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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think she's being overly sensitive, but obviously it put her off! And repugnant is an excellent word.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Repugnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C'est totalement repugnant mais je l'aime quand même

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is a great word, shame it was used in the context it was

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Pugnant

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You think she's being overly sensitive and she thinks the status is repugnant. You've saved yourself some time as you are not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true and I certainly have not begged her to reconsider

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"C'est totalement repugnant mais je l'aime quand même"

Vous et francoise aussi? J’ai Parle francais tres bienne

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"I think she's being overly sensitive, but obviously it put her off! And repugnant is an excellent word. "

Such a great word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually found it tnanguper but that’s just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with honesty! She obviously wernt for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Word of the day ........... repugnant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if repugnant is derived from pugnant but it would be nice if it was!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses."

Honestly, half the time i think some of the single women on here navigated to the wrong site whilst looking for mums net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses."
overly sensitive but maybe if it's a social meet you were being premature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C'est totalement repugnant mais je l'aime quand même

Vous et francoise aussi? J’ai Parle francais tres bienne "

Je veux baiser des chattes poilues

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I actually found it tnanguper but that’s just my opinion x"

Nah you're getting it all backwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually found it tnanguper but that’s just my opinion x

Nah you're getting it all backwards. "

my mistake! forgive me for my sins x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"C'est totalement repugnant mais je l'aime quand même

Vous et francoise aussi? J’ai Parle francais tres bienne

Je veux baiser des chattes poilues "

I’ve only been to Calais and then it was only the supermarket for beer and fags

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I don't think it's repugnant at all, statuses saying things like "want a slut to drain my balls" would come under that umbrella in my mind.

But different things appeal to different people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That actually made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she was a miserable cow with no sense of humour or fun.

Her loss ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is sweet of you x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I actually found it tnanguper but that’s just my opinion x

Nah you're getting it all backwards.

my mistake! forgive me for my sins x"

Say ten liah syram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone said that to me in a message I'd instantly delete it.

I'm no prude but I hate any kind of presumed fun. Also when I shudder it's in a mr burns way, like its not a good thing. I also don't scream when I'm having sex so it makes me think the kind of sex that guy wants wouldn't match what I like.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Brilliant word, I will use it tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and point taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem in the status. Prefer that to meet now statuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

Honestly, half the time i think some of the single women on here navigated to the wrong site whilst looking for mums net"

Haha! Yes, I’ve heard stories that have made me wonder. Or came on with a large glass of Chardonnay in hand to get their own back on the men of the UK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe we should start a word of the day topic on the forum!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I use the word repugnant sometimes but rarely share when I do...

But I would find that status vulgar I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would like have a clash of personality/humour if that was the case so look at is as an opportunity to avoid a potentially awkward meet and you've not wasted any time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, do you fancy meetig now

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

It was a status.

Not like you sent it to her in a message?

Maybe she doesn't like being spanked? Or maybe she's never been fucked til she screams so doesn't understand.

Or maybe she's just not for you and you've had a lucky escape?

Each to their own but personally I find it amusing.

Like the whole "maid in the kitchen, lady in the drawing room, whore in the bedroom" Moto.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please don’t be afraid, I genuinely want honest opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C'est totalement repugnant mais je l'aime quand même

Vous et francoise aussi? J’ai Parle francais tres bienne

je veux baiser les ânes poilus"
FTFY

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Very true and I certainly have not begged her to reconsider "

In all honesty it’s the kind of status I might expect from a 22yr old boy/man - not a 45yr old!

When I meet someone close to my own age I expect it to be a meeting of minds/personalities as well as bodies!

Not saying I’d cancel if a ‘mature’ future meet put up a status like that - but I’d be going along with a little trepidation - rightly or wrongly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was certainly not meant in a aggressive manner, more it was something I read and it made me smile; especially as it was a lady friend who sent it to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit cheesy for me.

Reminds me of those memes going around on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it either to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s okay, I don’t don’t take offence.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

I find that status update repugnant.

And abhorrent

And abominable

I don’t really - just wanted to throw a couple of other good words into the fray.

