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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally a guy i can see once a week and go to swingers clubs or stay in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex occasionally. Mainly here for the forums

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkley

Friendship, hugs from lovely ladies, intellectual conversation... Maybe some sex as well

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Friendship ultimately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a wife obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to actually meet someone for a relationship but with swinging aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here to get sex out the way. Turns out I don't have the confidence to do that either. I have no idea why I'm still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend with benefits mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends who are like minded and regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Froendship and decent sex without the relationship ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure. Just to go with the flow and see what happens i guess.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nothing more than giggles and good sex

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By *ightLeeCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Totally agree with you

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? "

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An adventurous wing man for clubs and some 121, and a few regular friends, plus the occasional experiment and adventure.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Looking for a wife obviously "

One who can reverse?

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By *aranelloMan
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

That is exactly what I am looking for, shame I am a whopping 36 months too old


"I would love to actually meet someone for a relationship but with swinging aspects. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for a wife obviously

One who can reverse? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have a bit of a kid in a sweetshop mentality but iv been very lucky at the pick and mix so far the way im looking at this

Is to have a laugh and create laughs if i can create a few orgasms along the way thats a happy bonus

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The ultimate question..

I love the forums and having banter and chat... and I’m making some lovely friends with like minded people.

Part of me wants to date but the other doesn’t... so in the mean time I‘m Just seeing what happens and not planning anything...

One thing is for sure I hope to have some mind blowing sex with a few close people who I can build a connection with!!

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

To meet like minded people, make new friends, not really into on off meets, enjoy the social side as much ascthe sexual side.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Friends, sexy friends, sex with friends.

And the intense intellectual discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet like minded people, make new friends, not really into on off meets, enjoy the social side as much ascthe sexual side."
sounds like a profile intro

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I joined for one reason, stayed for an different reason and now I’m contemplating another reason. The longer I stay, the more my experiences and reasons kind of evolve

I do love fab for the opportunity to do this though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just here for the forums atm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ultimately implies to me that once we have experienced it we won't want to experience more or different things. So what we're looking for now is as follows.

A non specific number of men happy to meet regularly with a view to exploring many aspects of bdsm role play.

A non specific number of couples for the same.

People who are happy just to socialise on a slightly more open level than off fab friends ie that enjoy opposite partners flirting with each other safe in the knowledge that we all go home to our own beds.

Just interesting experiences overall really.

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms "

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just a woman to have sex with on occasion and when I’m not with her she’s having sex with other men.

A fwb....

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Looking for a wife obviously "
Me too.....someone else's

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though. "

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The ultimate question..

I love the forums and having banter and chat... and I’m making some lovely friends with like minded people.

Part of me wants to date but the other doesn’t... so in the mean time I‘m Just seeing what happens and not planning anything...

One thing is for sure I hope to have some mind blowing sex with a few close people who I can build a connection with!! "

Took the words right out of my mouth. Bloody thief

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Friends of sorts who do not "just want pussy" (real quote).

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans."

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to "

I like your thinking

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

To build great connections and have some great sexual experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex. Anything else is a bonus.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

I like your thinking "

So do I!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

I like your thinking

So do I!! "

Often thought it would be a mind blowing experience to get all the ones you've had a really good session with in one room

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

I like your thinking

So do I!!

Often thought it would be a mind blowing experience to get all the ones you've had a really good session with in one room "

Oh yes totally agree with this

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Friendship and adventures xx

I'm making new friends , doing new things and going new places that I wouldn't be if I hadn't met some amazing people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? "
a relationship with 10 women who are all wealthy ohotoc and maybe for 7 years max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The perfect match would be someone that lives local, to meet up 2 to 3 times a week for a good fuck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Cam rooms and forums. I'm no longer meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet a few couples that we can be mates with firstly, but the added bonus of sex. People we can meet for socially as well.

We have been reasonably successful in doing so, although we have never met anyone through the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral. "

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cam rooms and forums. I'm no longer meeting. "
oh meet me I'm the best thing since sliced avocado

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A female FB who loves pegging, mutual anal and who also enjoys bi mmf scenarios.

Too much to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperately trying not to use the much maligned three letter acronym but a female friend but who is also a sexual partner.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Crochet patterns, cake recipes and how to reverse a car safely

Ss

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Desperately trying not to use the much maligned three letter acronym but a female friend but who is also a sexual partner. "

Fsf Friendly sexy female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make friends with gents and ladies who I can share good social times with and filthy fuckery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? "
currently I can't answer that.. as on here because I feel lost without it. Going to some events socially soon... but apart from that.. I can't tell you..

