FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Do you like you ?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you had to name one feature physically and one mentally that you see as your best attribute what would it be? Mine would be my eyes, and my ability to empathise with others without judging.

Yet that’s my view point and not any one person will view you as you see yourself, scary really considering that every person you know has a different concept of you so basically nobody consistently views you as the person that you think you portray.

Deep I know. Thoughts??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes and I'm a good listener

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyes and I'm a good listener "

Do you think others agree?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are times when I can see I am liked, so I like my self.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making people laugh and putting them at ease within minutes of meeting me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Judging by the feedback I get from others, my eyebrows and my sense of humour.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tall and I keep to myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eyes and I'm a good listener

Do you think others agree? "

Yes both are comments made by others

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My eyes..or maybe my smile.

I'm quite sympathetic towards others x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

My legs - not too fat not too thin, fairly toned.

My sense of fun/humour.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots. "

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Making people laugh and putting them at ease within minutes of meeting me"

True

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Judging by the feedback I get from others, my eyebrows and my sense of humour."

Always a great thing to have good eyebrows , in Liverpool it’s a big thing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Yes there are times when I can see I am liked, so I like my self."

You should like yourself regardless!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"Judging by the feedback I get from others, my eyebrows and my sense of humour.

Always a great thing to have good eyebrows , in Liverpool it’s a big thing "

I think I might have to make my way up to Liverpool. Wait until they get a load of these badboys lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier

I like my boobs and I am a calm person

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strong jaw line, broad shoulders, good teeth and smile....well until my late 30s. I do get lots of compliments for being handsome by gay men. Love the compliments.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My bum is my best physical feature and I don't appear to be alone in thinking that.

Personality wise I like to think I'm considerate of others and would hope others agree for the most part, although am sure that there are times that I'm not.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eyes..or maybe my smile.

I'm quite sympathetic towards others x"

Nailed it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

My smile and I'm calm under pressure.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my boobs and I am a calm person "

Oh yes very nice photos

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my smile i would say

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x"

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably my eyes and I don't like letting people down if that counts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My loyalty, I accept it maybe be difficult to overcome my self-defensive nature to get it but it's unshakable once it has been.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently i have an intense stare too when im focused

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I've had a few recent knocks to my confidence, but am fighting back.

I'd encourage people get to know my humour and the fact I can appear quite stand-offish at first before settling in.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a few recent knocks to my confidence, but am fighting back.

I'd encourage people get to know my humour and the fact I can appear quite stand-offish at first before settling in."

It can be hard can’t it as I’m the same I’m very standoffish at first and this I’ve learnt can be interpreted as im up my own arse! When I’m far from that. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Ear wax and and telepathic dropped calls

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Yes I like me. Do you like me?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes and my kindness. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible."

Yes this is totally what I was trying to say. Apparently not any two people will view you as a person as what you do yourself if you get me. Nobody actually knows who you really are x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Apparently i have an intense stare too when im focused"

You forgot the glint...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"I've had a few recent knocks to my confidence, but am fighting back.

I'd encourage people get to know my humour and the fact I can appear quite stand-offish at first before settling in.

It can be hard can’t it as I’m the same I’m very standoffish at first and this I’ve learnt can be interpreted as im up my own arse! When I’m far from that. X"

Yeah, I'm very confident in my field and with what I know, but can be that one that would go out at night in a group and only chat to a couple of people. I'm probably better in quieter settings. Hopefully people would find out that I'm not up my own arse - I can relate to what you said Lisa

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally understand what you’re getting at, OP.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me "

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally understand what you’re getting at, OP.

"

I knew you would ! Your good at this stuff. I can’t explain, but knew you would get it x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes

Mine would be my tattoos and the way I always say something when I see/hear something I disagree with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eleytMan
over a year ago

holywood.

the person is the main thing.some look outside.never wait to see the inside.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine would be my tattoos and the way I always say something when I see/hear something I disagree with "

Your tattoos aren’t naturally a physical feature! Think again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phisically im just me nothing remarkable but im happy enough

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the person is the main thing.some look outside.never wait to see the inside."

Yes I agree but if you read through the thread I’m trying to get a view point on an article I read on nobody knows who you really are! Not one person will view you as you view yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or maybe my backside though I've no idea why

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe my backside though I've no idea why "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

In a way OP I'm on a similar journey. I always liked myself and my company up until the past 2 years and got to a stage where I wasn't looking after myself properly and realised I was in a spiral.

Forgive me for talking this through. I never considered myself to be unwell or having anxiety in certain situations or depression, but I snapped away from it, went seeing my doctor about six weeks ago, quit the job that was contributing and have made some real positive changes.

It's made me realise that I've not really liked me for a time and now that's starting to change, the sparkle is returning and I'm wanting to reflect.

