FabSwingers.com forum: Lessons Learned

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have more patience than I originally thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I have more patience than I originally thought.

Mrs"

Cool, how so?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

That I can't type fast enough to keep up with popular threads

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

That my body isn't as bad as I've always though it was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That my body isn't as bad as I've always though it was

Not bad in any way from what I see

glad you have a good lesson

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough to keep up with popular threads

Lol have to be strategic but I agree some go really fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?"
patients is the quay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?patients is the quay

Agreed mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I have more patience than I originally thought.

Mrs

Cool, how so?"

Instead of just saying f*** off to the ones who deserve it I remain polite and wish them best of luck.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have less patience and tolerance for eejits on here.

That I’m worth more than what some offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That egos far outweigh the liberty bell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I have more patience than I originally thought.

Mrs

Cool, how so?

Instead of just saying f*** off to the ones who deserve it I remain polite and wish them best of luck."

Lol sometimes they need the harsh reality but good on you for being patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have less patience and tolerance for eejits on here.

That I’m worth more than what some offer"

Important to know your worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That egos far outweigh the liberty bell

Lol

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Having been on here over 8 years I've learnt that being selective and trusting your gut instinct is the way to go

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

That I just don't have the free time that I thought I do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having been on here over 8 years I've learnt that being selective and trusting your gut instinct is the way to go"

Good sounds lesson there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I just don't have the free time that I thought I do! "

Time flies when your having fun

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Don't believe all that you read!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't believe all that you read!"

Another good lesson I have also learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining the site I've learned just what my limits are, learned my true sexuality and realised my self esteem is pretty unshakeable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s it’s not all black and white and nothing is simple it’s a complex puzzle to solve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Since joining the site I've learned just what my limits are, learned my true sexuality and realised my self esteem is pretty unshakeable

Great to hear. Love when self esteem is high, as it should be. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s it’s not all black and white and nothing is simple it’s a complex puzzle to solve "

Especially for us guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s it’s not all black and white and nothing is simple it’s a complex puzzle to solve

Especially for us guys lol"

Amen to that but I think that a lot of guys make it hard for the majority of us there’s a pun there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s it’s not all black and white and nothing is simple it’s a complex puzzle to solve

Especially for us guys lol

Amen to that but I think that a lot of guys make it hard for the majority of us there’s a pun there somewhere

Lol have to press on

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

That my rejection handling skills are pretty robust.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That my rejection handling skills are pretty robust. "

Lol they have to be or you will not survive. Don’t know until you try though right?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Type my opinion. You don't have to press 'Post Message'. Take a step back and think 'Should I post that'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That enough tho my status says straight blokes keep asking me for pictures

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

That I cant get enough of big fat cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Type my opinion. You don't have to press 'Post Message'. Take a step back and think 'Should I post that'."

Good one mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm to kind and people who you think like you are full of shit and slag you off behind your back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That enough tho my status says straight blokes keep asking me for pictures "

Message filters, trust me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm always right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I cant get enough of big fat cock

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Quite the appetite, well your in the right place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I'm to kind and people who you think like you are full of shit and slag you off behind your back

Oh no I’m sorry to hear that. Harsh lesson but I hope you remove those people from your life and open room for good people to enter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I'm always right

Lol always huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a sucker for liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I'm to kind and people who you think like you are full of shit and slag you off behind your back

Oh no I’m sorry to hear that. Harsh lesson but I hope you remove those people from your life and open room for good people to enter"

Yep they can all go fuck themselves or each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That my rejection handling skills are pretty robust. "

I’m guessing you get lots of practice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?"

That I have great resilience lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are some amazingly sexy men in my age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people genuinely find larger women attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I'm to kind and people who you think like you are full of shit and slag you off behind your back

Oh no I’m sorry to hear that. Harsh lesson but I hope you remove those people from your life and open room for good people to enter

Yep they can all go fuck themselves or each other

That’s the spirit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That some people genuinely find larger women attractive. "

Love the curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm incredibly fussy (though I knew that anyway)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That there are some amazingly sexy men in my age group

I know that makes you happy but your young so it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm incredibly fussy (though I knew that anyway) "

As you should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?

That I have great resilience lol

Strong quality there

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Dick is plentiful and low in value (although to be honest, I kinda knew that already)

Guys find me irresistible (I knew that too)

Girls find me resistible (also knew that as well)

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?"

That I'm better with women when I can chat and giggle in normal life/work situations in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive also learned that men like the abuse or they wouldnt keep coming back.

I solved the problem by filtering out all men

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By *heWoodmanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always always always do a social first.....

Her pics were from 5years & 10stone ago....

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve learned to be more comfortable in my own skin, and not to take things personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learned to be more comfortable in my own skin, and not to take things personally.

Good point here

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Irony really angers people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Irony really angers people"

Another good one to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive also learned that men like the abuse or they wouldnt keep coming back.

I solved the problem by filtering out all men"

Have to to do what you have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive also learned that men like the abuse or they wouldnt keep coming back.

I solved the problem by filtering out all men

Have to to do what you have to do "

I dont like to do it but some are really awful and if you met them in real life they probably wouldnt behave like it so why do it on fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m far from old and past it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many more people want to have sex with me than I ever thought

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Lots of things but probably the most important has been the realisation that (despite years of thinking otherwise) I am actually quite attractive to some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm way too nice replying to all messages.

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

That most guys I’m very attracted to live flipping miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. I knew it all before I arrived..

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"What’s one thing that you have learned from Fab about yourself?"

Tolerance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not as invisible as I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not as invisible as I thought

Who said that (couldn’t resist ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things but mainly that an awful lot of men on here really aren't very nice people and don't respect that I'm a human being with feelings and emotions.

A few are nice btw.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Kindness is sexy!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

To trust my intuition. If something doesn't feel right it generally isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t find what I was looking for here and I’m glad I didn’t, but I found a place where I can express a part of me that is considerably more constrained in daily life.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

To trust my instinct its normally right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a better guy than i thought i was also very lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a great fuck

But I already knew that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discovered i have a far higher sex drive than i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That more guys find bigger women like myself attractive than I ever imagined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I’m far from old and past it x "

Great lesson!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That more guys find bigger women like myself attractive than I ever imagined. "

Curves are always welcomed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a great fuck

But I already knew that really."

seems you have had some confirmation there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im a better guy than i thought i was also very lucky"

Can’t be too hard on yourself mate. Glad you think well of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To trust my intuition. If something doesn't feel right it generally isn't "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I am happy enough, don't get greedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being picky and not saying yes to just any fella brings the right men to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not as ugly as i thought..

People arent as genuine as youd hope so be careful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To trust my intuition. If something doesn't feel right it generally isn't

This for me too.

This one is key

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That being picky and not saying yes to just any fella brings the right men to me

You are selective for a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im not as ugly as i thought..

People arent as genuine as youd hope so be careful "

If someone told you that they didn’t learn anything in school, but be careful is universal

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