Btw love the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to share my horny outlook on life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crochet patterns, cake recipes and how to reverse a car safely

Ss"

You need Bananaman, he's apparently better than all us women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone to share my horny outlook on life x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found what we were after.

A couple who have the same sexual kinks and stamina as we do, who we are perfectly happy to meet either vanilla socially, or for Foursomes, threesomes, club visits etc.

Our kids have been introduced, we've done family days out with more planned, and we're all going away together next year. They've become very good fiends with the added bonus in that we all want to fuck each other senseless

Still here because I (sin) still enjoy the forums and keeping in touch with people I've met previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperately trying not to use the much maligned three letter acronym but a female friend but who is also a sexual partner.

Fsf Friendly sexy female?

"

Lovely, you've pulled, dig out your best lingerie.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Froendship and decent sex without the relationship ties."

I'm already in the latter but a few friends I can meet on a semi frequent basis for sex, club visits and non swinging related things would be perfect. I enjoy the thrill of sex with someone new but sex with someone you get to know is incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hot fuck buddy harder than I thought it'd be

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

I like your thinking

So do I!!

Often thought it would be a mind blowing experience to get all the ones you've had a really good session with in one room "

I sometimes fantasize about this when I'm playing with my vibrator!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for a wife obviously "

Lots of men on here tell me they ultimately seek a wife on here. They choose this site, as they hope to find a sexually active wife, usually because their last marriage hit a sexual desert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined for one reason, stayed for an different reason and now I’m contemplating another reason. The longer I stay, the more my experiences and reasons kind of evolve

I do love fab for the opportunity to do this though "

Same here. Im on a totally different tangent to when I joined up

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Friendship and sexy adventures without the relationship ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The perfect situation for me would be a couple of fwbs who I could rely on, trust and enjoy once a week or so. Even better if those people got on so we could all get together once in a while to

I like your thinking

So do I!!

Often thought it would be a mind blowing experience to get all the ones you've had a really good session with in one room

I sometimes fantasize about this when I'm playing with my vibrator!!"

Me too, probably why I've broken so many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wife six kids and a mortgage what are chances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wife six kids and a mortgage what are chances? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to explore my bi side and to experience group sex, threesomes, couples, clubs and parties. I like making new friends for naughty liaisons without any strings. Regular would be amazing. Also I like The Forums and the social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am seeking the question to the anwer to life the universe and everything.

Not much success with that to date. But I have found out that you can scale pretty much anything by using a sky remote or a can of Lynx deoderant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined to fornicate until it dropped off unfortunately it just isn't falling off so I've ordered cream

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first. "

I totally agree with this... for me some of the best sex I’ve had was when I was madly in love!! I don’t want to fall in love with everyone off fab haha but that deeper connection for me is better!! But finding that is tricky and getting the balance right is also important!

The main thing is to have fun along the way though... if I have my ‘fab head’ on I find it much more enjoyable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first.

I totally agree with this... for me some of the best sex I’ve had was when I was madly in love!! I don’t want to fall in love with everyone off fab haha but that deeper connection for me is better!! But finding that is tricky and getting the balance right is also important!

The main thing is to have fun along the way though... if I have my ‘fab head’ on I find it much more enjoyable! "
What is a fab head?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Initially just for a new fb, but I have found several good fwb along the way and had a lot of fun.

But I want a full time monogamous relationship, and though I don't expect to find it here and I'm looking in more sensible places, I rule nothing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To train and own a few cuckold couples.....

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

That special someone. ...

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first.

I totally agree with this... for me some of the best sex I’ve had was when I was madly in love!! I don’t want to fall in love with everyone off fab haha but that deeper connection for me is better!! But finding that is tricky and getting the balance right is also important!

The main thing is to have fun along the way though... if I have my ‘fab head’ on I find it much more enjoyable! What is a fab head?"

Just not thinking about dating or all that other stuff!! And just think about the sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well originally I just wanted a fun, sexy regular fwb, but now I want Lady Lick, Spiderwoman 123, Autumn 76 and Shortishblonde in a hit tub. Not necessarily in that order..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first.

I totally agree with this... for me some of the best sex I’ve had was when I was madly in love!! I don’t want to fall in love with everyone off fab haha but that deeper connection for me is better!! But finding that is tricky and getting the balance right is also important!

The main thing is to have fun along the way though... if I have my ‘fab head’ on I find it much more enjoyable! What is a fab head?

