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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly that is the world of the chef. If you complain too loudly they will terminate his employment.

My only sugestion would be to take advantage of all they offer because it will put him in good standing in the future... Where he will be able to dictate times/breaks etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, I think you'll find thats the nature of the beast

The hospitality industry is often a law unto itself, and extremely long hours without breaks is the norm

Yes, there are rules and regs about working conditions these days, but often they arent adhered to.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Unfortunately this is still the nature of the catering industry. Long hours and shit money.

I'm not saying it's right, but that is mostly the reality.

If he is otherwise enjoying what he is doing and definitely wants to stay in catering then I'd say suck it up and get as much experience as he can.

If he has talent then he may be lucky . A friends son is now working under a top chef in Finland and has travelled widely with his job. He's early 20s now and started as dogsbody from college like your son.

Good luck !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said, and I think you and your son realise OP, long hours are part of the territory unfortunately and that's regardless of any regulations.

How long does it take to get the accreditation? If it's relatively short term maybe take the view that it's a necessary evil to get something he wants?

I know it's not right but I'm not sure there's a great deal can be done without running the risk of losing the opportunity.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Didn't he research what working in kitchens was like before training?

Workers rights to breaks etc are barely recognised in that industry.

It is also usual to work split shifts and weekends.

Kitchen staff do not have social lives - except with each other.

He either loves that (I know people that do) or gets out.

I worked in kitchens part time from 16-22 (alongside school/uni) and I'd never have considered a career in that industry.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Also, you said he got two days off?

That's pretty good. Often it's one.

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By *ewkesbury cowboyMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

The catering business is hard, hours are long. And their bosses are cruel, best thing he can do is join a union like acas and ask their advice. If they can help they will make sure he gets his legal entitlements without repercussions

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Chefs are one of the most brutal occupations considering how intense the work is and you cook when other people are having leisure time. I'm surprised this is news to him but maybe he's in the wrong career. I don't think the employer is unusual.

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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Thank you, it is kind of what I expected as responses. I just wanted to be sure that it was how it should be. I do hope that he manages to stick at it as the accreditation is 14 months, and having this venue on his CV will be very helpful with anything he chooses to do.

Plus they are a growing business and have lots of opportunity for those who can stick with it. He was aware that it involves very long hours as he was working there before he got the offer, just not quite as intensely. Plus then he was paid hourly, now he's on a salary so they can have as many hours as needed, for his set wage.

He was more excited about it beforehand as of course it was new and amazing to him, now reality has hit but hopefully he will stick with it.

Thank you all, you have helped.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

It's a horrible situation, but as the poster above says it's all part of the job.

I have a HND in Hotel Management and I left the industry by the time I was 23 (I graduated aged 20) due to the lack of social life and the hours - I also found the good opportunities really hard to come by.

It really depends on what type of chef work he wants to do - does he want to be a 3 Michelin Star chef, or would he be happier working 9-5 in a local cafe?

There are other places where he can do apprenticeships - most government run places (hospitals etc) will do so too.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Unfortunately that is what chefs have to do, it is the nature of the job.

The only saving grace is it appears he is already earning a good salary. It usually takes several years of bloody hard work on shit pay to work your way up the pay scale.

My nephew is 21 and is now a sous chef and earning good money - he has had to work damned hard for it though and still never does less than 50 hours a week.

If being a chef is what he really wants to do then he has to endure it.

Learning on the job isn't the only way to become a chef, he can go to college full time and do it too. My nephew did a 3 year course, city and guilds professional chef diploma level 3 at our local college. They have an on site fine dining restaurant that is run by the students as part of their course and they learn everything about restaurant management, not just how to cook.

The end result is still the same though - find a job and work hard for crap pay.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

The lad is only 17....none of you lot had everything figured out by that age so all the 'dud he not realise' 'I'm surprised he didn't know' posts are a little mean in my opinion.

