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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed a lot of people looking for specific physical traits in their meets, BBC, red hair, larger ladies etc.

Obviously physical attraction is important but if someone approached you because of something specific like that would you be interested or feel like you were just ticking a box for them?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Don't think I have any physical trait that be anyone's "thing".

But if I did then I would be happy to help them experience one of their desires.

I mean we all have our list of "things" that we are looking for don't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it was a box ticking thing for them ..

Like when they say I've always wanted to meet a tall woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed a lot of people looking for specific physical traits in their meets, BBC, red hair, larger ladies etc.

Obviously physical attraction is important but if someone approached you because of something specific like that would you be interested or feel like you were just ticking a box for them?"
look a pierced belly button and I'm yours forget chemistry biology and physics

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

A lot of people message me because they like the alternative look but don't want to meet.

When i message people it is based on height initially if no face pics then chat and see where it goes. Invariably nowhere haha

I look for a good physique and tall however they aren't the only factors just initial search requirements

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Definitely box ticking....like when someone says they want to meet older women or use terms like milf.....avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely box ticking....like when someone says they want to meet older women or use terms like milf.....avoid."
I just want to meet anyone called flik it's not a common name though

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I want to meet a northern lady with blue lips

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Definitely box ticking....like when someone says they want to meet older women or use terms like milf.....avoid.I just want to meet anyone called flik it's not a common name though "

That's a definite kink right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely box ticking....like when someone says they want to meet older women or use terms like milf.....avoid.I just want to meet anyone called flik it's not a common name though

That's a definite kink right there "
omg I'm kinky am I on wrong site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have any of the usual things people actively look for. If their profile states looking for something specific it also makes me question why they've mailed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any of the usual things people actively look for. If their profile states looking for something specific it also makes me question why they've mailed me "
It's the legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to meet because I want sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to meet because I want sex xx"
omg you're insatiable

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't have any attributes I'm aware of that would be a specific "thing" for someone but if someone were to contact me because they'd found one I'd treat them like anyone else and gauge if there were a connection and chemistry by getting to know them - if it became obvious that that "thing" was the only reason for their interest then it probably wouldn't be for me.

Likewise when I contact people it's because I'm attracted to them as a whole not because of any specific overriding thing - yes it may be part of it but I certainly wouldn't make a big deal of it.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

There’s no way I’m gonna be a tick in someone’s box or a personal fetish dispenser.

And the amount of messages we get to our profile from blokes commenting on “mature woman”. Fuck off! That one boils my piss straight away,

Or because of my red hair.

Not forgetting the fact it is actually a couples profile it does state please be respectful of that.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.3% of the time I'm 'just a tick box'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll happily be someone's tick box if they ask me the right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just want to meet or message people who can make me laugh generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren’t we all just someone’s tick a box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as there is a spark and we have good chat and banter before a meet, I don't care how many boxes may or may not have been ticked cos I'm damn sure that subconsciously I do exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren’t we all just someone’s tick a box? "

I don't think I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Specifically speaking (without actually saying what it is) there is something i enjoy doing with others who enjoy doung it too but i don't entertain those who have never tried it and are just looking to tick that box..

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Aren’t we all just someone’s tick a box? "

I’m way more than a sum of my parts, and anyone who can’t see that, isn’t gonna get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Specifically speaking (without actually saying what it is) there is something i enjoy doing with others who enjoy doung it too but i don't entertain those who have never tried it and are just looking to tick that box.. "

The cryptic crosswords?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ticking a box and once it is done they will move onto the next new boxe.

Having said that, who am Ito complain abt someonewho want to blow my cheesy bell end ? No one. So I just go with the flow and just accept my destiny to be just a boxe (with a beautiful penis)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Specifically speaking (without actually saying what it is) there is something i enjoy doing with others who enjoy doung it too but i don't entertain those who have never tried it and are just looking to tick that box..

The cryptic crosswords?"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My box has sexy fun written on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like it when young lads want me to be their tick box for a mature BBW. But I’m sure that I’m meeting somebody’s tick box as they are mine x

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Surely if we list preferences on our profiles, we are ticking boxes (subconciously) each time we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it is 100% true that physical attraction is everything on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if we list preferences on our profiles, we are ticking boxes (subconciously) each time we meet?"
not always from my experienc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be that bothered. Everyone has a sort of checklist they go through with themselves whether they realise it or not.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Surely if we list preferences on our profiles, we are ticking boxes (subconciously) each time we meet? not always from my experienc "

So you list preferences then ignore them?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I assume that this swinging lark is a tick box exercise for most people who meet couples. It's not like they're looking for a one to one relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna meet people that interest me in many ways. I’ve never thought of that as being specific. Anyway OP I like meeting people with stripey socks too.

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