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By *ubble Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheppey

Social first..... I know this site is about the naughty side of life and living out certain fantasies but I think a nice social is just as important.

I believe that if you meet up first albeit for a coffee, drink or a nice meal then it’s a great way to break the ice and see if you click.

It maybe that you do connect but don’t move onto the next stage until a further meet or you may feel that comfortable, that you know what, let’s do this.

What do you think??

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I prefer no social, or at the very least a social with the assumption that if all is well it goes further that night. I don't have enough time to meet as often as I'd like never mind factoring in socials as well. I just do my homework beforehand and that's worked well for me so far. Having said that if someone I really like insists, I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

And sometimes people want to just meet and fuck.

I think we are lucky this place caters for both and everything in between!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Totally agree

Would never meet without one ,love the flirting and getting to know someone.

If someone won't meet me for a drink publicly, they done get any of the sexy stuff lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good social, you get to feel comfortable with someone before you go any further. It's each to their own, but I love a good flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social first if meeting someone new, however if I get along with who I meet for a social I don’t see any reason why it cannot continue to sex on that meet.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I like a social but usually end up in the friend zone after it. I can't seem to do sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first for us. We don't mind waiting if we clicked and it takes a while to arrange the following meet.

It eliminates the possibility of awkwardness to turn someone down or being turned down ourselves if it's anything else than social arranged and you realize you don't fancy each other upon seeing each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like 1 2 1 socials they jave been funny as fuck so far

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

By the time I get to a meet I am 99% certain that it will get physical. I take my time and make sure there is a connection first.

Club meets are obviously different

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"By the time I get to a meet I am 99% certain that it will get physical. I take my time and make sure there is a connection first.

Club meets are obviously different "

I prefer a club meet, without commitment or expectation, as you can have a social there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Up to the individual.

We always meet socially first, that's entirely down to me, Mr N is happy either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like 1 2 1 socials they jave been funny as fuck so far"

You'll meet me, then I'll spoil your good run of funny as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like 1 2 1 socials they jave been funny as fuck so far

You'll meet me, then I'll spoil your good run of funny as fuck "

Lol will i heck ur a guaranteed laugh ya sausage

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

It’s got to be a social meet first for us then arrange another meet.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like to meet for a drink first with the mutual hope that it will lead to more. I’ve usua got to know someone enough before I meet to have a pretty good idea that we will click.

I have also met directly for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had socials and met for sex..

Because of my circumstances its often easier to do the social first, that way i will know if its worth the effort of a sex meet after..

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always have a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always have a social first "

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By *ubble Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheppey


"I always have a social first "

you have said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not currently meeting, but when I do I Always have a social first. Even if it doesn’t go further you’ve had a coffee or meal with someone new.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Agree entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm active then no I don't want a social. I tend to not even know names but then when I'm actively playing I don't play 121.

I do meet and chat to people at clubs I am already attending.

And am actually quite sociable but just don't do pre meet socials

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always have a social first

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Better to be safe than sorry

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always have a social first

you have said x"

Always have, always will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the beginning I always used to insist on a social 1st or I wouldnt meet.

Soon found that way wasn’t particularly practical as the majority of men I fancied were not local to me.

What I tend to do now is combine the two together with the understanding that no one has to progress any further if the attraction isn’t there or mutual.

So far so good...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It says on ma profile what I think, if any fecker has the inclination to read it

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By *itania70Woman
over a year ago

Denton

I wouldn’t say no to social before play but as I meet a lot of guys half my age or younger very few are comfortable being seen socialising with someone old enough to be their mum.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Usually have a social first. Sometimes the socials don’t last long before sex.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Always social first...... it goes like this ..

Hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first always...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve rarely had socials, when I met it was for sex, if we socialised through the meet then great but it wasn’t the main reason I met them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I meet at home. I therefore prefer to see how potential meets act with me in public and ascertain whether there's any sexual chemistry. I've dodged many a bullet having a social first!

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