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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

So I would like to find someone to grow old(er) with.

I know the utopia is to find someone on here so we can swing together and I am looking for that but I know there's many other places to look.

I'm on all the (free) dating sites (pof, tinder, bumble etc) but so far no luck.

So then couples.... Hit me with where you met.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I found Paul in a coffee shop....went over and said hello and the rest is history.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I found Paul in a coffee shop....went over and said hello and the rest is history. "

Did you really? Just the first time you saw him? That's brave!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I found Paul in a coffee shop....went over and said hello and the rest is history.

Did you really? Just the first time you saw him? That's brave! "

Yes I did....i don't see it as brave...just asked if I join him at his table...he could have said no but he didn't. We still go to the same coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on POf, he kept asking me to meet him for weeks. He stayed up late to talk to me at night before I finally agreed to a coffee with him. I remember being lost in his eyes that day. X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We met on POf, he kept asking me to meet him for weeks. He stayed up late to talk to me at night before I finally agreed to a coffee with him. I remember being lost in his eyes that day. X "

Ah That's sweet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at a friends house party 22 years ago!

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We meet on pof to! Mr was the first person to message me we just clicked! X

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By *ll the gear.....Couple
over a year ago

Town north of Notts

We met at work, K was a new starter and I was, let’s say, a more senior position. 1st time I saw her I fancied her and as she walked out to go home she pushed in the door and looked at me as I looked up and looked at her, the rest is history.

We kinda got into this many years later and so far so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fetish website is were we meet. He pm me. We chatted for a few week via that site. Meet for coffee and 4 years later he is still stuck with me hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at one of my gigs. Red was shaking her ass in front of the stage and that was it. Lust at first sight. Weve been married 10 years this year. - Wolf

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By *nmjCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We met 35 years ago as teenagers d offered me her hubba bubba(gum lol) and we have been together ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pub

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met Jack here ,we've been together 3 years in November .

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Midlands chat room on here

I saw on our faceache memories yesterday that we became friends on there 5 years ago so it must be about then that we first met in chat too. We met in person a couple of weeks later, I moved in with him 6 months after that. A year to the day that we met face to face he proposed and we’ve been married 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met 35 years ago as teenagers d offered me her hubba bubba(gum lol) and we have been together ever since."

35 years...now that is an achievement. You're both incredibly lucky people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bumped heads in a nightclub 25 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We bumped heads in a nightclub 25 years ago "

The longest concussion ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We bumped heads in a nightclub 25 years ago

The longest concussion ever. "

Yeah...I haven't told him we're married yet!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We met 33 years ago on a blind date, went out for a few months, didn’t see each other for a couple of years then got back together again, we’ve been married 27 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We bumped heads in a nightclub 25 years ago

The longest concussion ever.

Yeah...I haven't told him we're married yet!"

Better hope he doesn't read this then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met M on here

L x

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

We met on a Christian Singles holiday. About 23 years ago.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Nightclub.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We met on here and been together nearly 5 years

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We had mutual friends and met through them. Became friends, and after 23 years of marriage are still best friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met in a cafe, narrow staircase meant we had to talk. Got married a year latter.

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Met on a website called IMVU, got chatting there then met for real a few weeks later: Liked each other enough to decide it was going to work and 8 years later still living the dream. Both separated at the time we met, both gone through grinding divorces but she's still the best thing that's happened to me and I am glad I met her when I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He came along to one of my LAN parties (Age of Empires for those who care)

I trampled his longbow men with my elite war elephants and we've been together 16 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago when I was backpacking through Western Europe, I was just outside Barcelona hiking in the foothills of Mount Tibidabo, I was at the end of this path and I came to a clearing, there was a secluded lake and there were tall trees all around, it was dead silent and across the lake I saw a beautiful woman bathing herself but she was crying, just then a frumpy woman with a mullet and wearing dungarees, tapped me on the shoulder and said ‘Oi love, you haven’t seen a Jack Russell round here on your travels, I’ve lost the little shit !’

That was 20 years ago, we’ve been going out ever since, we never did find her Jack Russell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook of all places! It does have its uses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. I wonder If anyone meets on here

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We met in a rave buying our glow-sticks. P came back here for a little after party and literally never left. Her friends actually reported her as a missing person to the police. Met end of January, our son arrived Xmas eve the same year and this year he becomes a teenager. Apart from a few more wrinkles and different hair colours, nothing's changed and we're still as much in love as we ever were.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

John was chairman of a local tenants association & needed a new secretary...the rest is history lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I would like to find someone to grow old(er) with.

I know the utopia is to find someone on here so we can swing together and I am looking for that but I know there's many other places to look.

I'm on all the (free) dating sites (pof, tinder, bumble etc) but so far no luck.

