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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has been asked before and I've read several related threads and looked at the FAQ section but it mostly concerns old or dormant messages.

Today I sent a message to a local member and it went unread for an hour or two afterwards but just checked in and there is no evidence I ever sent it. It's not been read and deleted? Its just not there?

As I say I've read a few threads and not got any answers??

This happened a few weeks ago too and thought maybe I hadn't actually sent it but I knew I had.

Any ideas??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they left the site? Blocked you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the person left the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twilight zone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have they left the site? Blocked you?"

Blocking wouldn’t remove the message. But leaving site would, with the new changes to site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New rules regarding mail if they get suspended blocked or leave etc any mail sent gets automatically removed from mail box to stop old messages cluttering up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arius, that sounds plausible, I don't remember the exact spelling of their user name so can't check if they blocked me but their original post is missing from my news feed so maybe they left but previously the message still shows in sent box but with the notation "user has left the site"

Maybe things have changed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arius, that sounds plausible, I don't remember the exact spelling of their user name so can't check if they blocked me but their original post is missing from my news feed so maybe they left but previously the message still shows in sent box but with the notation "user has left the site"

Maybe things have changed??"

Which is exactly what I posted before him. The new rule is in your updates feed.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Arius, that sounds plausible, I don't remember the exact spelling of their user name so can't check if they blocked me but their original post is missing from my news feed so maybe they left but previously the message still shows in sent box but with the notation "user has left the site"

Maybe things have changed??"

They changed recently to stop people joining, sending shitty messages then leaving.

One of my messages disappeared the other day to, not long after I'd met him for a social. Think it was something I said

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Theres gremlins in the system somewhere. I have a couple of messages I have not yet read for a few weeks, and occasionally they 'disappear' then come back a couple of days later. And no, the senders haven't left the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry Estella I missed that, but yes that must be it. Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely not in your case, maybe he just left. You're lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gremlins are always a pest lol, except the cute ones.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Theres gremlins in the system somewhere. I have a couple of messages I have not yet read for a few weeks, and occasionally they 'disappear' then come back a couple of days later. And no, the senders haven't left the site."

Is that because they've been pushed off the page by subsequent messages received that you've then deleted, causing the other messages to come back up the list?

I do know that if sent messages go unread for a period of time (3 weeks I think) they then auto-delete but not sure if that applies to received messages too.

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