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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have to do to get some hot passionate fuckery.. I've met ONE yes ONE man that does what it says on the label

My real question is.. are all men or women as good sexually as they think they are mentally? Is anyone honest enough to say they are crap but open to learn lol

Just a polite discussion..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to do to get some hot passionate fuckery.. I've met ONE yes ONE man that does what it says on the label

My real question is.. are all men or women as good sexually as they think they are mentally? Is anyone honest enough to say they are crap but open to learn lol

Just a polite discussion.. "

I'm probably useless, depends what your requirements are

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I always say I'm crap then if I surpass myself it's a pleasant surprise to everyone involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry im as shit hot as i believe i am always willing to learn more tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a shit shag, but my foreplay skills are out of this world

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont entertain guys that big themselves up or say how wonderful they are. I like quietly confident guys

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd say I'm okay(ish)...never had any complaints so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like confident guys.. but then when we meet they are shy, or quiet.. may be they just don't like me hahaha

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Some people are just naturals, everything they do makes your body tingle, others aren’t so good but have enthusiasm and don’t mind being shown the right way to do things, others are just selfish fools that flop around on you thinking they are God’s gift, they aren’t

I used to worry that I was rubbish when I first started meeting years ago but sexual confidence can be gained when you learn to read what the person you are with is enjoying so things can improve

Now I’m just fucking awesome

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Have to do to get some hot passionate fuckery.. I've met ONE yes ONE man that does what it says on the label

My real question is.. are all men or women as good sexually as they think they are mentally? Is anyone honest enough to say they are crap but open to learn lol

Just a polite discussion.. "

No, I'm worse. And I think I'm crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it takes 2 people and chemistry. With the wrong person I'm a terrible shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are just naturals, everything they do makes your body tingle, others aren’t so good but have enthusiasm and don’t mind being shown the right way to do things, others are just selfish fools that flop around on you thinking they are God’s gift, they aren’t

I used to worry that I was rubbish when I first started meeting years ago but sexual confidence can be gained when you learn to read what the person you are with is enjoying so things can improve

Now I’m just fucking awesome

Finally another awesome fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply let whoever I’m with decide lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to worry that I was rubbish when I first started meeting years ago but sexual confidence can be gained when you learn to read what the person you are with is enjoying so things can improve

Now I’m just fucking awesome

Finally another awesome fucker"

Pleased to meet you

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Well this thread is a turn up. Only a month ago people where on the forum claiming there's no such thing as somebody being a shit shag. Apparently everyone is dynamite, the fault is yours if you can't get the best out of them.

It's bollocks of course. People who say that are just trying to big themselves up and are revealing their inexperience because some people ARE a shit shag.

They'll learn one day when they pull their heads out of their backsides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to worry that I was rubbish when I first started meeting years ago but sexual confidence can be gained when you learn to read what the person you are with is enjoying so things can improve

Now I’m just fucking awesome

Finally another awesome fucker

Pleased to meet you

See i didnt lay a finger onyou and im pleasing ya

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If you've been here 8 years and met one good person then it's time to look at the common denominator

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've been here 8 years and met one good person then it's time to look at the common denominator

I don't go for everyone that chats to me.. I also work.. a lot. I've met quite s few, one was true to his word. Not that the rest were crap.. just not what they made themselves out to be

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Depends, one person's great sex is another's meh.

If there's a form of chemistry you shouldnt go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand why you big yourself up in the first place, apart from putting yourself under undue pressure, your setting yourself up to fail. Better to say your shit and for them to be pleasantly suprised when you’re mediocre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can never understand why you big yourself up in the first place, apart from putting yourself under undue pressure, your setting yourself up to fail. Better to say your shit and for them to be pleasantly suprised when you’re mediocre. "

Because if a man told me he was shit I'd not bother.. shit, the issue lays with me

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Guys send mail telling you they can go all night, make you cum, bang you good etc etc

I don’t think many ladies fall for that rubbish tbh, it’s better to under promise and over deliver than make yourself lok like a fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few meets where the guy was apparently so good. They weren’t, despite my best efforts. Some men need to brag, but some men their actions speak louder than words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"

Thank you for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Thank you for your input

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Apparently I'm 'good' ... but I don't brag about it.. much lol

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By *ondon_mashMan
over a year ago

London

"I like confident guys.. but then when we meet they are shy, or quiet.. may be they just don't like me hahaha "

It's easy to be confident via text and FaceTime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like confident guys.. but then when we meet they are shy, or quiet.. may be they just don't like me hahaha

It's easy to be confident via text and FaceTime."

Very true.. not do much on FaceTime though.. I had one bloke who co free the camera until I promised I'd not hang up if I thought he was ugly hahs he was gorgeous but wouldn't have it. Low self esteem is the route to low confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to do to get some hot passionate fuckery.. I've met ONE yes ONE man that does what it says on the label

My real question is.. are all men or women as good sexually as they think they are mentally? Is anyone honest enough to say they are crap but open to learn lol

Just a polite discussion.. "

Saying you're shit but willing to learn on here is a death sentence. Would you honestly consider someone who probably isn't going to give you as much enjoyment as you want? Or would you be willing to invest the time and energy to maybe get something good out of them which may not happen?

