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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head? "

Motorbike crash/brain haemorrhage in Thailand back in the 90s.

I’m fine. But phoning my parents was a fucker. And they still haven’t forgiven me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum died unexpectedly 6 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head? "

Oh god.. was it a robbery?

Mine is falling for a violent and controlling man. Being beaten abd threatened for iver a year.. still going through the justice system now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my brother to suicide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting tinnitus 24/7 none stop high pitch noise,wouldnt wish it in my worst enemy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how did you get tinnitus?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Having cancer twice sucked.

Losing Dicks mum and mine within 6 months of each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Losing my brother to suicide. "

Losing my father to suicide. I know how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how did you get tinnitus? "

Anxiety and stress a few years ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head?

Oh god.. was it a robbery?

Mine is falling for a violent and controlling man. Being beaten abd threatened for iver a year.. still going through the justice system now"
yes when i was younger they hijack me stone my car and left me for dead.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

The worst thing thats happened to me personally, choice of two, being shot or being poisoned.

Worst thing i've experienced, the loss of my parents and my daughter. (different times)

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

My dad had a heart attack and died 28 years ago tomorrow , and I still remember the morning it happened.

Then my mum died 4 years ago .....she had dementia and watched her deteriorate ...

Im going to buy some flowers for them today ... and put them in my kitchen ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head?

Oh god.. was it a robbery?

Mine is falling for a violent and controlling man. Being beaten abd threatened for iver a year.. still going through the justice system now yes when i was younger they hijack me stone my car and left me for dead. "

I really hope they caught the scum!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Adulthood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we lost mom it tore me apart lost her to young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loosing my Dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont want to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

losing my Dad&partner within six months of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 for me,

Losing my eldest boy to stillbirth at term +9

Watching my father die from mesothelioma.

Both absolutely heart wrenching & still affect me every day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loosing my wife and unborn child to a drink driver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Holding my dad as the life went out of him due to lung cancer two years ago, it still feels very raw and unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throat cancer, twice, left me with no voice box, but hey ho, better than dying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my mum to cancer on my wedding day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum's best friend killing herself just before I turned 20. There's another one that happened when I was 17/18 that I won't go into on here but a few fab friends know what it is. Both have had a fairly horrific lasting effect on my mental health.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

My partner dying from Pancreatic cancer almost 2 yrs ago , and my Dad just 4 months before him ...... 2016 a year to forgetb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loosing my wife and unborn child to a drink driver"

Wow thats got to be tough pal

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By *heWoodmanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Similar to many of the above sadly but to give everyone a chuckle...

Going to the ‘wrong’ funeral as I got the times mixed up. Was 15mins in until I realised but then sat through the rest as I didn’t want to be rude and leave half way through.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"how did you get tinnitus?

Anxiety and stress a few years ago"

I got it after one loud concert. It was terrible to begin with I thought I was going mad. It’s no laughing matter. It’s faded with time (or I’m used to it)

Feel your pain bud.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Similar to many of the above sadly but to give everyone a chuckle...

Going to the ‘wrong’ funeral as I got the times mixed up. Was 15mins in until I realised but then sat through the rest as I didn’t want to be rude and leave half way through. "

so funny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Similar to many of the above sadly but to give everyone a chuckle...

Going to the ‘wrong’ funeral as I got the times mixed up. Was 15mins in until I realised but then sat through the rest as I didn’t want to be rude and leave half way through. "

That's just politeness! My mum went to her above mentioned best friend's funeral with bright pink hair. Her friend would've approved.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Losing my mother when I was quiet young , never really got over it , love to have a natter with her now

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Being certified insane nine times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my mum at 16. My dad went off the rails and I ended up moving to live with my sister in a different country. Just adjusting to all those changes was so difficult but it shaped me and made me who I am. I wouldn’t say I’m grateful for it by any means it was really rubbish but I don’t think I’d be half the person I am today without that experience

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My Mom dying suddenly. 2 years ago next month

