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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. I doubt it would bother most men

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

It wouldn't put me off in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

I dont mind in the slightest scars and bumps are natural things so absolutly fine luv infact i tend to prefer natural features on women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Personally it would not bother me at all.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nope life scars & stretch marks proof of life in my book xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn't bother me at all... I'm sure most people have got at least one thing about their body they are self concious of.. I have some loose skin after losing 8 1/2 stone... But I'm still the same person...

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Scars are nothing but your life’s story etched onto the body. Means you have lived!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Absolutely not! A mummy bod is body perfect to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

I’ll do you x

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"Scars are nothing but your life’s story etched onto the body. Means you have lived! "

That's deep for a Sunday morning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks lovely people xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks lovely people xxxxxxxx"

No probs, faf? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks lovely people xxxxxxxx

No probs, faf? X "

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to Glasgow, we all have,scars here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are the body's pictures of like if some people are so,shallow then not worth meeting OP, I have Scars which do Put, people off and have had negative and nasty reactions xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no way off putting, love a mum tum xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks lovely people xxxxxxxx

No probs, faf? X

Faf?"

Fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most men would be fixated on your fantastic figure and superb boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

I understand where you're coming from as I hate, hate HATE my tummy area. I wear sexy underwear on meets to keep it covered up for my own confidence levels. I have very very occasionally gone naked and the men haven't battered an eye lid. I genuinely think it's in our heads, as the men I've met seriously don't mind.

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By *ust for BeckyMan
over a year ago

Godalming


"Is it a turn off ? x"

Absolutely not...

I doubt there’s a single person on this site who doesn’t have at least one feature they wish they could change...

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Men will love to see women naked. Any considerate play partner will appreciate the naked body with curves, bumps and scars. It’s only wider society such as women’s mags that still enjoy body shaming.

I’ve taken quite a few women to their first club experience. Without fail they have questioned going because they worry about their body. I’ve reassured them and when we got inside they would see other women who also don’t conform to the “beach beautiful” bollocks. That puts them at ease to then have the time of their lives and boosts their overall confidence as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love an ‘imperfections’ and I certainly have plenty of my own.

Life is not perfect and it is not about finding someone who is perfect or who has a perfect body, it is about finding the person or body who is perfect for you.

Embrace your body, there is nothing sexier than a woman with confidence.

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By *edkent69Man
over a year ago

maidstone


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Hell no!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Move to Glasgow, we all have,scars here"

So do those from Ross on Wye! Lol

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

No, it's all part of what makes you who you are today, it's something you should be proud of, you brought another life into this world and personally I would make.you feel proud of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mummies have scars and everyone knows that! Ive had a c section and an op there, so been cut open twice. Ive also lost a massive amount of weight which has left me with loose skin. But its the only body i have and its a trophy of what ive achieved. If someone doesnt like it. I dont give a damn. Their problem not mine.

You know noone actually expects people to look like those on tv etc.. we all live in the real world without make up and photo shopping.

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By *bmarley77Man
over a year ago

Nr Derby


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Embrace your imperfections. Most people won't be bothered. To anyone who who is worth the time will find it attractive. Its part of who you are.

.... And besides, who's gonna notice with a figure like yours

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Face, boobs, pussy.

Those are the areas I look at most.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Unless you're looking to pull guys under 25 I would relax. You've got a great figure & eye popping boobies. By the time some guys even noticed he will be so hard he won't care a jot.

Afterwards he'll be so bloody pleased with you he'll accept it fully. Guys aren't perfect either, I've yet to meet 1 who wouldn't like 2 extra inches & that applies to those who don't need any more!

Forget your negatives & push on positively, you're gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me in the least. I also have lumps, bumps and scars and I would be more concerned that my body put you off. Being body conscious is such a confidence shaker

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I hope we find someone that finds my mum yum a problem so I know not to accidentally sit on their dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say most of us who've had children have a pooch or some looseness on our stomachs.

Easier said than done but if pics are up to date, a guy already knows what to expect. If they're meeting you it's pretty safe to say they don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"
we all have lumps and bumps, it's called being normal and having lived, there really is no such thing as a perfect body, as everyone has a different idea of perfection, just be yourself, mummy tummy and all

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

a mummy tum or a curvy tum makes no difference, When im kissing up your body after licking and kissing between your thighs.

It really dosnt bother me when seeing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, Not in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Even the beauty of birth leaves it's own scars.

