FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else get annoyed with

By *hadesofm OP Woman
over a year ago

canterbury

Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy profiles i agree are annoying, especially ones with just a word or sentence.

Grammar, and sentence structure and spelling doesnt bother me too much as predictive text or dyslexia can account for that and chatting to someone can clear that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is actually what I am looking for so I don't mind them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "

No, only the ones who complain about it or bring it to attention

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Nope. More important things to worry about on here for me .. like getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "
me neither it's a filter though isn't it I mean if you met a really handsome guy in the street and he talked how he spelt you just wouldn't go there would you

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Might have to ‘review’ mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they would learn to speak proper England like I used to done when I was a children

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "
I agreez wiv u

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "

Most definitly!!!

People who write phrases like;

"Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic." with absolutely no punctuation are the worst.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what to say here. I'm very dyslexic and spend a lot of time trying to put together my profile and write nice messages. But I miss out words and make mistakes all the time and it's not for lack of effort or lack of brains. Its a struggle every day.

I'm not one for wearing my disability on my chest. So I just ask that you bear people like me in mind. I can't help the things you dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "

People in glass houses

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Just swerve them, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

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By *rivate_userMan
over a year ago

Leicester

If I can't read it I don't bother messaging.

Don't see the point in getting annoyed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

"
you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

Let’s keep this non political just this one time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Not annoying, more disappointing - a lost opportunity.

I like a profile that is not only clear about any red lines, but also gives an insight into what makes the poster tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish they would learn to speak proper England like I used to done when I was a children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

Let’s keep this non political just this one time

"
damn hey you brought up Teresa may or may not......... Just a minor observation xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Doesn't bother me in the slightest OP - I either just move onto another profile or if there's enough in the profile concerned to interest me, accept that we can't all be perfect, either way it's certainly not that big a deal to "annoy" me.

Just out of interest, I presume the kind of profile that doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're" is the kind of thing you mean?

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By *laytimetwoCouple
over a year ago

Staines

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

Is it really a woman ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not disappointed in the slightest it also doesn't annoy me when people forget there punctuation so I literally have no idea where sentences start or end how are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

Let’s keep this non political just this one time

damn hey you brought up Teresa may or may not......... Just a minor observation xx

True, and I’m already regretting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

you call this running it omg or did you mean running it into the ground

Is it really a woman ?

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I do like her sense of style and it would seem Donald does to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you could have the chance to see Jimi Hendrix or David Bowie in concert you wouldn’t be put off by the fact they couldn’t bake a cake.

Somebodies writing skills doesn’t impact on their ability to roger the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me in the slightest OP - I either just move onto another profile or if there's enough in the profile concerned to interest me, accept that we can't all be perfect, either way it's certainly not that big a deal to "annoy" me.

Just out of interest, I presume the kind of profile that doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're" is the kind of thing you mean?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, not really. People can express (Or no) as they like. Likewise I'm unlikely to get excited or inticed by such factors.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Annoyed? No.

Mildly irritated at best, and then only for text talk. The days of of a 150 character text are long gone, bring back proper words please.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It only bothers me when these people try to talk down to me because I'm a little lady. Women can't be intelligent!

When we have a woman running the country you’ve already won that argument!

Avoiding the politics... I get chatting to some guys (some, insert obligatory not all men here), and they talk down to me. I had one who was impressed that I could read.

I try not to judge too hard, because mistakes happen and, as noted, there are disability issues at play. I don't want to discriminate. But if someone consistently mistakes a possessive and a contraction, for example, and then condescends to me based on my gender... that pisses me off. (I don't think knowledge or intelligence should be adversarial, but in these instances I'll make exceptions. I win them myself)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what to say here. I'm very dyslexic and spend a lot of time trying to put together my profile and write nice messages. But I miss out words and make mistakes all the time and it's not for lack of effort or lack of brains. Its a struggle every day.

I'm not one for wearing my disability on my chest. So I just ask that you bear people like me in mind. I can't help the things you dislike. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Goodness no it’s not annoying. It is a waste of their time and opportunity though I suppose.

I simply cannot read txt tlk and I just wont attempt to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goodness no it’s not annoying. It is a waste of their time and opportunity though I suppose.

I simply cannot read txt tlk and I just wont attempt to

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you don't need to delete block and move on..... Sorted

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By *urvy10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I hate bad grammar and spelling!

It really puts me off.

I might be being very judgemental, but for me, someone who can not check their messages means I generally can not have a good conversation with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boy oh boy swinging has changed....

Gone are the days , when people just looked at your pics and interests. Then decided to meet you...

Now people are worried about punctuation and grammatical errors on profiles and messages....

I have met many people from Eastern Europe and South America... English was not their first language and if I excluded them because of punctuation and grammatical errors. I would not have had some great nights...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lazy and written terribly

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Somebody on my Facebook recently wrote a very long status with no full stops at all. I mentioned a few full stops would have been nice and her friends laid into me telling me how dare I criticise!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Boy oh boy swinging has changed....

Gone are the days , when people just looked at your pics and interests. Then decided to meet you...

Now people are worried about punctuation and grammatical errors on profiles and messages....

I look for compatibility so we can have a conversation before and after (sometimes during) fun. And to be honest, the ones I struggle with most speak English as a native language and don't have/ disclose any disabilities.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Lazy/ badly written profiles.

Messages with bad spelling.

Messages with text speak.

Someone who used long words to try and give off the impression of being educated but then they let themselves down by missing out joining words which means the entire message just sounds robotic.

I can’t be dealing with lazy writing. "

Yeah I get annoyed with it as well.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

It doesn't really bother me but I do kind of use what and how they write in forming an opinion of them. Those with poor grammar and spelling are more forgivable than the ones using txt talk or completely changing word to be all 'gangsta' by using words like wot, dey, dem, gawjus, wuu2', pawg and the likes I tend think I'd have no common ground with and wouldn't make any effort to get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Messaged with bad spelling or text speak completely put me off! So do lazy profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, there are worse things on here that peeve me.

Shoddy profilemanship is not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get annoyed or angry I'm not a fan of bad grammar or spelling mistakes but it doesn't make me angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are the worst for lazy profiles. You just need to check the new women in the search area to see.

Which is a paradox as most women like to talk the hind legs off a donkey, and yes there are ladies profiles like that too. M&L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a shite really, I don't judge men solely on their profiles/writing style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont give a shit!

I'm here to fuck....

My bluntness isn't liked either!... but I play well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont give a shit!

I'm here to fuck....

My bluntness isn't liked either!... but I play well

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whisper.......

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any lady can send me a message written in gobbledegook in they like.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Is this Ironic?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t get annoyed. I’m slightly curious about why they do it but not much. The more crappy men profiles there are, the better, as far as I’m concerned.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Just out of interest, I presume the kind of profile that doesn't know the difference between "your" and "you're" is the kind of thing you mean?

Ouch

or, who randomly sticks apostrophes in plurals, like 100's instead of 100s.

Certainly very irritating.

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