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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" Yes but only on the proviso that they are a sensible child,get lessons and I teach them how to survive on the roads on a bike. It's dangerous for us bikers but the freedom is worth it. | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" Already been asked said no he bought one anyway and had it taken by police a week later | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" It was my idea. Cal | |||
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"Nope. We bought our son an old fiesta when he passed his test, but he has no interest in bikes, luckily. If he wants to buy one himself at a later date, his choice, but I wouldn't be happy about it and I wouldn't help him financially. Ford fiesta " Clown | |||
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"My parents could not stop me, but they did insist I went on an RAC ACU training course which made me a pretty safe driver. Well, mostly.... " Exactly this ... | |||
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"At sixteen, you can start riding a motorbike. This gives you the freedom to transport yourself about to places, and a head-start on learning road sense. I truly believe that being on two wheels in real traffic, especially whilst you're learning, gives you a much more cautious view on road use. I taught him to assume that everyone else on the road is actively trying to knock him off... hence it's his responsibility to react to potential situations. Eight years down the line, he has had a few bike, and a couple of cars but not been in any accidents. He passed both tests with no issues and is general a sensible road user. Cal" So so true. And op are we talking 16 to 19 and a legal bike | |||
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"I'll expand on my nope, I couldn't in good conscience be the facilitator in providing a bike which has an incredibly high risk of injury or death. At least in a car you are protected by airbags and the chassis, so I'd try to steer them in that direction. " | |||
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"I'll expand on my nope, I couldn't in good conscience be the facilitator in providing a bike which has an incredibly high risk of injury or death. At least in a car you are protected by airbags and the chassis, so I'd try to steer them in that direction. " Unfortunately not always the case either | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" Not a chance! Almost every guy I know who rides a motorcycle has had at least one fairly or very serious injury - and all of them know people who’ve been killed on motorbikes! Even a metal cage (car) doesn’t provide total safety - but it provides a hell of a lot more than a bike! I’d do everything I could to persuade them to opt for a car instead! X | |||
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"I'll expand on my nope, I couldn't in good conscience be the facilitator in providing a bike which has an incredibly high risk of injury or death. At least in a car you are protected by airbags and the chassis, so I'd try to steer them in that direction. Unfortunately not always the case either " Well no, but statistically your more likely to survive a collision at 70mph in a car than a bike. | |||
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"I'll expand on my nope, I couldn't in good conscience be the facilitator in providing a bike which has an incredibly high risk of injury or death. At least in a car you are protected by airbags and the chassis, so I'd try to steer them in that direction. Unfortunately not always the case either Well no, but statistically your more likely to survive a collision at 70mph in a car than a bike." Not always, that’s how my brother died was a head on crash and he wasn’t speeding. | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids " That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" Mine has. I’m just hoping she fails the cbt. I’ve lost more friends in cars than motorbikes over the years. So long as they have all the gear an good advice. I’d say yes. As the minute you say no, they stop listening | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? " I started riding in the 70's and looking back there were lots less vehicles on the road and a lot less potential for an accident. | |||
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"At sixteen, you can start riding a motorbike. This gives you the freedom to transport yourself about to places, and a head-start on learning road sense. I truly believe that being on two wheels in real traffic, especially whilst you're learning, gives you a much more cautious view on road use. I taught him to assume that everyone else on the road is actively trying to knock him off... hence it's his responsibility to react to potential situations. Eight years down the line, he has had a few bike, and a couple of cars but not been in any accidents. He passed both tests with no issues and is general a sensible road user. Cal So so true. And op are we talking 16 to 19 and a legal bike " Yep in answer to both. | |||
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" Cal So so true. And op are we talking 16 to 19 and a legal bike Yep in answer to both." if I had the money too help then yes. As long as they also brought all the gear. | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? I started riding in the 70's and looking back there were lots less vehicles on the road and a lot less potential for an accident. " And is it because you'd miss the adrenaline from it if you stopped now? Or just it's your preferred way to travel ? | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ? Yes but only on the proviso that they are a sensible child,get lessons and I teach them how to survive on the roads on a bike. It's dangerous for us bikers but the freedom is worth it." | |||