Sadly though there are a few industries that pay no attention to workers rights etc and the only thing people can do is either like it or lump it. Hospitality is one of them. Working in a kitchen is hot, hard, relentless work and breaks are often dictated by how busy a place is. I've worked in some kitchens where you can be rushing about like a mad thing early doors then you have a slump then it's hectic again.

I would suggest, as he is young, finding some sort of career advice service (if they exist) and talking through his options with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants to be a chef he will work long and antisocial hours. If the hours don't suit him then he won't last as a chef.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The lad is only 17....none of you lot had everything figured out by that age so all the 'dud he not realise' 'I'm surprised he didn't know' posts are a little mean in my opinion.

Sadly though there are a few industries that pay no attention to workers rights etc and the only thing people can do is either like it or lump it. Hospitality is one of them. Working in a kitchen is hot, hard, relentless work and breaks are often dictated by how busy a place is. I've worked in some kitchens where you can be rushing about like a mad thing early doors then you have a slump then it's hectic again.

I would suggest, as he is young, finding some sort of career advice service (if they exist) and talking through his options with them. "

It's more that he was training to be a chef at college and none of the adults at that college ever thought it was worth telling the class that chefs have one of the most brutal work schedules you'll find in any industry. I think that was quite irresponsible of them.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I was a chef, trained by my aunt in her restaurant as a young teenager, then a career in the RAF.

Leaving that and going back to the hospitality trade was a real shocker.

I'd be working 14hr days, never had a weekend off, and that was as head chef.

I do remember the youngsters we had working for us over the years, and I can honestly say my heart went out to some of them.

It's not an easy career, if you want to make it yo the top, then you work your guts out.

The rewards are worth it, if you stick at it though.

Good luck to your son x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"The lad is only 17....none of you lot had everything figured out by that age so all the 'dud he not realise' 'I'm surprised he didn't know' posts are a little mean in my opinion.

Sadly though there are a few industries that pay no attention to workers rights etc and the only thing people can do is either like it or lump it. Hospitality is one of them. Working in a kitchen is hot, hard, relentless work and breaks are often dictated by how busy a place is. I've worked in some kitchens where you can be rushing about like a mad thing early doors then you have a slump then it's hectic again.

I would suggest, as he is young, finding some sort of career advice service (if they exist) and talking through his options with them.

It's more that he was training to be a chef at college and none of the adults at that college ever thought it was worth telling the class that chefs have one of the most brutal work schedules you'll find in any industry. I think that was quite irresponsible of them. "

All employers lie..... Where I work they are doing a massive national recruitment campaign talking about how wonderful the career is, they never tell you the shit bits lol

I agree that if this work experience was sourced through the college then they should be monitoring the hours and breaks etc. And perhaps they should be more open about the hours chefs are required to work but very often what we are taught a x what we experience in real life are very different.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x"

As someone who used to run a restaurant I know that the hours are brutal and the work can be stressful.

As others have said, its the nature of the beast. That doesnt mean its right, however it does sound like he has a good role and a great opportunity, doing something he enjoys.

I hope he seizes it with both hands and goes on to great things.

Good luck to your young man.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Hospitality is brutal.

Our kitchen is working from 7.30am and closes at 10pm, the there's clean down so they don't normally finish until about 11pm. All it takes is someone not to turn up for their shift and the poor bastard who was there at 7.30am is still there at closing time, only getting a break if we've had a lull in custom.

Same goes for waiting staff too if nobody will cover the shift of the sick staff member.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My sister's first career choice was to be a chef. She got onto a course at the top catering college in London at the time...she's now a mental health nurse at category A prisons, says the work is a cake walk compared to being a chef.

Op, hope your son sticks it and recognise getting what you want isn't always easy and sacrifices have to be made: good luck to him!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

As his Mum your? instinct is to make things better for your child, however I would suggest that rather than trying to change the whole catering industry, you support his ambition and explain that his hard work now will bring rewards later.

I too missed most of my youth through working in the big hotels (six days a week then). It gave me a grounding which saw me travel the world working.