Mother of my children had two c sections and I cared and clean her wounds for her as she had a flap too. Definitely not a turn off but know it affected her confidence regardless of how much I tried to reassure her.

Sorry to generalise but most men wouldn't be concerned with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to think of the positives of why you have your scar. You created, grown and brought into the world another human being. That's pretty awesome in itself. You may not of wanted to have major surgery (which has its own risks in itself) but maybe it was the safest way to bring your most precious belonging into the world.

There's been a lot on here who said it wouldn't bother them and if you're like me you hear them but it doesn't really sink in. So you make yourself feel more comfortable try wearing something sexy that you feel would hide it slightly and put your mind at rest. You need to feel comfortable then let yourself go! The more this happens the less you will worry.

All the very best honey. You look stunning BTW

Jenny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tummy flap is pretty massive but I am more confident when naked tbh. I love my pretty undies but spend alot of time faffing with them to cover my tummy as I don't like seeing it poke out the bottom of my nice knickers or whatever I am wearing. I have met some very gorgeous men and not one seemed to care at all, infact I have met a few that actually liked my tummy so. It is all to do with confidence rather than the size or appearance of said tummy as you OP and another of the lovely ladies commenting about hating theirs don't really have one compared to quite alot of other ladies, including myself. I think I would look weird without mine now tbh

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Pointless question really as no matter what anyone says if you're not happy you'll still feel self conscious.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

Not being funny but perhaps take a step back and "do you".

This is all about fun and enjoyment and I can't see how that can happen with your frame of mind.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have spent a lot of time worrying about my mummy tummy but not anymore... it’s my life story... yes I have wobbly bits and flabby bits which are I am trying to change... but I’m not going to worry anymore... if they don’t like them or me that’s fine you can’t be to everyone’s taste.... hopefully when someone is with me they are otherwise too preoccupied to notice!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have a mummy tummy.

It doesn't seem to bother any one and many ladies have a mum tum.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

This is exactly me. I don’t want anyone to see it. In fact I sent someone a full frontal, they read it then haven’t heard from them since. Confidence level back to zero

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x

This is exactly me. I don’t want anyone to see it. In fact I sent someone a full frontal, they read it then haven’t heard from them since. Confidence level back to zero "

thats there loss and one less idiot to deal with.

Is my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffinatley not only shallow people would say yes they seem to forget its the person we meet not the imperfections you are what and who you are please dont let that or any other thing worry you whatso ever

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

No, not in the slightest.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always someone out there who has an imperfection or an insecurity about something on their body. That’s how I look at it!

I’m sure you look wonderful and I doubt anyone would even take notice of what you think is an imperfection when you’re naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a C section but I do have stretch marks and the over stretched elastic looking pouch! Looks awful and probably does bother some but not everyone! I'm over it tho because it's not going anywhere and I get plenty of fun/attention from those that aren't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"
No it would...wear that scare with pride...Mrs S has one and I'd never want her to not have it...you and her and other women like ye went through a awful lot to have one and the baby/baby's that came from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x

I understand where you're coming from as I hate, hate HATE my tummy area. I wear sexy underwear on meets to keep it covered up for my own confidence levels. I have very very occasionally gone naked and the men haven't battered an eye lid. I genuinely think it's in our heads, as the men I've met seriously don't mind."
Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x

I understand where you're coming from as I hate, hate HATE my tummy area. I wear sexy underwear on meets to keep it covered up for my own confidence levels. I have very very occasionally gone naked and the men haven't battered an eye lid. I genuinely think it's in our heads, as the men I've met seriously don't mind.Exactly "

I agree it’s in our heads mostly & once we overcome it, you realise nobody actually notices!

For example I used to hate hate hate my areola because they’re big, and I got teased for it when I was younger “burger nipples”, it was only when I stared being properly sexually active I realised how much guys & girls commented on them and how guys loved them.

Now I absolutely love them and will show them off at any given chance! Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very timely for me. I recently met a guy off a dating site and it appeared on the surface he was really into me. Very flirty, sending really lovely messages, ticking all the right boxes. We met up again lasted night and booked into a hotel to dorm the night together. A couple of drinks first then back to the room and well you can guess the rest. Interestingly it wasn't great sex by any stretch of the imagination.niw I'm a mature mummy who also has a rather large stomach and it's really not great. Had a c section and this made my large stomach well it's not great.

