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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I see numerous threads and comments about this gender are rude, this gender does this, this gender does the other..(insert yawn emoji)

Why don't these folk use the tools at their disposal to stop the rude.. stop the whatever..

I can only think of two reasons

1) I like the attention too much

2) I'd rather complain or I'd have nothing to say.

Thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Or they been gilted/rejected and this is a way of getting revenge/feeling better.

Not always the case but I think sometimes it's the reason in the background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 for me. My life is that empty and I have nothing intelligent to say, so I moan about others!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony! "

I thought the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fabwhingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts ?

I guess it's a way off getting stuff out your system O.P

It's not compulsory to read them though,I just go to another one if it's yawny...

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony! "

It's a forum.. maybe I've nothing more interesting to say..

Or maybe it's open for folk to offer an opinion and if the subject is interesting enough folk will.. if it holds no interest thread will have tumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony! "

you forgot seeking attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony!

It's a forum.. maybe I've nothing more interesting to say..

Or maybe it's open for folk to offer an opinion and if the subject is interesting enough folk will.. if it holds no interest thread will have tumble "

Correct it is a forum...

So there are bound to be threads people don’t like. I just move onto one I do, rather than start a post about a thread I don’t like... pretty simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the moaners, sometimes they remind me it's good to be me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like it move on... as this is a forum people can post what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony!

It's a forum.. maybe I've nothing more interesting to say..

Or maybe it's open for folk to offer an opinion and if the subject is interesting enough folk will.. if it holds no interest thread will have tumble

Correct it is a forum...

So there are bound to be threads people don’t like. I just move onto one I do, rather than start a post about a thread I don’t like... pretty simple!

"

Can you and the Op just get a room already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony!

It's a forum.. maybe I've nothing more interesting to say..

Or maybe it's open for folk to offer an opinion and if the subject is interesting enough folk will.. if it holds no interest thread will have tumble

Correct it is a forum...

So there are bound to be threads people don’t like. I just move onto one I do, rather than start a post about a thread I don’t like... pretty simple!

Can you and the Op just get a room already?"

Hahahaha.

I’m good thanks!

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony!

It's a forum.. maybe I've nothing more interesting to say..

Or maybe it's open for folk to offer an opinion and if the subject is interesting enough folk will.. if it holds no interest thread will have tumble

Correct it is a forum...

So there are bound to be threads people don’t like. I just move onto one I do, rather than start a post about a thread I don’t like... pretty simple!

"

Thanks for that... you choose to do your thing ..I'll do mine.. simple.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I like doing this, that and the other. 3 and more makes for an awesome night xxx Suzi

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Move along OP ..... nothing to see here ...

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"I see numerous threads and comments about this gender are rude, this gender does this, this gender does the other..(insert yawn emoji)

Why don't these folk use the tools at their disposal to stop the rude.. stop the whatever..

I can only think of two reasons

1) I like the attention too much

2) I'd rather complain or I'd have nothing to say.

Thoughts ?"

I don't start the threads you talk about, but I do vent on them. Why, because it is good to vent with people that understand the situation. I can't exactly vent about it to my friends in real life (as they don't know I'm on this site).

The thread you are referring to closed before you could answer (or you couldn't be bothered to answer me). I have had crass messages from single males, single females, tvs and couples. If I blocked them all from contacting me (and everyone on the site did the same (because they are fed up of the crass messages), how are we meant to do what this site is intended for - meeting?

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"I see numerous threads and comments about this gender are rude, this gender does this, this gender does the other..(insert yawn emoji)

Why don't these folk use the tools at their disposal to stop the rude.. stop the whatever..

I can only think of two reasons

1) I like the attention too much

2) I'd rather complain or I'd have nothing to say.

Thoughts ?

I don't start the threads you talk about, but I do vent on them. Why, because it is good to vent with people that understand the situation. I can't exactly vent about it to my friends in real life (as they don't know I'm on this site).

The thread you are referring to closed before you could answer (or you couldn't be bothered to answer me). I have had crass messages from single males, single females, tvs and couples. If I blocked them all from contacting me (and everyone on the site did the same (because they are fed up of the crass messages), how are we meant to do what this site is intended for - meeting?"

Not everyone receives rude crass messages though., myself I've had one rude message from a lady (she now occupies a spot on my block list) and if it's one message in a lots I'll continue to block individuals, if I was getting lots of rude messages from one or more groups then I'd block that whole group..

If and it's a big if.. everyone was receiving rude crass messages then they'd go back to the 'old fashioned' way and meet at socials or other venues face to face.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"I see numerous threads and comments about this gender are rude, this gender does this, this gender does the other..(insert yawn emoji)

Why don't these folk use the tools at their disposal to stop the rude.. stop the whatever..

I can only think of two reasons

1) I like the attention too much

2) I'd rather complain or I'd have nothing to say.

Thoughts ?

I don't start the threads you talk about, but I do vent on them. Why, because it is good to vent with people that understand the situation. I can't exactly vent about it to my friends in real life (as they don't know I'm on this site).

The thread you are referring to closed before you could answer (or you couldn't be bothered to answer me). I have had crass messages from single males, single females, tvs and couples. If I blocked them all from contacting me (and everyone on the site did the same (because they are fed up of the crass messages), how are we meant to do what this site is intended for - meeting?

Not everyone receives rude crass messages though., myself I've had one rude message from a lady (she now occupies a spot on my block list) and if it's one message in a lots I'll continue to block individuals, if I was getting lots of rude messages from one or more groups then I'd block that whole group..

If and it's a big if.. everyone was receiving rude crass messages then they'd go back to the 'old fashioned' way and meet at socials or other venues face to face. "

As a single female, I'm unlikely to attend clubs as some men think it is ok to touch women (and most probably men) without permission. There are also no socials in my area.

The point I'm trying to make, apparently badly, is that men's lack of respect for women is the issue. That should be changed and challenged instead of victim shaming and saying I should have to change to fit into the way that men act.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Or let me put it another way. Why should I modify my behaviour. I have done nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slips quietly away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or let me put it another way. Why should I modify my behaviour. I have done nothing wrong."

I agree.

You shouldn't have to modify your behaviour but they won't change.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Moans about others moaning...

Then proceeds to make a thread moaning about others moaning...

The irony! "

yup, we thought pretty much that way

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

It baffles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or let me put it another way. Why should I modify my behaviour. I have done nothing wrong.

I agree.

You shouldn't have to modify your behaviour but they won't change. "

Very true!

I just block & move on! Their words don’t affect me or my enjoyment of this site one bit! But if they are threatening etc, they will be reported too.

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