Bullet dodged OP, if a status referring to sex on a swinger’s site has rubbed someone up the wrong way then there is probably no chance of you ever rubbing her up the right way.

Or indeed fingering her until she is soaked

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Very true"

Use Reply & quote, so we can see who you are talking to OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe abhorrent should be tomorrow’s word of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that status update repugnant.

And abhorrent

And abominable

I don’t really - just wanted to throw a couple of other good words into the fray.

Bullet dodged OP, if a status referring to sex on a swinger’s site has rubbed someone up the wrong way then there is probably no chance of you ever rubbing her up the right way.

Or indeed fingering her until she is soaked "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very true

Use Reply & quote, so we can see who you are talking to OP "

Thanks, sorry first day using forum!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find it repugnant but it is a bit cheesy/Pinterest ish. I don’t really find myself sexually drawn to cheesy men as they are usually not my kind of filthy in the bedroom.

But it would not make me huff off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t find it repugnant but it is a bit cheesy/Pinterest ish. I don’t really find myself sexually drawn to cheesy men as they are usually not my kind of filthy in the bedroom.

But it would not make me huff off. "

I think it was a Facebook post. It just made me smile but I totally get that others would find it cheesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t find it repugnant but it is a bit cheesy/Pinterest ish. I don’t really find myself sexually drawn to cheesy men as they are usually not my kind of filthy in the bedroom.

But it would not make me huff off. "

You mean like one of these "If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or 'I'm loyal'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's off-puttingly corny, more than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t find it repugnant but it is a bit cheesy/Pinterest ish. I don’t really find myself sexually drawn to cheesy men as they are usually not my kind of filthy in the bedroom.

But it would not make me huff off.

You mean like one of these "If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" "

Yeah something like that (i might have used that in my profile at one point though!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your replies and your honesty. As I say, first time I have posted in the forum and it’s great to hear different points of view.

I think I will leave it at the moment as it did make me smile and it was put up with good intentions.

I am now traveling Pinterest for my next motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone said that to me in a message I'd instantly delete it.

I'm no prude but I hate any kind of presumed fun. Also when I shudder it's in a mr burns way, like its not a good thing. I also don't scream when I'm having sex so it makes me think the kind of sex that guy wants wouldn't match what I like. "
you look like you're screaming in your pic

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By *el1977Man
over a year ago

leeds


"You think she's being overly sensitive and she thinks the status is repugnant. You've saved yourself some time as you are not compatible.

"

100%!! Nailed it!! You’ve done yourself a favour!! Ps. For FAB I think what you posted is fine. She needs to chill down mate!! Ha

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses."

Sounds like a near perfect meet to me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Happened to me once. Last time i use "gonna get me some d*unk pussy L8R" as a status before a social.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You're clearly not compatible. At least she kept her distaste private.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses."

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well .

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well ."

You are mellowing!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well .

You are mellowing!! "

I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re-pug-nant. Status updates are broadcasts to the whole of womankind (or at least the ones on Fab who haven't yet blocked you). Is this really what you'd say to a room full of women and hope for it to reflect well on you?

But what the heck do I know? I find most status updates repugnant

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hmmmmmm...I'd of cringed a bit but I wouldn't of cancelled.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well .

You are mellowing!!

I meant "

Oh I don’t know about that

I’ve always felt that graphic status updates are repugnant and unnecessary . Unless you’ve blocked the person making the update , you have no choice as to whether or not you read it . Unlike veris , and profiles , which you choose to read , or pics that you choose to look at . Well other than profile pics anyway .

As strange as it seems , we have blocked loads of local people for similar status updates . We simply don’t want to read that kind of thing .

I probably wouldn’t have said so on the forum until now though . We’ve become a bit jaded with it all of late .

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well .

You are mellowing!!

I meant

Oh I don’t know about that

I’ve always felt that graphic status updates are repugnant and unnecessary . Unless you’ve blocked the person making the update , you have no choice as to whether or not you read it . Unlike veris , and profiles , which you choose to read , or pics that you choose to look at . Well other than profile pics anyway .

As strange as it seems , we have blocked loads of local people for similar status updates . We simply don’t want to read that kind of thing .

