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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you prefer? Regular friends or one-offs hook-ups?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, everytime.

A couple of women on here have become very good friends. If I was only having one offs, that never would have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular meets because you can create a good strong friendship between you both but wouldn't say no to one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, but not averse to one offs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular has more appeal to us....but never say never to one offs

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A mixture of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? Regular friends or one-offs hook-ups?"
regular one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Definitely regular. Much more satisfying for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends

Regularly

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Both are good.

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Regular friends xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irregular regular, keeps it fresh

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

One-offs are exciting but prefer regular playmates so that we can get to know and explore each other’s fantasies and kinks.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I really don't like one offs.

Regular friends for me.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Either tbh .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular but there is definetly a time and a place for one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me the sex gets better the more you get to know someone imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would agree with above regular friends the more you meet the better the fun gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? Regular friends or one-offs hook-ups?"

What you think about you and me OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for us.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Regular. Meeting people for the first time is always exiting though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs for us ....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Fab friends for the special connection, however the odd one offs, leads to fab friends.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off" "

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

Here to find regular friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Fab friends, I feel more relaxed with someone I know and like and this leads to exploring different things together. Also it’s nice to be able to chat openly about all things fab. I’ve met some lovely people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab friends, I feel more relaxed with someone I know and like and this leads to exploring different things together. Also it’s nice to be able to chat openly about all things fab. I’ve met some lovely people on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer regular. However, although I've achieved this in the past, it seems to be impossible now . I'm probably a shit shag and a fucking awful friend, so I settle for one offs.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Definitely one offs with separate meets unless there’s something really special and we ask if they would also be interested in a couple meet. We discuss this right at the start, it’s what works for us. As a couple we like to build on meets too it is good to build on that relationship and makes the next meet sooo much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off"s ..we do not swing to form relationships, we have each other for that and friends and family..swinging is kept separate to or normal everyday life..this saves it getting complicated..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person "

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely one offs with separate meets unless there’s something really special and we ask if they would also be interested in a couple meet. We discuss this right at the start, it’s what works for us. As a couple we like to build on meets too it is good to build on that relationship and makes the next meet sooo much better"

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Regular friend.

Applicants, send a message.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Regular probably, for all the reasons given. Mind you, having said that there’s only one Fab friend I’ve met more than twice. And one of my best Fab pals I haven’t actually met at all yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, but sometimes you have a few one offs to find someone you want to be regular with!!!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging "

Not necessarily. I'd class it as a fwb scenario where you have friendship and sex but without deeper emotional entanglement. I realize many people are unable to keep the libes from becoming blurred, but for those who can, like I, it's brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make friends on here but play meets tend to have been just the once.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

More of a one off, but do have regulars i see often, but do like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging "

If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging

If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them "

I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Most definitely regular... sex is far better as you get to know someone and what turns them on as you get know their bodies and their mind!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging

If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them

I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life "

Yes, I also get that

It could become a thin line

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

Irregularly regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Irregularly regular "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At leat 2 regulars with 1 offs thrown in on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, not interested in one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both sometime lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Definite regular friends, but the odd one off would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both. Have made some great friends too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular friends that won’t kick off when you want a break.

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere


"Irregularly regular "

Now thats an ideal situation

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Regular x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely regular.

BUT

Wouldn't say no to the right person for a "one off"

Precisely this I would agree that regular is,my preference. The sex just gets better as you become more familiar with the person

Is that not a relationship then and not swinging

If you have a few regulars then surely you are ‘swinging’ between them

I get your point..its just not for us, we do not want to blur the lines between our swinging life and or normal life

Yes, I also get that

It could become a thin line"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life ."

this ..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Neither now, I haven't had anything in over 16 months, it seems my area isn't interested in friends, so I'd rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spontaneous one-offs with random, attractive people are very intoxicating. For us, regulars become very boring.

Everyone is different and each to their own x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life ."

As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .

As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon "

I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .

As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon

I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship.. "

Personally I don't think it is either, I call it just being trying to be compatible as much as possible to make the experience as good as possible for both parties but as I have practically stopped meeting I don't know anymore than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just something would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? Regular friends or one-offs hook-ups?"

Would like to meet the first, but unfortunately we seem to atttact the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs .

We have each other for feelings , and family and friends for depth and friendship .

Never understood why anyone would want to get all deep and meaningful with something that’s just sex .

On the few occasions we have got closer to people we’ve met in the swinging scene it’s gotten all complicated . Like when you say you’re looking for a meet , and the same people that you’ve got close to message you saying they’d like to meet again . You want something fresh and new , say so and they get pissed off . We don’t need that shit in our swinging life .

As you and I keep debating about over the years, couples and singles look for different things as couples have each other for the intimate side, singles mostly need some connection so this is something none of us will ever agree upon

I can see your point about it being different for couples..there is a currant thread asking about couples meeting couples on a regular basis.. but singles meeting singles on a regular basis..is that swinging or is that a relationship..

Personally I don't think it is either, I call it just being trying to be compatible as much as possible to make the experience as good as possible for both parties but as I have practically stopped meeting I don't know anymore than that! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off ones Rocker regularly

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