So then couples.... Hit me with where you met. "

I met someone at work. Early days but who kniwd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my pants

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By *alty2017Man
over a year ago

Stranraer


"We met at one of my gigs. Red was shaking her ass in front of the stage and that was it. Lust at first sight. Weve been married 10 years this year. -

Wolf"

Not surprised its a fantastic ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morrison's car park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, when I met her. I picked her out, I shook her up and turned her around.

Indeed, I turned her into someone new. Now five years later on, she’s got the world at her feet, success has been so easy for her.

Ah, you get the idea with that.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We met on a game site called play and win. Got chatting on there and I travelled to Kent 3 weeks later and then spent the next 12 months going down to Kent for 4 days and travelling back to Birmingham to work for 4 nights. We then moved in together. We've been together 12 years in September and married for 3 years in August.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

At a funeral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby was my boss

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

We have known each since we was 6/7 and lived on.the same street but got together as a couple 17 years ago meeting in a club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't. Don't you want me?

You know I can't believe it when I hear that you won't see me

Don't. Don't you want me?

You know I don't believe you when you say that you don't need me

It's much too late to find

When you think you've changed your mind

You'd better change it back or we will both be sorry

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By *urvywelshCouple
over a year ago

Everywhere and nowhere baby

We used to use the same MSN Chat room a long time ago. Used to PM each other and gave a laugh. Then lost touch. Facebook happened, found each other again. Kept in touch sort of. His long term thing broke up, mine a few months later. Chatted on Facebook, took a chance on meeting, still together 6 1/2years later.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"She was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, when I met her. I picked her out, I shook her up and turned her around.

Indeed, I turned her into someone new. Now five years later on, she’s got the world at her feet, success has been so easy for her.

Ah, you get the idea with that."

She's was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, that much is true. But she knew she would find a much better place either with or without you.

She says the five years you had were such good times and she still loves you. But now she thinks it's time she lived her life on her own. She guesses it what she must do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a local nightclub, L was friends with some people I knew and we had chatted a couple of times a while before hand,

I hadn't seen her for ages so didnt reconise her, I was out with my friend, I turned to him and send fuck me look at the arse on her in the red dress, she then walked over and I thought she was going to give me lecture about been a perv and she said hi it's L how are? 22 years later here we are

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I was the girl next door. That was almost 29 years ago. I just got so lucky love him to bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on pof. We messaged for 3 months before actually meeting. I never went on there to meet someone and never thought I actually would. Just to shut my pal up who'd set up my profile. Never once did the conversation go sexual the whole time. It was like texting your best mate. Was meant to be going out with my pals one night and they cancelled and he said fancy going out with me for a drink then. I said fuck it why not and the rest is history x

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We met on here xx

B x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Such lovely stories on here, thanks guys.

Just need to figure out how to get my matches to respond on dating apps lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I would like to find someone to grow old(er) with.

I know the utopia is to find someone on here so we can swing together and I am looking for that but I know there's many other places to look.

I'm on all the (free) dating sites (pof, tinder, bumble etc) but so far no luck.

So then couples.... Hit me with where you met. "

Blind date 34 yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend introduced us five years ago(coming up to six). We thought it was a love marriage however we realised our hook up was "arranged" so technically we had an arranged marriagehahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on pof. I was set to delete the app due to all the weirdos and his message was normal so i replied. Rest is history

M.x

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By *itznBobz2018Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Started chatting on here, one night I was cancelled on for a real life date and his mate cancelled his night out, so we decided to meet for a drink ...... will be 2 years in December and we are going on our first holiday in September

Bitz

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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago

larkhall

I met kevin on a Vauxhall cavalier site lol

he was the Irish rep and very cute lol

turned out he wasn't very Irish (used to Iive in Londonderry lol) but was living in Newcastle with his brother

so he started coming up to Glasgow at the weekend for a few months then just never left one night, 9 years later we are married 7 and I'm bloody stuck with him lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Here.

It was a Saturday morning and there was a status in my local updates that said "Bored, nothing to do... Inspire me", I sent a message saying I was off to Sainsbury's in 30mins if he fancied a coffee? He did. We met, he bought the coffees and I claimed the Nectar points.

Turned out he was married, suited me fine as I was only interested in another friends with benefits kind of thing....

A year later he was spending 4/5 out of 7 days/evenings/nights with me and we had been away for a couple of naughty weekends.

Waking up one morning together I said "What are we doing here?" He replied "I don't know but it works doesn't it?"

He went home and told his wife and moved in the next day.

We are as happy as pigs in muck 3 further years on. I wouldn't change him for the world.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We met at work and fell in love a year later. Neither of us had done anything like this (swinging) before but kind of fell into it together through getting naked for a photographer.... The rest is history

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tin to the Der.

Had to kiss a few frogs but I can’t fault that App. I was sceptical but it’s so convenient and easy to meet new people using that platform.

