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Payment in Kind haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just an Idea but how does the group feel ref Tradesmen offering their services through the forum.

As a joiner I have had many situations where a customer has made it clear that not just tea and biscuits were on offer, but also so many where it was ambiguous .....

Nice to have clarity from the off and super discounts all round everybodies happy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

don't know what the tax man might say though because this would definitely be a BIK (benefit in kind) haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't know what the tax man might say though because this would definitely be a BIK (benefit in kind) haha"

If you don't take money, surely that's a case of no taxable income.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do with a few tradesmen ourselves that are offering services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how good of a business model that would be

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I can’t remember the exact wording but from a tax point of view, it could be regarded as “notional income”

Fine for those that do it if they want. I just find it a bit seedy/manipulative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t remember the exact wording but from a tax point of view, it could be regarded as “notional income”

Fine for those that do it if they want. I just find it a bit seedy/manipulative "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be worried they would be substandard at doing both the work and doing me

I am guessing he would have to rush to get both finished on time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t remember the exact wording but from a tax point of view, it could be regarded as “notional income”

Fine for those that do it if they want. I just find it a bit seedy/manipulative "

I'm well up for being manipulated :-

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had a “friend” years ago who put a shower in for me, he said if I gave him a bj I could keep the money, I said here’s your money now piss off back to your wife!!! Strangely enough we haven’t spoken since, the point being this is life not a Carry On film, some people might prefer it your way but to me it was sleezy and a bit insulting so I for one wouldn’t get anyone round to do work on that premise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather have the money to be honest haha sex dosent keep roof over your head or food on the table

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"don't know what the tax man might say though because this would definitely be a BIK (benefit in kind) haha

If you don't take money, surely that's a case of no taxable income."

That's where they get you Company car BIK

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be worried they would be substandard at doing both the work and doing me

I am guessing he would have to rush to get both finished on time "

No you see fun starts when work is done checked and customer is happy then come the customer satisfaction survey.

And by the way the discount would not be dependant on sex that would be a wee bit seedy its just an opportunity to network and also have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would rather have the money to be honest haha sex dosent keep roof over your head or food on the table"

Unless you're a prostitute I know a girl who was so successful, she opened a second pair of legs in another town

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"I had a “friend” years ago who put a shower in for me, he said if I gave him a bj I could keep the money, I said here’s your money now piss off back to your wife!!! Strangely enough we haven’t spoken since, the point being this is life not a Carry On film, some people might prefer it your way but to me it was sleezy and a bit insulting so I for one wouldn’t get anyone round to do work on that premise."

Exactly. I was formerly a tradesman and I did get some thinly veiled offers. I side swiped them pretending naivety.

The job I’m doing now, if there was any hint of someone expecting that arrangement, they wouldn’t be seeing me again.

I wonder how many users who call themselves Professionals on here would consider this. With being professional, comes responsibilities, ethics, morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a bit off, to be honest-and not allowed on here. I'm not a prostitute and I don't want a man thinking I owe him something because he's fixed my house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that is seedy I would have kept the money and told the wife haha

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’d be up for this. Need a few jobs doing too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh lord people I am sooo sorry I was under the impression I was in the presence of people with a sense of humour it was just meant as a laugh but if I am having fun with someone of course I will offer "mates rates"

Terribly sorry if this has offended anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d be up for this. Need a few jobs doing too. "

Next time I am passing Cannock my love Ill pop in haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh lord people I am sooo sorry I was under the impression I was in the presence of people with a sense of humour it was just meant as a laugh but if I am having fun with someone of course I will offer "mates rates"

Terribly sorry if this has offended anyone"

Oh, in that case then, do you have a jet wash?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha as it happens I do but I am 600 miles away

However moving to Bucks once I have sold my hoose

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

I wasn’t a tradesman I was a milkman for awhile when younger .i never quiet knew if some of the ladies were serious or just teasing me there were others that were more direct and I know confessions of a milkman has already been done x

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"Oh lord people I am sooo sorry I was under the impression I was in the presence of people with a sense of humour it was just meant as a laugh but if I am having fun with someone of course I will offer "mates rates"

Terribly sorry if this has offended anyone"

You did ask “how does the group feel...?” I cannot speak for everyone; only give my own opinion.

If we are keeping it light, then I’ll admit it can be a good ice breaker but on the understanding it is just banter or the job that needs done is done with no expectations.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

At it's least, it's unprofessional, at it's worst it's abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I can spend it in Tesco's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if the work isn't up to standard? Can you demand a refund?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At it's least, it's unprofessional, at it's worst it's abusive"

I agree it’s unprofessional.

If it works for both parties each to their own, but I personally wouldn’t be risking my livelihood for a bit of fun that I can get on here for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With what I do, I do alot of work in restaurants.

I do get paid and also free food.

I'm ashamed of nothing

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By *rincess Fiona 76Woman
over a year ago

clitheroe

I love the idea of this - seems like a bit of sexy fun!

I could most certainly also offer services from what I do for a living (which I don’t want to disclose on here for identification purposes I’m not a lady of the night though lol) and help a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the idea of this - seems like a bit of sexy fun!

I could most certainly also offer services from what I do for a living (which I don’t want to disclose on here for identification purposes I’m not a lady of the night though lol) and help a lot of people "

Fancy swapping some services?!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Oh lord people I am sooo sorry I was under the impression I was in the presence of people with a sense of humour it was just meant as a laugh but if I am having fun with someone of course I will offer "mates rates"

Terribly sorry if this has offended anyone"

Ohh it was a blokey jokey thread was it? Strange it doesn’t read like it, try starting your thread “just for a laugh what about if I.......” that shows your intentions clearer than asking how preople felt about your ideas

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Odd Jobs For Blow Jobs

So when we need a job doing around the house, he provides the odd job and I provide the blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd Jobs For Blow Jobs

So when we need a job doing around the house, he provides the odd job and I provide the blow job

"

..and everybody's happy

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan


"I love the idea of this - seems like a bit of sexy fun!

I could most certainly also offer services from what I do for a living (which I don’t want to disclose on here for identification purposes I’m not a lady of the night though lol) and help a lot of people "

I can turn my hand to most things, what have you in mind?

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