XX

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

The worst things the ever happened to me was always when someone lent me vhs porn film I'd watch them when my parents were asleep, have a cheeky wank then try to eject the cassette and bollocks they would always get stuck in the machine so I would spend the next hour with a screwdriver disassembling the machine because if my mum had found porn in there I would have been in very deep shit lol

Anyone else have this trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My (now ex) partner was convicted and sent down for something he didn’t do. I’ve been through some tough times in my life, but hearing the word “guilty” that day, the floor went from under me. It took me months to sort my head out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my wife being carried into an ambulance almost blue and struggling to breathe due to having an anaphalactic reaction to something she ate. I remember her saying "This is it, Im dying" as they closed the doors.

I had to wait until her mum came for the kids before I could drive to the hospital. When I got there she was sat up and breathing fine after they pumped her with adrenaline.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Something that i can't/won't say on here so in second place is probably someone trying to kill me and stabbing me three times with a kitchen knife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sitting and watching my oldest son wasting his athletic potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2002 My brother was killed round the corner from our house at the age of 16 i was 12 at the time kay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going through the worst time right now.

I haven't put anything on any other social media, so none of my friends know, only family.

This is the only post I've done. My dad is now on palliative care and the end is near. Its tearing me apart but I'm trying to be brave for my mum as she's only got me for support.

I've never known something be so painful to the point of it making you physically feel sick. Losing a parent is awful and I really feel for those who have already lost a loved one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my childhood sweetheart and first husband change due to alcohol, beat me up, break bones etc and ruin my chances of playing netball for England. The aftermath of that incident was terrible.

Also being diagnosed with a brain tumour has been tough on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wanted to talk about this on here for over two years now but I can't because it's still on going and is going through legal proceedings.

It's constantly on my mind, affects my life daily and gives me huge anxiety but my way of coping is concentrating on mundane shit. Hence why I always talk about silly things to take my mind off the heavy shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say, but the guilt of not being able to stop it happening will live with me forever x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex/former best friend breaking my heart by dumping me and cutting ties with me by text at Christmas 2 years ago.

This is personally to me the worst moment of my life because it felt like I had lost someone very special to me in death. Even though she is alive, it still feels like the person I knew is gone and I'll never see her again.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Losing my dad 12 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these things are heartbreaking x. I hope you all find peace and happiness.

I went through PTSD and depression a while ago. Seems insignificant to some of the things mentioned above, it threatened to destroy my life for a while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken neck

PTSD

Hysterectomy

All of the above really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1 year old son dying, it was 10 years ago but I don't think the pain will ever go. Having to phone my parents and tell them was the hardest thing I've ever done.

It still breaks my heart thinking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 1 year old son dying, it was 10 years ago but I don't think the pain will ever go. Having to phone my parents and tell them was the hardest thing I've ever done.

It still breaks my heart thinking about. "

My god I’m so sorry. Having a child the thought alone of that breaks my heart.

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

My mum dying when I was 11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on the receiving end of a violent nutjob.

I lost my confidence and only went to work/home for 3 years.

Said no to everything.

Still get migraines from where I was beaten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs to everyone on here. Lost both my parents and having to watch our son lose the ability to do everything is killing me but I am strong as most of you here are and we will make it through xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my mum deteriorate over 7 years with Alzheimers. Broke my heart especially when she no longer knew who I was.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Losing my dad x having two heart attack’s and having stents fitted when I never actually realised I was having heart attack’s x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Leaving home aged 11

Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my D stuck in the zip

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Losing all my immediate family in the space of 4.5 years

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Loosing my grandson he was born dead 23 weeks . I was so looking forward to rearing him .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

How do women put up with control freaks . I do not know .

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Seems minor compared to this lot, but getting spiked with LSD ruined my life for several years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wanted to talk about this on here for over two years now but I can't because it's still on going and is going through legal proceedings.

It's constantly on my mind, affects my life daily and gives me huge anxiety but my way of coping is concentrating on mundane shit. Hence why I always talk about silly things to take my mind off the heavy shit.