I probably wouldn’t have said so on the forum until now though . We’ve become a bit jaded with it all of late ."

To us it comes across as a bit (and it is so appropriate in the anti-status sphere) as being cock-sure.

Depending on you point of view, that might be a good thing, but for us, it's a bit over the top and not an attitude we find attractive.

But what other people do with their account is up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably have cancelled too, except I wouldn't have said exactly why.

As others have said, it's vulgar and cheesy.

I'm also incredibly put off guys who use the word "lady". Just say "woman" fgs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably have cancelled too, except I wouldn't have said exactly why.

As others have said, it's vulgar and cheesy.

I'm also incredibly put off guys who use the word "lady". Just say "woman" fgs. "

I agree. I find it off putting men who put sexual status up. I like funny tongue in cheek ones but serious ones just are a total blank to me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well .

You are mellowing!!

I meant

Oh I don’t know about that

I’ve always felt that graphic status updates are repugnant and unnecessary . Unless you’ve blocked the person making the update , you have no choice as to whether or not you read it . Unlike veris , and profiles , which you choose to read , or pics that you choose to look at . Well other than profile pics anyway .

As strange as it seems , we have blocked loads of local people for similar status updates . We simply don’t want to read that kind of thing .

I probably wouldn’t have said so on the forum until now though . We’ve become a bit jaded with it all of late ."

Yes, I see that, maybe you are just sated.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have a problem with the status I am afraid. I just don’t believe such a man exists who can achieve all that before he cums

Anyone want to repugnantly prove me wrong?

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By *punkyMcFuckKnuckleMan
over a year ago

Glasvegas/Kilmarnock

Should've told her you didn't like the cut of her jib.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes Frisky , you may well be right .

Too much of a good thing over such a long period of time is bound to take its toll on ones desire for it .

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Well, at least she didn't find you pungent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she was just a little pusillanimous...

J

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

She obviously didn’t appreciate it. And personal preference and all that. Imagine if we were all the same. How boring would that be. Leave her to it and move on

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm afraid I would find it off-putting too. I've even hid veris from people I've met in the past because they've more recently posted explicit or crytpically nasty status messages I'd rather not be associated with if someone was cross-checking my veris. People get judged just as much on the behaviour of the people they meet as on their own behaviour.

However.... if I had been chatting with someone long enough to decide that I liked them enough to take the time out to meet them for a social, I might overlook it. To me her reaction sounds like she was already on the fence about meeting you and your status gave her the excuse to cancel.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It just made me think of Swiss Tony from the Fast Show, maybe not the comparison you were aiming for...

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Bit strange if you ask me.

All things you would possibly have done on a meet with her after a successful social.

Perhaps she didn't want other people to think she would be doing lustful naked things with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Sounds like a near perfect meet to me "

Well I am now free on Thursday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happened to me once. Last time i use "gonna get me some d*unk pussy L8R" as a status before a social. "

Awkward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're clearly not compatible. At least she kept her distaste private."

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmm...I'd of cringed a bit but I wouldn't of cancelled. "

I get that some find it cheesy but I was surprised she cancelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not repugnant exactly but I wouldn't be rushing to meet someone who posted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmm...I'd of cringed a bit but I wouldn't of cancelled.

I get that some find it cheesy but I was surprised she cancelled."
It's maybe the bow tie

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't find it repugnant but it is naff and you'd look a bit of a dick if you didn't actually make her do those thing's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't find it repugnant but it is naff and you'd look a bit of a dick if you didn't actually make her do those thing's."

Nothing like pressure to increase your performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like that love laugh live pish that people put on there walls. Corny cheesy bullshit

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

When I first read it, I thought “blimey, that’s cheesy”. I think the replies show that some others see it the same way.

It’s not repugnant, but it’s something I could imagine a crap sex shop would put on a fridge magnet/sign (I’m not entirely convinced they sell that kinda product, but there you go!).

I also picture some oily, smarmy guy saying it (which you’re not, I assume) - I’m trying to think of the comic character whose voice I’m hearing - there’s been a few.

