FabSwingers.com forum: Living on your own

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last year I got my own place for the first time in my life, between; family home, university, getting married and shared house I’ve always lived with other people.

Whilst the silence sometimes can get to me a little there are positives too. So dear solo fab folk; what do you enjoy about the solo living experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never lived on my own. From parents to be to marriage to children there has always been someone at home

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I did it for just one year and I loved it!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I love it, having your own space & freedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without doubt being able to do what I want, when I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking around naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peace and quiet, no one telling you what to do

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

From watching what I want on TV, What I want to eat and when to eat it,

Just doing everything at my own pace, Since moving out of my parents house about 12 years ago I have lived alone, I would probably struggle to share a house now

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Everything!!! Can sleep when I want, only my own stuff to clear and tidy, bathrooms always free, watch whatever I want, come and go without answering to anyone, have as many meets as I want, can leave sex toys in the drainer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without doubt being able to do what I want, when I want.

Yes, there is that. I had that other places too, no one batted an eyelid in my shared house if was in or out but it’s certainly freeing to never be asked about comings or goings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Walking around naked "

Yep! I could be naked right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Walking around naked "

me too! especially in this heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Walking around naked

me too! especially in this heat "

I love being naked when no one can see me

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m very much enjoying a man free home. It’s not strictly just me as I have the kid but she’s at nana’s so it’s close enough.

I bloody love the cleanliness. The fact that I know the toilet seat isn’t going to be icky and above all ... control of the remote control. It’s like I don’t even have the Dave channel.

Life is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything!!! Can sleep when I want, only my own stuff to clear and tidy, bathrooms always free, watch whatever I want, come and go without answering to anyone, have as many meets as I want, can leave sex toys in the drainer

how come i cant view you? :s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Walking around naked "

I second this

The freedom to do what I want when I want. Also my flat being constantly spotless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Walking around naked

me too! especially in this heat

I love being naked when no one can see me"

Ah! see, I like it when I can be seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never ever experienced living alone. Would love the chance of the peace and quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never lived alone, from my parents to sharing, to being married and now single with my children. But on the rare times I’m alone I love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without doubt being able to do what I want, when I want.

Of course this!

I enjoy not having to clean anyone else's mess or doing anyone else's laundry.

But I miss having someone around to cook for and talk to about my day

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've lived on my own for 25 years. I doubt I could live with anyone else now.

My home will look messy to others but no-one comes here, so that's fine. I know where everything is and it has its place. The bathroom is as I left it and no one is borrowing things and not telling me. (Actually, that last bit isn't entirely true as people with keys will sometimes borrow things.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it for six years after being in shared houses for four years before that. I don't think I could go back to living with anyone at all now. I love my own space and being responsible for my own space.

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By *umpsimusMan
over a year ago

Camberley

"Walking around naked "

And I can eat icecream straight from the tub.

I looked at the "Rent a Room" scheme several years ago. At that time it was worth less than £12 a day tax free and definitely not worth the restrictions. It's now worth over £20. Still not enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lived on my own for 3 years now and I have to switch the lights on in the rooms I'm not in so it actually looks like someone lives here!

Other than that, it just gets sweeter.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've never lived on my own. From parents to be to marriage to children there has always been someone at home "

Me too. Think I'll drive myself crazy when my kid's leave home x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've lived on my own for 3 years now and I have to switch the lights on in the rooms I'm not in so it actually looks like someone lives here!

Other than that, it just gets sweeter."

I have one bulb that has not been changed in 25 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starfishing in my big bed

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By *esus H ChristMan
over a year ago

birmingham

When I was first on my own the silence was deafening......now I quite like the peace & quiet and my own company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Walking around naked

me too! especially in this heat

I love being naked when no one can see me"

And there was me thinking I was on my own on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lived on my own. From parents to be to marriage to children there has always been someone at home

Me too. Think I'll drive myself crazy when my kid's leave home x"

Unfortunately I’ll always have at least one of mine at home so will never be alone x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

No remote arguments.

No one to please.

I can leave the toilet seat up or down.

Leave my mess where it is and clean it up when I want.

The bed is all mine

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By *ack2071Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

"Walking around naked "

Love to see that

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By *ack2071Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Its great but you can get lonley though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived on my own for 3 years before meeting by ex and we lived together for 4 years and it was good but when we split up I hated living alone again. The silence was deafening and I missed having another human around so I moved into the extension of a house share. I have my own living room, bedroom and bathroom but share a kitchen and it's honestly great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got the best of both worlds, shared custody of kids with my ex so half the time they're at his, plus I don't live with my current partner so we each get time on our own and time together when we choose.

Thoroughly recommend it.

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By *urvy10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Walking around naked

me too! especially in this heat

I love being naked when no one can see me"

I love being naked when people CAN see me!!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Am surprised no one has mentioned being able to fart whenever one wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having to watch another chick flick....

