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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...

BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!

Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed i love this place its been like a randy 6 month holiday long may it continue

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I agree, I'm loving it here right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fab fun to life run ratio shows that Fab is not having a big impact on my sex life.

But it did get me my first FMF, so there is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been great for me, otherwise I would have just been sitting in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can brighten up a dull day. I’ve had lots of fun and more to come x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works, its brilliant I imagine.

If it doesn't, it destroys you.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If it works, its brilliant I imagine.

If it doesn't, it destroys you."

If it’s doing that to you, you need to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it works, its brilliant I imagine.

If it doesn't, it destroys you.

If it’s doing that to you, you need to leave. "

I'd say it does this to a lot of people. Doesn't mean they should quit though

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It’s alright but it will never beat virtual reality

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Hear hear OP!! There's a LOT I wouldn't have experienced if it weren't for Fab and the fact I've made some great friends along the way is an added (and unexpected) bonus.

To anyone that lets Fab destroy them it's because you have let it do so in one way or another - either from taking it far too seriously, from having the wrong expectations or simply letting events spiral out of control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social media site with kink,what's not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed! We haven’t stopped since we joined (exhausted) and we have been fortunate enough to add others into the mix

Loving Fablife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh

It's ok

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

it's Fab

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

Very time consuming when you have things to do but get distracted

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...

BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!

Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!

"

When I find it no longer provides what I'm looking for I take a break or leave ..

It does provide an escape from the norm and that's a fantastic escape.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If it works, its brilliant I imagine.

If it doesn't, it destroys you.

If it’s doing that to you, you need to leave.

I'd say it does this to a lot of people. Doesn't mean they should quit though "

So it’s ok to be utterly destroyed in the hope of getting a shag?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The most rewarding hobby I know!

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By *ust for BeckyMan
over a year ago

Godalming

This place is great...

The people I now know who I probably wouldn’t have otherwise met...

For those it doesn’t work for, maybe a change of expectation and a different approach would reap the rewards they crave.

Sometimes, a problem is always with ourselves.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It works for me

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!

I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had. Simply spiffingly splendid time over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!

I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it. "

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...

BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!

Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!

"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!

I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it. "

I think interpersonal relationships and sex are the only exception to this, actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!

I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it.

I think interpersonal relationships and sex are the only exception to this, actually."

I’d agree with this, putting effort in is important in interpersonal relationships but if at first you don’t succeed do something different.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Even as a sex worker, I've never seen so many penises.

Cheers Fab

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm loving fab. Met lots of great people, had lots of great meets and discovered lots of things about myself on my journey x

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

FAB isn’t always easy but I’ve discovered I need my ‘fab head’ on which for me has made it a much more pleasurable experience...

This time round I’m having a great time!!

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...

BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!

Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!

I agree "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m rediscovering my love for this place ...

My old friends have left , but I’m enjoying making some new ones

Corny huh

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is aweeessssssooooommmmmeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity. "

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Some People think life will come knocking on the door, you have to go out and live it. All these folk on fab who keep putting a status up saying they are leaving or fab is crap or negative stuff like that we wouldn't dream of meeting as they come across as negative people, we look for positive fun folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity. "

Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.

Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"

Yes, it's called life. We have our fair share of rejection over the years, as has everyone. It's learning how to handle rejection and change path or expectation.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.

Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"

Thinking positively on it's own may not - but thinking positively and looking at how you can change things to address the negatives, and adjusting your approach and outlook can however.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.

Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?

Thinking positively on it's own may not - but thinking positively and looking at how you can change things to address the negatives, and adjusting your approach and outlook can however."

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.

Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"

Jesus! I'm 69yo this year and still enjoying Fab, if you aren't then you need to look at your approach I suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be better when people go unlos for sending unknown reason.

Go figure

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I love fab now I don't need sex.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Fab friends were certainly a life saver when. Lived abroad, certainly had more fun...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I love fab now I don't need sex."

Something like this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I really like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really like it"

I bet you do.

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