I always think there’s something naff and immature about the word “finger” too. For some reason I’m instantly transported back to being a 15 year-old sniggering on the school bus when I hear it. I suspect some women think it’s naff too.

Repugnant seems harsh though - you sure you didn’t send a close-up of your starfish at the same time and she’s referring to that?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I first read it, I thought “blimey, that’s cheesy”. I think the replies show that some others see it the same way.

It’s not repugnant, but it’s something I could imagine a crap sex shop would put on a fridge magnet/sign (I’m not entirely convinced they sell that kinda product, but there you go!).

I also picture some oily, smarmy guy saying it (which you’re not, I assume) - I’m trying to think of the comic character whose voice I’m hearing - there’s been a few.

I always think there’s something naff and immature about the word “finger” too. For some reason I’m instantly transported back to being a 15 year-old sniggering on the school bus when I hear it. I suspect some women think it’s naff too.

Repugnant seems harsh though - you sure you didn’t send a close-up of your starfish at the same time and she’s referring to that?!"

Great reply, and I definitely get your point. Not sure what verb could replace finger though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmm...I'd of cringed a bit but I wouldn't of cancelled.

I get that some find it cheesy but I was surprised she cancelled."

I don't think it's 'repugnant' but I would have cancelled too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first read it, I thought “blimey, that’s cheesy”. I think the replies show that some others see it the same way.

It’s not repugnant, but it’s something I could imagine a crap sex shop would put on a fridge magnet/sign (I’m not entirely convinced they sell that kinda product, but there you go!).

I also picture some oily, smarmy guy saying it (which you’re not, I assume) - I’m trying to think of the comic character whose voice I’m hearing - there’s been a few.

I always think there’s something naff and immature about the word “finger” too. For some reason I’m instantly transported back to being a 15 year-old sniggering on the school bus when I hear it. I suspect some women think it’s naff too.

Repugnant seems harsh though - you sure you didn’t send a close-up of your starfish at the same time and she’s referring to that?!"
Hey it doesn't take an awful lot to put a woman off you here thing is you can't worry about the one you lost, just move on to the one you might achieve them words may work on her, theirs all sorts here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses.

I would say it’s repugnant , especially when you are soon to be having a social with a lady who probably doesn’t want that kind of message being associated with her .

There comes a time in ones life where the posting of such repugnant statements is no longer thought to be cool . A modicum of decorum and discretion are more important . She probably thought if you are going to post such detailed status updates pre a social with her , what would you post after meeting her ?

So as others have said , you probably wouldn’t have suited each other and are better off not meeting . Your status will appeal to the type of woman who would suit you , so alls well that ends well ."

I agree - you just weren't compatible OP.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How much you both chatted before agreeing to meet? If it would have been any of my guys, I would have probably giggled at it as I would know that tongue was firmly in cheek, even if the sentiment was sincere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much you both chatted before agreeing to meet? If it would have been any of my guys, I would have probably giggled at it as I would know that tongue was firmly in cheek, even if the sentiment was sincere. "

We had been chatted my for about 4 weeks and, for my part, I thought we were getting in really well.

There was definitely a bit of irony about it and my tongue was firmly in my cheek.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It’s her opinion. You’ve posted a thread to try and make yourself feel better that she was wrong.

Makes no difference what others think. The range of acceptability of people on here on a whole range of topics, is as wide as it could be. It’s her opinion and that’s all that matters in this instance.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Besides. I thought airing dirty laundry on the forums wasn’t allowed.

Though no doubt if the lady in question is reading this thread, she will be thinking how right her decision was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s her opinion. You’ve posted a thread to try and make yourself feel better that she was wrong.

Makes no difference what others think. The range of acceptability of people on here on a whole range of topics, is as wide as it could be. It’s her opinion and that’s all that matters in this instance. "

Actually, I was genuinely curious about people’s opinions. Her message came out of the blue and I wanted a independent point of view to help me put the situation into context.

I even take the points that you have raised, even if they are quite aggressive in their tone and presumptive in the form of a pop-psychologist’s interpretation.

