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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had word that a friend of mine (41) died early this morning

He's suffered for a while now after being diagnosed with a brain tumour (they operated but it was unsuccessful )

He was given 18 months but over the past weeks has deteriated rapidly (he's never been the same person since he was diagnosed)

He was a lovely lad full of fun and he enjoyed life to the full

Another thought provoking reason to live for today

I'll miss you mate Rest in peace

Craig x

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Aww sorry to hear that hun, still a shock to system even when you know they are not well xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had word that a friend of mine (41) died early this morning

He's suffered for a while now after being diagnosed with a brain tumour (they operated but it was unsuccessful )

He was given 18 months but over the past weeks has deteriated rapidly (he's never been the same person since he was diagnosed)

He was a lovely lad full of fun and he enjoyed life to the full

Another thought provoking reason to live for today

I'll miss you mate Rest in peace

Craig x"

Life has the capacity to be both cruel and compassionate, he had a friend like you Soapy, he had compassion in his life, it didnt take away the cruelty, but it soften its blow. My condolences on the loss of your friend, the world is poorer this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sad..... so very sad....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Big hugs to you hun x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Sorry to hear that Craig, it's true to say that life should be enjoyed to the max!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

ah thats very sad,big hug to you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big hug mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had word that a friend of mine (41) died early this morning

He's suffered for a while now after being diagnosed with a brain tumour (they operated but it was unsuccessful )

He was given 18 months but over the past weeks has deteriated rapidly (he's never been the same person since he was diagnosed)

He was a lovely lad full of fun and he enjoyed life to the full

Another thought provoking reason to live for today

I'll miss you mate Rest in peace

Craig x

Life has the capacity to be both cruel and compassionate, he had a friend like you Soapy, he had compassion in his life, it didnt take away the cruelty, but it soften its blow. My condolences on the loss of your friend, the world is poorer this day"

Sorry about your loss mate. All the best to the family for the days ahead...

Wolf :L

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

What a shame ... 41 is so young did he have a partner and kiddies? Damn cancer the scourge of our lives. hugs soapy x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sorry to here that craig. two guys i went to school with both died a couple of weeks ago. I had known them both since i was 11 and had always been in touch with one the other not so much. One was 46 one was 47 and it certainly makes you realize whats most important in life

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

If only we knew what life had in store for us. We could hide away in a corner or grab it by the balls and enjoy every minute we have with friends and family.

Sorry to hear your friend lost his battle with a terrible condition but take heart that you had the good fortune to know him.

Thoughts with you and his family xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If only we knew what life had in store for us. We could hide away in a corner or grab it by the balls and enjoy every minute we have with friends and family.

Sorry to hear your friend lost his battle with a terrible condition but take heart that you had the good fortune to know him.

Thoughts with you and his family xxxx "

Aye he was a great lad full a fun he had his ups and downs as do we all was a nightmare to watch him change so dramatically

But yes it was both an honour and privilege to know him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had word that a friend of mine (41) died early this morning

He's suffered for a while now after being diagnosed with a brain tumour (they operated but it was unsuccessful )

He was given 18 months but over the past weeks has deteriated rapidly (he's never been the same person since he was diagnosed)

He was a lovely lad full of fun and he enjoyed life to the full

Another thought provoking reason to live for today

I'll miss you mate Rest in peace

Craig x"

I hate to love the saying "Your a long time dead" because its true, not here for long.

So sorry for your loss man.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry to hear this Soapy and sorry for your loss and his all-too-soon passing.

Terrible and really makes you think how you are spending the time we are given.

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

hugs from us soapy. xxx

and our condolances. its hard when you lose anyone , but cancer seems so much harder to deal with...

x x x x x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I was fortunate enough to meet this lad, and a nicer guy you couldn't meet. He will be so missed. xx

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

So sorry Craig. Very sad. My friends husband died aged 42 with same thing. He was also such a lovely chap. They had only been married 8 months.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

hope your friend sleeps well.

xx bless him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having lost my best mate to cancer over the summer I can totally comprehend how you probably feel right now.

I think we are conditioned to process the deaths of parents, grandparents etc (even though I am not taking away any of the pain associated with that).

However when our contemporaries start popping off in early life it does make you sit back and think.

I have changed a hell of a lot emotionally as a result of my mates death. Whilst I've witnessed the loss of too many relatives to count over the years, my mate was the first of my contemporaries.

He was the first person I helped to nurse, he was the first person I had seen deteriorate so quickly, he was the first person I have seen dead, he was the first person who's journey to another place that I have been involved in at every stage.

As devastating as his death was (and still is), I do feel that I am a stronger and more developed person than I was 6 months ago.

If you need anything at all Soapster, feel free to drop me a PM.

I hope there is 1 bright new star in the sky when you look up tonight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your kind words although I was older than him we kinda grew up together at one stage and I've always known his family

I've often said in posts that I have no vanilla friends and I really don't

But he was different he was just always there if ya know what I mean xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Feel for you,

Makes you realise what is truly important in life..

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

Sad news, our thoughts are with you. We lost a friend 2 years ago, and it still hurts.

How nice tho, that there are so many nice people on here with genuine and heartfelt thoughts for you, arnt we swingers nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make you think of the important things in life Soapy...

Live well mucks x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

My condolences Craig on the loss of a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry Craig,

ur friend was so young too.

Its very sad with cancer, the younger you are, the better ur body can fight it. But also the more aggressive the cancer.

Thoughts are with you and his family

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad news hunny, I'm so sorry xxx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

sorry to hear that mate.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hug xxx

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

So sorry to hear about this, soapy. My condolences to both you and your friend's family.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

hugs...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Hugs, xxxx

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Life isn't fair, it's just fairer than death, that's all (William Goldman)

condolences to you and his family soapy hun, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soapy i dont know you but i read your forums ,,here today gone tomoz you and wendy enjoy your lives together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, it does make you think. sorry for your loss. xx

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