the app. It's not much different for me than it is on here; men chat and move on to the better option, when she comes along. | |||
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"I ran out of swipes yesterday it’s pretty grim for me
Ran out of swipes?! Is that a thing?
Does she mean no more available in the area. I’ve run out on Bumble. If I go back later then more appear. "There's a daily limit if you don't use plus | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant." Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not being arrogant, but I'm nice looking and last year I had a lot of matches within an hour. Ive been on 8 hours and no matches." Have you been on at different times of different days? | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with." Exactly. | |||
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"I ran out of swipes yesterday it’s pretty grim for me
Ran out of swipes?! Is that a thing?
Does she mean no more available in the area. I’ve run out on Bumble. If I go back later then more appear.
There's a daily limit if you don't use plus"Oh, I rarely use it so wouldn’t know. I give up after 50 swipes. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense " ‘Cutie’, you can’t see her face ! Plus she’s got to like you as well to get a match. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not being arrogant, but I'm nice looking and last year I had a lot of matches within an hour. Ive been on 8 hours and no matches." Could be a glitch, especially if you're seeing the same profiles. Try going through your phones app settings and clearing the cache data, then reboot your phone and see if that helps | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense In the few days I was on Tinder I had a few conversations out of quite a lot of matches. I didn't end up meeting any of them and left the app. It's not much different for me than it is on here; men chat and move on to the better option, when she comes along. " I don’t meet people quickly and take the conversation over to whatsapp and get to know better. | |||
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" Could be a glitch, especially if you're seeing the same profiles. Try going through your phones app settings and clearing the cache data, then reboot your phone and see if that helps" I will try that. I have seen some of the guys about 10 times today. Something is up! | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not being arrogant, but I'm nice looking and last year I had a lot of matches within an hour. Ive been on 8 hours and no matches." Must be something wrong with yours as I’ve just got 5 matches in last 30 mins. Not many nice looking guys around me so had to go a bit further. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Hey you’re a cutie if I was close enough I would match with you It seems like tinder is what guys go through on here like they send messages but get no response so females know what guys go through when match with guys but get no response back if that makes sense In the few days I was on Tinder I had a few conversations out of quite a lot of matches. I didn't end up meeting any of them and left the app. It's not much different for me than it is on here; men chat and move on to the better option, when she comes along. I don’t meet people quickly and take the conversation over to whatsapp and get to know better. " Where she loves to get at least 80 cock photos from every conceivable angle ! | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with." This isn't exclusive to one gender mind. Just saying... | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s." Yes, and check what they have in their baskets, you can easily tell if they are single by their shopping | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s. Yes, and check what they have in their baskets, you can easily tell if they are single by their shopping "A guy is walking around the supermarket and gets to the checkout. He puts all his stuff to get scanned when he makes eye contact with the cute girl on the register. She puts his things through and asks him: 'Single are you?' Giving a wry smile he responds: 'Yeah. You can tell from my shopping?' She says: 'No, it's because you're fucking ugly.' | |||
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"Must be. Lucky you Ive wasted money on tinder plus now"I wouldn’t say that. I’ve gone back to look and not sure about 3 of them now. | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with. This isn't exclusive to one gender mind. Just saying..." Women are generally more selective, a female friend of mine, reckons she swipes right once out of every hundred blokes on Tinder. | |||
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"I get the same issues as the other ladies. Given up on phone swipe dating apps for now. I’m going to start giving meaningful glances at single men with baskets in Sainsbury’s. Yes, and check what they have in their baskets, you can easily tell if they are single by their shopping "Condoms and a bottle of wine | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with. This isn't exclusive to one gender mind. Just saying... Women are generally more selective, a female friend of mine, reckons she swipes right once out of every hundred blokes on Tinder." That’s usually me but now I’ve cut that down by only seeing the ones that like me I won’t have to swipe so much. | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? " Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. | |||
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"Started a basic Tinder account in the last month, profile states I'm a swinger so was expecting most women to be "not looking for hook ups" and swipe left. So far have two dates, both girls seem open to exploring the club scene with me which was really the best I could hope for." I actually met the guy I went to my first swinging club with from tinder and a guy I went to the naturist spa was from Bumble. They are out there | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? " Not good, they’re all looking for relationships. | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Not good, they’re all looking for relationships." So you’re not then?
