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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Say you had met someone and the amount of people they/you have slept with conversation came up. Are you concerned if the other party said;

2/3 or 100+?

I personally cannot stand this question/conversation, I don’t see that it makes a dot of difference! If the connection is there I couldn’t care less if you’ve only ever slept with 1 person or you’ve slept with the whole of the premier league! Aslong as it was safe and you’re of full health (that’s my outlook on it, only my personal opinion! Not aimed at anyone!)

What’s your PERSONAL OPINION?

(Please don’t turn this into a slanging match, it’s not necessary)

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

And more than 9 for me is too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And more than 9 for me is too much."

Just asking, do you live by that yourself too? Not a dig! Just asking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t have sex with people who have sex with others cos I want to feel special and wanted. I don’t approve of unnecessariness.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I get turned on by women who have had sex with lots of men. The more the better as far as I am concerned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get turned on by women who have had sex with lots of men. The more the better as far as I am concerned. "

I’m exactly the same it definitely turns me on

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"And more than 9 for me is too much.

Just asking, do you live by that yourself too? Not a dig! Just asking"

Of course I don’t lol. Honestly I have a small number of friends who I interact with and if anyone New comes along that thier is a connection with then I will take it slowly and see how things go. My main on here is not to have sex left right and centre but to meet people . Most of my meets are social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12.5/13 for me but I am not particularly proud of many of them.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I would be concerned if they started talking in fractions or decimal places

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

the more she had the more turned on id be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have sex with people who have sex with others cos I want to feel special and wanted. I don’t approve of unnecessariness. "

You are on fine form this morning - did you have too much pineapple last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have ever been asked how many people I have had sex with except maybe when I was starting out on my sexual life and views on women's sexuality were different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand how this is anyone else’s business..

It’s something I get asked all the time and the question itself is kinda offputting!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don’t have sex with people who have sex with others cos I want to feel special and wanted. I don’t approve of unnecessariness.

You are on fine form this morning - did you have too much pineapple last night "

Haha!! The more the better - in many ways.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't see why it's anybody else's business.

If I'm asked questions of this nature I just tell them that I don't discuss things I've done intimately with people who were nit involved at the time.

It is the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been asked this the one time by a fabber so far. Their reaction to my answer was a bit surprising to me actually. But then everyone can have a different opinion, so I probably shouldn't have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neber ever said mine #12

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't care about numbers as long as they're careful.

My answer to those numbers if my own is, I had sex with 2 people in 18 years. The years before and after, I ain't got a fucking clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And more than 9 for me is too much."
Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discuss it and don't want to know

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have asked the question but only in a kinda Q@A get to know you thing... otherwise I wouldn’t have asked as It doesn’t matter at all to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care im with them not there history

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'd more likely judge someone on the type of person they've slept with as opposed to how many. If they've slept with a lot of scummy chav types then that would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only slept with one and I get embaressed when people react a certain way when you tell them that

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I have a stock answer in these situations.

More than there are days in the month, fewer than there are days in the year. It gets their brains ticking as to which I’m closest to.

For those that might be prudish, I substitute Month for Week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a stock answer in these situations.

More than there are days in the month, fewer than there are days in the year. It gets their brains ticking as to which I’m closest to.

For those that might be prudish, I substitute Month for Week "

I’m stealing this! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many and it would put me off.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No-one's business but mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many and it would put me off. "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by this thread, I’m a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't come up and nor would i ask ..

This is a swingers site, right?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Going by this thread, I’m a turn off "

Impossible

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"It wouldn't come up and nor would i ask ..

This is a swingers site, right? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't come up and nor would i ask ..

This is a swingers site, right? "

To be honest, I’ve never asked. But there’s a beautiful man who has been wanting to meet with me for months, but has sooooo many verifications from beautiful women, and I just feel like I don’t compare!!!

Don’t like disappointing folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I wouldn't ask but if I was looking to get married to a girl I would hope its crazy numbers (I'm not going to say what I think is crazy numbers). I'm not a swinger (I know it's a swingers site). I don't have high numbers either so it's not really hypocritical of me. My personal opinion is that if the numbers are really high then she'll most likely want to sleep with more than me even when married and I'm monogamous (boring I know haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I wouldn't ask but if I was looking to get married to a girl I would hope its crazy numbers (I'm not going to say what I think is crazy numbers). I'm not a swinger (I know it's a swingers site). I don't have high numbers either so it's not really hypocritical of me. My personal opinion is that if the numbers are really high then she'll most likely want to sleep with more than me even when married and I'm monogamous (boring I know haha) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't come up and nor would i ask ..

This is a swingers site, right? "

I'm not a Swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I wouldn't ask but if I was looking to get married to a girl I would hope its crazy numbers (I'm not going to say what I think is crazy numbers). I'm not a swinger (I know it's a swingers site). I don't have high numbers either so it's not really hypocritical of me. My personal opinion is that if the numbers are really high then she'll most likely want to sleep with more than me even when married and I'm monogamous (boring I know haha) "

No it's not boring. It's fair enough if that's what you want.

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