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I wanted to pm you but cant and you wont be able to cos of my filters.. but i too am going through legal system and have been for the last 2 years. Trial is in nov. I may remove my filters for a bit so if you want someone to chat to who understands xx

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

Seeing my mum have a Stanley knife sliced through the flesh of her throat inches away from my face as a child. Being Covered in her blood and seeing it happen is a trauma that will never leave me!

Thankfully through a miracle and talented doctors she lives to tell the tale but it ruined any chance of a normal childhood for me and my mum spent years in hospital going through surgery after surgery and lost her voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff I’d rather not say on a public forum. I think the third worst thing to happen to me was miscarrying on my wedding day, and continuing to miscary since then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost my wife a few years ago, have never really ever gotten over it, I still often wake up and expect her to be there.

If it wasn't for our amazing kids that she left me with, her passing would have ended me.

Also had a traumatic childhood incident which has changed my life and sometimes makes the above even more Complicated! but won't bore you all with those details.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Being kicked by a horse.

Pales into insignificance when compared to some of the other posts on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Losing all my immediate family in the space of 4.5 years "

Hugs to you x

I have lost all of my family too.

My Mum, Dad and sister and niece.

I have been heart broken but am slowly starting to mend over this last year x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loosing my Dad."
sorry to hear that i know how it feel since i lost my mother 3 months and my bother 8 months ago

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Losing all my immediate family in the space of 4.5 years

Hugs to you x

I have lost all of my family too.

My Mum, Dad and sister and niece.

I have been heart broken but am slowly starting to mend over this last year x"

Aww and back to you

It's truly heartbreaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many, the loss of a parent.

There are others but nothing I really wish to share on here.

Hugs to everyone on here.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Knowing something was wrong my son, being fobbed off over 6mth period by GP & 2 AE Dr's......

Then watching him have a stroke aged 3½.

Brain scan later showed he'd had a dozen TIAs.

prior to the full stroke.

Being told he'll never make a full recovery.

No child should go through what he's endured over the last 12yrs

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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January.

My boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"January.

My boy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many heart breaking stories on this thread.. hope you all find peace and come to terms with your loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holding my wifes hand as she died, was my very worst experience so far.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Trying to support my husband of 25 years for the six months we knew he was dying of stomach cancer, and looking after our four children too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock caught In a zip as a kid

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Being shot in the eye with an air pistol when I was 14, it left me partially sighted in the eye.

Worst bit was it was my air pistol and a mate that did it, it ruined all chances of getting into the forces.

Also i dont see anything out the corner of my eye, so I walk into things people and such like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good thread Op. It has been very thought provoking for me, and therapeutic for others I'm sure.

Mine is something I can't yet talk about to anyone. Suffice as to say I've had 6 months counselling and it still hasn't scratched the surface of the torment I suffer daily. I can't undo what I've done and have to live with it.

Love to you all on this thread.

Jem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't share that stuff ..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Reading this has made me thank my lucky stars .

I have obviously been lucky, of course I did lose my Mum 12 years ago she was 90 and was my only parent for most of my life . She was the last of 13 siblings .

We are obviously blessed. I am very sad to read so much sadness and trauma.

Thanks for sharing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't share that stuff .."

Baffles me why anybody would with a bunch of cyber-strangers.

I think I've lost my way with the internet. Well, this mawkish side of it anyway.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Heartfelt sympathy to you all.

Made me realise how lucky I am to have fit parents in their 70s.

Kids with good jobs.

Have depression but fab friends chat me better.

Big CWTCH to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy i was seeing committed suicide when i was 23, took me 10 years to stop blaming myself because I had just broke up with him.

Needing my mum when i was going through a lot of tough stuff as a kid/teenager but she had her own shit going off so she turned to drink, a lot.

Being r*ped and abused by a guy who supposedly loved me.

Losing my step dad suddenly 5 years ago in sept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 1 year old son dying, it was 10 years ago but I don't think the pain will ever go. Having to phone my parents and tell them was the hardest thing I've ever done.

