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Contacting people you REALLY fancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you steer clear or are you in like a shot ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now thats a hard one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now thats a hard one "

do like a hard one

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Never contact anyone first...im shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh this is a tough one

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"now thats a hard one

do like a hard one "

Lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

nah I play hard to get....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in like a shot, and usually shot down in flames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you contact someone you don't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you contact someone you don't fancy "

ditto

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fancy then contact...then machine gun fire commences...best man falls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was once this woman on here who i fancied like mad but couldn't bring myself to approach her plus she was a distance away

So we talked fa 9 months in the forums and one night she said ive had enough of this heres my number ring me

So i did and we arranged ta meet the rest is history

Then i met Fmuma xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

am talking the difference between someone who you think 'yeah he/she is ok, i'd meet him/her' and someone who is (to you) just drop dead gorgeous and has all the physical attributes you find attractive in a sexual partner looks wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If new to the site-

I wait a little while and let them find their feet, they will obviously be bombarded with requests from time wasters and the "fancy a fuck" brigade that unfortunately frequent the site.

If they've been on the site a while-

That's easy............I'm in like shaft!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in like a shot, and usually shot down in flames."

+1

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Why would you contact someone you don't fancy "

To be a time waster.....

Nah I strike while the irons hot,.. now I must get back to my domestic chores ..

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I just hack soapy's profile and send them rude messages and his number!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just hack soapy's profile and send them rude messages and his number!! "

Thats why the YMCA group in their shorts and hard hats keep mailin me xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I'm actually quite shy when it comes to contacting people.

Guess it's my insecurities from years ago still showing themselves

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

hehe Yeah i contact people I fancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm actually quite shy when it comes to contacting people.

Guess it's my insecurities from years ago still showing themselves"

see, am not shy in the least

i contact people i think are ok and worth a bit of further investigation lol

if however i find myself very attracted to someone online, i will generally back off messaging, or 'chicken out' and send a wink to acknowledge my interest

and that's the bit that puzzles me, because in 'real life' i am the opposite and have no fear in putting myself on the map with someone i fancy the pants off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

straight in for us, we dont contact peeps we dont really fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I know we'd go for it - no point beating around anyone's bush, so to speak

If it wasn't reciprocated then fair enough, but faint heart never won fair lady did it?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as in someone allegedly out of my league?--FUCK that, no-one is!-of course respect their right to have what they want, but theres always a nice surprise finding someone VERY hot, and into having fun or intending to with u

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I go for it,why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hehe Yeah i contact people I fancy "

I should be expecting a message soon then

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i just wait for them to want an ugly bloke ha hj ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never made the first move on anyone

i dont send out messages first i dont approach men in club

im not a very confident person and im always scared of making a fool of msyelf so i wait for guys to message/approach me and respond to the ones i like

of course this means that i very rarely get the guys i really want but i see it like this, if they havnt mailed/approach me it means they dont like me so whats the point in me making a move on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was once this woman on here who i fancied like mad but couldn't bring myself to approach her plus she was a distance away

So we talked fa 9 months in the forums and one night she said ive had enough of this heres my number ring me

So i did and we arranged ta meet the rest is history

Then i met Fmuma xx"
Soapy,thats almost romantic.She didn't mind your shortcomings either. And you never looked at another woman since.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I dont understand why you wouldnt....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soapy,thats almost romantic.She didn't mind your shortcomings either. And you never looked at another woman since. "

Not looked?? ah ? what now? lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hehe Yeah i contact people I fancy "

and me

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"There was once this woman on here who i fancied like mad but couldn't bring myself to approach her plus she was a distance away

So we talked fa 9 months in the forums and one night she said ive had enough of this heres my number ring me

So i did and we arranged ta meet the rest is history

Then i met Fmuma xxSoapy,thats almost romantic.She didn't mind your shortcomings either. And you never looked at another woman since. "

that's cos he's too busy getting cock instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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that's cos he's too busy getting cock instead "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont contact people you fancy that means you only contact people you dont fancy and whats the point in that?? I for 1 have to fancy someone before i would have any sexual contact not every hole is a goal

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Oh alright then, go on and write to me. But make it more than 'Hi' and I expect to see a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you dont contact people you fancy that means you only contact people you dont fancy and whats the point in that?? I for 1 have to fancy someone before i would have any sexual contact not every hole is a goal "

there are varying levels of 'fancy' tho from hmm yeah you're quite nice thru to OMFG you are stunning in every way

It's the latter ones that I find myself avoiding messaging, whereas I wouldn't have an issue approaching them in a bar or a club.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm actually quite shy when it comes to contacting people.

Guess it's my insecurities from years ago still showing themselves"

We don't tend to make the first contact very often either but for a few reasons.

If we do, often takes us a while to build up to it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I fancy quite a few people on here....However I don't chase...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

may contact them first but never ask for fun prefer it to come natural

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I fancy quite a few people on here....However I don't chase... "

please stop phoning me!!

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