FabSwingers.com forum: thanks to a fab member

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i want to share something a fab member id never met did for me today .ive had a horrible experience in the last few days finding out someone very close to me was an alcoholic .I found him in his flat yesterday d*unk and incoherent into the second week of a bender . i could do very little to help yesterday but was going back today ...i had a message from a local guy asking me how my day was going ,so i told him what my plans were and that i was worried my friend might not be alive when i got there . this guy ,who was a complete stranger actually met me at my friends flat ,and waited outside until i knew everything was OK ..i cant believe the kindness he showed to me and i really appreciated it ...another reason why i love this site...its not all about shagging !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a gentleman. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to hear some good stories for a change !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some lovely people on here and ive made some great friends but ive got to be honest i wouldnt dream of taking a total stranger off here round to someone elses house

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

there are definetly some lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a sweet guy, its good to be reminded that there are some very nice people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week a mechanic from here offered to drive down and fix my car on a Sunday, and he was in North Yorkshire

Glad your friend is okay, and sounds like you have a new friend too now! xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

that;s what Fab is all about xx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I totally agree. A guy I've known for a few months from a different site knew I'd applied for a job where he works and did his best to put in a good word for me, I didn't get it and he's gutted for me. Nice to know some people still care.

Fab has a community spirit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last week a mechanic from here offered to drive down and fix my car on a Sunday, and he was in North Yorkshire

Glad your friend is okay, and sounds like you have a new friend too now! xx"

just hope hes ok tomorrow too......and yes im certainly going to meet him for a coffee .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not all about snagging it's about community

Over the years I've seen and heard stories similar to yours about people helping

I've had the help of swingers for no reward so to speak and I've also helped other swingers practically too

I've always loved this lifestyle and the genuine people in it long live the swinging community xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

There is a lot of genuine and helpful people here, long may it last xx

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

fair play to him...

like u say its not all about the sex..

hope u shag his brains out lol xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

There are some lovely people on here.....not loads mind...just a few

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"There are some lovely people on here.....not loads mind...just a few

ahhh femme.. u mean me xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"There are some lovely people on here.....not loads mind...just a few

ahhh femme.. u mean me xx"
how did u guess?

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"There are some lovely people on here.....not loads mind...just a few

ahhh femme.. u mean me xxhow did u guess?

see u in a week n a bit x

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By *hite_lightningWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

I am so glad I popped in- haven't been on the site fo a while and to read a thread like this is brilliant. I'd forgotten how much I'd missed the community on here! Well done that person xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there are some lovely people on here and ive made some great friends but ive got to be honest i wouldnt dream of taking a total stranger off here round to someone elses house

sometimes you just have to use your gut instinct and this time i was totally proven right ...i didnt have any local friends i could call on in the middle of the afternoon ,he just said to me if you need any help call this number ...so i did ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some nice people on here. i have had some really nice messages when ive been ill. ive also had some great advice of people as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel i should say it was my pleasure to help the lady as i would anybody. it was a pleasure to meet the beautiful woman and a joy to help her. thank you all for your comments. its nice to know there are others who feel that helping needs no reward. regards to you all. chris.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Gymnut what a nice man you are a very nice man, It just goes to show that there are some genuine single men on here who process something called respect and kindness. Good for you for helping such a lovely woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's not all about snagging it's about community

Over the years I've seen and heard stories similar to yours about people helping

I've had the help of swingers for no reward so to speak and I've also helped other swingers practically too

I've always loved this lifestyle and the genuine people in it long live the swinging community xx

I do love this site

It does have a lot of lovely folk on here

It's great that some of them like snagging each other too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just goes to show we are all human and sometimes we can pull together when needed xxxx

As said before a true gent xx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"I feel i should say it was my pleasure to help the lady as i would anybody. it was a pleasure to meet the beautiful woman and a joy to help her. thank you all for your comments. its nice to know there are others who feel that helping needs no reward. regards to you all. chris."

I always suspected that you were a couple disguised as a single guy!

Nah! Well done chap, it was a lovely thing to do and although you did this out of the kindness of your heart, I sincerely hope you have gone some way to showing that all single guys are not only out for themselves.. Again, well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done that man for helping out.

It goes to show that people can still help each other when times are tough.

Nice to hear a positive story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said before, this site is a community and often we see the community pull together.

There have been a lot of kindnesses and moving stories in the few years I've been here.

It makes me really happy when it is recognised and acknowledged.

Hi 5 to the fabbers!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i managed to get my friend into hospital yesterday ,but not sure what else i can do he will probably discharge himself and start all over again ... im looking for answers when i dont even know the question i guess ....sad times ...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"i managed to get my friend into hospital yesterday ,but not sure what else i can do he will probably discharge himself and start all over again ... im looking for answers when i dont even know the question i guess ....sad times ..."

you will be able to do nothing to help him till he wants to help himself..... with professional help.

just support him x

good luck to him xx

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

"i want to share something a fab member id never met did for me today .ive had a horrible experience in the last few days finding out someone very close to me was an alcoholic .I found him in his flat yesterday d*unk and incoherent into the second week of a bender . i could do very little to help yesterday but was going back today ...i had a message from a local guy asking me how my day was going ,so i told him what my plans were and that i was worried my friend might not be alive when i got there . this guy ,who was a complete stranger actually met me at my friends flat ,and waited outside until i knew everything was OK ..i cant believe the kindness he showed to me and i really appreciated it ...another reason why i love this site...its not all about shagging !!!!!"

fair play to him,an absolute star,this site continues to amaze m,and its things like this that make the days worth waking upto,with so much crap in the world,its good to see some human kindness,that man deserves a round of applause,and so do you by the way,its a tough situation your in,good luck,hope your friend will be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fair play to him...

like u say its not all about the sex..

hope u shag his brains out lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will be able to do nothing to help him till he wants to help himself..... with professional help.

just support him x

good luck to him xx

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he's is right. I tried everything with my ex, photos, tapes the awful language, arguments and abuse and eventually he could see the evidence of broken debris in the house after a bender. Still had no effect and to this day he insists "it is not a problem".

He became insupportable in the end, sadly.

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