FabSwingers.com forum: Men, the signs that you're attracted to a woman please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a lot of single threads at the moment from women and I personally think it's better to meet someone in the real work than online so help the ladies out by stating signs that you're attracted to someone or fancy them, in a real world setting.

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Being physically attracted to someone is easy to detect.

But being wanting to know a woman is more than physical attraction. To be honest the signs are as simple as:

Do I keep thinking about her

Do I imagine what she might say /think

Do I want to spend time with her

Do I look forward to next seeing her

Do I miss her when she’s not around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lot of single threads at the moment from women and I personally think it's better to meet someone in the real work than online so help the ladies out by stating signs that you're attracted to someone or fancy them, in a real world setting.

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please. "

I can say only if you tell me what a men should look for in women in real world, I am rubbish in finding out...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being physically attracted to someone is easy to detect.

But being wanting to know a woman is more than physical attraction. To be honest the signs are as simple as:

Do I keep thinking about her

Do I imagine what she might say /think

Do I want to spend time with her

Do I look forward to next seeing her

Do I miss her when she’s not around

Ok signs that us women can pick up on when you're around us! We aren't mind readers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please. "

The eyes and smile say everything oh and longer held look makes it complete.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Being physically attracted to someone is easy to detect.

But being wanting to know a woman is more than physical attraction. To be honest the signs are as simple as:

Do I keep thinking about her

Do I imagine what she might say /think

Do I want to spend time with her

Do I look forward to next seeing her

Do I miss her when she’s not around

Ok signs that us women can pick up on when you're around us! We aren't mind readers!

I guess things like eye contact, wanting to talk.

Staring at your tits, those sort of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being physically attracted to someone is easy to detect.

But being wanting to know a woman is more than physical attraction. To be honest the signs are as simple as:

Do I keep thinking about her

Do I imagine what she might say /think

Do I want to spend time with her

Do I look forward to next seeing her

Do I miss her when she’s not around

Aww that’s kinda cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????"

Sometimes those signs are there and more but still nothing, had a guy pass me in a narrow space behind me and pressed his penis against me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you might have to chase a bit yourself perhaps ask him out for a coffee

Or drink you probably be able to gauge it better one to one

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Eye contact when talking.

Eye contact when listening to you.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????

Sometimes those signs are there and more but still nothing, had a guy pass me in a narrow space behind me and pressed his penis against me! "

I’d say that’s a pretty good sign but prob one id keep clear off

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

A Facebook friend request.

A Facebook message.

It never used to be like that, it used to be 'oh look there he is again, what a coincedance'.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The difficulty you will have OP is that you are really physically attractive so men will want to press their penisis against you and look at you lustfully. But that’s different from them liking who you are as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????"

Yes!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Eye contact when talking.

Eye contact when listening to you."

Definately eye contact, smiling, sitting closer than usual.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????

Sometimes those signs are there and more but still nothing, had a guy pass me in a narrow space behind me and pressed his penis against me! "

That’s sexual harrassment not a declaration of romantic interest

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please. "

Trouser tent is a dead giveaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy shows an interest in what you say

Physical contact. Hand holding stroking

Eye contact or he might just say I like you. It’s not hard to spot the signs really is it????

Yes!"

They will also go the extra mile to help you with anything and will normally try to keep striking up random conversations just to have your attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eye contact when talking.

Eye contact when listening to you.

Definately eye contact, smiling, sitting closer than usual....."

Mirroring is also a telltale sign they like you..

If you are sitting together and they seem to be copying your gestures ...thats a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes"

Be very carefull what u do with this information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes"

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak "

Medium rare or well done ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I was with my fwb recently and we walked past a kid who'd just got his hands on an ice cream.

She said he was looking at it with the exact same expression that I look at her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno I've never picked up a woman in the real world always been online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

I think you’ll be well done by Friday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

I think you’ll be well done by Friday!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"Can be all sorts of things depends on guys confidence but i will go with a few i know iv done

Bulging in the trowsers

Laughing with you

Unintenional mirroring

Trying to get closer without being too obvious

Telling you they like you

Asking for your number

Giving you random compliments

Being handsey

Looking at you like you are a steak dinner with an intense look of desire in there eyes

Oh I like that look ... I like being steak

Medium rare or well done ?

I’m inclined to believe I’m quite a medium rare

Tender, juicy and pink in the middle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah guys this isn't an invitation to flirt all over the thread. Keep to the tips and signs or make a flirting thread.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Isn't flirting a sign someone is attracted?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Isn't flirting a sign someone is attracted?"

