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Difficult to find genuine people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How difficult is this site even with good verifications. Its a nightmare sorting through the time wasters.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Go to clubs. You can get to Quest within your two hour limit and that is open daytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've returned to the world of real people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How difficult is this site even with good verifications. Its a nightmare sorting through the time wasters."

You will eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of curiosity, what would you define as a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How difficult is this site even with good verifications. Its a nightmare sorting through the time wasters.

You will eventually... "

Oh... there you are

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

How do you define genuine people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you define genuine people?"

Genuinely genuine of course

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I find the more genuine a person the less they use the word genuine..

2goods second rule of fab..

The more genuine a person is is inversely proportional to the amount of genuines used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the more genuine a person the less they use the word genuine..

2goods second rule of fab..

The more genuine a person is is inversely proportional to the amount of genuines used"

Don't forget the 'professionals', they are genuine of course

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Out of curiosity, what would you define as a time waster? "

Anyone who is posting shite on the forums when they should be working instead -guilty as charged your honour

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I’ve never used the words genuine or professional about myself ever!

That would be genuinely unprofessional of me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's as difficult as you want to make it for yourself OP - have too high expectations, a bad approach and a limited profile and pics and it may seem very difficult.

Conversely get all those right and the perception may well be different

Verifications can indeed help but they're not necessarily a golden ticket either.

As others have said be interested to hear your definition of a time waster and what constitutes being genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never used the words genuine or professional about myself ever!

That would be genuinely unprofessional of me "

I don’t see a problem with the word ‘professional’. It’s a pretty common term here in London and I know exactly what they mean when they say it. It’s not pretentious at all. The word genuine can be over used and I agree, when someone uses it too much then it’s usually the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity, what would you define as a time waster? "
Someone who sets their alarm for 5 but gets up at 6.30 I mean cmon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you just have to be patient but I know your frustration Rome wasn’t built in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me laugh when people say ." Where are all the genuine ones " does that mean only the ones that meet you are genuine ? And them that don't are fakes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met someone and can't verify one another for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always makes me laugh when people say ." Where are all the genuine ones " does that mean only the ones that meet you are genuine ? And them that don't are fakes? "

I think after meeting a few snakes and fakes i did start to wonder where the genuine ones were. Luckily I’ve met more nice ones than not. There are some complete idiots out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always makes me laugh when people say ." Where are all the genuine ones " does that mean only the ones that meet you are genuine ? And them that don't are fakes?

I think after meeting a few snakes and fakes i did start to wonder where the genuine ones were. Luckily I’ve met more nice ones than not. There are some complete idiots out there. "
I'm sure there are lots x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I've met someone and can't verify one another for some reason "

If neither of you are verified already then you can't - best bet is for one of you to get Webcam verified via the chat rooms and that person can leave a veri for the other person to reciprocate

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I've met someone and can't verify one another for some reason "

You need to be verified to verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm OP perhaps I misread but from your profile I get that you are married and playing alone without your wife's knowledge.... I'm quite sure she would not consider your to be genuine if she knew, in fact I'd go as far as to say she would consider you a time waster.... oh hello kettle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"How do you define genuine people?

Genuinely genuine of course "

That depends on a persons perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not learned yet.....you cannot use the term "genuine" here...as its a term only time wasters use...so i read in these forums anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you not learned yet.....you cannot use the term "genuine" here...as its a term only time wasters use...so i read in these forums anyway "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you define genuine people?

Genuinely genuine of course

That depends on a persons perspective "

Ah, it depends if their perspective is genuine though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you not learned yet.....you cannot use the term "genuine" here...as its a term only time wasters use...so i read in these forums anyway

this "
If you say you're genuinely genuine of yourself it's likely you're not otherwise why would you say it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile clearly states married if thats not your thing its fine by me. Wasters, people who agree to meet and don't at the last minute. People who are not what they say they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Done the club thing. Not for me I'm afraid. To many men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lets hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm OP perhaps I misread but from your profile I get that you are married and playing alone without your wife's knowledge.... I'm quite sure she would not consider your to be genuine if she knew, in fact I'd go as far as to say she would consider you a time waster.... oh hello kettle!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How difficult is this site even with good verifications. Its a nightmare sorting through the time wasters."

Agreed, I've had a few people converse with me but when it comes to an arranged meet, they stop communicating and block me! Why discuss meeting if you don't want to?!!!

I've been on here for some time and am yet to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met someone and can't verify one another for some reason "

You cant verify someone unless you have been verified first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not wasting anyone's time on here. Profile clearly says married

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