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Done anything that frightened you lately?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I gave a presentation to one of the London councils today, and I get very scared before public speaking although it’s an expected part of my role. All went well though and I really enjoyed it, because I got to talk about my job and I love my job so much that I trip over myself with excitement.

There was a moment on waking up this morning though, that I wanted to cancel. It felt too scary.

What was the last thing or a recent thing you’ve done that scared you? Or have you got something pending that you’re worrying about?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a mega meet today and was a bag of nerves because of my back but I think I managed quite well. So not scared but nervous and wary. I’m fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a job interview coming up soon which will involve an extensive test of knowledge in my particular field of History, not just "facts" but detailed analysis too. And I'm a bit shaky in that my mind and mouth will go blank!!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked at my bank balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ate a Papa John's XXL The Works and them considered if I should have bought some sides too.

Terrifying, looking back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F&b got his cock out tho other day terrfied me

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Yeah something happening this weekend. Many scary things lately.

Well done op x

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By *eter9481Man
over a year ago

Grangemouth

My f/buddy received her strap on my birthday present back in April. I was terrified. Took 3 weeks then lots of vodka. But wow it's amazing. Can say I had the best orgasm of my life at 37

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend recently asked me to buy some tampons for her daughter while I was at the supermarket

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"F&b got his cock out tho other day terrfied me "
don’t you like maggots?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say frightened but I was shitting myself before and during my last job interview about 5 months ago. 2 company directors grilled me for 2 hours, can't remember any of it really but I got the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"F&b got his cock out tho other day terrfied me don’t you like maggots? "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP well done it's not easy!

I break horses .... Scared daily!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a mega meet today and was a bag of nerves because of my back but I think I managed quite well. So not scared but nervous and wary. I’m fine! "

Mega meet? Sounds like it was from the 80s!

Glad all went well xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a job interview coming up soon which will involve an extensive test of knowledge in my particular field of History, not just "facts" but detailed analysis too. And I'm a bit shaky in that my mind and mouth will go blank!!.. "

I always say if I’m nervous and explain it’s because I care and this is important to me. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looked at my bank balance "

*scratches name off my list*

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I had a mega meet today and was a bag of nerves because of my back but I think I managed quite well. So not scared but nervous and wary. I’m fine!

Mega meet? Sounds like it was from the 80s!

Glad all went well xx"

I was part of the A Team so yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave a presentation to one of the London councils today, and I get very scared before public speaking although it’s an expected part of my role. All went well though and I really enjoyed it, because I got to talk about my job and I love my job so much that I trip over myself with excitement.

There was a moment on waking up this morning though, that I wanted to cancel. It felt too scary.

What was the last thing or a recent thing you’ve done that scared you? Or have you got something pending that you’re worrying about?"

Congrats, well done beating the fear and having a good day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ate a Papa John's XXL The Works and them considered if I should have bought some sides too.

Terrifying, looking back."

I want a pizza that action*

(*you, not the pizza)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"F&b got his cock out tho other day terrfied me "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah something happening this weekend. Many scary things lately.

Well done op x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My f/buddy received her strap on my birthday present back in April. I was terrified. Took 3 weeks then lots of vodka. But wow it's amazing. Can say I had the best orgasm of my life at 37"

Oh yeah!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend recently asked me to buy some tampons for her daughter while I was at the supermarket "

And?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm moving to a bigger place soon. It's scary because I've been living well within my means for ages now and got used to having spare money. Paying for a nicer place to live will make me a lot more afraid of losing work or just generally fucking up financially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting people into my flat yesterday. Sounds tame but it wasn't for me.

Getting the train to Leeds tomorrow and finding my hotel on my ownio tomorrow is a bit unnerving but exciting as I haven't been before and travelling on my own isn't my favourite. Exciting because it's a new adventure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say frightened but I was shitting myself before and during my last job interview about 5 months ago. 2 company directors grilled me for 2 hours, can't remember any of it really but I got the job."

Enjoying the job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ate a Papa John's XXL The Works and them considered if I should have bought some sides too.

