FabSwingers.com forum: Ever been blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for looking? It seems we just have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Beacuse your profile is hidden?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not noticed, but have to say we have blocked people, who just continue to look but don't message or respond!

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

We got blocked by a lady because she thought we was ignoring her, she sent us three messages within 20 minutes and by the time we replied we was blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not noticed, but have to say we have blocked people, who just continue to look but don't message or respond!"

Sam here. Frequent lookers who don't respond to messages are blocked.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I've been blocked by soapy before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Beacuse your profile is hidden?"

That may be the reason, I suppose. Our profile has always been open in the past but is hidden now because we are not available for play due to illness not for any other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep I've been blocked for just looking, wouldn't have shagged em anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yep I've been blocked for just looking, wouldn't have shagged em anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Beacuse your profile is hidden?

That may be the reason, I suppose. Our profile has always been open in the past but is hidden now because we are not available for play due to illness not for any other reason."

Thairs fair enough but people arent aware of your circumstances all the time. If people have looked at us with a hidden profile it can feel a little intimidating sometimes in the sense that its like one way glass - you can see us but we cant see you type of affair!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Beacuse your profile is hidden?

That may be the reason, I suppose. Our profile has always been open in the past but is hidden now because we are not available for play due to illness not for any other reason.

aye, can see how that might look. didn't really think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been blocked by soapy before

I remember blocking him for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep I've been blocked for just looking, wouldn't have shagged em anyway

You tried to look again though?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes and there is not a day goes past I don't say thanks to the baby jesus...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No but then we look in stealth mode

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Have been blocked by a couple of profiles,not sure why as we haven't had any contact with them at all. But can't say we have lost any sleep over it

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

"No but then we look in stealth mode

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been blocked by a couple of profiles,not sure why as we haven't had any contact with them at all. But can't say we have lost any sleep over it

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"I've been blocked by soapy before

I remember blocking him for a laugh

I thinks we've probably all done that Frockles xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been blocked by soapy before

I remember blocking him for a laugh

I thinks we've probably all done that Frockles xx

The text messages were funny

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I block on regular basis, I expect the same in return. Otherwise I would be a hypocrite.

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

dont know if we were blocked,but sometimes when i look back at messages sent,i hope we were,lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've been blocked, but then I'll cheerfully admit that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I've also blocked people who have NO BI MEN!!!! plastered all over their profile, but that's so that I don't look again in 4 months time by accident.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Have been blocked by some... wanted to ask them why, but I can't mail them to ask as... er, they'd blocked me.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Thats the only thing i havnt done yet is block myself, have winked and sent messages but not blocked yet, have been tempted to a few time the messages ive sent were a awful

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"I've been blocked, but then I'll cheerfully admit that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I've also blocked people who have NO BI MEN!!!! plastered all over their profile, but that's so that I don't look again in 4 months time by accident."

why? you know what they say about "he who shouts the loudest".

They could turn out to be your best prospects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats the only thing i havnt done yet is block myself, have winked and sent messages but not blocked yet, have been tempted to a few time the messages ive sent were a awful

I've done and feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered, but I stealth look too!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

forgot to add yes been blocked, doesnt bother me, and look in stealth mode as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I politely messaged a cpl & they politely messaged back to say no thanks. When I messaged back to say "OK, no probs. Happy hunting" etc, I found that I'd been blocked.

I guess they've had loadsa blokes sending them nasty replys after a rejection.

Didn't bother me too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes by a guy who took 3 months to realise that I had blocked him

the only reason I found out was because I hadn't blocked his mobile and he sent me a vile text

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

yes a man from a couple blocked me because I wouldnt accept his friend request.. he wanted to see my fotos !

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"No but then we look in stealth mode

what is stealth mode where do i find that ? please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I take the fifth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

under privacy settings, you have the option to prevent people from seeing that you are looking at them.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Yes by a guy who took 3 months to realise that I had blocked him

the only reason I found out was because I hadn't blocked his mobile and he sent me a vile text

He sounds like an arse. And he proved that you did the right thing in blocking him.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Go into chat and you will get blocked a lot more. I admit to being nosey when in chat. I like to look at the profiles of the room chatters. Now as this site has lots or members you simply cannot remember if you have look at that persons or couples profile before. You go to have a nose and find you are blocked despite never having messaged them winked them etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite clinical with it, if your a fellow single guy clicking on my info and bother to introduce yourself,thats cool.

If your a fellow single guy looking,looking and looking,i tend to think its not too healthy and,,,,block.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"No but then we look in stealth mode

what is stealth mode where do i find that ? please"

Click on privacy tab and then go to browsing profiles. Stops you appearing on who has looked at me lists.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Found myself blocked only the other day.

Was looking for a meet, found this one chap and chatted etc. All going well, arranged to meet there and then, sent phone and location details and waited to hear from him...

...then found i was blocked!

Hmmm, i'm good at what i do as well!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I got blocked for saying 'No thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying 'No thanks'

At least you know they won't be asking you/bothering you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah been blocked a few times for tryin it on tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my looked at facility turned off. Only go to profiles for a nose. Never been blocked as they dont know I have been there.

I have blocked many from chat rooms who are abusive. You get a certain type of guy on chat rooms at times who think to get your attention by being rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked by a couple because I wasn't interested in them. Basically the gist of the the message I got back was that I should meet them even though I wasnt interested in his age group at all because she thought that kind of behaviour didn't go on any more

In other words no-one is allowed to have an age preference according to them

and they blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see why people are bothered if I'm honest.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I got blocked for fabbing a pic. It was of a tattoo that I liked, maybe I wasnt allowed to fab public pics

. I dont mind as I block people who I think deserve blocking

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked people who i approach and who seem as if interested, then next time you message them they read message but dont reply, ignorant arent they

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I have my looked at facility turned off. Only go to profiles for a nose. Never been blocked as they dont know I have been there.

