FabSwingers.com forum: Iv been invited

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Jelly and ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To pay an entrance fee. You might have to join too.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Willys everywhere

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Swings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret bush wankers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Willys everywhere "

No different to here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the people that invited you!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

To have no expectations

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ask the people that invited you!"

I have but one persons view is different to anothers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

Loads of inappropriate threads from you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each club is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which club. Each is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each club is different "

Opps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

Loads of inappropriate threads from you?"

Nope just a question dont think its inapropriate

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

The wanking dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know you haven't really been invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?"

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

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over a year ago

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go"

Expect the unexpected and you won't go far wrong...most importantly, have fun

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.

Oh and definitely. Have fun

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.

Oh and definitely. Have fun

From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Oh and definitely. Have fun

From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol "

Hey it’s a hot tub (or as close to one as I can afford)

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh and definitely. Have fun

From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol

Hey it’s a hot tub (or as close to one as I can afford) "

So a paddling pool powered by farts then ahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go"

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

The Zombie Wanking Squad

Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The Zombie Wanking Squad

Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid

^^ she knows! Honestly being part of the wanking dead isn’t good! It can be off putting tbh

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Far too many willies.

Nice sandwiches?

Hefty entrance fees for single guys (advise against it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People having sex....you included OP

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"The Zombie Wanking Squad

Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid

^^ she knows! Honestly being part of the wanking dead isn’t good! It can be off putting tbh"

Oh God yes,as a couple it's dreadful being followed around by the ever hopeful single guys.

Would be a nightmare as a single woman. That's why they often go with a bloke as a friend to keep the flies off.

Clubs let them in as they can help balance the books

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The Zombie Wanking Squad

Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid

^^ she knows! Honestly being part of the wanking dead isn’t good! It can be off putting tbh

Oh God yes,as a couple it's dreadful being followed around by the ever hopeful single guys.

Would be a nightmare as a single woman. That's why they often go with a bloke as a friend to keep the flies off.

Clubs let them in as they can help balance the books"

I went to a local club last night for the cinema and there was literally one guy who made us feel uncomfortable so we waited till he left

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Was that the naked guy selling choc ices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tuppence worth..

I have only been to Eurekas so dont know about other places. I have been with a female friend and alone. As part of a couple everybody is much friendlier to you and when there as a couple we are there to play.

When iam there as a single guy i just want to relax and chill but iam fully aware of the zombie wanking squad roaming around.it does make me chuckle though when they see a couple walk through the woods to the lower field and the single guys all follow in drabs hoping.

Please god dont become a zombie !

Enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous "

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate."

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going"

Ergo jealous !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

In which case iam sure the experienced lady in question will take very good care of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether"

My mistake in which case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

My mistake in which case"

All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

In which case iam sure the experienced lady in question will take very good care of him.

That's guaranteed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

My mistake in which case

All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice "

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

My mistake in which case

All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice

Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

My mistake in which case

All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice

Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire"

Huh?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.

Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going

Ergo jealous !

Different context altogether

My mistake in which case

All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice

Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire

Huh?"

Well you saying he's jealous and Cornelly trying to politely say he's not. It made fun reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?"

Its stricter on single guys otherwise it would be full of just single guys

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Swings "

Got to love a swing..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh and definitely. Have fun

I dont drink no danger of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People having sex....you included OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know you haven't really been invited

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all know you haven't really been invited

Thing you need to get those readers on fella

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

To pay £50 to see a few couples shagging and about 1000 blokes wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been invited to a football match

What should I exoect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a silly question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

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a few quid to depart your wallet and as you're going with someone being watched while you have sex

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Apparently there’s board games available for the non participating voyeurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently there’s board games available for the non participating voyeurs

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bummycup?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To pay £50 to see a few couples shagging and about 1000 blokes wanking. "

And be ignored or glared at by the couples all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go and enjoy, and expect nothing, always easier. Have a fab evening OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

Loads of inappropriate threads from you?"

What do you mean 'inappropriate'?

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

If it’s a Friday usually cock heavy

Saturday is a couples fest

Any other day can be hit and miss

But Jesus in this heat it will be a killer in the play rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

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sex sex and more sex perfect bodies tits orgasms omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My tuppence worth..

Please god dont become a zombie !

Enjoy the experience."

Zombie wankers?omg I'm so pleased that I'm only into none club meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady

Jelous

Jealousy has no place in swinging mate."
it may not have a place but it's rife and only the naive ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll know if it's for you or not after first visit.

I assume it's different for each person.

I went with an open mind, very scared. It didn't do much for me hence my reluctance to go again.

Only you can decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask a silly question! "

Your comment about football is 1000 x silly.

It's a perfectly acceptable question for someone who has bever been before. They aren't places that the general public know about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just go and enjoy, and expect nothing, always easier. Have a fab evening OP x"

I think it will be good for me to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?"

Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?

Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found"
cheers

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Pampas grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jelly and ice cream "

I'm there

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It’s like a pub for dirty perves. You’ll love it.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Towels, quite a few of them

have a great time op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?

A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go

At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it

I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?

Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found"

Sure I understand. Just thought it would be a bit odd if there were different rules for single men

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"It’s like a pub for dirty perves. You’ll love it. "

In fact that's what they have in Newport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughs, fun and play, if you both want to engage in that way with others. You are good at respecting people's boundary's. You will have a blast, I'm sure of it. You and the lovely lady you are going with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s like a pub for dirty perves. You’ll love it. "

What u trying to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Laughs, fun and play, if you both want to engage in that way with others. You are good at respecting people's boundary's. You will have a blast, I'm sure of it. You and the lovely lady you are going with

Thankyou

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over a year ago

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

I would expect to pay way too much for being a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A entrance fee and maybe a joining fee ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?

To have lots of fun i would expect . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do vary massively and even the same club can be a very different place on different nights depending on the event. Some nights are for couples and single women only, so no wanking dead, others might have themes: BDSM, greedy girls, unicorn, rock nights, karaoke, pet play, whatever. So every club has its own vibe and clientele.

I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as art of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.

I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as part of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.

I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They do vary massively and even the same club can be a very different place on different nights depending on the event. Some nights are for couples and single women only, so no wanking dead, others might have themes: BDSM, greedy girls, unicorn, rock nights, karaoke, pet play, whatever. So every club has its own vibe and clientele.

I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as part of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.

I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all! "

Brilliant review.

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