He is at an age where he feels being different to his mates is difficult, guide him, remind him of where his hard work can lead and don't miss this fantastic opportunity!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As his Mum your? instinct is to make things better for your child, however I would suggest that rather than trying to change the whole catering industry, you support his ambition and explain that his hard work now will bring rewards later.

I too missed most of my youth through working in the big hotels (six days a week then). It gave me a grounding which saw me travel the world working.

He is at an age where he feels being different to his mates is difficult, guide him, remind him of where his hard work can lead and don't miss this fantastic opportunity!"

Very well said.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x

As someone who used to run a restaurant I know that the hours are brutal and the work can be stressful.

"

I have no personal experience but it's got to be one of the hardest business models to make work. It's got to be one of the most competitive industries there is, anti-social hours and all your hard work can be jepordised by a Jack ass trying to be clever with a 1 star review.

There was a rather nice Chinese restaurant in Basingstoke, but then the enormous Chinese company that had an office in Basingstoke, moved to Reading. So there goes half their customer base through no fault of their own. Brutal.


"

As others have said, its the nature of the beast. That doesnt mean its right, however it does sound like he has a good role and a great opportunity, doing something he enjoys.

I hope he seizes it with both hands and goes on to great things.

Good luck to your young man."

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

I had this problem with my 17yr old sister. Unfortunately it is the life of a young chef. Like I told my sister you’ll only got two options really. Slug it and grind it out till you get head chef status or change to contract catering. Contract catering isn’t as bad as people might think. But it is fixed hours around you. Mainly 8-5 mon to fri

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x"

Welcome to chef life.

I 1ce did a 12 hour shift with no brakes just cos it wos so bizey.

It sounds like he's in a very bizey kitchen. The problem with kitchens like that is you don't get time to have a brake. So you haf to pik / eat on the job. It's the Onley way to keep going.

I will say is if he's now not enjoying the job is is the rite job ? I'm not saying quit chefing but maybe he needs a less bizey kitchen.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm quite sure that legally under 18s aren't allowed to work more than a 40 hour week, but don't quote me. I also know that a lot in the industry use the "teamwork" and guilt trip angle to influence staff into working extra hours to cover shortfall.

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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Thank you so much for everybody's input.

Incidentally I really am not trying to change the catering industry, I was just asking if it is normal and to be expected, so that I know that I am supporting my son's journey, and that he is aware of what is expected of him especially now, when reality has hit and he is finding it hard. Once again I appreciate everybody's input.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"As his Mum your? instinct is to make things better for your child, however I would suggest that rather than trying to change the whole catering industry, you support his ambition and explain that his hard work now will bring rewards later.

I too missed most of my youth through working in the big hotels (six days a week then). It gave me a grounding which saw me travel the world working.

He is at an age where he feels being different to his mates is difficult, guide him, remind him of where his hard work can lead and don't miss this fantastic opportunity!"

Wise words......

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x

As someone who used to run a restaurant I know that the hours are brutal and the work can be stressful.

I have no personal experience but it's got to be one of the hardest business models to make work. It's got to be one of the most competitive industries there is, anti-social hours and all your hard work can be jepordised by a Jack ass trying to be clever with a 1 star review.

There was a rather nice Chinese restaurant in Basingstoke, but then the enormous Chinese company that had an office in Basingstoke, moved to Reading. So there goes half their customer base through no fault of their own. Brutal.

As others have said, its the nature of the beast. That doesnt mean its right, however it does sound like he has a good role and a great opportunity, doing something he enjoys.

I hope he seizes it with both hands and goes on to great things.

Good luck to your young man."

I don't know what's worse, the working environment or the customers who have no idea how to treat the staff.....

Actually I do know what's worse, at least the staff are in the same boat so pull together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x"

I used to be a chef and yes that's the life! I was lucky as didn't work split shifts but no time off at all Christmas, Easter or summer holidays and was a single mum with 2 kids! Unfortunately it's the nature of the job!

