FabSwingers.com forum: Power of verifications

By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I just realised something. I want to let everbody (especially men) know that verifications are a great support for your profile views (Of course 8+ inches would help as well if you have one). So I would suggest you to not to hide your verifications if you want to get attention.

Ps: Thank you very much for all veris. Especially for one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I think it can go either way. Some women can be put off by lots of verifications because they don't want to be with a guy who's slept around the whole site, right?

Some like them, some don't.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

All of my verifications have, or will have sex with me at some point, whether they want to or not.

True dat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put them up as its not me blowing smoke up my own arse

Its other peoples opinions of me that count more and i have pride in what others think of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh, I think it can go either way. Some women can be put off by lots of verifications because they don't want to be with a guy who's slept around the whole site, right?

Some like them, some don't."

I would be yes but I’m not looking for casual hook ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of my verifications have, or will have sex with me at some point, whether they want to or not.

True dat"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"All of my verifications have, or will have sex with me at some point, whether they want to or not.

True dat

Ok Hatter, I will classify drinking tea and plaiting your lovely hair as almost getting jiggy with you

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Where do you sit with displaying the veri summary OP?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like them as independent verification of character. The first couple of people I met, all or almost all of their verifications pointed to them being kind, considerate, and respectful (among other things). Anyone can claim to be those things, but when you've got numerous other people saying the same, it helps. (yes I know they can be faked and bad veris don't get published, but over a certain number plus a bit of due diligence and they're useful) Gave me the confidence to start meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

overly graphic verries are a huge turn off there's just no need as we all know what we are on fab for

Just my opinion though and each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I don't have any, I place no credibility in them. You read about all sorts of train wreck meets on here but everyone has great veri's...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Whilst I don't have any, I place no credibility in them. You read about all sorts of train wreck meets on here but everyone has great veri's..."

I disagree, I can tell a lot from a veri, I don't find them impressive on the whole but good veris speak volumes. I love mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm a new member here. It seems people are reluctant to meet someone with out varification, and I can't get varified unless I meet someone. So what do I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of my verifications have, or will have sex with me at some point, whether they want to or not.

True dat

Ok Hatter, I will classify drinking tea and plaiting your lovely hair as almost getting jiggy with you

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a new member here. It seems people are reluctant to meet someone with out varification, and I can't get varified unless I meet someone. So what do I do?"

Go on cam with someone for a chat or get very lucky

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"overly graphic verries are a huge turn off there's just no need as we all know what we are on fab for

Just my opinion though and each to there own"

See now, if you had come to see me, I would have said in a veri to you "Don't accommodate this lady unless you can say Peanut Butter in Jawdeespeak like"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a new member here. It seems people are reluctant to meet someone with out varification, and I can't get varified unless I meet someone. So what do I do?"

You could cam with someone or get yourself to a club or social?

Most of the guys I’ve met had no veris so it’s not always essential but I understand lots won’t meet without it.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The quality of someone's veris is really insightful

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just realised something. I want to let everbody (especially men) know that verifications are a great support for your profile views (Of course 8+ inches would help as well if you have one). So I would suggest you to not to hide your verifications if you want to get attention.

Ps: Thank you very much for all veris. Especially for one of them

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sorry I disagree but glad you are enjoying yours.

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Where do you sit with displaying the veri summary OP?"

It is in your account area. (Manage verifications). I hope i have understood your question right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a new member here. It seems people are reluctant to meet someone with out varification, and I can't get varified unless I meet someone. So what do I do?"

Attend a social gathering or a club night

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"So I'm a new member here. It seems people are reluctant to meet someone with out varification, and I can't get varified unless I meet someone. So what do I do?"

We all have been there. The first one is the hardest one. You need put some effort and yes webcam works very well.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have to be honest I don’t put much stock in verifications. A verification can help to know a person isn’t fake but even that’s not guaranteed.

And most are so similar as to be redundant.

I don’t like the trip advisor tone to many of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most verifications put me right off a person

Why do i need to know what other people think of someone?

I would much rather make my own mind up about them..

Most are puke making anyway

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Most verifications put me right off a person

Why do i need to know what other people think of someone?

I would much rather make my own mind up about them..

Most are puke making anyway

And do you meet with men who do not have any veris?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I believe if the veri’s are consistent it speaks volumes.

Don’t think we would meet the type of people that go for graphic details.

That has more to do with our values than anything else.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't leave graphic veris, but I can't control what others leave for me. I don't judge in that regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

Time to go to a club then I think.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't leave graphic veris, but I can't control what others leave for me. I don't judge in that regard. "

We can choose not to display graphic ones anyway

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I don't leave graphic veris, but I can't control what others leave for me. I don't judge in that regard.

We can choose not to display graphic ones anyway "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most verifications put me right off a person

Why do i need to know what other people think of someone?

I would much rather make my own mind up about them..

Most are puke making anyway

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Where do you sit with displaying the veri summary OP?

It is in your account area. (Manage verifications). I hope i have understood your question right."

I guess I was just playing devils advocate. If displaying verifications is the secret to success then the summary being hidden is a contradiction.

I’m not saying you should show this by the way. I’m just being a contrary thing. I’m the reverse. Currently my summary is showing but not the veris. As most veris say the same thing there isn’t much point. However, when I’m actively looking for meets I pop them up for all to see.

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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Where do you sit with displaying the veri summary OP?

It is in your account area. (Manage verifications). I hope i have understood your question right.

I guess I was just playing devils advocate. If displaying verifications is the secret to success then the summary being hidden is a contradiction.

For me.. If there are veris in the profile somehow, it is acceptable.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't leave graphic veris, but I can't control what others leave for me. I don't judge in that regard. "

I don't leave them either, and the lady in question who usually stops for a couple of nights, leaves as quick as she can with her stilettos in her hands and a dildo stuck down her bra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like them as independent verification of character. The first couple of people I met, all or almost all of their verifications pointed to them being kind, considerate, and respectful (among other things). Anyone can claim to be those things, but when you've got numerous other people saying the same, it helps. (yes I know they can be faked and bad veris don't get published, but over a certain number plus a bit of due diligence and they're useful) Gave me the confidence to start meeting. "

Exactly this!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I like the verifications feature.

Doesn't need to be graphic or explicit, just some feedback from a third party on the profile you've just read above.

The one that gave me the warmest feeling was when I chap I met wrote: "She is what her profile says."

To me, that was perfect!

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