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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I finally have my first hotel meet from fab this week.

Any no no's I shouldn't do in your experiences!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get hammered

Do put the “do not disturb” sign on the door

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Don’t meet they won’t turn up. Thier account will be deleted and you’ll never hear from them again.

Well that the general opinion of mine

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends if your meeting in the hotel bar or she's knocking on your door!!

Just. Don't. Be. Creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do ask for consent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if your meeting in the hotel bar or she's knocking on your door!!

Just. Don't. Be. Creepy."

Meeting in the bar. Been chatting for a week on KIK. The anticipation is high x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do ask for consent"

I already have and will again of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!"

Good boy

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Depends if your meeting in the hotel bar or she's knocking on your door!!

Just. Don't. Be. Creepy.

Meeting in the bar. Been chatting for a week on KIK. The anticipation is high x"

Hope it goes well. Hotel meets can be really sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!

Good boy"

Don't think she wants me to be a good boy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if your meeting in the hotel bar or she's knocking on your door!!

Just. Don't. Be. Creepy.

Meeting in the bar. Been chatting for a week on KIK. The anticipation is high x

Thank you. I thought a hotel would be good the first time

Hope it goes well. Hotel meets can be really sexy!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a female/couple your meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!

Good boy

Don't think she wants me to be a good boy! "

Naughty hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x"

Female x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x"

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x"

Thank you. Couple next I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x

Thank you. Couple next I think! "

Don't run before you can walk lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x

Thank you. Couple next I think!

Don't run before you can walk lol x"

Haha...true. thanks for your well wishes. Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x

Thank you. Couple next I think! "

Thought i was next hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a female/couple your meeting x

Female x

Aww hope it goes well. Just be nice n chatty and respectful. Best of luck to you x

Thank you. Couple next I think!

Thought i was next hehe"

Haha...so it seems! Mwah x

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!

Good boy"

You say you've asked her already...oHave you met the lady for a social/ drink before ?... if you've not met how would you know you'd want to ?

You can say no thanks as well..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!

Good boy

You say you've asked her already...oHave you met the lady for a social/ drink before ?... if you've not met how would you know you'd want to ?

You can say no thanks as well.. "

Very true. Both parties could do a runner!

We have been pretty graphic in the build up and shared pics so I know I'm excited!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Do ask for consent

I already have and will again of course!

Good boy

You say you've asked her already...oHave you met the lady for a social/ drink before ?... if you've not met how would you know you'd want to ?

You can say no thanks as well..

Very true. Both parties could do a runner!

We have been pretty graphic in the build up and shared pics so I know I'm excited! "

So you've not met her before ?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


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So you've not met her before ?"

Thats why it's called a first date

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


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So you've not met her before ?

Thats why it's called a first date "

Indeed and from what I've read he's spent money on a hotel have g never met the lady.. 1) she might not fancy him, 2) he might not fancy her.. 3. Given the number of threads from a liot of guys it seems a lot of ladies never hurt up.

I might be wide of the mark I hope I am and you have a great night fella.. there's red flags going off in 2goods world.

Let us know how you go on fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont be a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust me...I'm confident it's gonna be a great night!

My question was any no no's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

Wow...sounds like he over prepared! That's why I've been chatting a lot with her.

I need to man up...getting a bit of nerves here!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Pack some nice shower gel in case you do get on then you can have a shower together ready for round 2. Hotel shower is shit!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I finally have my first hotel meet from fab this week.

Any no no's I shouldn't do in your experiences!??"

Look for big hands, a pair of balls and an Adam's apple.

Preferably before you're naked in bed together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I finally have my first hotel meet from fab this week.

Any no no's I shouldn't do in your experiences!??

Look for big hands, a pair of balls and an Adam's apple.

Preferably before you're naked in bed together "

Haha..are you talking from experience?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

"

Who the fuck does drugs on a first date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I finally have my first hotel meet from fab this week.

Any no no's I shouldn't do in your experiences!??"

tell them the wrong room number

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pack some nice shower gel in case you do get on then you can have a shower together ready for round 2. Hotel shower is shit!"

I will. I am thinking foam burst! Any advice welcome. Message me with your favourites x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t get hammered

Do put the “do not disturb” sign on the door "

Always put that sign up... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

Who the fuck does drugs on a first date?"