Just not thinking about dating or all that other stuff!! And just think about the sex!! "

I want the dating and the sex. I won’t do one without the other now. I’m not only on fab so less pressure.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It seems that a lot of people want the connection not just the filling a gap, interesting.

I thought there would be massive differences in wants ,but that seems to be what it comes down to giggles and orgasms

I think that filling the gap is looked down on a bit on here. I can't see a problem with it myself. I think it stops people from admitting it though.

You'd think here of all places there would be more open minds. I don't have an issue with one offs, it just doesn't suit me personally as I want a trust to be built for various shenanigans.

I think when it comes to sex and swinging in particular *some * people feel threatened if anyone does it differently. I also think that as a society we still see sex as something that must take place within some sort of relationship or its immoral.

I just have better sex when it’s with someone I’m really into. I’ve done the ons thing to death and it’s not enjoyable enough for me, I need my mind stimulated first.

I totally agree with this... for me some of the best sex I’ve had was when I was madly in love!! I don’t want to fall in love with everyone off fab haha but that deeper connection for me is better!! But finding that is tricky and getting the balance right is also important!

The main thing is to have fun along the way though... if I have my ‘fab head’ on I find it much more enjoyable! What is a fab head?

Just not thinking about dating or all that other stuff!! And just think about the sex!!

I want the dating and the sex. I won’t do one without the other now. I’m not only on fab so less pressure. "

I’m on both dating sites and here!! And I feel better for just keeping my options open really! But if I have a meet from Fab then I will take it for what it is.. even if hopefully it’s with someone that I do build up a connection with!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Well originally I just wanted a fun, sexy regular fwb, but now I want Lady Lick, Spiderwoman 123, Autumn 76 and Shortishblonde in a hit tub. Not necessarily in that order.. "

Originally? What do you want now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escapism and a little thrill.

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By *evilmancoolMan
over a year ago

london

I too seek the occasional bit of sex, company, some laughs but have never found someone for a committed relationship

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well originally I just wanted a fun, sexy regular fwb, but now I want Lady Lick, Spiderwoman 123, Autumn 76 and Shortishblonde in a hit tub. Not necessarily in that order.. "

You can't knock the man's tast. All of the above are on my hit list sorry hot list

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Im hoping to find a cuckoldress or sexy couple to serve as their slave.

To attend clubs with me in a cuckold slave role.

Carry out domestic duties with a view of chasitiy.

As a cuckold i wouldnt expect any sexual contact and i find the teasing and denial more arousing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? "
similar to you in a lot of ways, but doubt it is going to happen

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Well originally I just wanted a fun, sexy regular fwb, but now I want Lady Lick, Spiderwoman 123, Autumn 76 and Shortishblonde in a hit tub. Not necessarily in that order.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To find a couple or two that we can be friends with and share hot sex with. And the occasional single man. The forums are an added bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girlfriend to share repeat nights out with that we both find attractive and she to find us so as well.

It’s just so difficult to find a match with three people on here.

We found it once which gives us hope of finding again.

We actually find it much easier to just go out and meet people so the fab experience may be coming to an end for us soon.

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Ideally Something a little more regular than a One Off! Someone who has a similar filthy outlook, a bit of class, a bit of sass and a whole lot of a bad ass, along with the desire to explore the swinging scene together....Not asking much it seems

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Evidence

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By *adame1981Woman
over a year ago

Leicester


"I would love to actually meet someone for a relationship but with swinging aspects. "

I want this too

Is it achievable do you Think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for love during gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun and friendship. I want to meet people, go to some clubs, and whatever happens happens.

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? currently I can't answer that.. as on here because I feel lost without it. Going to some events socially soon... but apart from that.. I can't tell you..

Btw love the name "

Thankyou x love the eyes

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? currently I can't answer that.. as on here because I feel lost without it. Going to some events socially soon... but apart from that.. I can't tell you..

Btw love the name

Thankyou x love the eyes "

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We found what we were after.

A couple who have the same sexual kinks and stamina as we do, who we are perfectly happy to meet either vanilla socially, or for Foursomes, threesomes, club visits etc.

Our kids have been introduced, we've done family days out with more planned, and we're all going away together next year. They've become very good fiends with the added bonus in that we all want to fuck each other senseless

Still here because I (sin) still enjoy the forums and keeping in touch with people I've met previously. "

Sounds like a pretty idyllic set up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too see what my limites are and make new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not what expected to seek when I first joined fab....

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

So from these various replies I'm thinking my ideal might well evolve and change over time as many have said.

I hope we all find what we seek ultimately, but until then enjoying the journey hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from these various replies I'm thinking my ideal might well evolve and change over time as many have said.