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By *attooed Unicorn 123Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

We met on pof, my rule was I would not speak to anyone without a picture. He messaged me no picture but I replied and spoke none stop for 2 weeks then met and rest is history. Still to this day neither of us can remember the message but it wasn't the normal seedy message it was so nice which is why I replied. Almost 2 yr ago to be married August next year. only been swinging a few month x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

On cb radio 35yrs ago lol arranged to meet up, clicked and we've grown together

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We met at work that was 30 years ago and still together.

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

Saw each other on Facebook then we poked each other Now married for 8 loving years and still poking each other .. We now do lots of poking with others too but not on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In hospital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a sex site.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Though FAB and a mutrual love of sex and tea. The tea was no good (never going that tea room again) so we moved onto the sex and also discovered a mutrual love for dodgy pubs and ale. The rest is history.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

These are really inspiring and fantastic stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a Taxi driver (MR) 28 years ago I picked her up as a fare, we have been together ever since..I was married at the time..That lasted 7 years (marriage) up until I met Diana..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met at work that was 30 years ago and still together."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On cb radio 35yrs ago lol arranged to meet up, clicked and we've grown together "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Loving this heartwarming thread - play together stay together we say xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a club called sin- just a normal nightclub (ironically). We didn’t know we were into swinging, that part was a pleasant surprise. We are also firm believers in play together, stay together. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met through the TA when we were both recruits at the same time.

Took a while for anything to happen but have now been together 17 years, married for 12.

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

We met when I used to play for the darts team in local pub but she was going out with one of the other players in the team at the time we got together after they had spilt up married nearly 24 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner on POF. She messaged me and it was a very civilised conversation for a couple of weeks. I was worried there wasn't going to be a spark on our first date - I was very wrong. She let slip that she'd been clubs that most people don't go on a night out - I knew the club well too!

So it's early days and we're working on our relationship, but keeping it sexy and fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve known KingC4611 since I was six. He lived three doors away from me, and was a friends older brother. He always scared me growing up! We got chatting on MSN though

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

On here, then in a pub then in my hotel then in a lot of other hotels, her house, some clubs and more hotels.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

CB Radio school age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yr 7 assembly.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Frisky worked for my parents.

We met when I stopped in one day, went from there.

She still says she only went out with me so she didn't get the sack...

Been together over 16 years now...

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So I would like to find someone to grow old(er) with.

I know the utopia is to find someone on here so we can swing together and I am looking for that but I know there's many other places to look.

I'm on all the (free) dating sites (pof, tinder, bumble etc) but so far no luck.

So then couples.... Hit me with where you met. "

We met on a game site called play and win. Got chatting on there and then I (Mr2) travelled down from Birmingham to Kent. We got on really well together. Used to work 4 nights then go down to Kent for 4 days. Did that for 12 months before we moved in together. Been together over 12 years now and married for 3 of those.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

At school

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

OkCupid here

Happily married

Thank goodness for that... but Phoenix set her sights on me, and that was that!

lol

Flames

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We met nearly 34 years ago, Mrs M was going outvwith a friend of mine but he was treating her like a dick.

We chanced upon each other at a friends party, clicked and the rest is history as they say

Mr M

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on FAB. Talk about mission creep, was just looking for a sexy play mate and by chance found my everything. I knew I'd found that misfit peice that fitted me so perfectly shortly after we made it to the pub for post drive refreshment. The rest is history and story still to be written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a Nightclub

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

We met when we were 6. We moved into a council house opposite her parents house. I had a cool bike, no stabilisers, she came over for a go. The years passed and we ran with the same gang then one fateful teenage day I noticed she had grown up in all the right places. Hormones kicked in and the rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my man in a pub 20years ago.fancied the arse off him for ages and finally got chatting to him

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Met my man in a pub 20years ago.fancied the arse off him for ages and finally got chatting to him "

You only started chatting after 20 years? -wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet in a nightclub when she was with her 2 sister in laws . They both said it would not last as I was jack the lad and she was quite . 30 years later they both eating humble pie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met my man in a pub 20years ago.fancied the arse off him for ages and finally got chatting to him

You only started chatting after 20 years? -wow!"

Haha no we are together 20 years.took me months to start chatting him though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I would like to find someone to grow old(er) with.

I know the utopia is to find someone on here so we can swing together and I am looking for that but I know there's many other places to look.

I'm on all the (free) dating sites (pof, tinder, bumble etc) but so far no luck.

So then couples.... Hit me with where you met. "

Blind date 34 years ago through mutual friends.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

We met on here two years ago and haven't looked back since, found my soul mate that day x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

College.. just one of those stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At school 35 year ago.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We met at one of our university’s basketball games. I happened to be sitting right in front of her in the stands and we really hit it off... 28 years of happy marriage later we still don’t remember who won the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at school, i was 13 and he was 14..

He saw me when everyone visits secondary school for the first time and told his friends he was going to marry me.

It took me two years before i finally gave in and became his girlfriend..been together ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here nearly 4 years ago and been together ever since

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