It still breaks my heart thinking about. "

Devestated for you, both my babies died in the womb and that was hard enough xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My son dying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son dying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sat in tears for you all, life certainly throws some hideous curve balls, and usually the ones we never ever expected or worried might happen.

I can’t share mine due to legalities. But feel for everyone. It’s why I really try and not sweat the small stuff anymore because you need to save your self for the big shit when it hits xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Such tragic stories, my heart goes out to you all.

My 'worst things' are more akin to a frog being boiled alive than any sudden trauma.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Bless you all, great post Daz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without question losing loved ones is the worst thing that can happen to us. I have lost a son, both of my parents, my mother very recently, and many dear and much loved friends. It is also a lucky life that passes without trauma. I was involved in a horrific train crash and in my late teens a man fell from a roof to his death right in front of me. Literally at my feet.

It's how we deal with life's horrendous blows that shapes us. The human spirit is strong and we can all find strength within to cope, carry on and indeed find new joys in our lives.

To anyone struggling to cope at the moment I wish you the strength to find a path forward. It is there. It may be hidden and take some time to discover but life can be good again. We owe it to ourselves and others never to give up.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad dying a couple of months ago.. nothing prepared you for the loss of a parent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bless you all, great post Daz "
thanks sexy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Without question losing loved ones is the worst thing that can happen to us. I have lost a son, both of my parents, my mother very recently, and many dear and much loved friends. It is also a lucky life that passes without trauma. I was involved in a horrific train crash and in my late teens a man fell from a roof to his death right in front of me. Literally at my feet.

It's how we deal with life's horrendous blows that shapes us. The human spirit is strong and we can all find strength within to cope, carry on and indeed find new joys in our lives.

To anyone struggling to cope at the moment I wish you the strength to find a path forward. It is there. It may be hidden and take some time to discover but life can be good again. We owe it to ourselves and others never to give up.

J x"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"What is the worst thing happen to you in real life, meaning nothing sexually related For me it was been stabbed and held against the throat and pistol whip on the head? "

Jesus! Not much can top that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting tinnitus 24/7 none stop high pitch noise,wouldnt wish it in my worst enemy "

My hubby has had that nearly all is life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was losing my Mum to cancer then having ovarian and breast cancer myself - I just wanted my Mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being shot was a bit shit but having some pissed up cunt take the loml broke my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my younger brother who committed suicide at a young age and having to identity his body.......worse thing ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Losing my brother to suicide. "
big love to you same here my husband did it 10 years ago left two kids behind tell the truth I don't think I've ever forgive him for it

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By *apasmurfkingMan
over a year ago

not so Littlehampton

23 years ago today I lost both my grandparents. My grandad from a heart attack at 230am, my nan (his wife) from a heart attack at 430pm. She was clearly heart broken at losing him. They never spent a night apart. At the age of 15 I found it hard, couldn't accept it as I saw them every day. It wasn't til the passing of my other grandparents who suffered dementia, that I could truly appreciate the sudden pain free way they went without suffering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"23 years ago today I lost both my grandparents. My grandad from a heart attack at 230am, my nan (his wife) from a heart attack at 430pm. She was clearly heart broken at losing him. They never spent a night apart. At the age of 15 I found it hard, couldn't accept it as I saw them every day. It wasn't til the passing of my other grandparents who suffered dementia, that I could truly appreciate the sudden pain free way they went without suffering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Losing my younger brother who committed suicide at a young age and having to identity his body.......worse thing ever"

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Loosing my daughters best friend 18 months ago, she was 19 and like a daughter to me.

Has a long lasting impact on the whole family, absoloutely heartbreaking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really good thread Op. It has been very thought provoking for me, and therapeutic for others I'm sure.

Mine is something I can't yet talk about to anyone. Suffice as to say I've had 6 months counselling and it still hasn't scratched the surface of the torment I suffer daily. I can't undo what I've done and have to live with it.

Love to you all on this thread.

