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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Block..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

"

No.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.

I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Just say no and then block or ignore there is no other way really on here.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.

I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him."

Your messages saying no light up his inbox and lead him to think that no will eventually mean yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.

I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him."

Well if that's your attitude, you won't be getting a 255th

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

"

If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I say No and they still text saying can we just talk.. I say sure but still not going to meet you. They stop

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue? "

Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?

Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "

Nah. Saves your time, saves his. Blocking does you both a favour. Like a reverse hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.

I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him.

Well if that's your attitude, you won't be getting a 255th "

god loves a trier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?

Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "

Could just ignore their messages!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?

Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "

It's not in my opinion

If they can't understand a no,they are not very respectful.

I block early if they don't get the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?

Is there any other way Fabsters?

"

"I'm sorry we're not compatible. I won't be replying again as I don't waste people's time. Hope you find someone nice. x"

If he replies again just delete. If he gets abusive report to Admin.

I pretty much never block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We blocked one guy who we see on the school run because he didnt understand no.

He turned up at my work and said I needn't be shy we're all adults, unblock him, blah blah blah.

It seems even a block isn't enough for some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he doesn't listen to a no in a message, will he listen to a no in person? Doubt it.

Blocking saves you both hassle, time and energy anyway.

Block the bad ones, message the good ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block if persistent...tell them you think of them as a brother..

wait...in fact just block ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message say no thx, then don't reply again! If they continue to message just block, 3+ messages is automatic block!!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Blocking isn't severe. On here it's a necessity.

The more you respond, the more he sees the door ajar. Slam it in his face and be done with it.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"We blocked one guy who we see on the school run because he didnt understand no.

He turned up at my work and said I needn't be shy we're all adults, unblock him, blah blah blah.

It seems even a block isn't enough for some! "

Time to go ninja on that creep!

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks everyone for the advice.

I’ll block

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