FabSwingers.com forum: Difference between male and female orgasms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever wondered what the opposite sexes orgasm actually feel like, are they the same, similar or totally different. Purely the actually feeling, guess there’s no way we will ever know ?!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes ive often wondered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually too busy concentrating on my own climax to wonder how theirs feel

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered"

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often. I've seen different reactions from men and wondered if it feels different for them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing they feel different as we don't have a prostate that tightens as we cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Often. I've seen different reactions from men and wondered if it feels different for them too. "

They’re faking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are pretty average, don’t be too jealous.

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By *umpsimusMan
over a year ago

Camberley

"Mine are pretty average, don’t be too jealous.

What's average for poochiepoo would probably be the

equivalent of a small explosion for us gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that a man's orgasm is kind of like a clitoral orgasm.

How someone worked that out I do not know.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd love to have a penis, just to experience a male orgasm!!!

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

Only one matters

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

All I know is that I quite enjoy mine.

I just wish more of them were in the company of a woman

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

One is real and one is fake???

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !"

Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?

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By *hisky and WineCouple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?"

Multiple and different types of orgasm maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !"

I always presume the males feels better

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

There’s probably more similarities than differences, a bloke’s orgasm can be quite mild if you’re just throwing one over the thumb to pass the time or can be really intense when the foursome you’ve enjoyed for the last couple of hours comes to a, errr, climax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve often wondered whether the orgasm from pegging (which friends say is more of an all body experience) is closer to a female orgasm than the male ejaculation orgasm.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"I’ve often wondered whether the orgasm from pegging (which friends say is more of an all body experience) is closer to a female orgasm than the male ejaculation orgasm."

Having had a prostate orgasm, sweet mother of god I had to be peeled off the ceiling

if that's a female orgasm, you're all lucky bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only difference between her having an orgasm and me having an orgasm is, i care if i have one

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"I've heard that a man's orgasm is kind of like a clitoral orgasm.

How someone worked that out I do not know.

I think I heard, its because the clitoris and the male glans are coming from the same starting point when a baby develops in the womb. The clitoris has more nerve endings in a much smaller space whereas the glans has less over a bigger area. The pleasureable feeling from them is similar, though more intense and sensitive in the clitoris. Its also the reason why blood flow increases to both when aroused, to increase the sensitivity even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be a man for a day, just to see what sex feels like. I can't imagine a make orgasm is anywhere near as good as a women though. For starters they don't last as long as a woman's.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/765159

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondered yes but orgasms are different for different people never mind just man and woman so i tend not to worry about it if were both a smiley exhausted mess after then im happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd love to know what it feels like, then again I've seen women have huge ones and wondered what that feels like too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm."

I need to put a towel down for that very reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.

I need to put a towel down for that very reason

Not my bed, I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.

I need to put a towel down for that very reason

Not my bed, I don't care

They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to have a penis, just to experience a male orgasm!!! "

You can have mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big problem with answering this question is that I have various different types of orgasms due to a variety of differing factors. I presume men do too, at the very least a potential distinction between ejaculation, and the type of orgasm that potentially can be shown to be distinct from typical ejaculation through say tantric non-ejaculating orgasm or ruined orgasm type practices. I would guess there’s likely some variety even in the orgasm associated with ejaculation for men, in the same way I can experience differing orgasms from the same stimulation depending on factors such as my state of relaxation, intensity of a scenario, or feeling for my partner and so on (where the variance is *not* whether it’s a vaginal, clitoral or anal orgasm, which are also all different sensations).

So in short, I ain’t got the foggiest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?"

Cause of the multiple orgasm thing, plus Sally in ‘When Harry met Sally’ seems to be having fun in the diner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.

I need to put a towel down for that very reason

Not my bed, I don't care

They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain.

That's you off my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm.

I need to put a towel down for that very reason

Not my bed, I don't care

They think I’m squirting but I pee like a fountain.

Why am I still turned on by this?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !"

I kind of presumed the male one is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

I kind of presumed the male one is better."

We should get in bed and find out.

Purely for science of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The male orgasm is much more intense, which is why they fall asleep almost instantly

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

I kind of presumed the male one is better.

We should get in bed and find out.

Purely for science of course

How are we going to decide though,who screams the most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always think for men it must feel like someone turning on a hosepipe too hard/fast and the water just gushes out, whereas for women it’s like when you turn a hosepipe off and you’re left with a little dribble of fluid persistently coming out of the end."

I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy

This. Is. Epic.

I won’t ever be able to write another smut scene without thinking of tingling, dancing joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

I kind of presumed the male one is better.

We should get in bed and find out.

Purely for science of course

How are we going to decide though,who screams the most?"

I haven't thought that far ahead. Suppose we could just play it by ear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy

This is pretty much it, just want to reach the end point as soon as possible, then clean up and get on with the rest of my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy

I'll never be able to listen to dancing in the dark again....