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

In a job such as cheffing,you need to grab what down time you can, rather than fixed breaks.Its not like an office where you can leave your desk for 15 minutes when you feel like it.

You can't start to cook someone's meal and go off half way through for your break, similarly if an order comes in whilst on a break, are you going to say , ok I'll start it in 15 minutes when I've had my break.There would be no customers left! Harsh but that's the reality of kitchen life

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The person is an apprentice. Of course he can and must be given the statutory breaks.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider. "

Have you ever worked in the hospitality trade?

I'm again quite sure the term "as per business needs" and others that say the same thing come into play and are commonplace, and are also recognised by those that enforce the law.

So, you've learned from reading this thread that's it's a brutal environment to work in, and hope opens your eyes, I also hope you aren't one of those cunts that arrives 5 mins before the kitchen closes and orders starters, a well done steak and then complains they want dessert when everyone is waiting to go home after slogging their guts out for the last 16 hours.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There are rules to protect you against

working too long each week and

working at night. Normally you should

not work:

• more than eight hours a day

• more than 40 hours a week

• or at night (but see below for

more about night work)

But your employer can ask you to work

longer hours if they are needed for what

the law calls “maintaining continuity of

service or production”, or to respond to

a surge in demand.

You can only do these extra hours if all

these conditions are met:

• an adult is not available to

perform the duties

• any training you are doing is not

neglected or adversely affected

• you must be properly supervised

if the work is at night.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider.

Have you ever worked in the hospitality trade?

I'm again quite sure the term "as per business needs" and others that say the same thing come into play and are commonplace, and are also recognised by those that enforce the law.

So, you've learned from reading this thread that's it's a brutal environment to work in, and hope opens your eyes, I also hope you aren't one of those cunts that arrives 5 mins before the kitchen closes and orders starters, a well done steak and then complains they want dessert when everyone is waiting to go home after slogging their guts out for the last 16 hours."

O i carnt stand thos sort of customers.

You spend about 30 minutes cleaning down the kitchen redey to go home and then.... Beep or ding... A larst minit order.

Then you haf to re fire (heat) everything

Open and re date stok.

Cook wot ever the order is.

Then re cleen the hole kitchen AGEN

And wen you've dun all that your about 1 hour or mor parst your finishing time.

And you don't get over time its all the same pay.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

That does not apply to under 18s. Read the law again.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW."

Maintaining continuity of service or production.

That's also law.

Shit ain't it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That does not apply to under 18s. Read the law again."

that info was pulled from "young people at work - a guide for 16 & 17 year olds"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW."

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work hospitality as a barman, and our manager hated bar staff. She used to see it that if we werent serving anyone and everything was clean, so we were just standing around chatting (but not sitting down), that WAS our break. Now, after food had been served, all of the kitchen staff were put on break, but the bar staff had to keep on working. Now, I was listed down to finish once bar was closed (which is around 1 AM). But we were forced to stay behind until everything had been tidied and cleaned, even doing the jobs that the waiting staff were meant to do. So, my standard shift at this place was 3pm till 8am. With no break. While the waiting staff were 7pm till 8am and had two 15 minute breaks, which was enforeced. They were also given food while bar was given nothing. When I quit, I reported the institution I was working at. Talking to someone who I worke dbar with there, they told me that not long after I quit, a whole lot of reforms took place. Now bar staff get regular breaks, and also get fed.

While a constant service needs to be provided in these situations, staff are ENTITLED to regular breaks. A simple system is to rotate the breaks. So one person at a time, or during a quiet moment.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I used to work hospitality as a barman, and our manager hated bar staff. She used to see it that if we werent serving anyone and everything was clean, so we were just standing around chatting (but not sitting down), that WAS our break. Now, after food had been served, all of the kitchen staff were put on break, but the bar staff had to keep on working. Now, I was listed down to finish once bar was closed (which is around 1 AM). But we were forced to stay behind until everything had been tidied and cleaned, even doing the jobs that the waiting staff were meant to do. So, my standard shift at this place was 3pm till 8am. With no break. While the waiting staff were 7pm till 8am and had two 15 minute breaks, which was enforeced. They were also given food while bar was given nothing. When I quit, I reported the institution I was working at. Talking to someone who I worke dbar with there, they told me that not long after I quit, a whole lot of reforms took place. Now bar staff get regular breaks, and also get fed.

