FabSwingers.com forum: Actual conversation

By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew who with, but they all turned me down....

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I knew who with, but they all turned me down....

oh well that's shit. Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love conversation, thrive off it. Absolutely couldn't live without it, it's part of why I love meeting new people.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Occasionally, but not often when I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple I would love to hold an actual conversation with

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely, i'd much prefer chatting face to face or even on the phone. You miss out on so much expression with text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, sometimes just being able to have a proper conversation can make a dull day better x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

What on earth is this 'real life' you speak of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that? "

Yes all the time.

It's a curse living alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew who with, but they all turned me down....

Know how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just talk to myself

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that?

Yes all the time.

The walls eventually talk back.

It's a curse living alone "

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that?

Yes all the time.

It's a curse living alone "

Sure is! My daughter's off to Cyprus for 2 weeks.... not sure what to do with myself so signed up for over time at work

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Why don't you have a mini break yourself around then Darlo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face to face or phone conversation helps ground me. Text goes all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to my sister.

Wee chatting over a bottle of JD tonight and 6alking so much crap.

it's efficacious and heart warming.

We decided to enrol in Itialian classes next term as we both want to go to Italy for a short break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face to face or phone conversation helps ground me. Text goes all over the place. "

I just realised that with my post. My phone doesn't always correct d*unk text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk with anyone

But im enjoying talking to 3 women at the minute 1 i talk to almost every day as she is my online best mate and personal headshrinker

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Why don't you have a mini break yourself around then Darlo?"

Cos I'll be working

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Definitely, i'd much prefer chatting face to face or even on the phone. You miss out on so much expression with text "

Aye i get bored of text and talking you can cover loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep! "
would love a proper chat with you

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Have loads of actual conversations at work.

I love some random text flirty banter for a change

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

It's good to talk

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A one to one conversation. No it will never catch on lol. Xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend all day talking at work. Its not small talk its all theraputic interventions.

The internet is light relief to me.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I spend all day talking at work. Its not small talk its all theraputic interventions.

The internet is light relief to me. "

I talk all day at work but its work talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I want to talk to real people I go and sit with my friend, who owns a clothes shop, for the morning or afternoon every couple of weeks

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I love talking to people... would always prefer to speak on the phone or face to face when possible!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I enjoy a good chat with a woman especially when it might lead somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just talk to myself"

Sometimes that's all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that what pubs were for?

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By *eneRoissyMan
over a year ago

Nailsworth

I sometimes find myself talking to Siri and Alexa but they are not great Conversationalists. Though it is fun enquiring into Siri's sex life or asking her to 'open the pod bay doors'

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Isnt that what pubs were for? "

No not really

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love to talk but when I start there is no stopping me, I can talk the hind legs off a donkey .......!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've a few people who can be relied upon 24/7 to chat with - it helps as a backstop from overworking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that? "

Yeah lol but every time I ask they say "I don't do talking on phone" grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone a week before in my adult life without talking to anyone. I could hardly get any words out when I finally had to.

I'm quite happy in silence.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I like to converse.

My dog isn't so forthcoming in replying.

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By *lbert_shlossedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that? "
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I find there's a whole world out there full of people wanting to talk about anything and everything, bus stops, filling stations, pubs, shops.

Most of the best conversations I've ever had are either random strangers or d*unks at a party in the kitchen

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that? .

I find there's a whole world out there full of people wanting to talk about anything and everything, bus stops, filling stations, pubs, shops.

Most of the best conversations I've ever had are either random strangers or d*unks at a party in the kitchen

Yeah i tend to avoid those who try telling me their life story while I'm trying to get my groceries

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm definitely a talker and can chat for ages about anything. I often talk on the phone with fab friends and usually not about sex but everyday mundane things. It also helps they love to hear my accent and voice so I banter away

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

People don't talk enough meaning is lost in texting

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I'm definitely a talker and can chat for ages about anything. I often talk on the phone with fab friends and usually not about sex but everyday mundane things. It also helps they love to hear my accent and voice so I banter away

I only heard your accent briefly and across about 100 decibels of music.... therefore cannot comment

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I only heard your accent briefly and across about 100 decibels of music.... therefore cannot comment "

We need to change that sometime

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I only heard your accent briefly and across about 100 decibels of music.... therefore cannot comment

We need to change that sometime

Haha you just want to hear my dulcet tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know when you want to speak... verbally speak not just click click on a keyboard or thumb a screen but a real live conversation but you have no idea who with?!?

Anyone else get like that? "
Yep at 3.39 am and could I find anyone......

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I only heard your accent briefly and across about 100 decibels of music.... therefore cannot comment

We need to change that sometime

Haha you just want to hear my dulcet tones

Not only

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I have actual conversation with my house rabbits as they speak more sense and can string together a proper sentence unlike alot of men of which i come into contact with on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have actual conversation with my house rabbits as they speak more sense and can string together a proper sentence unlike alot of men of which i come into contact with on here

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rabbits can't talk please put the whisky bottle down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to converse.

My dog isn't so forthcoming in replying."

She says everything she needs to with her eyes...

'It doesn't matter, I love you..' right through to 'what the holy fuck? but I still love you.'

Tell me I'm wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew who with, but they all turned me down....

oh well that's shit. Sorry to hear that "

No biggie. I just find it odd that people you get on well with through a keyboard are reluctant to meet in person for a real face to face conversation.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I always offer to talk on the phone after about 5 messages.

It’s far and away (in my opinion) the best way to feel as though you get to find out what makes people tick.

I simply cannot understand the reluctance of anyone genuine to doing so. The number of people who claim to be too shy, yet are prepared to fuck people after thousands of messages of mindless banality is astonishing.

So many profiles say that they want to ‘have a connection’ but decline the offer to find out whether they have one, in what is obviously, if nothing else, the most time-efficient manner.

5 mins of the real talk the OP mentions is worth months of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually had proper conversations with most of the people I want to in here

I'm known for talking a lot so just a keyboard will never be enough for me!!!

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