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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can try. No harm in trying.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making? "

Drink?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

What is this? Vaguebook? Without background and details how are we supposed to give any constructive advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you decided?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making?

Drink?"

Totally sober decision however I was upset at the time

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Is there a way to reverse the decision without losing face or more importantly dignity? Simply by saying "I made the wrong choice I'm sorry"?

If so then go for it, if not then weigh up what you have to lose as a result of that decision and try and mitigate it the best you can but accept it and learn from it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes no and maybe all depends on what you decided to do

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making?

Drink?

Totally sober decision however I was upset at the time "

No, I mean drink now. Then you won't care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making?

Drink?

Totally sober decision however I was upset at the time

No, I mean drink now. Then you won't care. "

busy morning tomorrow so no chance of a drink

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Trust your instincts SB. You may have acted in haste or it may have been time for the decision you made. Don’t dwell, trust your instincts and go with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without being flippant it obviously depends what it was about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making? "

Take your time and think about it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I was once told you can only make a decision if there is choice.

If you have only one path, there is no choice, if there are two paths, you have a dilemma.

Only when you have three paths do you have choice.

Think it’s called a win/win.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m not the best at decision making however I made a decision last week, quite hastily I may add and I feel that I regret it now.

I’m also a self confessed overthinker too.

I’m wondering if there’s any way of salvaging my possibly incorrect decision making? "

Only you know that. Did you sign and exchange a contract? If yes, there's no going back. Did you agree to go to a party but now you don't want to? If so, just call and cancel.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

We need a bit more info SB to give better advice!!

Feel free to message me if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's very little done that cannot be undone

If we want to undo it

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