While a constant service needs to be provided in these situations, staff are ENTITLED to regular breaks. A simple system is to rotate the breaks. So one person at a time, or during a quiet moment. "

Your manager was shit. However, the jobs need to be done before the business is closed, simple and shit as that. EHO can visit at any time, if they arrive first thing in the morning and there have been jobs left... goodbye 5* health and hygiene rating.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse? "

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately he needs to ride it out until he is able to move on. Problem with the industry is he is most likely looking at a career of 60+ hours a week in the kitchen but if you push yourself and get to the top level the rewards are outstanding. Just keep reminding him of the goals he has set himself to keep the motivation up.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense."

May I ask your job? You seem to know so much about the law, and if that's the case it seems there are many many slaves in the hospitality industry you can help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to work hospitality as a barman, and our manager hated bar staff. She used to see it that if we werent serving anyone and everything was clean, so we were just standing around chatting (but not sitting down), that WAS our break. Now, after food had been served, all of the kitchen staff were put on break, but the bar staff had to keep on working. Now, I was listed down to finish once bar was closed (which is around 1 AM). But we were forced to stay behind until everything had been tidied and cleaned, even doing the jobs that the waiting staff were meant to do. So, my standard shift at this place was 3pm till 8am. With no break. While the waiting staff were 7pm till 8am and had two 15 minute breaks, which was enforeced. They were also given food while bar was given nothing. When I quit, I reported the institution I was working at. Talking to someone who I worke dbar with there, they told me that not long after I quit, a whole lot of reforms took place. Now bar staff get regular breaks, and also get fed.

While a constant service needs to be provided in these situations, staff are ENTITLED to regular breaks. A simple system is to rotate the breaks. So one person at a time, or during a quiet moment.

Your manager was shit. However, the jobs need to be done before the business is closed, simple and shit as that. EHO can visit at any time, if they arrive first thing in the morning and there have been jobs left... goodbye 5* health and hygiene rating. "

I was forced to stay simply due to the fact that surprisingly, I was one of the only people in that kitchen that had a food hygiene certificate. The damn manager thought it was ok to mop the floor with week old dirty water.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense."

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard work won't hurt him. When I was 17 I was at college and had 2 part time jobs. It looked great on the CV and in the interviews. Shows hes not lazy and willing to put the work in.

I'm not a chef but its common for me to work upto 16+ hours straight. I know its illegal but needs must sometime.

Keep him positive and if it does get to much for him, hes more that young enough to take another career path

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading "

The law does not deal with emotion.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading

The law does not deal with emotion."

I really would appreciate it if you could answer my question regarding your experience in the law and your ability to save us slaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading

The law does not deal with emotion."

Sadly the Law is broken a lot by employers. Mainly those who do employ young people. Why? Because young people are so desperate to do well, they are unlikely to report the business, so these companies can get away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere."

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading

The law does not deal with emotion."

Did anyone else read that in a Judge Dredd accent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

There's an emotional intelligence thread running, do drop by and leave your thoughts on the matter as they would make for interesting reading

The law does not deal with emotion.

Did anyone else read that in a Judge Dredd accent?"

Maybe he us Judge Dredd

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

May I ask your job? "

He is THE LAW

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By *ustafasinghMan
over a year ago

leicester

They do have duty care to himself so they must give him the break as if it's illegal however the hours are something he will have to stick out as that a chefs world. Also his training provider either college or another company should have someone who come and visits and he can explain these to them if his bosses aren't giving them breaks legally required and how he's feeling and they should talk to the owners/managers about these issues as it's in their duty of care.