Apologies for a deep response. Now I want to help myself and others too. Maybe it has given some new impetus.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eleytMan
over a year ago

holywood.


"the person is the main thing.some look outside.never wait to see the inside."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

My ass and intuition

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, I don't know about my best physical feature. Mentally, my emotional intelligence.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes


"Mine would be my tattoos and the way I always say something when I see/hear something I disagree with

Your tattoos aren’t naturally a physical feature! Think again. "

Aha okay then, would be my eyes as they are a really bright blue, when I wear my contacts no-one ever believes they are a natural colour

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hmmm, I don't know about my best physical feature. Mentally, my emotional intelligence."

I'd say that butt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately "

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a way OP I'm on a similar journey. I always liked myself and my company up until the past 2 years and got to a stage where I wasn't looking after myself properly and realised I was in a spiral.

Forgive me for talking this through. I never considered myself to be unwell or having anxiety in certain situations or depression, but I snapped away from it, went seeing my doctor about six weeks ago, quit the job that was contributing and have made some real positive changes.

It's made me realise that I've not really liked me for a time and now that's starting to change, the sparkle is returning and I'm wanting to reflect.

Apologies for a deep response. Now I want to help myself and others too. Maybe it has given some new impetus. "

Hey don’t apologise ! I had a trigger moment a couple of years ago, (pm me if you want) and I struggled very much with who I was , I actually reached out and got help x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

"

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My feet are nice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine would be my tattoos and the way I always say something when I see/hear something I disagree with

Your tattoos aren’t naturally a physical feature! Think again.

Aha okay then, would be my eyes as they are a really bright blue, when I wear my contacts no-one ever believes they are a natural colour "

See that’s better!! You have lovely eyes. What about inside ? X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x"

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm, I don't know about my best physical feature. Mentally, my emotional intelligence."

Your cock?? Joking aside!! You do seem to have a very empathetic and infectious persona , you seem cool x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible.

Yes this is totally what I was trying to say. Apparently not any two people will view you as a person as what you do yourself if you get me. Nobody actually knows who you really are x"

True. I think we're different with different people anyway, we react to their personality. I've been working with a woman recently who is loud, interrupts and interferes. I barely communicate with her because it's impossible, I doubt if she thinks I'm friendly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense"

I’m trying to install this in my 11 yo daughter but it’s bloody hard!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/07/18 00:33:44]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/07/18 00:35:04]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense

I’m trying to install this in my 11 yo daughter but it’s bloody hard!! "

There's a lot of outside pressure on kids. Keep instilling, it might be tough in the teenage years but it will get through eventually.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible.

Yes this is totally what I was trying to say. Apparently not any two people will view you as a person as what you do yourself if you get me. Nobody actually knows who you really are x

True. I think we're different with different people anyway, we react to their personality. I've been working with a woman recently who is loud, interrupts and interferes. I barely communicate with her because it's impossible, I doubt if she thinks I'm friendly "

I distance myself from loud attention seeking people now. They give off too much negative energy x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes


"Mine would be my tattoos and the way I always say something when I see/hear something I disagree with

Your tattoos aren’t naturally a physical feature! Think again.

Aha okay then, would be my eyes as they are a really bright blue, when I wear my contacts no-one ever believes they are a natural colour

See that’s better!! You have lovely eyes. What about inside ? X"

Aha thanks, inside would be that I have a strong moral compass, always stand up when I see/hear something i disagree with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible.

Yes this is totally what I was trying to say. Apparently not any two people will view you as a person as what you do yourself if you get me. Nobody actually knows who you really are x

True. I think we're different with different people anyway, we react to their personality. I've been working with a woman recently who is loud, interrupts and interferes. I barely communicate with her because it's impossible, I doubt if she thinks I'm friendly

I distance myself from loud attention seeking people now. They give off too much negative energy x"

Yeah. I try to, otherwise I put a shield up to stop them getting through.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense

I’m trying to install this in my 11 yo daughter but it’s bloody hard!!

There's a lot of outside pressure on kids. Keep instilling, it might be tough in the teenage years but it will get through eventually."

I hope so. Peer pressure is awful. I want her to embrace herself and not worry about anything or anyone else x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hair.

I'm friendly.

No idea if other people see me that way. I suspect some do and others think I'm a stuck up bossy boots.

See I’m like that I’m very bossy and I probably come across as self assured when I fact I’m not , in work I may be but personally I’m not x

Personally I don't think we have too much control over what people think of us, therefore I don't really bother about it. I like myself mostly and the people I like and love seem to like me too.

I watch people tying themselves in knots stressing over what others think of them and trying to be universally liked. It's not possible.