Jem x"
thanks for the input but i miss out i was left for dead in the bush which why we moved back to the uk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to support my husband of 25 years for the six months we knew he was dying of stomach cancer, and looking after our four children too. "
sorry to hear that what happening to you husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been a heart wrenching thread to read and I'm sure there are some out there who could add to it but have experienced something so traumatic or still very raw that they can't.

Until a few years back I'd had a somewhat charmed life. Yes, I'd been violently mugged at a party where even the Dj got held up at gun point and had the needles off his decks stolen. And of course yes there was the other stuff like being heartbroken by girls and having close friends turn on me and suddenly try beating the crap out of me in a drug fuelled psychosis. But I'd actually been quite lucky. A few years back though everything went totally pear-shaped in my life and left me severely traumatised. I don't really want to air it in public. But I promised myself that this year I would terminate the hurt, end the trauma, and turn things around... and that's exactly what I'm doing. So for those of you who see me as this cocky confident happy guy... I am those things. But it's very much part of me turning a very difficult page in my life and moving on positively as best I can.

Thanks for sharing. Namaste xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very recently lost my mam at the young age of 51, only family i had, was with the monday, found passed on the weds, been 4 weeks now and still got no answers....absolutely broken, she was my best friend, taught me how to be a man and respect women

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Very recently lost my mam at the young age of 51, only family i had, was with the monday, found passed on the weds, been 4 weeks now and still got no answers....absolutely broken, she was my best friend, taught me how to be a man and respect women "

So sorry sweetie.xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So for me there are a few. Nearly losing my husband to pneumonia, my sister in law being diagnosed with terminal cancer, my mum dieing 2 years ago and my lovely dad waiting for a heart operation

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Trying to support my husband of 25 years for the six months we knew he was dying of stomach cancer, and looking after our four children too. sorry to hear that what happening to you husband "

He died March 13 2013 age 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou, not something id usually share but been said by grief counselling is to share with people who are unfamiliar with myself, ill do anything not to feel so numb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for me there are a few. Nearly losing my husband to pneumonia, my sister in law being diagnosed with terminal cancer, my mum dieing 2 years ago and my lovely dad waiting for a heart operation "

Life is just a shit house.... never got so annoued at some of the scumbags out there...walking aroind absolutely fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive relationship - still trying to recover years on

Death of my best friend

Birth trauma and PND after having my kid

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thankyou, not something id usually share but been said by grief counselling is to share with people who are unfamiliar with myself, ill do anything not to feel so numb."

Hey, your counsellor was right, it's easier to share with strangers, as you don't want to upset your loved ones. I can't say it will get any easier, I'm still struggling and my mum was 84. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww no way

I was doing the garden with my mam... can remember her shouting at me as i was just in the sun boozing as it was my day off.. makes me smile now,

Then for her to be taken without no answer 2 days later is ruddy awful

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So for me there are a few. Nearly losing my husband to pneumonia, my sister in law being diagnosed with terminal cancer, my mum dieing 2 years ago and my lovely dad waiting for a heart operation

Life is just a shit house.... never got so annoued at some of the scumbags out there...walking aroind absolutely fine."

No, life isn't a shit house, you still have your life to live and I'm sure your lovely mum would want you to live it your way, she'll always be around you...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surviving a car crash and only walking away with a fractured arm and a few cuts and bruises while the driver a close friend died on the the scene i blame myself

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Awww no way

I was doing the garden with my mam... can remember her shouting at me as i was just in the sun boozing as it was my day off.. makes me smile now,

Then for her to be taken without no answer 2 days later is ruddy awful "

It was her time..I hope she had a fulfilling life and lots of lovely memories for you both..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my mum battle with an illness and then die a long drawn out on death whilst on palliative care.

I do feel we need to change the way people die, the end of life pathways system in place when mum died was horrendous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was literally only family i had, i was next of kin, arranged/paid everything... wouldnt wish it on my worse enemy!

Thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My childhood

My mum dying when I was 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching my mum battle with an illness and then die a long drawn out on death whilst on palliative care.