As with everyone who has taken time to reply, I thank you for your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s her opinion. You’ve posted a thread to try and make yourself feel better that she was wrong.

Makes no difference what others think. The range of acceptability of people on here on a whole range of topics, is as wide as it could be. It’s her opinion and that’s all that matters in this instance. "
harsh

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It’s her opinion. You’ve posted a thread to try and make yourself feel better that she was wrong.

Makes no difference what others think. The range of acceptability of people on here on a whole range of topics, is as wide as it could be. It’s her opinion and that’s all that matters in this instance.

Actually, I was genuinely curious about people’s opinions. Her message came out of the blue and I wanted a independent point of view to help me put the situation into context.

I even take the points that you have raised, even if they are quite aggressive in their tone and presumptive in the form of a pop-psychologist’s interpretation.

As with everyone who has taken time to reply, I thank you for your input.

"

Lol. Your post is very typical of someone rebuffed. Coming on forums trying to bolster support is hardly fair on the lady that may also be reading the replies of , oh god yeah she is like oh so sensitive blah blah. Not very gentlemanly to put her in that situation now is it.

Call it aggressive, I call it the truth. She gave you a reply and you didn’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s her opinion. You’ve posted a thread to try and make yourself feel better that she was wrong.

Makes no difference what others think. The range of acceptability of people on here on a whole range of topics, is as wide as it could be. It’s her opinion and that’s all that matters in this instance.

Actually, I was genuinely curious about people’s opinions. Her message came out of the blue and I wanted a independent point of view to help me put the situation into context.

I even take the points that you have raised, even if they are quite aggressive in their tone and presumptive in the form of a pop-psychologist’s interpretation.

As with everyone who has taken time to reply, I thank you for your input.

Lol. Your post is very typical of someone rebuffed. Coming on forums trying to bolster support is hardly fair on the lady that may also be reading the replies of , oh god yeah she is like oh so sensitive blah blah. Not very gentlemanly to put her in that situation now is it.

Call it aggressive, I call it the truth. She gave you a reply and you didn’t like it. "
and you would sit back in silence if you didn't like something....... I think not

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Lots of members receive messages they don’t like or disagree with. Posting that publically in the forums is not on, because you only hear one side of the story.

The lady gave the op her opinion. Who are we / you to tell her she is wrong. It’s her opinion and she is entitled to that.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

^ and entitled to her opinion without a whole bunch of people not even party to their discussion debating if she is right / wrong / sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I today posted a status update which I was passed by a lady friend which read:

My motto? Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

I did have a social meet arranged for Thursday but the lady in question has cancelled saying that the status is repugnant.

My question is, is the status repugnant or is she being overly sensitive?

I appreciate your honest responses."

How very dare you!! Perhaps she thought you wanted to spank, finger, lick and fuck her !?! Geez anyone would think this was a swingers site with a status like that

I bet that social would of been thrilling for you op.. def no loss there!

Mr

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

And there we have it OP. You happy for the lady in question to sit reading through comments like above

I bet she’d feel bloody great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ and entitled to her opinion without a whole bunch of people not even party to their discussion debating if she is right / wrong / sensitive. "
did he name her no so a little OTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it. "

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it. "
he didn't he just didn't understand what was repugnant about his status update and asked a question of us did we think it was repugnant and the concensus is that we don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually found it tnanguper but that’s just my opinion x

Nah you're getting it all backwards.

my mistake! forgive me for my sins x"

It would be more fun to punish you for them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

"

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I see you haven’t bothered to chastise the people calling her names like miserable cow

There’s a lot of people who lurk in forums and never post. Which is why I don’t think your thread is fair. You’ve just agreed, thanked and congratulated anyone in agreement and gone for me calling you out on being wrong and name calling / making assumptions about me for telling you simply, she has a right to an opinion without you publically shaming her. And no that doesn’t have to include her name either for it to be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. "
you remind me of Louise Rednapp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp "

Think Ironside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And there we have it OP. You happy for the lady in question to sit reading through comments like above

I bet she’d feel bloody great. "

Actually I believe that freedom of speech and debate are important factors of society. We can only grow as people by listening to other points of view and not censoring.