I have blocked many from chat rooms who are abusive. You get a certain type of guy on chat rooms at times who think to get your attention by being rude"

We also _iew in stealth mode. We block similar men in chat - that's where most of our blocks originate from. We also block people who don't like 'no' for an answer and repeatedly message or get abusive. I'd never block someone for just repeatedly looking, though

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

ooh - have just been blocked for replying to a single guy's message... seems I shouldn't have bothered replying if I wasn't interested in meeting him at his place later..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been blocked for looking loads of times, and for sending a message, and sometimes ive been blocked by someone ive not _iewed or messaged and have no idea why :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've been blocked a few time on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we been blocked and also have blocked people who dont read our profile

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

" sometimes ive been blocked by someone ive not _iewed or messaged and have no idea why :/"

I've blocked a couple of people from the forums if I've been taken aback by their posts on several occasions - if their _iews are so far from ours then I've blocked them just so we could never contact each other, just in case

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'd be very disappointed if I hadn't been blocked at least once.

My leaving threads don't write themselves you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" sometimes ive been blocked by someone ive not _iewed or messaged and have no idea why :/

I had to do it then!

Just out of curiosity!

Click on your profile, I mean

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

I blocked a single female that looks at my profile every week and has done for over 8 months. I think the profile is either fake or someone uses it as an extra profile as no verifications and only ever had 1 pix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been blocked, after a meeting, my fault really, as I am not "all that"...... Still life is too short and I wish the person in question well, I learnt something that night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count!

Sometimes I get blocked for no reason.

and I sleep like a baby!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

99% of my blocks are from chat,spammers,pushy men,men who wont take no for an answer ...makes the room easier to follow too

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've been blocked by soapy before

Who can blame him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't even have to look

i get blocked just for 'being'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked and blocking. All part of the game isn' t it, in our case its usually the " i've a big cock fancy a shag" or similar brigade, A little stimulation goes a long way

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

No they wouldn't know about it if we did. Wouldn't care anyway...if they weren't interested anyway no point!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I was blocked by a guy who I introduced to this site! Ungrateful wretch!!

Trns out he wasn't impressed when I didn't follow him into his BDSM stage.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Am sure I have been blocked for wheat ever reason. There are after all some moody and strange people on here so comes with the territory!!

But who gives a flying f...? Doesn't bother me in the slightest as I am pretty choosy anyway..

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Yes we have. Some we understand others have been downright rude having contacted us first,supposedly been happy with our pics and chats but then once their communication with the endless people they chase we have fell victim to their process of elimination

Won't lose any sleep mind we'd sooner find them out early doors.

We have also blocked - It tends to be repeat messages from those we don,t find a spark with. It can be over a certain period and they genuinely have forgotten they had approached us.

By blocking them it saves our time and theirs and it's nothing malicious.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

so far once only...got asked to send a cock picture then the hubby sent abusive message and then blocked...wtf

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

"I was blocked by a guy who I introduced to this site! Ungrateful wretch!!

Trns out he wasn't impressed when I didn't follow him into his BDSM stage. "

We added some friends of Mrs FJ. She realised who they were and we sent them a message had a laugh together and met for a social get together for them to see one another and catch up. A really nice couple too but of course 'real' friends and i'm certain that was accepted and of course their opinion too.

After a while though it became an issue of 'friends' friends seeing our private pics which like theirs (you get notifications we didn,t look ourselves).

It was kind of embarrassing and having discussed this we politely informed them that they have our numbers and we'd love to keep in touch but gave them our reasons as to why we wanted to take them of our play contacts.

It wasn,t met very well, we tried to apologise but to no avail.

A bit disapoointed and Mrs FJ was upset at losing their friendship but hey ho life goes on.

We were told that they didn,t perve at us which we believe of course. Our problem was that we hoped being new to the scene they would understand.

They on the other half were experienced with many years of this under there belt and blew us away with the response that ensued. They blocked us. Shame really.

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By *oodnvampCouple
over a year ago

beverley

"i don't even have to look

i get blocked just for 'being'

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we once put in profile for single males to " put nik is hot" in subject or be blocked,couldnt beleive the amount that didnt,so blocked them.some even didnt put it then said "love the profile" i had to reply saying you didnt even read it so im blocking you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip have been , didnt really care had a look got blocked not bothered by it , but failed to get the logic , dont want looked at , dont put your profile up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Been blocked for my looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Been blocked for my looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was blocked by a guy who I introduced to this site! Ungrateful wretch!!

Trns out he wasn't impressed when I didn't follow him into his BDSM stage.

After a while though it became an issue of 'friends' friends seeing our private pics which like theirs (you get notifications we didn,t look ourselves).

It wasn,t met very well, we tried to apologise but to no avail.

A bit disapoointed and Mrs FJ was upset at losing their friendship but hey ho life goes on.

We were told that they didn,t perve at us which we believe of course. Our problem was that we hoped being new to the scene they would understand.

They on the other half were experienced with many years of this under there belt and blew us away with the response that ensued. They blocked us. Shame really."

Why didn't you just ask them to hide their friends list? That way no-one can peek at who is on it and perve your pictures or anyone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for looking? It seems we just have.

Top tip, if ya nosey bastard like me just hide who you're looking at

Just cause you look doesn't mean you want to jump their bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...and I sleep like a baby!

You mean you wake up frequently in the night crying?

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