FabSwingers.com forum: Do most of your meets....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The vast majority is just from messaging, I've only met one as a result of the forums and he's by no means a frequent poster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% from forums but lately I’m focussing elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

I have had a couple from the forums. Was when I was looking for models to photograph though so I guess it's expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've had a meet from the forums but majority of those I would call friends are from the forums.

New profile but not new

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I rarely meet and rarely use the forums so it's either from the chat rooms or messaging.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I usually get their number as it’s written on the wall of the public toilet in marker pen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throughout my many years on here , sexual meets through forumites was few and far between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet Forumites socially to know who I'm chatting to but my play meets are now going to be separate, local only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one in the forums meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly meet new guys at clubs but have been known to fuck the odd forumite over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't really spoken to anyone from here nevermind met them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man i meet regularly (ish) i met through the forums (and him being local). He’s not a prolific poster.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

In the past I’ve always enjoyed chatting to people on the forums and have made some good friends this way... If a meet presents itself then I’m not adverse to the idea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually get their number as it’s written on the wall of the public toilet in marker pen

Trust you Adam

I know you meet mostly through the forums don't you?

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I've yet to find a meet through the forums .I find there's a totally different type of person on these forums .not all of them are serious .a lot are keyboard warriors. I prefer the real world its much nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never had a meet from the threads.

Most of my meets are from when I used to regularly visit Amours or Cupids. Now I use the Forums for talking and meeting new Fabbers, however I'd love a Forum meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All have come thru the forums baring 1 on my last account and its working really well so far not had a bad one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from the forums no.

But if.....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have met from the forums in the past and I do enjoy the organised socials and meet lots of forumites there but I mostly keep things away from the forums

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

I get most of my meets via going to clubs, if I get on well with someone we swap fab details and continue talking and meeting up. Forums are just where I inflict my opinions on the world

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

Its been mixed for me, some meets have been done through the forums.

Some from the socials and clubs that ive been too over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't posted much in the forums here

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've never had a meet come from the use of the forums, all have been through messages, clubs or organised socials

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’ve met a forumite 2 or 3 times, after he messaged me from seeing me on here. We don’t talk as much as we did before, which is a shame, but that’s the nature of Fab I guess.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a mix for us, lots through searches and winks. But also a few through the forums and organised socials. X

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By *alty2017Man
over a year ago

Stranraer

"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

With a profile like yours it will deffo change. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met almost exclusively through the forums and it hasn’t done me wrong so far. Every single person that I’ve met either socially or otherwise through the forums has been lovely

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By *oxyroxy1973Woman
over a year ago

west bromwich

I don't post much in the forums. I guess I should try it more. A little shy

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I don't post much in the forums. I guess I should try it more. A little shy

You definitely should

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

All from elsewhere so far, though there's some forumites i'd love to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met one guy from the forums for play meets but we first met him many years ago before we used Fab and he rarely posts anyway. We no longer meet him now though.

Had a few social meets with forumites plus chatted to some while at a club.

Most our meets come from guys messeging us here or we have met guys while at a club. There isnt anyone on the forums id want to meet particularily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people I like. Whether or not they are forum users doesn't come into it.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Most of ours are in clubs...so neither

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen

Where do you want me to write it?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen

Where do you want me to write it?

As long as you don’t include the are code and write really small you can write it anywhere

Like across my wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

Messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from the forums. Most people don't know about the forums or they aren't interested in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change

Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen

Where do you want me to write it?

As long as you don’t include the are code and write really small you can write it anywhere

Like across my wallet

Landline?? Who uses them now

I only have a mobile so would need a large space

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

A mix...with the forums you do get a good idea of compatability in likes and sense of humour over a wide range of subjects, which I like.

However, the ' Nearby ' search also provides possibilities.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's a mix really. I'd say it used to be mainly the forum and now mainly from those who don't (or very rarely use it). I'm sure it will change again soon.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.

I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them

We find some people on the forums like to chat more than meet in person.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve had two meets as a result of using the forums, which is amazing considering most in here think I’m just a whingeing git

The rest have all been private messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting forum folk its so much better than the wild west of locals

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Mainly away from the forums ,when someone tempts me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not real, I've never met anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably 50 50 on the mix of forum's and elsewhere.

The forum meets have been great as we've already know each other for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums have yet to lead to a meet but would definitely meet people I chat with if they were not so far away

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Not as yet...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think I've met anyone from the forums for sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both and have also met some interesting people by pure chance in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule

To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule

To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck

I hope it's possible to have both!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve had more meets from outside the forums that with forumites!

That being said - some of my best/most memorable meets have been with forumites - probably because one gets to know a forumite more naturally over a period of weeks/months over the forums - so a friendship has often been formed before you even meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Non. I’ve found many aren’t looking for the same thing as me. I’m interesting in the club swing scene so I meet people there. Then use fab to keep in contact. The forums are just for amusement and events

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule

To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck

I hope it's possible to have both!

Oh no, he doesn't find me attractive in the slightest which is fine by me

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I very very rarely meet anyone new anymore... Does meeting someone as a result of a Forum Social count? In that case... Once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I've met anyone from the forums for sex!!! "

Thats a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I've met anyone from the forums for sex!!! "

There's always a first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think I've met anyone from the forums for sex!!!

Thats a shame

Set it up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only from the forums.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Most of the hot, sweaty naked meets come from non forumites.

My fun, squiffy social meets are usually forumites.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Meets !!!! People meet?

lol actually it's a good mix of forum, chat ,messages and socials tbh

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Throughout my many years on here , sexual meets through forumites was few and far between "

Same here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All of my pre-arranged meets to date have been with forumites and as a result of conversations sparking from the forums, I like the way they allow you to see the person beyond the profile blurb and messages and in fact personally find the whole "cold messaging" someone thing a little awkward, so the forums work for me perfectly

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I seem to have had a lot more people messaging me from far and wide since launching/inflicting myself onto the forums.

Most are not even posters I recognise. I suppose I must appeal more to the lurkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no ,the few meets that I've had have come by guys who have approached me via pm

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Most men say they dont use the forums i have met a few who do though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All of my pre-arranged meets to date have been with forumites and as a result of conversations sparking from the forums, I like the way they allow you to see the person beyond the profile blurb and messages and in fact personally find the whole "cold messaging" someone thing a little awkward, so the forums work for me perfectly

I think there are too many keyboard warriors in the forums which would put me off meeting them.

I respond to men who take time to message me based on my profile and take the time to get to know me and find out the REAL Coquette69

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I’ve only met one ”forumite”, but a recent meet told me he contacted me because he liked what he saw of me in the forum (although he never posts himself)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think there are too many keyboard warriors in the forums which would put me off meeting them.

I respond to men who take time to message me based on my profile and take the time to get to know me and find out the REAL Coquette69 "

If you're able to recognise a keyboard warrior then surely the sensible thing to do would just be to avoid the ones you think are regardless of whether they use the forum or not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Messages mainly. Then socials. Then forums.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Bit of both really

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By *endoverhappyMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"Throughout my many years on here , sexual meets through forumites was few and far between "

You mean

Throughout T many years on T here, sexual T meets through formumites was T few and T far between

Yorkshire lass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had two, both from the Forum but nor for the want of trying cold messaging.

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