Good point, well made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that much different in the real world to online, with both you have to through the superficial bullshit chaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep sticking to her magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't flirting a sign someone is attracted?"

OP is asking about in the real world not in la la land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah guys this isn't an invitation to flirt all over the thread. Keep to the tips and signs or make a flirting thread. "

I tend to wolf whistle and smack your little toosh

Worked on Lacey 20 odd years ago anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making an effort to engage at any given opportunity.

Eye contact

Smiling

Light physical touches, like the brushing of a hand

Leaning forward / into the conversation

Being attentive

Complimentary but not OTT

Having something in common helps too!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"Isn't flirting a sign someone is attracted?

OP is asking about in the real world not in la la land"

Flirting not occur in the real world?

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

There’s one thing all these things being showed... the eye contact.. trying to get physically closer but putting my cynical hat on (

) that doesn’t necessarily mean that they want more... I’ve met people on and offline for dates and have experienced all those things and thought yeah this is good but really it was just about the physical attraction still and not that wanting anything deeper!!!

I think if it’s meant to happen... it will happen... I hate those bloody sayings... as a single female I have at times wanted that...(well felt mixed about it) but now I’m just happy as things are.. I have my fab account and keep my fab head on while here... and dating ones... and am just having fun... go on dates take them for that they are and just enjoy.... it’s really hard but if you don’t it all just ends up in head fuck which is pointless and a waste of energy and happiness!!

I wish you luck! Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't flirting a sign someone is attracted?

OP is asking about in the real world not in la la land

Flirting not occur in the real world?"

Yes it does but I think that’s part of the issue, not being able to tell if someone’s flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difficulty you will have OP is that you are really physically attractive so men will want to press their penisis against you and look at you lustfully. But that’s different from them liking who you are as a person. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being physically attracted to someone is easy to detect.

But being wanting to know a woman is more than physical attraction. To be honest the signs are as simple as:

Do I keep thinking about her

Do I imagine what she might say /think

Do I want to spend time with her

Do I look forward to next seeing her

Do I miss her when she’s not around

This.

They message or ring you to show they are thinking about you.

If they are not with you then they are making arrangements to see you again.

They don’t leave it a long time between seeing you, as they’re keen to be with you.

They don’t keep their options open.

They are attentive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them, makes it pretty clear then. I usually get told to fuck off though

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

If we are talking physical attraction and being cynical...

Do you have breasts and a vagina?

Are you between the ages of 18 and 55?

Are you between dress sizes 8 and 16 inclusive?

Then 80% of men will want to have sex with you.

Disclaimer: this implies no reflection on people not in those categories. They will still have lots of takers. These are just socially conditioned conventions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine having swx with her when i look at her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Wolf whistles, talking random gibberish, excessive drooling and an erection on a nudist beach perhaps?

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?"

^^^^^^^^ This.... all the signs that can be given can mean both so it’s only time that will tell if things are going to develop.... but all the things that have been mentioned are a good indicator to say if there’s a good attraction which has to be the basis of any sort of relationship... sex based or for it to develop into more!!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Are we talking about the guy from the gym?.. because while I agree those signs can all be signs he might like to see you..

From memory he's a manager where you work so might equally be just being a friendly manager..

If it is that guy does he show interest in the other staff , go see them to chat make conversation ..if not chances are he likes you whether that means he wants to date you is another matter.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think Fab gives some people a false impression and makes them think they are desirable to just about everyone but they then transfer that to the "real world" and come back down to earth with a bump when they realise that isn't the case.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Attention, you can tell by how much attention someone gives to you, especially if it's way more than anyone else, or exclusive. Even online I'm looking to see if someone is actually interested in the real me - my thoughts, my world, my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?

I would guess if these things keep happening after you have had sex once or twice it means they are still interested in more (sex undoubtedly, but as a person more too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at women I'm attracted to in real life. I want her to know I'm looking at her. So I'll look until she notices me. Once she sees me looking, I'll get one of two responses. She'll either look away, at which point I'll quit looking and move on. If she looks back for a prolonged period of time, I'll smile. That will tell me whether to make a move or not. If she smiles back, I'll go and introduce myself and ask her if I can take her for a drink or something. If she doesn't smile back and looks away or just keeps staring me out (lol), I'll quit looking and move on.