2nd date??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't eat spinach, chives or indeed any leafy green vegetable before the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't eat spinach, chives or indeed any leafy green vegetable before the meet "

why

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I finally have my first hotel meet from fab this week.

Any no no's I shouldn't do in your experiences!??

Look for big hands, a pair of balls and an Adam's apple.

Preferably before you're naked in bed together

Haha..are you talking from experience?"

My mate did back in the day in Ibiza

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Don't eat spinach, chives or indeed any leafy green vegetable before the meet

why "

She only wants one kind of rabbit on the meet and it has batteries

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Don't eat spinach, chives or indeed any leafy green vegetable before the meet

why "

You get bits inbetween your gnashers!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

"

Haha...bar the drugs (which is a no no for me - who the hell wants a Dom who’s off his face? ), the first lot sprung on me by surprise would be a very welcome surprise indeed . Saying that, I always pack my cast iron shackles, y’know...just in case

I’m understanding 2good’s concerns on your behalf...there’s a couple of red flags for me as well buuuut...

Don’t let your nerves get the better of you. You’ve had sex before, she’s had sex before...if you relax, you’ll have a great time!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No talking about exes, previous meets

No bareback

No spanking, biting, hair pulling, etc without consent. If she agrees build it up don’t just go in full force.

If your using toys make sure they’re clean and have sterile wipes

Have your own condoms

Make sure she doesn’t have a latex allergy.

No checking your phone during the meet

Remember there’s no obligation to play if there’s no attraction. Don’t presume anything then anything that happens is a bonus.

Hope it all goes well. I’ve had some great hotel meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take a bag of rope, handcuffs, blindfold,gag, flogger etc. Don't do drugs.

This happened to me on my first hotel meet and scared me shitless. Not done one since!

Unless she's asked for it obvs!

Haha...bar the drugs (which is a no no for me - who the hell wants a Dom who’s off his face? ), the first lot sprung on me by surprise would be a very welcome surprise indeed . Saying that, I always pack my cast iron shackles, y’know...just in case

I’m understanding 2good’s concerns on your behalf...there’s a couple of red flags for me as well buuuut...

Don’t let your nerves get the better of you. You’ve had sex before, she’s had sex before...if you relax, you’ll have a great time!"

Thanks. I'm sure the nerves are just excitment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No talking about exes, previous meets

No bareback

No spanking, biting, hair pulling, etc without consent. If she agrees build it up don’t just go in full force.

If your using toys make sure they’re clean and have sterile wipes

Have your own condoms

Make sure she doesn’t have a latex allergy.

No checking your phone during the meet

Remember there’s no obligation to play if there’s no attraction. Don’t presume anything then anything that happens is a bonus.

Hope it all goes well. I’ve had some great hotel meets.

"

Great advice. All noted. I like the idea of a hotel rather than club or their home...so here I go x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Dont overthink now or when youre in the room ~ just relax and go with the flow.

I met a guy but I'd already had a social.

I knocked on the door he let me in, before I knew it he had my arms above my head pinned against the wall ~ that was hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect her to do all the work and suck your cock for 45 minutes out of every hour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't expect her to do all the work and suck your cock for 45 minutes out of every hour. "

Trust me...That is not how this is gonna roll !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont overthink now or when youre in the room ~ just relax and go with the flow.

I met a guy but I'd already had a social.

I knocked on the door he let me in, before I knew it he had my arms above my head pinned against the wall ~ that was hot. "

Thanks.

You've got me thinking! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fart...ever.

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Just be cool be yourself and it will be an awesome night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't fart...ever."

Until you spontaneously combust?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't fart...ever."

Haha...That's a challenge for anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't listen to others.

It's your swinging life,be yourself,be responsible and be respectful,that's all anyone can ask of you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Leave the axe at home

Don’t answer your phone during sex

Don’t mention feet unless you have already agreed you like them

Don’t waste the opportunity... appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her sign a consent form before fucking her.

We never know these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make her sign a consent form before fucking her.

We never know these days "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her sign a consent form before fucking her.

We never know these days

Lol"

It wasn't a joke. I always carry one or two forms in my back pocket

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