I hope we all find what we seek ultimately, but until then enjoying the journey hey "
oh yes..... I am anyways

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? "

This sounds like a perfect situation does it exist though ...?

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here?

This sounds like a perfect situation does it exist though ...? "

I'll let you know when I've conducted thorough investigations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the perfect situation would be to build a connection with a few lovely people, with a view to getting to the fancy a fuck Kik message stage ,as and when it suits them and me.

What do you want from being here? currently I can't answer that.. as on here because I feel lost without it. Going to some events socially soon... but apart from that.. I can't tell you..

Btw love the name

Thankyou x love the eyes "

Thank you

Been thinking about this since I wrote the original reply.

I came back originally as was angry and hurt. But I haven't dived in and acted on impulse.

When i originally came on here I was just looking for guys for group fun..

Then I found the forums and found some good people and some less so.

I think for now I am here for the friendship.. the good giggles and to by guiding others to enjoy their fantasies I can perhaps find myself again.

I decided I would throw my previous rule book out after the advice of a good friend but it means branching out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well originally I just wanted a fun, sexy regular fwb, but now I want Lady Lick, Spiderwoman 123, Autumn 76 and Shortishblonde in a hit tub. Not necessarily in that order..

You can't knock the man's tast. All of the above are on my hit list sorry hot list "

Hit list, hot list, you know what I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking to chat with like minded people and maybe get my end away with some of them

What I found was much more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from these various replies I'm thinking my ideal might well evolve and change over time as many have said.

I hope we all find what we seek ultimately, but until then enjoying the journey hey "

Enjoy the ride u mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was looking to chat with like minded people and maybe get my end away with some of them

What I found was much more than that "

The wide spectrum antibiotics should sort that out...

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By *electableDalliances OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"So from these various replies I'm thinking my ideal might well evolve and change over time as many have said.

I hope we all find what we seek ultimately, but until then enjoying the journey hey

Enjoy the ride u mean "

I actually did type that but changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone i can have a mental and physical connection with, who also happens to be a tad kinky

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think for most people it will evolve somewhat.

As someone who wants great, regular experiences I definitely have a greater emphasis on getting to know what makes people tick and there has to be a strong social connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So from these various replies I'm thinking my ideal might well evolve and change over time as many have said.

I hope we all find what we seek ultimately, but until then enjoying the journey hey

Enjoy the ride u mean

I actually did type that but changed it "

I knew you would have lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find couples and like minded singles for friendship, a connection and ultimately fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense that my sexual nature isn't wrong or bad. Doesn't have to/probably won't result in an encounter. Just to know what I like is liked by others.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

To be worshipped

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

A connection,same kinky interests and happy fun times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A discreet and extremely generous rich woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to meet as regular as possible and to share and explore what both of us would like to. Sounds simple, but certainly isn't that way in reality.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

A winning lottery ticket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came here (and other swinging sites) to meet bi guys for fun. We have done that.

We arent swinging now, probably never will again but we got what we wanted

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ultimately a small group of friends who we could meet regularly and have fun with, not just swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A circle of friends who we can enjoy sexy fun times with.

Also to enjoy the club scene and meet people for threesomes, foursomes, moresomes, orgies, parties and any other combination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who enjoys to watch is all I’m looking for really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Crochet patterns, cake recipes and how to reverse a car safely

Ss

You need Bananaman, he's apparently better than all us women. "

Not at crocheting I'm guessing

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Hyderabad India

Kinky perverted men who like taboo role plays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/08/18 08:31:32]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eighth wife! ...and possibly my ninth!

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Options open and going with the flow. Friends, forums, coffee, dates - anything is a bonus.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"[Removed by poster at 03/08/18 08:31:32]"

Is you're name Henry?

Ss

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Flirtatious forum fun, leading to more hopefully.

But happy if it just stays at forum level.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I originally came here to find out about myself, things I'd been curious about, stuff I wanted to explore, but never had the opportunity.

I've done that, and much much more.

I've been lucky enough to meet some amazing people and make wonderful friends. I didn't expect to develop an amazing circle of friends, gain a whirlwind social life that's taken me to places around the country, to have laughed & danced as much as I have!

I know, casual one off quickies are not for me.

It's about meeting people I can get on with on a mental & emotional level, establish a connection with.

An FWB, someone I can see when it's mutually convinient, enjoy their company in & out of the bedroom, but still have the freedom to carry on exploring other areas without getting grief or hassle, without being judged.

Think I can say I'm lucky enough to have found that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

World peace and global domination if not then maybe a sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck.

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