Terrifying, looking back."

They are the only pizza takeaway who uses real Mozzarella, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP well done it's not easy!

I break horses .... Scared daily!"

Please tell me you glue them back together again after?

#BoxerfromAnimalFarmjoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do one thing every day that scares you"

Love this song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 4 and a half hour plane journey to do twice next month.

The nearer it gets the more sick I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a mega meet today and was a bag of nerves because of my back but I think I managed quite well. So not scared but nervous and wary. I’m fine!

Mega meet? Sounds like it was from the 80s!

Glad all went well xx

I was part of the A Team so yeah. "

Epic!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I gave a presentation to one of the London councils today, and I get very scared before public speaking although it’s an expected part of my role. All went well though and I really enjoyed it, because I got to talk about my job and I love my job so much that I trip over myself with excitement.

There was a moment on waking up this morning though, that I wanted to cancel. It felt too scary.

What was the last thing or a recent thing you’ve done that scared you? Or have you got something pending that you’re worrying about?

Congrats, well done beating the fear and having a good day x

"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven't. I can't say that I get frightened as such. I get nervous, worried or anxious but rarely am I frightened at this stage of my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm moving to a bigger place soon. It's scary because I've been living well within my means for ages now and got used to having spare money. Paying for a nicer place to live will make me a lot more afraid of losing work or just generally fucking up financially."

Trust in yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Letting people into my flat yesterday. Sounds tame but it wasn't for me.

Getting the train to Leeds tomorrow and finding my hotel on my ownio tomorrow is a bit unnerving but exciting as I haven't been before and travelling on my own isn't my favourite. Exciting because it's a new adventure. "

Be brave! Be bold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a job interview coming up soon which will involve an extensive test of knowledge in my particular field of History, not just "facts" but detailed analysis too. And I'm a bit shaky in that my mind and mouth will go blank!!..

I always say if I’m nervous and explain it’s because I care and this is important to me. Good luck!"

All noted. And thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a 4 and a half hour plane journey to do twice next month.

The nearer it gets the more sick I feel. "

You’ve got this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I haven't. I can't say that I get frightened as such. I get nervous, worried or anxious but rarely am I frightened at this stage of my life."

Possibly semantics.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Afraid i can't say.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Had to tell a UK director of our company that in fact he had got his dates wrong, and no I coudlnt just drop everything I was doing just so he didn't look bad.

Survived to the end of the day at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting people into my flat yesterday. Sounds tame but it wasn't for me.

Getting the train to Leeds tomorrow and finding my hotel on my ownio tomorrow is a bit unnerving but exciting as I haven't been before and travelling on my own isn't my favourite. Exciting because it's a new adventure.

Be brave! Be bold!"

Oh I am! I'm going to be there for a few hours by myself anyway as my company won't arrive until early evening, so I've been inspecting Google maps for interesting things. Newest discovery is that there's a Lush shop about ten minutes away and there'll be a bath in my en suite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a 4 and a half hour plane journey to do twice next month.

The nearer it gets the more sick I feel. "

You’ll be ok, I’ve had to conquer my fear of flying this year, flying alone for work, I was like you the more I thought about it before the worse I felt but I did it and the best part was the bit inbetween getting to see somewhere I would never have otherwise seen. Take things keep you occupied and you’ll be absolutely fine

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By *eter9481Man
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I actually got a reply from a female tonight...... Scared the life out of me

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Came out as bi and lilly to my other sister. Told the first one a few months back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just booked my first foreign solo holiday and the thought of spending that much money on myself terrified me! Stupid really but I kept thinking of all the other thngs I could have done with the money. Still it’s done now, Greece here I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually got a reply from a female tonight...... Scared the life out of me "

Scary things, them wimmin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came out as bi and lilly to my other sister. Told the first one a few months back"

Loves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atm i have high anxiety issues, so everything

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Looking at some of the profiles on here frightens me.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Came out as bi and lilly to my other sister. Told the first one a few months back

Loves xx"

Kisses

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