Yes this is totally what I was trying to say. Apparently not any two people will view you as a person as what you do yourself if you get me. Nobody actually knows who you really are x

True. I think we're different with different people anyway, we react to their personality. I've been working with a woman recently who is loud, interrupts and interferes. I barely communicate with her because it's impossible, I doubt if she thinks I'm friendly

I distance myself from loud attention seeking people now. They give off too much negative energy x

Yeah. I try to, otherwise I put a shield up to stop them getting through. "

Yes I’m the same! Reiki healing has helped for me. But majoritily it’s growing into myself x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Do I like myself ?

Yes , because there’s no way you can expect anyone else to like you if you don’t like yourself is there ?

I don’t have any features that get complimented much , but my ability to make people feel comfortable and my sense of humour get spoken of by most who we’ve met .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

My eyes & and be able to trust again

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense

I’m trying to install this in my 11 yo daughter but it’s bloody hard!!

There's a lot of outside pressure on kids. Keep instilling, it might be tough in the teenage years but it will get through eventually.

I hope so. Peer pressure is awful. I want her to embrace herself and not worry about anything or anyone else x"

I understand completely, we wanted the same for our daughter. Teenage years are often a time of insecurity and questioning, we despaired sometimes but kept reinforcing that she was gorgeous, well liked etc. I think it's rare that young people genuinely don't care what others think, that comes with age. I'm sure you're laying the right groundwork.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, I don't know about my best physical feature. Mentally, my emotional intelligence.

Your cock?? Joking aside!! You do seem to have a very empathetic and infectious persona , you seem cool x"

Thank you. You're not too bad yourself. x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately

Noooooo I know it's tough but fuck what others think. It's you who has to live with yourself day in day out. No point trying to live up to someone else's expectations. And if others don't like it, perhaps they should have a long hard look at themselves. Those folk are frequently the most insecure and miserable. So let them stew in their misey and you do you

I totally agree with you. Thank you x

Welcome

We should be teaching kids self confidence from a young age. Reckon we'd all be a little bit more sane and focus on worthwhile stuff rather than fretting over stuff and nonsense

I’m trying to install this in my 11 yo daughter but it’s bloody hard!!

There's a lot of outside pressure on kids. Keep instilling, it might be tough in the teenage years but it will get through eventually.

I hope so. Peer pressure is awful. I want her to embrace herself and not worry about anything or anyone else x

I understand completely, we wanted the same for our daughter. Teenage years are often a time of insecurity and questioning, we despaired sometimes but kept reinforcing that she was gorgeous, well liked etc. I think it's rare that young people genuinely don't care what others think, that comes with age. I'm sure you're laying the right groundwork. "

I hate the mainstream media, they have a lot to answer for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes and my kindness

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

My dimples and I like the fact I care a lot.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyes and my kindness "

Lots of people saying eyes. Well they are the windows to the soul. (So they say) x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyes and my kindness "

And you have great legs! X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes, they're different colours so always a talking point lol and I like to think I'm compassionate.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyes, they're different colours so always a talking point lol and I like to think I'm compassionate..... "

Are they very noticeable? My ex’s daughter had one brown one blue and they were very vivid but as she grew older the blue one softened slightly. Very rare x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

"

I’ve learnt over years to listen more. It’s a good attribute x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

I’ve learnt over years to listen more. It’s a good attribute x"

It is, I've also learnt the hard way to listen better x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently i am quite good at putting others at ease..

And i quite like all of me..

No hang ups about anything tbh

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

I’ve learnt over years to listen more. It’s a good attribute x

It is, I've also learnt the hard way to listen better x"

Makes you a better person I think when you can take on negative comments but turn them into a positive about yourself x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

I’ve learnt over years to listen more. It’s a good attribute x

It is, I've also learnt the hard way to listen better x

Makes you a better person I think when you can take on negative comments but turn them into a positive about yourself x"

Totally agree with you. It's been a long process but I'm a better person for it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say my best physical feature is my legs. But other's seem to like my bottom.

I'm a good listener too

I’ve learnt over years to listen more. It’s a good attribute x

It is, I've also learnt the hard way to listen better x

Makes you a better person I think when you can take on negative comments but turn them into a positive about yourself x

Totally agree with you. It's been a long process but I'm a better person for it "

Good for you. It took me a long time to sit and process the same (and therapy) x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes physically

Mentally ... I am genuinely nice and easy to get in with ...and others often say this too.

I like "me" most of the time, yeah

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm alright, I've enough good features that I like a lot. I have good insight to many types of things and people and I love my cheeky smile. I think others agree generally.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *es AmisCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I like my boobs and I am a calm person "

We have to agree re: the boobage x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bright blue eyes probably and a very calm natured person regardless of the situation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My smile and sense of mischief.

