FabSwingers.com forum: The ones ... that get away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years

During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘

We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please

Am I alone ??

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

No Definately not.

I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.

Am I really that bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No Definately not.

I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.

Am I really that bad

Yes - it’s you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never let anyone get away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never let anyone get away

Ooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes just the once my biggest fab regret

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"No Definately not.

I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.

Am I really that bad

Yes - it’s you

Well at least I know now

If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No Definately not.

I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.

Am I really that bad

Yes - it’s you

Well at least I know now

If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them

I’ll get my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a female half of a couple I used to need for cuckold fun then they split, she went off the scene but still wonder what fun we could have had if she remained in here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a female half of a couple I used to need for cuckold fun then they split, she went off the scene but still wonder what fun we could have had if she remained in here."

It’s a beautiful memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets away, usually without me getting to speak to them, so regret is pointless.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"No Definately not.

I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.

Am I really that bad

Yes - it’s you

Well at least I know now

If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them

I’ll get my list "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happen to me once, you live and learn, he might be leading a second life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's happen to me once, you live and learn, he might be leading a second life "

He’s happy now ... which is great

I only cried for 43 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss your gain hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"His loss your gain hun"

No losses in this ...

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Only one but not from the swinger world.

Many years ago before I met Mrs H I was working in Spain with a lovely girl who became a very close (but non sexual) friend.

She had decided to go back to the UK and we had said our goodbyes and I fully expected never to see or hear from her again.

We lived around an hour from each other and I was back at my place and had fallen asleep watching TV.

The next morning I checked my phone and there was a text message from her saying that she would like to spend her last night in Spain with me.

I immediately tried to phone her but too late. She was on an early morning flight and her Spanish mobile was never switched on again.

But hey ho. If I had seen the message and driven to her place (which I certainly would have) then things could have been very different and maybe I wouldn't have met Mrs H. So it was probably for the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only one but not from the swinger world.

Many years ago before I met Mrs H I was working in Spain with a lovely girl who became a very close (but non sexual) friend.

She had decided to go back to the UK and we had said our goodbyes and I fully expected never to see or hear from her again.

We lived around an hour from each other and I was back at my place and had fallen asleep watching TV.

The next morning I checked my phone and there was a text message from her saying that she would like to spend her last night in Spain with me.

I immediately tried to phone her but too late. She was on an early morning flight and her Spanish mobile was never switched on again.

Perfect example of everything happening for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His loss your gain hun

No losses in this ...

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that's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too new but theres time yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"His loss your gain hun

No losses in this ...

that's good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im too new but theres time yet"

Life is too short my friend

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.

Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!

I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.

Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!

I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen. "

Stay strong

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I have two that got away, one was when I was pretty new to all this and his sheer handsomeness intimidated me so much I never plucked up the courage to do anything other than Skype.

The other one was too scared to meet me, I'm still working on that one though, he's not quite got away yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have two that got away, one was when I was pretty new to all this and his sheer handsomeness intimidated me so much I never plucked up the courage to do anything other than Skype.

The other one was too scared to meet me, I'm still working on that one though, he's not quite got away yet

I told you its too far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have two that got away, one was when I was pretty new to all this and his sheer handsomeness intimidated me so much I never plucked up the courage to do anything other than Skype.

The other one was too scared to meet me, I'm still working on that one though, he's not quite got away yet

So there’s still potential with the second

Funny how we perceive others into being ‘ too handsome ‘ isn’t it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril "

Yep, it’s made me realise that life is about seizing the moment. You might not get it again.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I never let anyone get away

Locked in ???

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There have been a couple of times where things have got as far as discussing meeting (or meeting again) that haven't come to fruition but I don't necessarily see them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be at that moment in time"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No I can honestly say not.

If they'd been worth me pursuing I would have done,even if I like someone I'm the type that only puts in the effort I receive .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril

Yep, it’s made me realise that life is about seizing the moment. You might not get it again. "

Definitely... seize it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something."

Shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There have been a couple of times where things have got as far as discussing meeting (or meeting again) that haven't come to fruition but I don't necessarily see them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be at that moment in time"

Good way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I can honestly say not.

If they'd been worth me pursuing I would have done,even if I like someone I'm the type that only puts in the effort I receive ."

Two way traffic

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.

Shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.

Shocking

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.

Shocking

I know, you would think they would just be grateful for any attention.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, not alone. I like to think it happens for a reason if that makes sense? Like you probably wouldn't have actually got along or the sex would have been crap etc. Or just the wrong time. Meh!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You're on my hot list, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You do ... I’m more meaning the ones you just never met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.

Shocking

I know, you would think they would just be grateful for any attention."

Amen brother

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, not alone. I like to think it happens for a reason if that makes sense? Like you probably wouldn't have actually got along or the sex would have been crap etc. Or just the wrong time. Meh!"

Agreed .... ah be still my aching vagina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You're on my hot list, just saying."

Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I can sometimes be up myself as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look far from scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I can sometimes be up myself as well.

You use your left hand or right for that doc?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!

I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years

During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘

We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please

Am I alone ??

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oh yes definitely one but hey what can you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You look far from scary!"

I’m posh ... not scary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!

I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with. "

Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company??

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You're on my hot list, just saying.

Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid "

Alas Not... He’s taken! ( His g/f is stunning btw) Mr M might be one of the ones hehe

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You're on my hot list, just saying."

As you are on mine! FaF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...

But hey such is life and you move on...

You're on my hot list, just saying.

Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid

Alas Not... He’s taken! ( His g/f is stunning btw) Mr M might be one of the ones hehe "

Ahhhh damn my Cupid’s sat nav

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Cant say I feel that way to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i let them get away then there was a reason.

Usually it’s because i’m not as fast as i once was!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant say I feel that way to be honest

Lucky you

Long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I can sometimes be up myself as well.

You use your left hand or right for that doc?"

I'm anally retentive so I need to use both hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I can sometimes be up myself as well.

You use your left hand or right for that doc?

I'm anally retentive so I need to use both hands!

That must come in handy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My net was too big so he couldn't escape and get away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My net was too big so he couldn't escape and get away

Duly noted - need bigger net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps this is a good thread to say that, for me, many of the connections I've had with women on here that haven't yet led to a meet are just that... they're ongoing friendships that may eventually lead to a meet.

If you're reading this and it seems like we connected nicely but that I'm not motivated to meet you or our chat has ended and you live several hours drive away neither are true. I'd love to carry on chatting sporadically from time to time and wait for fate to open a moment in our lives where we might meet, even if only for a social.

The practical reality is that, whilst I'd happily drive that distance to be with you once we've met, I've had such terrible experiences with people not turning up or turning out to be very different in real life that I really can't bring myself to drive massive distances for a first meet. So I wait... for fate to take me your way on business or you mine

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!

I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with.

Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company?? "

Indeed I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!

I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with.

Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company??

Indeed I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened on and off here....

But yesterday has gone....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's happened on and off here....

But yesterday has gone...."

True .... I can relate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x

Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm....there’s been one person who I would class as this

We met via the forums, he was a popular lad and I think it went to his head a little and all out drama ensued, you can imagine what followed!

Went on a social, had a great time and would have liked more but the timing was never right & then the above kicked in.

Shame ‘cos he was bloody hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmmm....there’s been one person who I would class as this

We met via the forums, he was a popular lad and I think it went to his head a little and all out drama ensued, you can imagine what followed!

Went on a social, had a great time and would have liked more but the timing was never right & then the above kicked in.

Shame ‘cos he was bloody hot

Ah a ‘popular ‘ one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x

Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask

Might be, just waiting for the right moment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x

Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask

Might be, just waiting for the right moment x "

Don’t wait too long

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I’ve had a couple of people that when I went unlos I wondered if we would still meet... but so far since I’ve been back it’s looking good!!

Sometimes it’s worth the wait and working around circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had a couple of people that when I went unlos I wondered if we would still meet... but so far since I’ve been back it’s looking good!!

Sometimes it’s worth the wait and working around circumstances.

Definitely.... time waits for no man they say

However , we’re women

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You can only ask. The worst they can say is “your not for me”. Who dared wins lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can only ask. The worst they can say is “your not for me”. Who dared wins lol. "

You’re not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.

I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.

But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.

I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.

But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment."

If I had a flag - I’d bloody wave it

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.

I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.

But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment."

^^^^totally agree with this... even when things happen that hurt us... over time you look back and take the good things.. learn to smile about them and move on... sometimes people i think people are only meant to enter our lives for a little while... life is way to short and you need to grab every opportunity you can!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry ladies - I'm still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been one guy from here I regret never meeting. We got chatting at a time when I was struggling, so I kept putting him off. And now he has left and I do think about him lots because we messaged each other regularly on here.

Ah well. If it’s meant to be and all that.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Don't worry ladies - I'm still here.

We're so blessed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years

During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘

We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please

Am I alone ??

No I’ve been there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't worry ladies - I'm still here.

Thank Jesus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years

During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘

We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please

Am I alone ??

No I’ve been there

Don’t be sad ... you’re stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril "
totally agree about geography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.

Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!

I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen. "

Did she turn out to be a lizard and you had only been mesmerised by her tongue?

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over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril totally agree about geography "

It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen

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over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril totally agree about geography

It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen "
my motto at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.

Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle

Geography is a peril totally agree about geography

It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen my motto at the moment "

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over a year ago

"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.

I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.

But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment.

well said

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Men/women will come and go, some will stay a while or for just a passing moment, live for that time and once it's gone let it go.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Ever consider that maybe they had a different perspective on it - maybe they might have viewed it as a lucky escape ...just saying like

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