Honest...I definitely haven’t got one chick flick film...

Nope, not even one...

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By *ecretmeetshotmanMan
over a year ago

That sounds like the perfect set up......can I come and have a coffee with you in said living room? ??

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Last year I got my own place for the first time in my life, between; family home, university, getting married and shared house I’ve always lived with other people.

Whilst the silence sometimes can get to me a little there are positives too. So dear solo fab folk; what do you enjoy about the solo living experience? "

The ability to do what you want, when you want.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've never lived on my own. From parents to be to marriage to children there has always been someone at home

Me too. Think I'll drive myself crazy when my kid's leave home x

Unfortunately I’ll always have at least one of mine at home so will never be alone x "

To be honest, I don't think my kids will ever leave home lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here living on my own after 21 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't bloody wait.

Hoping to buy next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If just got my own place for the first time in my life about 2 months ago and I love it my times my own free to do what I like when I like absolutely love it... could do with a bit more company from time to time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my god... why hasn't it been changed in 25 years?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"my god... why hasn't it been changed in 25 years?"

My bulb? It's never blown. Living room, kitchen and hallway bulbs need to be changed every few years, or so.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm quite happy in my own company. Can let the pots pile up in the sink,eat chocolate for dinner or spend all day wanking

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

At the moment I'm happy it's just me and the dog,life is hassle free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite happy in my own company. Can let the pots pile up in the sink,eat chocolate for dinner or spend all day wanking

OMG you cook too!!!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm quite happy in my own company. Can let the pots pile up in the sink,eat chocolate for dinner or spend all day wanking

OMG you cook too!!!

Haha not always...hence the chocolate for tea!

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I enjoy having control of the tv remote... and just being able to come and go as I want... I don’t have to be back at a certain time... it is the freedom to do as you wish when you want!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lived on my own. From parents to be to marriage to children there has always been someone at home "

That answered the OPs question to a tee.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I have never lived alone - the closest I came would have been when the children were with their dad.

I do cherish the time when I have the house solely to myself

B x

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love being able to do as I please.

Been this way for 10 years or so and it would be very strange having to share a house etc again

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Farting in bed

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr

All that - and you get 25% off your council tax.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People would be in my way and an inconvenience. I like lots of space and tranquility - people hamper those.

I enjoy doing everything and the challenges of running a good place. Ongoing clearing of other's mess doesn't appeal. I can suffer my own temporary glitches and it's obvious what I need to do to sort stuff - it could be confused with others each expecting others to do it

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Very now to this having always lived with someone up until 2 months ago. Is taking some getting used too but starting to love it. Walking around naked yep, playing with my cock, watching what i want on my TV to bring woman back home it's all great.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been living on my own for a number of years now. Great that my vacuum cleaner and sink no lingers gets clogged up with hair anymore !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t change it now, it’s nice to be able to leave my pants on the floor without being berated for it!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Love it. Cant think of one negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last year I got my own place for the first time in my life, between; family home, university, getting married and shared house I’ve always lived with other people.

Whilst the silence sometimes can get to me a little there are positives too. So dear solo fab folk; what do you enjoy about the solo living experience? "
fecking love it! Peace quiet walking around naked,come and go as you please.Eat when you want what you want it’s bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. Cant think of one negative"
there are some were in my case someday's my arm hairs and neck hairs stand up i do not know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best aspect for me is not having to modify my behaviour if I'm feeling like a grumpy c*nt. Living with people 24/7 is wearing no matter how much you love them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best aspect for me is not having to modify my behaviour if I'm feeling like a grumpy c*nt. Living with people 24/7 is wearing no matter how much you love them."

Haha yes you're so right!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

In the days pre-child, when I lived entirely in my own, I loved it. My own space to do what I wanted/who I wanted/when I wanted. No one to please but myself and no fighting over the tv remote.

It did occasionally get lonely. I remember one time getting a phone call with some horrible tragic news, and wishing there was someone to pick me up off the floor and hold me right at that moment, but those times were few and far between.

The only other times I wished I wasn’t alone was when there were massive spiders. However my very good friend Matt used to come round (sometimes in the middle of the night!) and remove them for me. God love him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m very much enjoying a man free home. It’s not strictly just me as I have the kid but she’s at nana’s so it’s close enough.

I bloody love the cleanliness. The fact that I know the toilet seat isn’t going to be icky and above all ... control of the remote control. It’s like I don’t even have the Dave channel.

Life is good. "

My house is a sports channel free house and other than my 2 cats who keep me in the real world I would never share with anyone else for more than a few days (and certainly not sleep all night with them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being able to do what I want when I want! Including leaving the toulet door open in the middle of the night when I wake up and need a wee

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