It's pretty simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno I've never picked up a woman in the real world always been online

Whaaaaaaaat??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I always look at women I'm attracted to in real life. I want her to know I'm looking at her. So I'll look until she notices me. Once she sees me looking, I'll get one of two responses. She'll either look away, at which point I'll quit looking and move on. If she looks back for a prolonged period of time, I'll smile. That will tell me whether to make a move or not. If she smiles back, I'll go and introduce myself and ask her if I can take her for a drink or something. If she doesn't smile back and looks away or just keeps staring me out (lol), I'll quit looking and move on.

It's pretty simple really. "

Haha, oh I think the OP would smile back at you for sure, damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly. "

You really aren't great at that stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly.

You really aren't great at that stuff! "

One of the many reasons I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly.

You really aren't great at that stuff!

One of the many reasons I'm single"

It only took you... what, five, six months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly.

You really aren't great at that stuff!

One of the many reasons I'm single

It only took you... what, five, six months? "

Give me a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?

I would guess if these things keep happening after you have had sex once or twice it means they are still interested in more (sex undoubtedly, but as a person more too)

Not necessarily. You may just enjoy good sex and a regular is always convenient. It's why I prefer to chat a bit to have a clue that I might actually like the person behind the body.That still doesn't mean I want to pick out curtains or anything. I just like that connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them if they want a cup of tea and want to stroke my hair. I'm not great at this sort of stuff admittedly.

You really aren't great at that stuff!

One of the many reasons I'm single

It only took you... what, five, six months?

Give me a break"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?

I would guess if these things keep happening after you have had sex once or twice it means they are still interested in more (sex undoubtedly, but as a person more too)

How about a small blind for the kitchen window then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please. "

The short answer is that there is no way to tell. As a guy who has in the past been quite shy and afraid of rejection I would do pretty much anything to disguise that I was attracted to a woman, including completely and utterly blanking her. The more intensely attracted the more I'd look away, seem busy, try and escape her presence.

I now realise this represents an impossible hurdle for women. Despite what they all think, women aren't mind readers. They need clues. So it is up to us men to man the fuck up, get over our fear of rejection, and at least start laying down hints.

The best three to start on are the basic ones women use; eye contact, body language, and presence. This has got to be the ground zero for signs that women can pick up on. If a guy looks at you with attraction. If his body language is open to you. And if he just so happens to be around you a lot by "coincidence". Then maybe... maybe he likes you.

There are lots more signs beyond this, in particular touch. But a really good sign he doesn't just want to fuck you is if he expresses genuine interest in your life and, perhaps most importantly, remembers some of what you've told him. Now this isn't 100% rule. There'll be some guys who are just very authentic and affectionate. So their interest may not be a sign of deeper attraction. But at least it separates away those who really just see you as a sex object or toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) when i cant stop looking into her eyes

2) i start mumbling to myself its true i do it when im nervous

3) if i take my batman cap off lol

4) when i go quiet

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Thing is men do all the things mentioned when they are just after some fun too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) when i cant stop looking into her eyes

2) i start mumbling to myself its true i do it when im nervous

3) if i take my batman cap off lol

4) when i go quiet "

Batman cap or Batman cape?

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over a year ago

"1) when i cant stop looking into her eyes

2) i start mumbling to myself its true i do it when im nervous

3) if i take my batman cap off lol

4) when i go quiet

Batman cap or Batman cape?

Both lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) when i cant stop looking into her eyes

2) i start mumbling to myself its true i do it when im nervous

3) if i take my batman cap off lol

4) when i go quiet

Batman cap or Batman cape?

Both lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......"

Footsie under the table and passing notes to each other does it for me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......"

Not on about swinging though am I. I'm on about signs in the real world from men that aren't swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think erection is the best of all signs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think erection is the best of all signs

Do men get erections from just seeing someone or talking to them? (clothed in a normal setting)

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

If you're shy, of whatever gender, you often appear totally disinterested in the person you're interested in, which makes it all rather confusing. However I think nothing is easier in this regard online, as all subtlety and nuance and non verbal comms are lost ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you're shy, of whatever gender, you often appear totally disinterested in the person you're interested in, which makes it all rather confusing. However I think nothing is easier in this regard online, as all subtlety and nuance and non verbal comms are lost ..."

Yeah but being online is a massive indicator that they are looking for something plus there's a kind of anonymity and chances you won't ever see that person again anyway so doesn't matter if you're blown out.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I think erection is the best of all signs

Do men get erections from just seeing someone or talking to them? (clothed in a normal setting) "

Some do some don’t it all depends on the conversation the attraction or whether they have taken a viagra and are been wanked off under the table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like a woman I am normally really sarcastic and see if they can have a good laugh, banter is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......