I do feel we need to change the way people die, the end of life pathways system in place when mum died was horrendous.

Awwww thats awful! I agree i also feel workplaces should be doing more to help! Maybe help fund etc many i know thru myself and frienss its simply not good enough!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"She was literally only family i had, i was next of kin, arranged/paid everything... wouldnt wish it on my worse enemy!

Thankyou!"

Then I'm sure she would have been proud of you, I would, you sound like a very loving son..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Watching my mum battle with an illness and then die a long drawn out on death whilst on palliative care.

I do feel we need to change the way people die, the end of life pathways system in place when mum died was horrendous.

"

Gosh, this really is the same as my experience, I begged for palliative care for my mum, she had a very undignified death...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou very much, i would like to think so, not perfect no one is,

Just grateful i took her to pompeii last year as it was her dream, she suffered with mental illness depression etc so was massive for us, her first hol bless her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum being hospitalised for 20 years after a cerebral haemorrhage then dying while I held her hand, 20 years ago and I still miss her.

Cancer 12 years ago, beat that.

Now got Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis which unfortunately I cant beat. I know everyone dies just wish I wasn't going to die so soon.Just turned 50 odds are I wont see 51.

You know how they say life's a bitch and then you die. They are wrong! Even after everything that's happened life is still good, its the dying bit thats the bitch.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thankyou very much, i would like to think so, not perfect no one is,

Just grateful i took her to pompeii last year as it was her dream, she suffered with mental illness depression etc so was massive for us, her first hol bless her x "

Wow...that sounds great..what an experience...happy memories..eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"My mum being hospitalised for 20 years after a cerebral haemorrhage then dying while I held her hand, 20 years ago and I still miss her.

Cancer 12 years ago, beat that.

Now got Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis which unfortunately I cant beat. I know everyone dies just wish I wasn't going to die so soon.Just turned 50 odds are I wont see 51.

You know how they say life's a bitch and then you die. They are wrong! Even after everything that's happened life is still good, its the dying bit thats the bitch. "

Bless you...

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Having my right legged ripped off in a motorbike accident 25 years ago, then surgeons trying to save it to only have it amputated below the knee 17 hours later and then amputated again above knee 5 days after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me personally having someone put a stiletto heel through my left foot and missing a major artery by millimetres

Having a burst appendix but being over 50 miles from the nearest A&E hospital was taken to a cottage hospital overnight and dosed up on morphine and left on a trolley all night..

Next day taken to hospital in Colchester only to be told they couldn't operate straight away as i was too high...

Ended up being there for 6 weeks as infection had set in as well

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X"

You can use the 'quote' button in the post, so we all know who we're talking too..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Having my right legged ripped off in a motorbike accident 25 years ago, then surgeons trying to save it to only have it amputated below the knee 17 hours later and then amputated again above knee 5 days after that "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having my right legged ripped off in a motorbike accident 25 years ago, then surgeons trying to save it to only have it amputated below the knee 17 hours later and then amputated again above knee 5 days after that

Xxx"

Sounds awfully painful... no offence, hope its not stopped yo living life to the fullest... its a cruel game ...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X

You can use the 'quote' button in the post, so we all know who we're talking too.."

Thanks Samiss

Its ok though...getting used to the idea. If im being totally honest I think my mum hurt more than finding out i'm dying xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X

You can use the 'quote' button in the post, so we all know who we're talking too..

Thanks Samiss

Its ok though...getting used to the idea. If im being totally honest I think my mum hurt more than finding out i'm dying xx"

Aaw...well I hope you live life to the full . My sister in law has terminal cancer, was given 18 months 5 and a half years and is still going strong...there's always hope sweetie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X

You can use the 'quote' button in the post, so we all know who we're talking too..

Thanks Samiss

Its ok though...getting used to the idea. If im being totally honest I think my mum hurt more than finding out i'm dying xx

Aaw...well I hope you live life to the full . My sister in law has terminal cancer, was given 18 months 5 and a half years and is still going strong...there's always hope sweetie... "

Awww bless, positive thoughts and prayers for you all

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Wow normalandnice68 thats so sad and inspirarional at the same time, so sorry bud! X

You can use the 'quote' button in the post, so we all know who we're talking too..