Today I gets home, and within a hour he sends a text telling me basically thanks but no thanks. Kind of a relief for me really, however I'm absolutely convinced it's due to this part of my body.

I've never felt so unattractive in a very long time.

My sexual confidence has taken a huge knock,

Sorrry to rant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is very timely for me. I recently met a guy off a dating site and it appeared on the surface he was really into me. Very flirty, sending really lovely messages, ticking all the right boxes. We met up again lasted night and booked into a hotel to dorm the night together. A couple of drinks first then back to the room and well you can guess the rest. Interestingly it wasn't great sex by any stretch of the imagination.niw I'm a mature mummy who also has a rather large stomach and it's really not great. Had a c section and this made my large stomach well it's not great.

Today I gets home, and within a hour he sends a text telling me basically thanks but no thanks. Kind of a relief for me really, however I'm absolutely convinced it's due to this part of my body.

I've never felt so unattractive in a very long time.

My sexual confidence has taken a huge knock,

Sorrry to rant xx"

You look and sound delightful imho xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't ever put me off either

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is very timely for me. I recently met a guy off a dating site and it appeared on the surface he was really into me. Very flirty, sending really lovely messages, ticking all the right boxes. We met up again lasted night and booked into a hotel to dorm the night together. A couple of drinks first then back to the room and well you can guess the rest. Interestingly it wasn't great sex by any stretch of the imagination.niw I'm a mature mummy who also has a rather large stomach and it's really not great. Had a c section and this made my large stomach well it's not great.

Today I gets home, and within a hour he sends a text telling me basically thanks but no thanks. Kind of a relief for me really, however I'm absolutely convinced it's due to this part of my body.

I've never felt so unattractive in a very long time.

My sexual confidence has taken a huge knock,

Sorrry to rant xx"

Thing is, unless he told you that's the reason you don't really know why he didn't want to see you again, but you weren't impressed with him either, you state you were relieved.

Thing is, men can be hypocrites. Some claim to want a women not afraid to be promiscuous and will take advantage of that then dismiss her as not suitable.

Unfortunately, we still have to kiss a lot of frogs to meet someone suitable: don't let it knock you back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

I have a c section scar . It's better to be natural than a plastic person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is very timely for me. I recently met a guy off a dating site and it appeared on the surface he was really into me. Very flirty, sending really lovely messages, ticking all the right boxes. We met up again lasted night and booked into a hotel to dorm the night together. A couple of drinks first then back to the room and well you can guess the rest. Interestingly it wasn't great sex by any stretch of the imagination.niw I'm a mature mummy who also has a rather large stomach and it's really not great. Had a c section and this made my large stomach well it's not great.

Today I gets home, and within a hour he sends a text telling me basically thanks but no thanks. Kind of a relief for me really, however I'm absolutely convinced it's due to this part of my body.

I've never felt so unattractive in a very long time.

My sexual confidence has taken a huge knock,

Sorrry to rant xx"
its not a rant he was just a Gobshite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I find many things attractive in women. You are all different and all unique. I would not be self conscious at all. If others can’t handle the fact your body has produced children that’s is their loss not yours.

Sexiness is a state of mind and nothing more.

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

No it wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Doesn't bother me one bit you look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope life scars & stretch marks proof of life in my book xx "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Oooooh! No! Scars are sexy! Yummy mummy tummy I’d kiss it.

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

I’m glad I’ve read this because it’s definitely one of my hang ups at the minute.

Wife xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope we find someone that finds my mum yum a problem so I know not to accidentally sit on their dick"

I like happy accidents.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I've been on the site over 8 years and not had any problems. I'm coveted in horrific scars, an amputee and an ssbbw with ink and a c-section scar. Other people see us differently to how we see ourselves and to be fair most people don't notice scars etc as they're more interested in other areas of the body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Don't let it bother you. I have a c section scar too and no men have been put off by it yet.

Mrs

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

I think we all dislike something about ourselves.i know I do.

Personally,I just go with the attitude that this is what you get and if you don't like that's fine,move on.

Your c section is part of you,wear your badge with pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found since being on Fab that most of the men....I'd say at least 98%....that I've chatted to prefer lumps and bumps and scars and curves. I used to be on another site where the guys were very flaky and fussy....I've since binned that site and joined a more realistic and empathic site, and met lovely guys who have helped me to develope my confidence.