I don’t agree with everything that has been said in this topic but I would not presume that my opinions are any more or less valid than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone we were meeting put that up as a status, the meet would be cancelled also. We would not compatible on any level.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

On reflection, I think a better word may to describe it may be “cliched”.

It’s one of those descriptions that sounds ok to the person when they read it for the first time, but others have probably seen it (or a variation on it) loads of times and roll their eyes.

There’s quite a few on Fab - “I don’t bite...unless you ask me too” is one. Fine the first few times, but after that it’s “not that old chestnut again”.

Not your fault though - it seemed new and funny to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're overly sensitive about being rejected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. "

I absolutely agree, it was a badly worded post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're overly sensitive about being rejected."

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone we were meeting put that up as a status, the meet would be cancelled also. We would not compatible on any level."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside."
with raymond burr oh my that's old

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Maybe she read it as you expected more than just a social meet.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Pugnant "

The opinion of someone who feels quite gruntled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see you haven’t bothered to chastise the people calling her names like miserable cow

There’s a lot of people who lurk in forums and never post. Which is why I don’t think your thread is fair. You’ve just agreed, thanked and congratulated anyone in agreement and gone for me calling you out on being wrong and name calling / making assumptions about me for telling you simply, she has a right to an opinion without you publically shaming her. And no that doesn’t have to include her name either for it to be wrong. "

Correct me if I am wrong but, I don’t feel as if I have chastised anyone? I am enjoying my debate with you about the merits of placing the post in the first place even if it is taking the topic off subject

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Siding with the people condemning her does give the impression you feel vindicated somehow

I think that criticism is fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Siding with the people condemning her does give the impression you feel vindicated somehow

I think that criticism is fair

"

I think I have also agreed with comments from those who see it from her point of view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she read it as you expected more than just a social meet."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

"

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"It just made me think of Swiss Tony from the Fast Show, maybe not the comparison you were aiming for..."

Writing a status update is like making love to a beautiful woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just sounds like trite shite personally...and makes me go

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"I don't see the problem in the status. Prefer that to meet now statuses "

This...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant."

There is absolutely no need to apologise and I completely get why the topic has taken the direction it has.

I very valid learning point for me

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"

Great reply, and I definitely get your point. Not sure what verb could replace finger though!"

I hear "hand-ploughing the lady garden" works a treat

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"

Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

"

Bit of a crap motto so...

Kiss her until she's soaked

Spank her until she shudders

Finger her until she sighs

Lick her until she screams

Fuck her until she bucks (last one left was stings which didn't fit).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant.

There is absolutely no need to apologise and I completely get why the topic has taken the direction it has.

I very valid learning point for me "

Every day is an education! Have a good one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant.

There is absolutely no need to apologise and I completely get why the topic has taken the direction it has.

I very valid learning point for me "

Plus if you were a woman creating a thread like this, you'd be told "his loss" by many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it just sounds like trite shite personally...and makes me go "

I can now understand why it would make people think that

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We'd find it a bit cheesy but not so bad that it would put us off meeting someone.

We're all different though...

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant.

There is absolutely no need to apologise and I completely get why the topic has taken the direction it has.

I very valid learning point for me

Plus if you were a woman creating a thread like this, you'd be told "his loss" by many "

This is true.

To us, there's an image thing going on here, the age and profile, along with picture suggest that he's a gent that knows his way in life. And then puts up a post that some yoof, may have thought was clever and full of provado, why would a woman be who was being seduced by the former want the latter.

We did see the original posting of the status and did give it an but from the women I've spoken to here on the Island, most in this age range expect their dates to act theirs. I suspect nationwide, most others would too.

But hey, it's his account and personalty shining through, so let's leave it there.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

All a bit Alan Partridge....

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over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You could've asked if people thought the ditty was repugnant by typing the words and asking "Is this repugnant?" Including the story of your cancelled meet implies that you're actually asking if her reaction is 'right or wrong', and that's what people seem to be jumping on. Apologies if I've misjudged you.

I don't think it's repugnant. Distasteful and immature, yes, but not repugnant.