Thanks Samiss

Its ok though...getting used to the idea. If im being totally honest I think my mum hurt more than finding out i'm dying xx

Aaw...well I hope you live life to the full . My sister in law has terminal cancer, was given 18 months 5 and a half years and is still going strong...there's always hope sweetie...

Awww bless, positive thoughts and prayers for you all "

And to youxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum being hospitalised for 20 years after a cerebral haemorrhage then dying while I held her hand, 20 years ago and I still miss her.

Cancer 12 years ago, beat that.

Now got Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis which unfortunately I cant beat. I know everyone dies just wish I wasn't going to die so soon.Just turned 50 odds are I wont see 51.

You know how they say life's a bitch and then you die. They are wrong! Even after everything that's happened life is still good, its the dying bit thats the bitch. "

Bloody hell!! Life has thrown you a massive curve ball. I hope in the time you have left you live the best life you can, and who knows it might be longer than you imagine.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good timing with this thread because I'm actually being harassed by my ex's boyfriend, telling me to leave her alone when I haven't even spoken to her since last November. Honestly just getting tired of life kicking my fucking arse these days. Lost my job, lost my friends, family don't even bother with me anymore. It's why I haven't been active much lately, don't need anymore knocks to my confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good timing with this thread because I'm actually being harassed by my ex's boyfriend, telling me to leave her alone when I haven't even spoken to her since last November. Honestly just getting tired of life kicking my fucking arse these days. Lost my job, lost my friends, family don't even bother with me anymore. It's why I haven't been active much lately, don't need anymore knocks to my confidence."

Some people out there are unfortunately wired to be absolute bells! It does get better mate, focus on number 1! I lost my career last year due to numerous reasons friends ex etc it does get better .. takes time but it does chin up dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bike accident back on July 31st 1996.

Didn't actually find out how close I'd come to flooding my life till much later.

2nd worse has been having to cut my mother out of my life, and realising (with a lot of help and support) that her relationship to me is highly toxic, and she is responsible for a lot of my mental health issues. Things from my childhood I actually, until very recently, thought was normal, as I knew no better.

I know it's not the same but it's almost as if I'd lost her, and that I know that she couldn't care less hurts even more.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Good timing with this thread because I'm actually being harassed by my ex's boyfriend, telling me to leave her alone when I haven't even spoken to her since last November. Honestly just getting tired of life kicking my fucking arse these days. Lost my job, lost my friends, family don't even bother with me anymore. It's why I haven't been active much lately, don't need anymore knocks to my confidence.

Some people out there are unfortunately wired to be absolute bells! It does get better mate, focus on number 1! I lost my career last year due to numerous reasons friends ex etc it does get better .. takes time but it does chin up dude!"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my wallet on summer 99, there was a napkin where Salma Hayek wrote her number with the sentence : please call me, I want to suck your dick.

Worst day of my existence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing your entire story’s it brought tears to my eyes due to being a soft hearted man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a wonderful thread this has been. I think it’s nice to share personal stories on here with strangers as it helps people to vent without feeling like their being judged.

For me personally I was at work when a very dear relative was brought in having suffered a cardiac arrest. I watched for 40 minutes as my colleagues tried their best to save him but unfortunately it was too late. I’ve never got over it and it almost made me quit my job.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Being born?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a wonderful thread this has been. I think it’s nice to share personal stories on here with strangers as it helps people to vent without feeling like their being judged.

For me personally I was at work when a very dear relative was brought in having suffered a cardiac arrest. I watched for 40 minutes as my colleagues tried their best to save him but unfortunately it was too late. I’ve never got over it and it almost made me quit my job. "

Firstly... you seem a hero! I hope i presume right in that you work for the nhs, either way youre exactly right! Personnaly ive been struggling with the sudden loss of my mam at 51, we still dont why she passed, but personally talking on here albeit a shock has tilted the scales slightly, also everyone brave enough to share their experiences, i salute you well done!