Good luck x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Absolutely not a problem xxxx

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London & North Wessex Downs

With the right person a 'mummy tummy' can actually be a distinct turn on ……. it all depends if you're the sort of person who swings just to get a hot a shag as possible (all too common these days) or because you want fun with someone you actually like.... (that should set the cat amongst the pigeons!)

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

Stretch marks & c section flap here - sons 31 & only child so I'm still pretty tight etc / that's life & we've done a fab thing having a child whatever way they arrive - son was nearly 11lbs so happy days ;p

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Facepalm

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I have a hate/hate relationship with my tummy, and I flinch when it’s touched. However I have a couple of Fab friends who have managed to get me naked, and shown me that my tummy isnt as repulsive as I think. One in particular spent time on meets just lying stroking my tummy. Thought at first it terrified me, actually it felt amazing. He made me feel ok that it was happening, and I’ll always thank him for that.

Meet the right people and nothing will be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a wobbly, bumpy mum tum which I used to hate. I've completely embraced it now. Yes my body isn't perfect but I'm comfortable with my flaws and if the person wanting to fuck me is going to be turned off by my wobbly bits then he doesn't deserve to lay a finger on me.

Dee

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x

I understand where you're coming from as I hate, hate HATE my tummy area. I wear sexy underwear on meets to keep it covered up for my own confidence levels. I have very very occasionally gone naked and the men haven't battered an eye lid. I genuinely think it's in our heads, as the men I've met seriously don't mind."

This is me to a t. I am obsessed with bodysuits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all. Part and parcel of you so people? should accept it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of that scene from Pulp Fiction with Bruce Willis telling his girlfriend how he loves her "pot belly".

Men do have a fair idea how you will look naked way before they get you naked. Don't you think they would walk away well beforehand if they were not attracted to you? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a wobbly, bumpy mum tum which I used to hate. I've completely embraced it now. Yes my body isn't perfect but I'm comfortable with my flaws and if the person wanting to fuck me is going to be turned off by my wobbly bits then he doesn't deserve to lay a finger on me.

Dee"
Dee your profile pics say you are perfect

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Its peoples’ minds which are sexiest. Physical properties are less important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is very timely for me. I recently met a guy off a dating site and it appeared on the surface he was really into me. Very flirty, sending really lovely messages, ticking all the right boxes. We met up again lasted night and booked into a hotel to dorm the night together. A couple of drinks first then back to the room and well you can guess the rest. Interestingly it wasn't great sex by any stretch of the imagination.niw I'm a mature mummy who also has a rather large stomach and it's really not great. Had a c section and this made my large stomach well it's not great.

Today I gets home, and within a hour he sends a text telling me basically thanks but no thanks. Kind of a relief for me really, however I'm absolutely convinced it's due to this part of my body.

I've never felt so unattractive in a very long time.

My sexual confidence has taken a huge knock,

Sorrry to rant xxits not a rant he was just a Gobshite..."

Why was he? She wasn't bothered about carrying on further with him either as the sex was a bit crap, but she assumed he didn't want to see her again because of her belly, why would you not assume it was the same reason as hers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy mummies are hot

The marks and changes in the body make more sexy as shows the journey you been on

Btw all the mums on here are hot always are

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I felt the same, I have a scar that goes right across my tummy I used to mention it to potential meets as it's so big. At some point I stopped pre warning guys and I can honestly say nobodies ever noticed or cared, too busy having fun. So try not to worry and get out there and have fun too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Turned me on

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

I think you'll be self conscious about it 1000 times more than any guy lucky enough to meet you would be.

Any guy who dislikes you over one of life's bumps, scrapes and scars is a knob and up himself anyway.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have a c-section flap too, means I survived what could have killed me and my child! How cool is that?! We're survivors.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Nope would not be a problem for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you can hold a conversation, we all have our battle scars. I have a face like a Lurgan Spade so you are in a far better position than me.

Embrace your body. It tells the tale of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

Absolutely would not turn me off. Most men like curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all our bodies tell our journey through life they make us what we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love little imperfections they make people more real be it scars

Bumps lumps littles holes where there shouldnt be one

All tells a story that that person has lived a bit

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

I've got a saggy mummy tummy and now with added keyhole surgery scars amongst the stretch marks. No one has been put off by any of those things yet, once your in the swing of things it doesn't matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To let others love you, you have to love yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a c section scar, and lots of little keyhole surgery scars along with my saggy tummy. No ones complained about it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving hearing all these guys saying it's not a problem.