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"I’m 21, how do I have a teenage child?!" You can borrow mine | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" A hell of a lot depends on the person. Why does she want the bike ? | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ? A hell of a lot depends on the person. Why does she want the bike ?" She's seen a friend of hers with a bike, she still has to use public transport or get a lift from place to place. She'd like to be able to go places without the 'hassle'. .. | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ? A hell of a lot depends on the person. Why does she want the bike ? She's seen a friend of hers with a bike, she still has to use public transport or get a lift from place to place. She'd like to be able to go places without the 'hassle'. .." Independence, the most dangerous thing a teenager can ask for but the one thing we *have* to give them. I really wish that it was a requirement to take a minimum number of lessons similar to driving lessons. The CBT test is useful but hardly exhaustive. | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ? A hell of a lot depends on the person. Why does she want the bike ? She's seen a friend of hers with a bike, she still has to use public transport or get a lift from place to place. She'd like to be able to go places without the 'hassle'. .." Then yes. If she has the ability to upkeep it. I'd have a say on which was safest etc. And she's have to pass test and advanced tests and i'd make her have all the practise under the sun And there's be a proviso that if she didn't use it id sell it and recoup my money. It's a very good life skill and can lead to delivery jobs such as ..... blood and organ doners......messages.... pizza etc Every skill is an opener | |||
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"That's nothing. Parents in America buy their kids a gun! " This is very true. I don't know how the figures for gun death and injury compare. | |||
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"No, ‘cos my son would be an irresponsible twat with it. My daughter on the other hand, possibly, but I’d steer towards a car. " I think you've hit the nail on the head, teenage boys are risk takers. | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" Definitely not no if buts or maybe. | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? I started riding in the 70's and looking back there were lots less vehicles on the road and a lot less potential for an accident. And is it because you'd miss the adrenaline from it if you stopped now? Or just it's your preferred way to travel ? " I love the freedom and the adrenaline that a high powered bike gives me plus the fact I read the road ahead, not had a crash in 30 years now, | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids " if they really want to do it let them buy it themselves. | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? I started riding in the 70's and looking back there were lots less vehicles on the road and a lot less potential for an accident. And is it because you'd miss the adrenaline from it if you stopped now? Or just it's your preferred way to travel ? I love the freedom and the adrenaline that a high powered bike gives me plus the fact I read the road ahead, not had a crash in 30 years now, " That last line is the kiss of death | |||
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"My nephew is now 21 and got his first bike last year. His parents neither encouraged or discouraged him, they allowed him to make his own decisions. You can't wrap them up in cotton wool or live their life for them. All you can do is make sure they are fully aware of the risks and make sure that they do things as safely as possible. My nephew has bought the best safety equipment he can afford and is upgrading everything to higher spec. He is mature and intelligent enough to understand that his kit is the only protection between him and the road surface and is doing it properly. " I think there's a big difference between saving up and buying a bike and getting some one to buy it for you | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" no. It doesn't matter how good a bike rider you are. It only takes one idiot in car, van, or lorry to hit you and your life is over. | |||
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" I have been a biker all my adult life, way back in the 70's broke my back in a crash, I was lucky I wasn't paralysed, it didn't put me off! there is no way I would help buy a bike for my kids That's really interesting, how come you don't apply the same caution to yourself ? I started riding in the 70's and looking back there were lots less vehicles on the road and a lot less potential for an accident. " And the bikes were a lot slower (thank goodness)!! Nothing could have stopped me at the time but I knew of people who lost limbs and lost their lives so I would try to dissuade any child of mine. | |||
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"I can't remember the last time I went out on mine and some cunt didn't try and kill me. " Yes, the RACACU taught me to drive defensively, and safely (in terms of gear). I see kids driving too fast without even gloves or jackets on, bare arms, and it chills my blood. | |||
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"I honestly think that riding a motorbike (sensibly) on the roads gives you a much better road sense and awareness of surroundings, other road users and vulnerability, which are good when you start driving a car." Deserves a medal! There’s too many oblivious people in there metal boxes | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ?" As long as its not a gsxr then yes | |||
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"Daughter (or son) asked you to help them buy a motorbike would you ? As long as its not a gsxr then yes" Zx636r will do the trick | |||
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"Good question OP. We all bring our own baggage to this, so for me, probably not. I’ve lost one close relative to low speed, unprotected vehicle crashes, that’s enough." ur ass is massive | |||
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"Good question OP. We all bring our own baggage to this, so for me, probably not. I’ve lost one close relative to low speed, unprotected vehicle crashes, that’s enough.ur ass is massive" Time and place! | |||
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