If he was to leave it'd be terrible for company as learning provider. Companies can claim nearly all money they pay to get an apprentice via government as long as apprentices pass. And a lot of learning providers only get paid during the time you're on the apprenticeship. So learning provider has to help in order to keep getting paid and to keep there pass rates and company he works with get nothing if they're not willing to help. Because after few months you can essentially leave and get another job somewhere else as you have experience technically.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

May I ask your job? "

He is THE LAW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider. "

My son worked his apprenticeship on a diary farm from 16 and worked every single day apart from the 2 days at college and at certain times of the year ie harvesting would work past 12 hours a day though why would we complain? It is the nature of the job he was apprenticed to do, his bosses were fantastic people and yes he could have said I only work (fill on with the rules) but he got glowing references and the offer of 3 different fantastic jobs as a result of his hard work. And guess what? When I was working my butt off cheffing and he was working his butt off on his apprenticeship the hard work never killed us and the rewards were outstanding! Sometimes too many rules and .....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it"

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The law is there to protect people, especially young workers. They are entitled to stand up for their rights and not be treated as a slave.

The person here DOES NOT have to and SHOULD NOT HAVE TO put up with the treatment that he is receiving.

THAT IS THE LAW.

You know that putting things in capital letters doesn't make what you wrote any more credible and actually makes you look worse?

No, I am emphasising the law. Everyone else is talking nonsense.

May I ask your job?

He is THE LAW "

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually."

I thought Chefs were generally the best paid of the staff? Not that waiters, cleaners or bar staff are paid well. But in the relative sense i thought Chefs did ok?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

I shall ask again.

What is your experience in the law.

It's "just" catering...

Well... I do hope next time you're in hospital the chefs take their breaks the law entitles them to, and when YOU miss the meal that could help you on the road to recovery and give you the vitamins you need, your complaint is met with "It's just catering"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually.

I thought Chefs were generally the best paid of the staff? Not that waiters, cleaners or bar staff are paid well. But in the relative sense i thought Chefs did ok? "

They do better the others. However only our second and head chef are on more than minimum wage. The others are on minimum the same as the waiting staff.

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over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful."

All customers should disappear

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

At no point did I or anyone else say it's right. What was said was... It's normal for that to happen, regardless of right or wrong, and it's gotten around by the wording of the law like "Maintaining continuity of service or production"

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Perhaps you could report the business anonymously?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear "

Just the wanker cunts

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over a year ago


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

As has already been said. That is just the nature of the restaurant trade and it will never end as everyone wants to be the new Ferran Adria and believe me when I tell you this if one person leaves because the hours are too long another 1 will step up to fill those shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts "

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble"

Been there. Amount of people who complain over food that has had a lot of work put into it is rediculous. Its happening in oubs now. One I work in does food for most of the week, but we stop serving at certain times to give the waiting and kitchen staff a break. We also have days where we dont serve food. Amount of people who kick up a massive fuss and leave a bad review because we didnt serve food when they were hungry and the barman was sarcastic and rude. All i said to them was "i'm terribly sorry but we do not serve food on a Monday/sunday evening. I can offer you some Welsh tapas though" and when asked what that is, its "a bag of crisps, pork scratchings, salted nuts, and a jar of cockles"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble"

At least she eats it. Well done rump = you must have teeth like jaws to chew that fucker..... Oh no, no, you've sent it back coz it's tough.

Well done fillet = please let me kill you now. "Would you like the chef to butterfly it, as it will take an awfully long time to cook a fillet well done ?"