Not on about swinging though am I. I'm on about signs in the real world from men that aren't swingers. "

Are you trolling me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......

Not on about swinging though am I. I'm on about signs in the real world from men that aren't swingers.

Are you trolling me? "

What the fuck are you on about? I'm not asking about swingers or any kind of online hook up culture. I'm talking about signs to gauge if someone is available and attracted to you in the real world, every day kind of scenario.

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over a year ago

"I tend to pull her hair in class and when I see her on the playground I kick her.....

Are we being serious?

Forgive me but I thought swinging was for adults......

Not on about swinging though am I. I'm on about signs in the real world from men that aren't swingers.

Are you trolling me?

Forgive me....... I thought laws of attraction were common knowledge....

Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have the physical signs. Eye contact, smiles, getting closer than he really needs to be. Maybe even small compliments slipped into conversation. Also generating situations for you to meet.

The problem is that these signs apply equally to 'I just want to fuck you and leave' as to 'I want to fuck you and actually think you might be an interesting person to be around'

Problem, eh?

I would guess if these things keep happening after you have had sex once or twice it means they are still interested in more (sex undoubtedly, but as a person more too)

How about a small blind for the kitchen window then"

Only if we need to pull it down in your kitchen when I come calling. I do like it in the kitchen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they phone you the day after a date then they are willing to play the get to know you game.

How that date happens is not so easy, one of you has to ask the other.

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over a year ago

"If they phone you the day after a date then they are willing to play the get to know you game.

How that date happens is not so easy, one of you has to ask the other. "

What, like with actual words. Are you insane?..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please. "

I haven't read the thread but I love the Freudian typo slip in the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, what non sexual secret signs do you give that you are single and willing to be asked out?

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Before being a married man and without being crass, I’d tell the person my interest in them and ask for a date. If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in my latter years and by my own experience, women prefer men who are direct, articulate and sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Online, women have the advantage of already knowing the guys are open to meeting or being approached, in the real world it's much harder so help us spot the signs please.

I haven't read the thread but I love the Freudian typo slip in the post.

Had to read a couple of times to spot that! See, he's on the brain!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, what non sexual secret signs do you give that you are single and willing to be asked out?"

If I'm around someone I fancy I do get a bit flustered but I hope that doesn't show to the guy. To the guy though I will try and talk to him whenever I can, will look at him a lot, smile and try and make him laugh.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"OP, what non sexual secret signs do you give that you are single and willing to be asked out?"
Like what was said in a earlier post go to sainsburys or asda and go to the meals for one Isle just make sure you stock up well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest most guys on this site will shag anything with a pulse. That’s why I’m fussy as fuck and go on who they have been verified by. I’ve seen great looking guys get verified by some right states

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell if a woman is attracted to you by her feet.

If they're faced towards you while speaking, she's interested. If one of them is rapidly moving towards your testicles, she isn't into you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest most guys on this site will shag anything with a pulse. That’s why I’m fussy as fuck and go on who they have been verified by. I’ve seen great looking guys get verified by some right states "

Yeah it's different in the real world though in every day situations.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I'm big on eye contact and body mirroring.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Best answer is to watch Hitch a couple of times - corny as it is, that’s what a lot of us are like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant speak for every guy on here, but I’m happy to bang some right states, hope this helps your research !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant speak for every guy on here, but I’m happy to bang some right states, hope this helps your research !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious when they see it not just in what I say but in what I do...

Its easy to hide behind pixels, far less so face to face where all those other non verbal signals are so hard to hide....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, what non sexual secret signs do you give that you are single and willing to be asked out?

Pretty much the same as blokes then.

I personally am completely hopeless at knowing if someone is coming on to me.

But when I was single unless my initial approach was welcomed with open arms I backed off pretty quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're asking how you can tell if a man is attracted to a woman?

Well, in my case, since my separation, the first few times I spoke to a woman to whom I was attracted, I managed to talk complete and utter nonsense, while wishing I could stop myself somehow...

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"If you're asking how you can tell if a man is attracted to a woman?

Well, in my case, since my separation, the first few times I spoke to a woman to whom I was attracted, I managed to talk complete and utter nonsense, while wishing I could stop myself somehow..."

“Hitch” syndrome - go to the ‘Date Doctor’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get an hard on and my mouth is watering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a tad superficial. Personality? Chemistry?

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