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Where in Leeds are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tingley at the min so border of leeds wakey fyi

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I get that all the time, well not about Leeds, but Southend.

'Where abouts are you from?'

'Southend'

'Yeah, but what bit?'

'Well, you'll never come to my house, so what does it matter?'

Drives me mad!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Those pensioner day rider bus passes only work on certain buses at certain times you know

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know."

As long as you don’t say chapeltown ,, what’s the problem?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess."

Doesn't Polar Bear live near Tesco, or is that Iceland?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always message me with 'i didn't know there was a toytown in wales' tbh it makes a good filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tingley at the min so border of leeds wakey fyi"

Good to know ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that all the time, well not about Leeds, but Southend.

'Where abouts are you from?'

'Southend'

'Yeah, but what bit?'

'Well, you'll never come to my house, so what does it matter?'

Drives me mad!"

Glad I’m not the only one..

And that’s precisely how I feel about the location of my house..

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess."

I’ve bumped into someone in Tesco so yes, you need to be careful there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

I’ve bumped into someone in Tesco so yes, you need to be careful there "

I’ll bear it in mind. Reckon they’d struggle to ID me from public pics though. I don’t usually have my baps out in the frozen veg aisle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So where in Leeds are you love ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

Did they compliment your pictures when they bumped into you?

I’ve bumped into someone in Tesco so yes, you need to be careful there "

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

I’ve bumped into someone in Tesco so yes, you need to be careful there

I’ll bear it in mind. Reckon they’d struggle to ID me from public pics though. I don’t usually have my baps out in the frozen veg aisle."

Is that not a barcode I see on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

Doesn't Polar Bear live near Tesco, or is that Iceland? "

Nah it’s Waitrose actually

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

Doesn't Polar Bear live near Tesco, or is that Iceland?

Nah it’s Waitrose actually "

Next you'll be telling us you're a professional as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tingley at the min so border of leeds wakey fyi

Good to know .."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know."

could they not simply be making conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making conversation and trying to establish if you have any areas in common that might spark a conversation?

Or perhaps just nosey and trying to pin you down to an area in the vain hope of bumping into you in Tesco via "Who's Near?"

Or any number of other reasons I guess.

Doesn't Polar Bear live near Tesco, or is that Iceland?

Nah it’s Waitrose actually

Next you'll be telling us you're a professional as well "

Aye professionally amateur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know."

They're probably married and want to make sure you're not their next door neighbour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know.

They're probably married and want to make sure you're not their next door neighbour. "

That’s what I wonder. It’s too lame a question to be ‘conversation’ surely? Within a couple of messages..there’s so much more to talk about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know.

As long as you don’t say chapeltown ,, what’s the problem? "
or gipton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does anyone need to ask that within the first few messages? I don’t get it? Are people not willing to travel outside of their bit of the city? Or checking I’m from a nice enough part? So many people ask me this, and never explain why they want to know.

They're probably married and want to make sure you're not their next door neighbour.

That’s what I wonder. It’s too lame a question to be ‘conversation’ surely? Within a couple of messages..there’s so much more to talk about.."

Depends on the person I think. Some really don't know what to say. They're pleased they got a reply and don't want to fuck it up.

Some are definitely married or attached and checking for locality because they've told me that's why they are asking.

Some just want to be discreet because of their jobs and don't want to be sending a face pic to someone they can't trust.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm flying Yorkshire Airlines. Departing Leeds international airstrip, touching down 20 minutes later at Leeds international airstrip. Because if it's outside Yorkshire it's not worth bloody visiting.

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