FabSwingers.com forum: Dignity

By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

So I rejected a chap because he isn’t my type for him then to basically call me a slag and that I have no dignity

Whats the worst reply you’ve had to a “no thanks” message?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Never had a no thanks.

Maybe because I haven't asked the "faf" question

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I really wish you could upload pics in the forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t fuck you but my husband would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I rejected a chap because he isn’t my type for him then to basically call me a slag and that I have no dignity

Whats the worst reply you’ve had to a “no thanks” message?"

People like that that ruin it for the reat! Take no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what's up with you, are you a f-ing puff of something". I just said "no you just repulse me" and blocked them. It was her attitude that repulsed me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I got "didn't want to fuck you anyway"

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

I had a woman wish that I caught an sti or worse so it’s not just men who can be nasty

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By *cobMan
over a year ago

here

"I got "didn't want to fuck you anyway""

I don’t believe that one at all....I think they’re were just putting a brave face on it

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Apparently I’m riddled with STI’s because his cock looked very sore and told him to get it checked out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't abused per se, but I had the doozy of a message from a man yesterday, giving his thoughts on the women and couples on here.

I had a bit of a conversation with him about why he had that attitude and gave my opinion of it, letting him know it wasn't attractive.

His last message asked for my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore or say not for me thanks...then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh, every insult I can think of lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I got "didn't want to fuck you anyway"

I don’t believe that one at all....I think they’re were just putting a brave face on it

Totally true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just ignore or say not for me thanks...then block

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If we don’t want to meet someone we block them so it’s never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I rejected a chap because he isn’t my type for him then to basically call me a slag and that I have no dignity

Whats the worst reply you’ve had to a “no thanks” message?"

People are just shit at rejection aren’t they..

it’s a reflection on them not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch. "

wow.. when are you marrying that sweet talker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch. "

Are you kidding? What is wrong with people?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes it feels like I'm in a playground with 5 year olds, the mentality of some baffles me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I rejected a chap because he isn’t my type for him then to basically call me a slag and that I have no dignity

Whats the worst reply you’ve had to a “no thanks” message?

People are just shit at rejection aren’t they..

it’s a reflection on them not you

nothing worse than a dented ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch. "

what a vile thing to say to someone

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Sometimes it feels like I'm in a playground with 5 year olds, the mentality of some baffles me

My 5yo is more intelligent than some people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch. "

I had someone tell me it’s no bother. He’ll just r*** me instead. (Not sent on fab, but that’s how he got my kik). Had a fair few god awful ones that actually upset me. Usually I just laugh and block.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

'You're a fat ugly old boiler anyway' has been one of my favourites ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, men are the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

what a vile thing to say to someone

He was verified as a lovely respectful guy as well, all I said to deserve that was "no thanks, good luck though"

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Stuff likr this infuriates me

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I just don't understand why people hurl insults after rejection. Do they really think they are gods gift?

Best of ignoring and blocking.

My theory is, never ask, linger in the background and wait to be noticed. Can't get rejected then

Not a very good theory, as it never worked as a teenager so why would it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bad one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it"

D*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it

D*unk"

Never noticed it censors the word d*unk before

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Nothing compared to some of the vile reprehensible examples I’ve seen here.

I got something to the effect “ur faker n all ur vercanatons (you would hope the word verifications might help with that one) r made up by u coz I’ve seen u”

More sad really.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Everyone has their own preferences and if your not within their preferences then accept it and move on. It's nothing personal, well I guess it is, but you know what I mean.

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’m fussy about who I meet and play with, as I said to the fella last night I want to meet/play with someone who I get on with & if we went to a club to feel safe with but that’s me

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Usual around ‘fat cunt that cudnt pull me in a bar wich is y use r on ere’.

I need to learn how to use my block button more.

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Usual around ‘fat cunt that cudnt pull me in a bar wich is y use r on ere’.

I need to learn how to use my block button more."

Yup have had that one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most accept rejection for now. But some i find think oneday I’ll change my mind

Errr no. As no is no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual around ‘fat cunt that cudnt pull me in a bar wich is y use r on ere’.

I need to learn how to use my block button more."

Or not reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst one I had was after exchanging a load of messages and photos. Got invited around. Knocked the door, she answered, looked at me and simply said "No". Then slammed the door.....

No idea why some people take rejection badly. For me being a large chap - ok fat bugger - I get more rejections than most, but I just say thanks, wish them well and move on. We all have our likes and dislikes, no need to be rude about it.

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Usual around ‘fat cunt that cudnt pull me in a bar wich is y use r on ere’.

I need to learn how to use my block button more."

Btw you’re absolutely beautiful so ignore the haters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it"

I’d usually laugh but it’s such an awful thing to threaten someone with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it

I’d usually laugh but it’s such an awful thing to threaten someone with "

Well...now I feel bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it

I’d usually laugh but it’s such an awful thing to threaten someone with

Well...now I feel bad "

So you should. Would you like some booty pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Look! I've apologised and explained I was d*unk! No need to keep banging on about it

I’d usually laugh but it’s such an awful thing to threaten someone with

Well...now I feel bad

So you should. Would you like some booty pics?"