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By *ondon_mashMan
over a year ago

London

As for self esteem/confidence issues..

This site is beneficial for women as they'll always hav men complimenting them wanting to meet etc.

But for blokes this could make you feel worse with all the rejection deleted messages an all the rest of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can honestly say if a bloke told me he wasn't confident in the sack but his personality was a cracker, I'd be willing to take the chance. I'm not looking for a porn star.. I want fun and anyone who is willing to admit they aint confident sexually is an honest person.. no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As for self esteem/confidence issues..

This site is beneficial for women as they'll always hav men complimenting them wanting to meet etc.

But for blokes this could make you feel worse with all the rejection deleted messages an all the rest of it."

Any one who knows me can vouch that compliments mean nothing to me. I k of what I am.. i learnt to live myself s long time ago. I guess some women need that.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

My strength is with my tongue and fingers. I am very very accomplished. This is due to me learning to be as my cock is rather sensitive so I’m the beginning it wasn’t much of a session. So I learned quickly.

Not ashamed to share my weakness. So yes I’d say OP some men and women do tell the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My strength is with my tongue and fingers. I am very very accomplished. This is due to me learning to be as my cock is rather sensitive so I’m the beginning it wasn’t much of a session. So I learned quickly.

Not ashamed to share my weakness. So yes I’d say OP some men and women do tell the truth. "

A lot of the time.. penetration isn't always the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give as good as I get …………………….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can honestly say if a bloke told me he wasn't confident in the sack but his personality was a cracker, I'd be willing to take the chance. I'm not looking for a porn star.. I want fun and anyone who is willing to admit they aint confident sexually is an honest person.. no?"

That's fair but I'd argue it depends on why they aren't self confident. Does a lack of experience differ from someone experienced not having any confidence in themselves??

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I agree with this, I love bringing out the confidence in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always the best place for people with low self esteem and confidence here more so for us blokes. I'm not someone to big myself up because it all can come crashing down very quickly. In life I'am quite a quiet person but not usually put off by people putting me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of this can be buyers remorse......

It’s like ordering something online... it looks great on the computer but when it shows up and you open the package.... you might not be impressed.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's fair but I'd argue it depends on why they aren't self confident. Does a lack of experience differ from someone experienced not having any confidence in themselves??"

The lack of confidence in themselves is going affect their confidence sexually.. and vice versa. I'm not a hard woman.. I can see potential sometimes. I'd love to help with confidence issues. It's feels good when you help someone else feel good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to do to get some hot passionate fuckery.. I've met ONE yes ONE man that does what it says on the label

My real question is.. are all men or women as good sexually as they think they are mentally? Is anyone honest enough to say they are crap but open to learn lol

Just a polite discussion.. "

I’ll hold my hands up and say I’m open to anyone that wants to teach me stuff

But then I like being bound and unable to move so maybe my technique isn’t that important

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m a shit shag and have the verification to prove it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of this can be buyers remorse......

It’s like ordering something online... it looks great on the computer but when it shows up and you open the package.... you might not be impressed....."

But it's arrived.. so you make the most of what you got. And the first thing you do is attempt to fix it.. or manipulate it to being close to what you thought it would be. Eventually, the trust would allow that person to become what be feels he wants to be.. does that make sense? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair but I'd argue it depends on why they aren't self confident. Does a lack of experience differ from someone experienced not having any confidence in themselves??

That's true about the confidence and about the making others feel good. I guess the key is someone willing to learn but then I guess the people who are bad in bed and don't care don't have confidence issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't make any claims about my sexual prowess except enthusiasm. No disappointment then as I can genuinely claim that.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Well you look great so enthusiasm is plenty

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By *ondon_mashMan
over a year ago

London

If you don't market yourself on here properly. Progress will be hard. That's why peeps throw out all these claims and subtle boasts. To get um on the hook. So they can reel um in!

Skills in reality may differ.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly.. but id rather know what I'm up against lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be on here if I was a dormouse in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shit in bed, I haven't learnt anything so someone needs to teach me it all from the very beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm shit in bed, I haven't learnt anything so someone needs to teach me it all from the very beginning

So why does this exist i dont fuck bags of potatoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm good, I'll let the woman I'm with be the judge of that. If I'm shit, I'm shit. I'm open to learn though. You kinda have to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say I'm good, I'll let the woman I'm with be the judge of that. If I'm shit, I'm shit. I'm open to learn though. You kinda have to be. "

By that I mean I wouldn't brag about how good I am when I'm not.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If others are to be believed, I'm pretty damned good. I put a lot of effort in and enjoy it, which apparently isn't common.

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