FabSwingers.com forum: Married but lesbian friend wanting fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her?

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Easy.

Yes, life's too short

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By *ykeymm8Man
over a year ago

southampton

If hubby is good with that. Go for it. I'd talk with him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

If you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you got to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if the answer would be yes go for it if it was a man asking if he should try out his gay mate?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Dont regret being a beaver leaver

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Aslong as she knows that's all it is. If it's just mutual adult fun and both know where you stand before ha d then go for it. The real test will be after. Seeing how strong your friendship is and. It letting what ever happens effect the friendship. After all the friendship is worth more than one night in the sack together.

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By *alty2017Man
over a year ago

Stranraer

I would definitely go for it. With a pussy like yours I'd let lots of ladies lick it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

If your other half is cool with it, go for it. Have fun fun.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

I'd say no...I would find someone else to have some fun with. The fact that she's told you she's fancied you for years would set alarm bells ringing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder if the answer would be yes go for it if it was a man asking if he should try out his gay mate? "

My answer would be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do it..... sex with vanilla friends should be off limits...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was thinking about saying no matter what happens we remain friends afterwards.

She has blown my mind away at the thought of it. I really want to but now feel like maybe I have had these feelings all along for her too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Go for it you’ve got nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her?

I'd say no...I would find someone else to have some fun with. The fact that she's told you she's fancied you for years would set alarm bells ringing for me."

Why? X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d speak to hubby and tell him your lesbian friend fancies sex with you and see what he says. If he says go for it then all good if he says no way you can say you’d been thinking of trying it out. I cnt see why he wouldn’t want you to but there again I probably don’t think like most people.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her?

I'd say no...I would find someone else to have some fun with. The fact that she's told you she's fancied you for years would set alarm bells ringing for me.

Why? X"

Because I've seen situations like this end up a total mess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha I'm sure if I told hubby he would want to join in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what I'm scared of x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Haha I'm sure if I told hubby he would want to join in x"
there you go then. See if he values you and your marriage over his principals. I have an inkling he will be keen for you to try.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"That's what I'm scared of x"

It will mean a lot more to your friend than just some fun.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her?

If your other half is cool with it, go for it. Have fun fun."

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Oh God that's an easy one. You get a conscience free hall pass for that .

It simply doesn't count as being unfaithful as it's not something a man can compete with.

I think all women should be encouraged to have a bit of lickage on the side. I certainly wouldn't feel threatened by it if I was hubbs.

And of course we always lived in hope that we can see footage, watch or the holy grail, joining in.

Go on. Have a sensual experience with a best friend. What could be better?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Wonder if the answer would be yes go for it if it was a man asking if he should try out his gay mate? "

Oh, that's a different story, as men are dogs and you're liable to catch something.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

This is entirely dependant if by fancy she means thinks your attractive, or fancy meaning emotionally. If the latter, hell no

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Don't tell hubb S up front. You may find that drinking from the furry cup isn't for you.

In which case no harm done. At least you know.

If you like it, then mention to hubbs that you're developing an appreciation of the female form. Unless he's a complete dullard, he'll be offering encouragement for sure.

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder if the answer would be yes go for it if it was a man asking if he should try out his gay mate?

Oh, that's a different story, as men are dogs and you're liable to catch something."

I hope that’s just an ill placed joke

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

You’re having our eyes out!!!!????

PS I identify as a lesbian. Could you put in a good word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all

knew I could count on you all for advice x

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By *heGriswoldsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Omg - OP your lucky to be given that opportunity!!

I would love to have another woman fancy me and offer me some fun! It’s a huge fantasy of mine....and Mr G’s!!

We had a couple friend which we had dabbled with but they split up and moved away....kind of how we started here!! I’d say if hubby ok with it, go for it!!

Never regret what you don’t do - regret the stuff you do!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how the comments would be had this been a guy asking advice about cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how the comments would be had this been a guy asking advice about cheating. "

You don't think they'd be saying do it and then tell your wife after?

I'd be very wary if she means she has feelings for you.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Just wondering, does hubby or your friend know you are on here and have had meets?

I'd be careful what info you share, and with who.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how the comments would be had this been a guy asking advice about cheating.

You don't think they'd be saying do it and then tell your wife after?

I'd be very wary if she means she has feelings for you."

No, I think they'd be telling him he was wrong and a bastard for wanting to cheat without her knowing, and he should be talking to her.

That's usually the way it goes when a married guy says he's thinking about playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah do it. But don't forget to post the pics lol. But if I was ya hubby I'd wanna know. That wud turn me on knowing my gf/wife was with another woman. But that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tread carefully as she’s a friend and has fancied you for ages. You don’t want to hurt her feelings if it’s not for you. Also, you should be upfront with your hubby.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yeah do it. But don't forget to post the pics lol. But if I was ya hubby I'd wanna know. That wud turn me on knowing my gf/wife was with another woman. But that's just me."
and me

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Wonder if the answer would be yes go for it if it was a man asking if he should try out his gay mate?

Oh, that's a different story, as men are dogs and you're liable to catch something.

I hope that’s just an ill placed joke"

A woman friend here gets plenty of messages. They're all along the line of come and sit on my cock ...now. She's unimpressed and can't find anyone reasonable and genuine. Blocking profiles for England and Wales for that matter.

Men are dogs. We all get tarred with the same brush. Shame

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Yeah do it. But don't forget to post the pics lol. But if I was ya hubby I'd wanna know. That wud turn me on knowing my gf/wife was with another woman. But that's just me."

Me too. Such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

Just lick each others pussies....if there's no penetration then its not cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I'm married and have always fancied some fun with another woman but never had the courage to do it.

A friend of mine is a lesbian and has told me she has fancied me for years. Should I go have some fun with her? "

YOLO

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

This needs debating?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Make 100 % sure your husband is ok with it as you can not take it back ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make 100 % sure your husband is ok with it as you can not take it back .."

He will be happy to watch you for sure if he’s a man

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Make 100 % sure your husband is ok with it as you can not take it back ..

He will be happy to watch you for sure if he’s a man "

Not everyone is broken like us you know.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"Oh God that's an easy one. You get a conscience free hall pass for that .

It simply doesn't count as being unfaithful as it's not something a man can compete with.

I think all women should be encouraged to have a bit of lickage on the side. I certainly wouldn't feel threatened by it if I was hubbs.

And of course we always lived in hope that we can see footage, watch or the holy grail, joining in.

Go on. Have a sensual experience with a best friend. What could be better?

Mx"

Well there's double standards bollocks of the day award. What utter nonsense.

So if I was married to a sex less English woman and a tiny young Thai girl offered herself to me the ts a free pass too?

If you intend hiding it from your husband, no of course not.

If you intend discussing it with him first I would still be very careful as has already been said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make 100 % sure your husband is ok with it as you can not take it back ..

He will be happy to watch you for sure if he’s a man

Not everyone is broken like us you know.

Broken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how the comments would be had this been a guy asking advice about cheating.

You don't think they'd be saying do it and then tell your wife after?

I'd be very wary if she means she has feelings for you.

No, I think they'd be telling him he was wrong and a bastard for wanting to cheat without her knowing, and he should be talking to her.

That's usually the way it goes when a married guy says he's thinking about playing away. "

Only just seen this, I agree with you and was being sarcastic

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