Oh, yes please

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never had a bad one "

Lucky you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I got called frigid for saying no ages ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had a bad one

Lucky you

U would know

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never had a bad one

Lucky you

U would know

Shhhhhh that's supposed to be a secret

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I had one couple with which I'd only spoken to the male. I always like to speak to the female half too, but when she rang me, her comment was, "what was my husband thinking of? You're ugly and you smell too!"

Charming! They were never in touch again! Strange that!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had a few, the worst one was hoping that a died an agonising death and one regarding my kids which really, really upset me. I think I replied to that one something like you know that's the cuntiest thing anyone has ever said to me and then blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst I think was, I hope you die of aids you big fat bitch.

Are you kidding? What is wrong with people? "

Over entitled and under eloquent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even give no thanks messages anymore

The guys normally see it as a green light to keep messaging :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned a guy down cos not my type. I was nice. was willing to chat just not meet.

he said I was harsh for not giving him a chance. followed by telling me I was a fat slag that he wouldn't touch anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread, Its amazing how much weight a woman gains when telling a guy no.

That's why ladies, it's good for your health to meet us

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Reading this thread, Its amazing how much weight a woman gains when telling a guy no.

That's why ladies, it's good for your health to meet us

It's true. A few years ago I went from gorgeous to fat old cow who should be grateful any man sends her a message.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My favourite one will always be being called a diva wannabe after telling someone that calling me hun after every sentence was annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this 'dignity' you speak of???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had a bad one

Lucky you

U would know

Shhhhhh that's supposed to be a secret

Ah is that why u pannicked when tha lady was at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst reply I got is none of the women here fined you not attractive which no skin of my nose because you should never judge people like a book till you read it you never know how good it is once your read it or had fun with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst reply I got is none of the women here fined you not attractive which no skin of my nose because you should never judge people like a book till you read it you never know how good it is once your read it or had fun with it

So, people should have sex with you before figuring out if they find you attractive or not?

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I got called a fat ugly cunt by a ‘gentleman’ who also hoped that I died of aids..... all because I politely declined his offer of a shag. It was a man in his 50s, so old enough to know better.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"What is this 'dignity' you speak of???"

I think what is being referred to as "dignity" is the complete lack of it by some people when they're experiencing rejection with regards to any Meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I’m riddled with STI’s because his cock looked very sore and told him to get it checked out haha "

You were rude to him first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking the fat slag messages might be on the cards for me.

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Apparently I’m riddled with STI’s because his cock looked very sore and told him to get it checked out haha

You were rude to him first?"

No this was after he started being rude first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, people should have sex with you before figuring out if they find you attractive or not?"
no but i just telling it like it is due to most here lie i think just to get what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I’m riddled with STI’s because his cock looked very sore and told him to get it checked out haha

You were rude to him first?

No this was after he started being rude first "

I wonder if angry wanking made his cock sore.

I've had nasty messages but I can't remember them. I just get an overwhelming feeling of happiness that I won't be meeting them.

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

So, people should have sex with you before figuring out if they find you attractive or not? no but i just telling it like it is due to most here lie i think just to get what they want"

Not everyone lies

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So, people should have sex with you before figuring out if they find you attractive or not? no but i just telling it like it is due to most here lie i think just to get what they want"

Hang on a sec...did some woman answer your message saying ‘no woman on here would find you attractive’?

If so, that’s a tad harsh!

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By *ottie_84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Apparently I’m riddled with STI’s because his cock looked very sore and told him to get it checked out haha

You were rude to him first?

No this was after he started being rude first

I wonder if angry wanking made his cock sore.

I've had nasty messages but I can't remember them. I just get an overwhelming feeling of happiness that I won't be meeting them.

Wouldn’t surprise me if that’s the only action his cock gets

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never had a bad one

Lucky you

U would know

Shhhhhh that's supposed to be a secret

Ah is that why u pannicked when tha lady was at the door"

Panicked me....I was too busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had to do that yet, but I would never be rude regardless. I've had many rejections on here the worse being to just be blocked and no reason given.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"These types of reply just reinforce how right you were in the first place. Image the drama you have avoided if you have a social and said no thank you, you're not for us/me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These types of reply just reinforce how right you were in the first place. Image the drama you have avoided if you have a social and said no thank you, you're not for us/me.

It’s ridiculous, ruins the experience for people that want to take it seriously

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Some of the comments on here made to the ladies and gents are truly disgusting. Do you think you should be allowed to name and shame with proof of message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The books I read are usually proof-read and well-punctuated

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Never had to do that yet, but I would never be rude regardless. I've had many rejections on here the worse being to just be blocked and no reason given. "

And of course a long message with an explanation of the reasons (some of which you would inevitably find offensive) and a protracted discussion of giving you another chance would have been the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had lots of nasty ones over the years of being on here, some really do stick in your head.

“After thinking about it you’re probably riddle with aids fucking all those n***** cocks”.

“LOL I get to fuck porn stars stop letting the attention on here get to your head”.

“You’re too fat anyway you wouldn’t do it for my guy away”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I rejected a chap because he isn’t my type for him then to basically call me a slag and that I have no dignity

Whats the worst reply you’ve had to a “no thanks” message?"

I was called the n word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, people should have sex with you before figuring out if they find you attractive or not? no but i just telling it like it is due to most here lie i think just to get what they want"

Got ya

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