FabSwingers.com forum: I'm not a swinger!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"

How would you feel if you were in a relationship about sharing your other half with another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm single so not sure if I'd count as a swinger always thought that's a couples thing. I'm here to find people for fun and hopefully someone regular who satisfies me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"

Diversity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"

Sounds ok to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm single so not sure if I'd count as a swinger always thought that's a couples thing. I'm here to find people for fun and hopefully someone regular who satisfies me."

I'm not a swinger as I'm single, but I'd love to be

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"

I'm exactly the same, but the site suits me and gives me what I'm looking for in the mean time, and to that end, I don't give a monkeys about what other people think.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I think we all use this site as we see fit.

I certainly don't class myself as a swinger.

Just a regular guy looking for some harmless, quality fun with likeminded ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger. I don't know if I got into another serious relationship whether we would swing or not. That would depend on if we both wanted that or could be arsed. It's only sex with other people after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets all just get laid and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy for couples to avoid problematic profiles.

Only allow couples to message them and ask to speak to the woman first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think everyone should use the site how they want to without worrying what other people are doing.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have found that I am too jealous to be a swinger. Knowing my partner is with a regular play partner is enough to drive me demented and I have no interest to meet others.

However, during play, in a club for instance, I have no problem at all with inviting a third (male or female or more) to play with us as a couple. The feelings aren't there so the jealousy isn't there either.

Each to their own. Listen to what makes YOU feel good and go with that.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have to say I don’t think I’m a real swinger in the sense... I would if in a relationship still explore things like FMF or MFM... but I don’t think I would want to do that all the time!!

I think the site is what it is.. everyone uses it for their own purpose and as long as people are respectful I don’t see a problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everyone should use the site how they want to without worrying what other people are doing. "

Sadly, with some people, it's never going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ok i dont need the title my label is unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some swinging fundamentalists do seem to have a problem with non swingers haha

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nothing wrong with not being a swinger and being on here

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think everyone should use the site how they want to without worrying what other people are doing. "

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m coming to shag you... turn you into one... like a vampire film

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m coming to shag you... turn you into one... like a vampire film "

Bring it on

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m coming to shag you... turn you into one... like a vampire film "

Haha

I wish this was how things worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why let what people say on a website wind you up.

Chill

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

Id love to be a swinger but i cant talk the wife into joining me told her if you see a guy you like im up for a mmf but know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the problem with fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets all just get laid and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"

I dont judge people for what they choose to do. It’s not that I won’t meet married/attached people for me it’s i want more than one offs I want something regular and don’t want to be thought of as a friend not having to be worried about when I can text and meet etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a Swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!

I'm exactly the same, but the site suits me and gives me what I'm looking for in the mean time, and to that end, I don't give a monkeys about what other people think. "

Same here.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’m coming to shag you... turn you into one... like a vampire film "

Not relevant to the thread - but just wanted to say I’ve seen your status and I think it’s really sweet of you!

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

I’m not either ... I also don’t meet people for sex ... but ... I do love the clubs !! And I would love to find just one fella and he would be happy for me to flirt but I wouldn’t do anything .

If I met someone in a club who sparked my interest or whatever then maybe !!

I do get called a time waster and also a mega slut - which I’m totally not either of ...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"But I'm on fabswingers.

Sure, I'd sleep with someone else's girlfriend/wife. But when I'm in a relationship, I wouldn't share mine and I myself would be faithful.

Tired of being told that myself and others in my boat are "part of the problem" with Fab.

Get over it!"
I think I'm similar. Maybe share with a woman. I'm just more of a sex addict.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"What is a Swinger?"

Somebody who can play badminton and is Ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a jolly nice bloke.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"What a jolly nice bloke.

Are you Tim nice but dim in disguise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found that I am too jealous to be a swinger. Knowing my partner is with a regular play partner is enough to drive me demented and I have no interest to meet others.

Each to their own. Listen to what makes YOU feel good and go with that."

This I can relate to in a way.

There's 1 lady I have no issue at all with B meeting alone, I 100% believe they are mates, and can share physical experiences together and that's that, no hidden agenda.

I've seen first hand how underhanded and sneaky some can be, I've seen some that seemingly get a kick out of causing issues between couples (think it gives them an ego boost)

I wouldn't say my issues are jealousy, I'd say it's more a lack of trust regarding the intentions of the other person.

I think it's because I've always been totally transparent when meeting couples or one half of the couple, and hidden nothing from either of them, so I expect the same from others. I think it's a respect thing from my point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a jolly nice bloke.

Are you Tim nice but dim in disguise?

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