FabSwingers.com forum: is it easier to be nice than nasty?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And still be liked/disliked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think all the combinations can be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think all the combinations can be true.

that's a good answer for a confusing question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughs

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughs"
tbag.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people are easier to be nice to than others.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughstbag."

Its nice to be nice why be nasty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are easier to be nice to than others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't hurt to be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't hurt to be nice

it totally does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't hurt to be nice

It seems to with some tho

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

It's so easy to laugh, it's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughstbag.

Its nice to be nice why be nasty x"

To intimidate the enemy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people won't like a nice person, because they aren't very nice themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so easy to laugh, it's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind......"

That's so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go shove a submarine up your arse op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to be nice,I don't have time for nasty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think all the combinations can be true.

that's a good answer for a confusing question

Thank you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

There is just no need to be nasty but the world is full of all sorts, if we were all same it would be a boring place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

ill shove it up yours...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It's so easy to laugh, it's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind......"

Tune!

Love is natural and real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It doesn’t hurt to be nice and it’s not a crime either. I would rather be nice than nasty any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't hurt to be nice

it totally does"

Why

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Its always nice to be nice x

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Now one likes me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some nice people aren't really nice at all though

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol"

That's not very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't suffer fools.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I always try and be nice to everyone I talk to on here, it doesn't stop me getting the occasional nasty message for no apparent reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's her easy be nasty online because it's faceless. But id much rather be nice any day whether online or in person. You never know what struggles people might have. So for me it's be nice as much as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughstbag."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol

That's not very nice

Lol sorry I just love irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol

That's not very nice

Lol sorry I just love ironing

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girls this guys who ya want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes the same amount of effort. Main difference is your own existence is a lot better when you're nice to people. Plus if someone is still being a dick whilst you're being nice to them, then you definitely know they're not worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's harder to be nice if it doesn't come naturally. It's easy to sit and just bitch and moan and spread gossip. I think it goes hand in hand with how boring you are. It's a lot harder to be surrounded by that and to rise above it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice 1 - nasty - 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I know how to be nasty. Even when I'm angry with people I tend to blame myself instead of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the situation involved. Sometimes being firm in a constructive way is what's required. I'm more a keep it positive way than waste time with negative energies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go shove a submarine up your arse op

And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol

That's not very nice

I assumed he was merely trying to describe me as extremely well endowed... extremely extremely well endowed

Although I was somewhat unnerved by the inference of multiple appendages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think I know how to be nasty. Even when I'm angry with people I tend to blame myself instead of others "

it's a shame its come to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I know how to be nasty. Even when I'm angry with people I tend to blame myself instead of others "

That doesn't sound healthy. Sometimes anger is a natural response to people being 'nasty'. Don't blame yourself if you're not to blame

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I like to be nice im very rarely nasty just want laughstbag.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Are you ready?....

Some do, some don't, some will, some won't

I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.

I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.

I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.

I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.

I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I find it easy to be nice, because I am like that in the real world.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don't think I know how to be nasty. Even when I'm angry with people I tend to blame myself instead of others "

Been there, done that and still do at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.

I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.

I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.

I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me."
you go girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's harder to be nice.

You have to rise above things, deal with differences, quell your thoughts, think of others first...and so it goes.

Nasty? Heck do whatever you want...easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck you poster below me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like you I like you, if I think you’re a knobhead I tend to show it, subtly.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Fuck you poster below me "

Heeeey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck you poster below me "

It feels good thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I think it's harder to be nice.

You have to rise above things, deal with differences, quell your thoughts, think of others first...and so it goes.

Nasty? Heck do whatever you want...easy."

you might have to rise above things, deal w differences and quell your thoughts to be REALLY nasty though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being nasty takes effort and I'm a lazy bastard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I like you I like you, if I think you’re a knobhead I tend to show it, subtly."

You're adorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you ready?....

Some do, some don't, some will, some won't

I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.

I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.

I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.

I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.

I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me."

You got in first!

Now, back to the room etc etc.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Are you ready?....

Some do, some don't, some will, some won't

I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.

I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.

I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.

I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.

I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me.

You got in first!

Now, back to the room etc etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you I like you, if I think you’re a knobhead I tend to show it, subtly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others decide if I'm nice or nasty or if they like me or don't.

What I say matters little. Friends or others will always make their own decisions....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it easier to poop or piss? One of life's many mysteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And still be liked/disliked?

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It's easier to be a nasty people to people, but it does mean people won't like you.

Wearing your heart on your sleeve is a tough task to keep up. I would say it's easier, but there are a lot of people out there that only want to be around when it's all sunshine and rainbows, but disappear as soon as life starts getting a bit dark and stormy for people, or just bad people who will take advantage of peoples good nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes the same amount of effort. Main difference is your own existence is a lot better when you're nice to people. Plus if someone is still being a dick whilst you're being nice to them, then you definitely know they're not worth your time"

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