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"Started a basic Tinder account in the last month, profile states I'm a swinger so was expecting most women to be "not looking for hook ups" and swipe left. So far have two dates, both girls seem open to exploring the club scene with me which was really the best I could hope for. I actually met the guy I went to my first swinging club with from tinder and a guy I went to the naturist spa was from Bumble. They are out there "Yeah, I'm on a quest to convince the single girls of Britain they'd be better off (and safer) fucking strange guys in swingers clubs than going home with strange guys from regular night clubs. Think many of them have cottoned on to my ulterior motive though. | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Not good, they’re all looking for relationships. So you’re not then?
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. " That sounds pretty good actually. Might give it a go. I can see why women would prefer it too - probably cuts down on the dick pics as intros too | |||
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"I joined with Tinder Plus. I havent been swiping on everybody, but I've swiped on quite a lot and not a single match. Don't understand! Bit arrogant. Not really, blokes always swipe right then delete the ‘less attractive’ when you’ve got a few matches to play with. This isn't exclusive to one gender mind. Just saying... Women are generally more selective, a female friend of mine, reckons she swipes right once out of every hundred blokes on Tinder." This is me I can’t be assed to sort and delete after | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. " I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works "Plus I don’t have an iTunes account as I was hacked and they closed my account | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works "You can’t see them until you both match. It’s a free site unless you want the extra privileges. | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works
You can’t see them until you both match. It’s a free site unless you want the extra privileges. "Ahhh right I’m with you, I think | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works "I think what you have there is guys (or in my case girls) who are outside your distance settings..the guys have seen you and swiped right | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works
I think what you have there is guys (or in my case girls) who are outside your distance settings..the guys have seen you and swiped right "Getting the hang of it now. Had 3 messages two of which are asking what I’m looking for! So I’ve replied that it’s a dating site and my profile clearly states looking to date, they both said that they use it for sex only | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works
I think what you have there is guys (or in my case girls) who are outside your distance settings..the guys have seen you and swiped right
Getting the hang of it now. Had 3 messages two of which are asking what I’m looking for! So I’ve replied that it’s a dating site and my profile clearly states looking to date, they both said that they use it for sex only "It's the nature of online 'dating' sites folk use them for many different purposes . At least on there you control who you chat to, no f a f messages | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works
I think what you have there is guys (or in my case girls) who are outside your distance settings..the guys have seen you and swiped right
Getting the hang of it now. Had 3 messages two of which are asking what I’m looking for! So I’ve replied that it’s a dating site and my profile clearly states looking to date, they both said that they use it for sex only "I haven’t had any of those for a while. I do however get the swinging conversation in quite quickly to see if they are compatible. | |||
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"What’s bumble like actually? Same as tinder but when you match, the female has 24 hours to message or the match gets deleted. The male then has to do the same. It just makes people actually talk. It’s not about collecting matches like many do with tinder. I’ve just signed up to bumble. I’m confused as I’ve 6 matches but can’t see who they are without paying £35 (I think) is this a subscription only? I don’t mind paying but just don’t understand how it works
I think what you have there is guys (or in my case girls) who are outside your distance settings..the guys have seen you and swiped right
Getting the hang of it now. Had 3 messages two of which are asking what I’m looking for! So I’ve replied that it’s a dating site and my profile clearly states looking to date, they both said that they use it for sex only
I haven’t had any of those for a while. I do however get the swinging conversation in quite quickly to see if they are compatible. "Ahh you see I’ve never been a ‘swinger’ as such as I’ve always been single on here and never been a club or swapped partners, I’m more into the kink scene. And would totally need to be compatible on that level. X | |||
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"Tinder is pants for me too. A match is rare. I did meet (and shag) a girl from there a little while back but usually it's just crap. I'll swipe on everyone just to see if I get a match and almost always nothing! Lol. I always thought it was broken or something. Bumble is a little better. " I tried bumble and couldn't get on with it. | |||
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"Tinder is pants for me too. A match is rare. I did meet (and shag) a girl from there a little while back but usually it's just crap. I'll swipe on everyone just to see if I get a match and almost always nothing! Lol. I always thought it was broken or something. Bumble is a little better. I tried bumble and couldn't get on with it. " It’s better in bigger cities. Can’t be many down your neck of the woods. | |||
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