There is absolutely no need to apologise and I completely get why the topic has taken the direction it has.

I very valid learning point for me

Plus if you were a woman creating a thread like this, you'd be told "his loss" by many

This is true.

To us, there's an image thing going on here, the age and profile, along with picture suggest that he's a gent that knows his way in life. And then puts up a post that some yoof, may have thought was clever and full of provado, why would a woman be who was being seduced by the former want the latter.

We did see the original posting of the status and did give it an but from the women I've spoken to here on the Island, most in this age range expect their dates to act theirs. I suspect nationwide, most others would too.

But hey, it's his account and personalty shining through, so let's leave it there. "

A very fair and valid point, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All a bit Alan Partridge...."

Aha

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"All a bit Alan Partridge...."

I'd say it's a bit more. Swiss Tony from the. Fast Show

"your car is like a beautiful woman... "

Sorry OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

"

Well... if I were still interested in boys .... I'd say that out of that lot of choices, there are two that I'd really enjoy - but trying any of the other three would just get you thrown out of the door in a heap...

Does that help...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All a bit Alan Partridge....

I'd say it's a bit more. Swiss Tony from the. Fast Show

"your car is like a beautiful woman... "

Sorry OP "

Absolutely no need to apologise, you reply really made me smile

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Kiss her until she sighs. Spank her until it stings. Finger her until she is soaked. Lick her until she shudders. Fuck her until she screams

Well... if I were still interested in boys .... I'd say that out of that lot of choices, there are two that I'd really enjoy - but trying any of the other three would just get you thrown out of the door in a heap...

Does that help...?

"

Absolutely, although I am obviously curious as to which two you would enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

"
I've missed something obviously or is she saying she'd like to put me in a........ Oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

I've missed something obviously or is she saying she'd like to put me in a........ Oh my"

You're missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

I've missed something obviously or is she saying she'd like to put me in a........ Oh my

You're missing something. "
tell me then I'm normally very quick on the uptake but that's got me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft jamesrampton don't be so lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

"

Good to see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pfft jamesrampton don't be so lazy. "
Well the joke is lost ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

Good to see you "
Good to see me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

Good to see you Good to see me? "

I was replying to Northern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it repugnant. More of an eye roll status.

If it was someone I'd been talking to for a while, I'd likely rip the piss out of them, for it, but not be put off meeting. If it was someone I barely knew, then yes, it would likely put me off. Especially if I was planning on only a social. It's a cliche status. More cringe worthy than repugnant... And that's what would put me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't find it repugnant. More of an eye roll status.

If it was someone I'd been talking to for a while, I'd likely rip the piss out of them, for it, but not be put off meeting. If it was someone I barely knew, then yes, it would likely put me off. Especially if I was planning on only a social. It's a cliche status. More cringe worthy than repugnant... And that's what would put me off "

Thanks Holly, I think you are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's not being oversensitive, you just did/posted something she truly didn't like. There's no need to make a big deal about it.

Maybe I worded the post wrong as it really was not about people massaging my ego and telling me I was right and she was wrong , I was genuinely curious as to whether people thought it was a repugnant status.

You gave two quite extreme choices, Repugnant or overly sensitive, which makes it seem that you haven't considered it was just off putting. Even if it's not repugnant, that doesn't make her overly sensitive. you remind me of Louise Rednapp

Think Ironside.

Good to see you Good to see me?

I was replying to Northern "

Nice to see you too Elpis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think that a status like that would give many pause, as seems to be the general consensus.

To me it speaks a little of ‘this is what I’m going to do whether you like it or not’. Whether you meant it as that is a different matter, but that may well be how she read it.

If that’s how you feel about sex then obviously you weren’t suited and you saved both yourself and her something of a disappointing time.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Alternatively she could have used :- abhorrent, revolting, repulsive, repellent, disgusting, offensive, objectionable, vile, foul, nasty, loathsome, sickening, nauseating, nauseous, hateful, detestable, execrable, abominable, monstrous, appalling, reprehensible, deplorable, insufferable, intolerable, unacceptable, despicable, contemptible. Repugnant was quite apt though I must admit.

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