FabSwingers.com forum: Girl code

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there such a thing anymore?

As sub to Sir i was asked to message ladies i was drawn to physically .Which i did with one very attractive lady.I specifically asked while chatting that any messages remain between ourselves as was his request.

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably was a feminist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicks before dicks

Sisters before misters

Etc

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She probably was a feminist "

And a lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

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girl code being loyalty to another woman you hardly know ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chicks before dicks

Sisters before misters

Etc

Bros before hoes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Was there ever a "code" that everyone woman stuck to.

A percentage of Women have always had affairs with someone's husband or boyfriend as far back as time itself.

However as in life there are people who stick to a moral code and those that don't so I'm afraid there isn't one fits all type answer.

There are very few people if any that I'd trust on the internet not to say something if I asked them not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

What did she message him about? Have you seen proof? It might be part of his dom games, trying to make you jealous or insecure.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"She probably was a feminist "

The bloke quote!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the girl code where she doesn't have to do what you say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

girl code being loyalty to another woman you hardly know ha

That's why we call it girl code .... as a man you obviously don't get the concept

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

What did she message him about? Have you seen proof? It might be part of his dom games, trying to make you jealous or insecure. "

Yes i was with him when he got message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Was there ever a "code" that everyone woman stuck to.

A percentage of Women have always had affairs with someone's husband or boyfriend as far back as time itself.

However as in life there are people who stick to a moral code and those that don't so I'm afraid there isn't one fits all type answer.

There are very few people if any that I'd trust on the internet not to say something if I asked them not to.

I agree not all women do stick to a moral code .. iv always seen it as do to others as you would want done to you .It's a code i stick to and im happy with x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about the girl code where she doesn't have to do what you say?"

Yes there's that one too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X"

At last ! A lady with morals x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she divulge information of the exchange or was she just doing her due diligence to confirm your situation? There’s a whole world of difference in that.

People still have to feel safe in what they’re doing and who they’re talking to, it’s a general rule of thumb on here with most people to check and verify that a person in a couple is indeed free to play as they claim they are.

I don’t think that falls under any form of ‘girl code’ it’s about her personal safety and diligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X"

Why? Having a fwb doesnt mean they have to stop meeting other people..

Especially if they are on here and looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

girl code being loyalty to another woman you hardly know ha

That's why we call it girl code .... as a man you obviously don't get the concept

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Ha I do but hey-ho it didn’t work, mancodes more reliable obviously ooooooof

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think that there should be codes that apply specifically to one gender. I expect respect and try to give it. It doesn't matter what the gender of the person I'm dealing with is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl code will never be hundred per cent membership,but longs it continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How amusing - this site is full of those of all genders either cheating or knowingly having sex with cheats - how about that moral code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did she divulge information of the exchange or was she just doing her due diligence to confirm your situation? There’s a whole world of difference in that.

I don’t think that falls under any form of ‘girl code’ it’s about her personal safety and diligence. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A girl code will never be hundred per cent membership,but longs it continue!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X

At last ! A lady with morals x"

How is this any different that what this lady did with you?

Or am I not getting it because I’m a guy?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Could she have been doubtful of your identity as a woman, when the woman code wouldn't apply? We know you are but not everyone else will, or be signed up to the codes that we are. Perhaps this woman was really a man, where his man code would apply and he wanted some cock? There are probably a fair few permutations.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X

Why? Having a fwb doesnt mean they have to stop meeting other people..

Especially if they are on here and looking "

Because i know her and even though it’s NSA I still wanted to check! If it was someone I didn’t know then I probably wouldn’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the girl code? Never heard of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Oh don't even get me started on this. There are not many women that seem to abide by that. I had one wait for me to go to the toilet to ask my then partner if he would go in a private room. Had others message him asking him to go to events with them and apparently that was ok.

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Is there such a thing anymore?

It seems there's no such thing as loyalty anymore in general, I find it very sad, people are totally self-centred even at other people's expense.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

Me too about something. There is no respect for other people's relationships anymore either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

girl code being loyalty to another woman you hardly know ha

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to be fair if a guy told me his partner /sub/ wife was okay with it. I would always just check this was the case. Doesn't matter if I don't know her... same with either sex. If they have a partner I would want to check that it's all okay.

Knowing them or not. It's respect for them and their relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

With good reason hun.

Refreshing to hear we see this from the same perspective x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X

Why? Having a fwb doesnt mean they have to stop meeting other people..

Especially if they are on here and looking "

He's more than a fwb

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"What about the girl code where she doesn't have to do what you say?"

Not doing what you say is clause number one of the girl code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely have a code! There’s someone who I really wanted to meet but has a FwB... I checked with her first how she felt about it...

No going behind anyone’s back for me... I wouldn’t want that so don’t do the same! X

Why? Having a fwb doesnt mean they have to stop meeting other people..

Especially if they are on here and looking

Because i know her and even though it’s NSA I still wanted to check! If it was someone I didn’t know then I probably wouldn’t! "

Oh well.. i understand that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

With good reason hun.

Refreshing to hear we see this from the same perspective x"

How was she supposed to know that? She may have assumed you're both swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

With good reason hun.

Refreshing to hear we see this from the same perspective x

How was she supposed to know that? She may have assumed you're both swingers.

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she had already spoken to us and been told we don't play separately. As she has asked him in the hot tub. She then waited till I was out the way to try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing anymore?

Oh no she had to message him privately behind my back .Did she honestly think he wouldn't tell me ?

Girl code should be a given on here. But I've learnt that most are just scheming little back stabbing women who think it's funny to mess with relationships.

Ohhhhh I'm still a tad raw

With good reason hun.

Refreshing to hear we see this from the same perspective x

How was she supposed to know that? She may have assumed you're both swingers.

she had already spoken to us and been told we don't play separately. As she has asked him in the hot tub. She then waited till I was out the way to try again. "

Really sorry, looks like I quoted the wrong post, no idea how I did that.

In your example that's just shite, she was going behind your back on purpose. Hope he told her to do one!

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