#keepfighting

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

I’m in my worst nightmare and for the past 18 months it surly carnt get any worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m in my worst nightmare and for the past 18 months it surly carnt get any worse "

That seems heartbreaking, u ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a wonderful thread this has been. I think it’s nice to share personal stories on here with strangers as it helps people to vent without feeling like their being judged.

For me personally I was at work when a very dear relative was brought in having suffered a cardiac arrest. I watched for 40 minutes as my colleagues tried their best to save him but unfortunately it was too late. I’ve never got over it and it almost made me quit my job.

Firstly... you seem a hero! I hope i presume right in that you work for the nhs, either way youre exactly right! Personnaly ive been struggling with the sudden loss of my mam at 51, we still dont why she passed, but personally talking on here albeit a shock has tilted the scales slightly, also everyone brave enough to share their experiences, i salute you well done!

#keepfighting "

Thank you mate I appreciate your kind words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime shackles...

Of all the gin joints....lol.

Seriously this would be the last place id find my self to vent but youre kind words mean alot

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path


"I’m in my worst nightmare and for the past 18 months it surly carnt get any worse

That seems heartbreaking, u ok?"

I will be Eventually thank you for asking x

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share."

Thats awful! I hope you got the wanker done for it?

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share.

Thats awful! I hope you got the wanker done for it?"

Nah was just relieved to be away from him. I did report him to the site admin though and he got removed longest night of my life and most painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share.

Thats awful! I hope you got the wanker done for it?

Nah was just relieved to be away from him. I did report him to the site admin though and he got removed longest night of my life and most painful."

Youre brave fair play to you, but fuckinel he needs stringing up, what if he tries it to someone else, god forbid

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

Loss my mum to cancer then Dad to demencha just so sad to see love ones fade away bit by bit and there nothing you can do.

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share.

Thats awful! I hope you got the wanker done for it?

Nah was just relieved to be away from him. I did report him to the site admin though and he got removed longest night of my life and most painful.

Youre brave fair play to you, but fuckinel he needs stringing up, what if he tries it to someone else, god forbid "

Thats why reported him to admin ny the time id got away and cleared my head he had gone home got me this happened in a premier inn room u think they would have heard something and interviened but nope, sad really.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York


"Meeting a guy from collarme who was meant to be a dom. He turned out to just be a sadistic bully tied drugged and beat me black and blue till i passed out luckily i got out in the end but from head to toe i was covered in purple bruises hed even broke the riding crop on me. Taught me to be more careful. Have been other things worse but not things i want to share."

Jesus what kind of people are into doing things like that? You're lucky he didn't kill you!! Wouldn't be surprised if he has killed someone already.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Hyderabad India

Mugged at gun point in nyc

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

13 years ago today I was pregnant and woke up bleeding, my first of many miscarriages.

Time heals but you can never forget

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By *br_guyMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died."

I’m so sorry about that, must have been devestating x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died."

Oh my heartbreaking, soo sorry

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died."

That happened to a good friend of mine. Her son seemed perfectly fine then she went to his cot one day and found he'd turned blue and wasn't breathing. She went to hell and back dealing with that. Nothing else in life really phases her now because she knows it's nothing compared to what she had to go through losing her baby.

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By *br_guyMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died.

Oh my heartbreaking, soo sorry "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loosing the love of my life to lung cancer almost 4 years after losing my mum to the same thing. Actually almost killed me too.

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By *br_guyMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Mine has to be waking up in the night to find my 3 month old son had died.

I’m so sorry about that, must have been devestating x "

It was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I was the 174th reply in this thread.

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over a year ago


"My (now ex) partner was convicted and sent down for something he didn’t do. I’ve been through some tough times in my life, but hearing the word “guilty” that day, the floor went from under me. It took me months to sort my head out."

did his lawyers appeal , and give proof and evidence he didnt do it to get him released ??

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