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

I always imagine the cum must tingle and dance about down the pipes until it just bursts out the other end with joy

That’s a pretty good description

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I wish I had my own cock to find out..just for a day

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I wish I had my own cock to find out..just for a day "
you can piss standing up and play ‘which tile can I hit?’ In the shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I had my own cock to find out..just for a day you can piss standing up and play ‘which tile can I hit?’ In the shower

Not a penis only activity.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I wish I had my own cock to find out..just for a day you can piss standing up and play ‘which tile can I hit?’ In the shower

And play windmills, don't forget that one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm? "

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op. "

hope he feels better now, sending him virtual hugs xox

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op. "

When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.

When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door. "

Which brand was it ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.

When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door. "

Did they make your arms stick out to the side like wings or rounded in front of you like you were holding a large invisible barrel question mark

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.

When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door.

Did they make your arms stick out to the side like wings or rounded in front of you like you were holding a large invisible barrel question mark"

They were like an X across my chest, I’d be fucked if I fell over, but on the plus side they were already broken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm?

My friend had a broken wrist so he had to wank left handed for weeks. I wish I’d asked him for more details but it was in Waitrose not the Co-op.

When I broke both my arms I had to fuck the fridge door.

Which brand was it ? "

Smeg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?

Multiple and different types of orgasm maybe? "

I think that when we talk this subject we should separate being in an orgasmic state, from having a peak climax.

Once you learn how to achieve a better otgasmic state, the the climax that follows will always be better.

As this is a state change, so it makes no difference what sex you are, men are also more than capable of multiple non-ejacultory climaxes, if they are prepared to work on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes ive often wondered

I kind of presumed the female one is better !

Yes have wondered lot's. Why do you think females could be better ?

Multiple and different types of orgasm maybe?

I think that when we talk this subject we should separate being in an orgasmic state, from having a peak climax.

Once you learn how to achieve a better otgasmic state, the the climax that follows will always be better.

As this is a state change, so it makes no difference what sex you are, men are also more than capable of multiple non-ejacultory climaxes, if they are prepared to work on it.

Mate, I just want to blow my beans, tap my cock on the outside of the vagina a few times then get on with the rest of my day, I’m not bloody Sting.

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By *amanthajonestsTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Wonder how a post-op experience orgasm? "

I'll let the group know as soon as I figure out how to actually drive it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wander how it feels for a man , and I often get off on imagining how a man feels wanking, it’s a huge turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession. "

So you tell us, but I think it’s an urban myth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession. "

I’ve found that men can do it too if they allow it, yes they will go soft (some) as thats physical, but given a few mins of massage and continuity and they are ready to go! Total myth that men cum once and that’s it for ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession.

So you tell us, but I think it’s an urban myth."

Me too! I’ve had 6 times in a few hours, so I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think women are lucky that they can multi orgasm in quick succession.

If you get the mind state in just the right place, men can ejaculate whilst still soft,

But, full body male orgasms are better than most ejaculaions anyway.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

I’m permanently (almost) locked in chastity and on the rare occasions I am released I’m not allowed to wank..... I don’t miss conventional male orgasm/ejaculation when she fucks and fists me I have amazing orgasms which last for ages and even 30 mins after I get orgasmic spasms. I never feel that I have cum so I never feel the ‘spent’ feeling I did when I used to cum. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m permanently (almost) locked in chastity and on the rare occasions I am released I’m not allowed to wank..... I don’t miss conventional male orgasm/ejaculation when she fucks and fists me I have amazing orgasms which last for ages and even 30 mins after I get orgasmic spasms. I never feel that I have cum so I never feel the ‘spent’ feeling I did when I used to cum. Just saying "

Sounds like you need a wank dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My big problem with answering this question is that I have various different types of orgasms due to a variety of differing factors. I presume men do too, at the very least a potential distinction between ejaculation, and the type of orgasm that potentially can be shown to be distinct from typical ejaculation through say tantric non-ejaculating orgasm or ruined orgasm type practices. I would guess there’s likely some variety even in the orgasm associated with ejaculation for men, in the same way I can experience differing orgasms from the same stimulation depending on factors such as my state of relaxation, intensity of a scenario, or feeling for my partner and so on (where the variance is *not* whether it’s a vaginal, clitoral or anal orgasm, which are also all different sensations).

So in short, I ain’t got the foggiest. "

you have hit the nail in the head. I think orgasms differ greatly from person to person, regardless of sex, and for the person themselves the experience can be greatly different.

For me, some orgasms to explode from the prostate area, at other times it is the head of the penis where it is centered.

Every partner I have ever been with seemed to orgasm differently in terms of intensity and frequency.

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

"Men don't piss themselves during an orgasm."
i do if someone tells a joke

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Sounds like you need a wank dude."

Dude... I’m good

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