FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *evonfuncouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yelverton

Do we read into or rely too much on them, do couples who have been verified feel they can afford to then waste others time and treat others with little respect?

Spotted a new profile (1 day old) that had been verified, so how does that work? Also have had our/my time wasted by others who have been verified and on the other hand met very nice genuine people who have been on the site for some time, not V because they are selective and choose to be very discreet. There are genuine people on here with no verifications who are labeled time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

verification's can be given by a friend who introduced them to the site, or from someone they had met a while ago that had found them on here

Ive had several veri's from men given to me even though we didn't meet originally via fabs we 'bumped' into each other on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have easily been seen on cam first night and someones verified them.

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By *evonfuncouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yelverton

"verification's can be given by a friend who introduced them to the site, or from someone they had met a while ago that had found them on here

Ive had several veri's from men given to me even though we didn't meet originally via fabs we 'bumped' into each other on here.

That's my point, friends will do this and all due respect to you, some will back you up no matter what and doesn't stop the same person being rude to others. I feel for some its a licence to do as they please and others without, left standing out in the cold. Like all systems it works for some but not all, I think far too much emphasis is placed on veri.

If there were genuine unverified people they wouldn't be allowed to post here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really do not think being rude to people is down to being verified, some people are just rude and would be wether they was verified or not

if your a nice person getting a few verification isnt going to rurn you into a disrespectful person thats just in you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I was well known on another site... so within a few hours I had people from there verify me as genuine because they had met me...

some people go, and come back, and people remember them and verify them straight away....

there are a multitude of genuine reason...

the key thing with verification with respect, is that some people think they are the "be all and end all".... whereas on the forums what you will find is that a lot of people take them with a pinch of salt....

for example... would you take the opinion of someone you didn't know in other things... probably not, you would go out and find out for yourself... you'd do your own research...

I don't really see a difference....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Do we read into or rely too much on them, do couples who have been verified feel they can afford to then waste others time and treat others with little respect?

Just what is it you expect a verification to do? What do you think a verification actually tells you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only meet those who are meet verified and not cam or phone verified as i know then that the meet verifications show that they are genuine swingers and not those who like to talk the talk. But i have verified people who have jumped over the site from another whom i have met previously so that will show up within an hour of them joining.

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