I love a real looking woman. No Barbie doll for me, and I'm not one either.

Have a bit of a thing or bigger bellies, scar or no scar, on both men andvwomen .

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By *eepfoughtMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Scars, bumps, sags and wrinkles are all part of life. I'm proud of my grey hairs and the creases at my temple and I've never met a woman who looks any the worse just because she's lived a life.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"No not at all. I doubt it would bother most men "
I would this this comment would be the most common. Relax and enjoy,

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I came out the sunroof. It would be awfully bad form for me to have issue with a mummy tummy.

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Lord no!! The connection of minds is the higher priority to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

We are all human and nobody has the perfect body. Nothing to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x

We are all human and nobody has the perfect body. Nothing to be ashamed of."

I know exactly how you feel, I’ve had 2 children, lost 11 stone in weight. I go the gym 3 times a week now but nothing other than surgery is going to make my breasts full and tummy smooth unfortunately. I had more body confidence at 20 stone in retrospect.

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

Wife is exactly the same. Dont worry about it at all. You look fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this thread! My C-section belly is always my biggest hold up, but caring less and less about as I get older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this thread! My C-section belly is always my biggest hold up, but caring less and less about as I get older."

And why should you!! You and the OP are 2 extremely gorgeous woman in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way... Scars, lines, wrinkles etc... They are part of a persons map.. Shows what they have lived thru, am i biased? Yes because i have scars, but for me its the person, the heart, the soul... Not how they look

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. Blokes really don't care about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly me. It’s the only area of my body I don’t like and it makes me self conscious. I’m ok getting naked in person and my OH thinks I’m incredibly sexy! But I wouldn’t feel confident enough to send fully naked pictures on my tummy. But in real life I’ve had no issues with men or women being put off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of jelly wobble going on but my stomache has been through the wars, and still is so I'm trying to 'love the skin I'm in' and be thankful for what I have got, 4 gorgeous kids and I'm still here so it's all good really.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are lucky to go through pregnancy and retain their body.

But others are not.

Love to kiss my way down over a belly regardless of scars.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

No, because no one's perfect least of all me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To let others love you, you have to love yourself."

So true

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

It may be to some, not at all for me personally I have scars and I have stretch marks on my inner thigh, faint ones but there nonetheless. Our bodies tell stories and bringing a child into this world is a story you shouldn't be looked down on because of. You'll never please everyone but I like a mum tum

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Some great responses which I cannot top. You are all beautiful

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm let you adopt this line, and use it as your own.

"I may not be perfect..... but I'm perfectly me"

Princess Peach.

1977- present

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I'm let you adopt this line, and use it as your own.

"I may not be perfect..... but I'm perfectly me"

Princess Peach.

1977- present "

Peachy your profile didn't half make me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many of us have perfect bodies.

To the women who lack confidence because of scars and baby bellys.

I would honestly give you a hug with no other intention then to reasure you that not all men will judge you.

Dont hate yourself for it.

You are not ugly or deformed you wonderful.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

i'd be a hypocrite if i refused to meet someone due to a scar- i have a bit of a collection myself...although none from giving birth

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I dont see it as an issue. It's all part of what makes the person. I'm sure we all have some things we're not quite happy with

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall


"Is it a turn off ? I haved a c section scar which makes me have a flap I'm really self conscious. Would it turn u off x"

This x5 iv 5c-section scars very self conscious about it xx you look fantastic don't worry about it xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm let you adopt this line, and use it as your own.

"I may not be perfect..... but I'm perfectly me"

Princess Peach.

1977- present

Peachy your profile didn't half make me giggle "

Then writing it was 15 seconds well spent

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Meh. I’ve got more stomachs than a cow. Absolutely no one bats an eyelid when my kit comes off.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I'm let you adopt this line, and use it as your own.

"I may not be perfect..... but I'm perfectly me"

Princess Peach.

1977- present

Peachy your profile didn't half make me giggle

Then writing it was 15 seconds well spent "

Should do poems for cards, poems by peachy

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I'm shy and I don't like anyone look. Kinda scared to meet with it x"

It would say a lot about the person you meet, if there had issues with scars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first child I had no marks or anything.

I'm due to give birth now and really hope not to have any scars or stretch marks.

I work as a nude model so would not help me in the slightest

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