Do I care what others think? Hell to the no! If I did, I'd be off down the gym everyday, getting my tits lifted and trying to behave like someone I'm not. Had a few critics in my time but sod it, I like me

I like your attitude. I’m starting to learn to love myself after years of conditioning that I should be this I should be that. It’s been a hard journey from my mind to body to love myself if you get me, I’ve always been me at a size 8 and a size 14+ yet outwardly not people see that unfortunately "

Some people will prefer you as size 8 and some will prefer you as 14+. And some will like you at all the sizes.

Great thread OP.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you OP for running a very interesting topic and staying throughout to engage with folk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My arse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm alright, I've enough good features that I like a lot. I have good insight to many types of things and people and I love my cheeky smile. I think others agree generally."

I like your knowledge! I’ve read many a topics and think you make a lot of sense ! X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My eyes physically

Mentally ... I am genuinely nice and easy to get in with ...and others often say this too.

I like "me" most of the time, yeah "

Another one for the eyes . It’s nice to be nice and generally just treat others as you’d like to be treated x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My arse "

And what a bum it is, high five

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thighs.

I'm very easygoing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

My eyes .... and hopefully my nature...it’s not easy to compliment oneself... but I like to think I’m kind and caring but also lots of fun!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyebrows.

I’ve been told i appear aloof, i can see how i’d appear that way, however it’s due to my shyness because i always wait to be spoken to before i speak to anyone when in a social situation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my legs and I'm a very caring person.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thighs.

I'm very easygoing "

Hell yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My eyes .... and hopefully my nature...it’s not easy to compliment oneself... but I like to think I’m kind and caring but also lots of fun! "

You’ve lovely eyes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little finger on my right hand

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier


"I like my boobs and I am a calm person

We have to agree re: the boobage x"

Thank you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I'm easy going & like people, the nicer the better - Fi xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a splendid listener and quite a decent chap

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky smile and patience

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

My lottery win and my love of champagne

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My left knee has it's admirers #youknowwhoyouare xQ

And I suppose my adaptability is a trait I see as a strong point in me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a nice elbow.. Just the one

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

My eyes as I have a few different colours in them( mr2 would say my ass ) I like to help people with nothing in return

Mrs 2

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thighs and my stubbornness.

Although being stubborn might not sound like a great feature at first, it does go perfectly with achieving the goals you set yourself in life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my smile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Genuinely can't think of something physical which is a bit of an eye opener but id like to think I have a good sense of humour.

Donna x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my upper back and love how passionate I can be when I talk about movies

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x"

Or your bum

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x

Or your bum "

Lol. My bum hidden away, most of the time x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x

Or your bum

Lol. My bum hidden away, most of the time x"

Not for long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x

Or your bum

Lol. My bum hidden away, most of the time x

Not for long "

You want to unwrap it? x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I like my openmindedness and the colour of my skin (thanks to my Jamaican dad, thanks dad x)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I like my openmindedness and the colour of my skin (thanks to my Jamaican dad, thanks dad x)"

And your sexiness xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

My soul and my eyes, which are a window to it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a very patient person and I think my hair is my best feature x

Or your bum

Lol. My bum hidden away, most of the time x

Not for long

You want to unwrap it? x"

We need more pics of the unwrapping

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my face as a whole.

I think it’s a friendly one! To pick one thing I’d say my eyes they’re really dark, almost black & the whites of my eyes are really bright so they stand out! I always get compliments on them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my face as a whole.

I think it’s a friendly one! To pick one thing I’d say my eyes they’re really dark, almost black & the whites of my eyes are really bright so they stand out! I always get compliments on them. "

I wanted to compliment the way your fanny is shapped but your eyes are nice too tbf

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my face as a whole.

I think it’s a friendly one! To pick one thing I’d say my eyes they’re really dark, almost black & the whites of my eyes are really bright so they stand out! I always get compliments on them. "

Your face is not a hole lol

It has a nice one above ur chin tho

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my face as a whole.

I think it’s a friendly one! To pick one thing I’d say my eyes they’re really dark, almost black & the whites of my eyes are really bright so they stand out! I always get compliments on them.

I wanted to compliment the way your fanny is shapped but your eyes are nice too tbf "

Hahahahaha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my face as a whole.

I think it’s a friendly one! To pick one thing I’d say my eyes they’re really dark, almost black & the whites of my eyes are really bright so they stand out! I always get compliments on them.

Your face is not a hole lol

It has a nice one above ur chin tho "

LOL! Why thank you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you had to name one feature physically and one mentally that you see as your best attribute what would it be? Mine would be my eyes, and my ability to empathise with others without judging.

Yet that’s my view point and not any one person will view you as you see yourself, scary really considering that every person you know has a different concept of you so basically nobody consistently views you as the person that you think you portray.

Deep I know. Thoughts??"
My legs my smile and my flirty happy personality, you can't really tell these things until you meet really so enough said

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top