No

15 mins later, "cancel that order, I've got a film to get to and you're taking the piss with how long you're taking to cook my food"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble

Been there. Amount of people who complain over food that has had a lot of work put into it is rediculous. Its happening in oubs now. One I work in does food for most of the week, but we stop serving at certain times to give the waiting and kitchen staff a break. We also have days where we dont serve food. Amount of people who kick up a massive fuss and leave a bad review because we didnt serve food when they were hungry and the barman was sarcastic and rude. All i said to them was "i'm terribly sorry but we do not serve food on a Monday/sunday evening. I can offer you some Welsh tapas though" and when asked what that is, its "a bag of crisps, pork scratchings, salted nuts, and a jar of cockles""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble

At least she eats it. Well done rump = you must have teeth like jaws to chew that fucker..... Oh no, no, you've sent it back coz it's tough.

Well done fillet = please let me kill you now. "Would you like the chef to butterfly it, as it will take an awfully long time to cook a fillet well done ?"

No

15 mins later, "cancel that order, I've got a film to get to and you're taking the piss with how long you're taking to cook my food"

"

Push for the fish on a Monday. That'll teach them

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually.

I thought Chefs were generally the best paid of the staff? Not that waiters, cleaners or bar staff are paid well. But in the relative sense i thought Chefs did ok?

They do better the others. However only our second and head chef are on more than minimum wage. The others are on minimum the same as the waiting staff."

Tough gig. I do like watching Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares . I can see the appeal of the job in terms of creativity and being on the go. But my goodness it looks stressful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

All customers should disappear

Just the wanker cunts

The old lady that orders a well done steak and yet when it goes out it comes back because momma likes it WELL done so you literally turn it into shoe leather with the heat of a thousand burning suns. It goes back out and she is amazed at your work and leaves a hefty 50p tip for your trouble

Been there. Amount of people who complain over food that has had a lot of work put into it is rediculous. Its happening in oubs now. One I work in does food for most of the week, but we stop serving at certain times to give the waiting and kitchen staff a break. We also have days where we dont serve food. Amount of people who kick up a massive fuss and leave a bad review because we didnt serve food when they were hungry and the barman was sarcastic and rude. All i said to them was "i'm terribly sorry but we do not serve food on a Monday/sunday evening. I can offer you some Welsh tapas though" and when asked what that is, its "a bag of crisps, pork scratchings, salted nuts, and a jar of cockles"

"

You cant say I didnt try to accomadate their requests that at least should be worth a 4 star review

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I got friends who feel it's their right to complain about food just because they are paying for it.

I was thrilled when for the first time ever they were saying how they loved the food.

Great I thought. Until they said 6/10 as there was no atmosphere.

Fuck right off you moaning cunts.

These are the same friends who keep telling me to open my own place.

Yeah okay but you two are banned.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually.

I thought Chefs were generally the best paid of the staff? Not that waiters, cleaners or bar staff are paid well. But in the relative sense i thought Chefs did ok?

They do better the others. However only our second and head chef are on more than minimum wage. The others are on minimum the same as the waiting staff.

Tough gig. I do like watching Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares . I can see the appeal of the job in terms of creativity and being on the go. But my goodness it looks stressful. "

It's hellish. Our restaurant can sit 140 covers inside plus there's the patio area too. One chef of the grill, one plating up, one on starters, one on desserts and salad.

Joe public have no idea what it's like. They complain about the length of time their food takes, I'm sure they think they're the only people who's food needs cooking.

Then you have the ones with allergies, this is massive. Each person that has allergies must have an area of the kitchen cleaned down specifically to prep and cook their meal. This can mean clearing and cleaning a space on the grill, away from the other food. Doesn't seem that bad but it massively delays the rest of the orders because the grill space has just been halved to cater for one person.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

You astonish me.

This thread is literally full of people who currently work or have worked in hospitality.

They are all singing the same song, yet you, who appear to know very little about the industry, but do have the ability to cut and paste the law, are suggesting we are all wrong.

Contracts frequently have clauses such as "working to meet the needs of the business" or similar.

Its not an office 9 to 5 job, although I seriously doubt there are any of those anymore either.

Myself and my staff came in early to prep up for lunch, when we were ready we took a break. Then the fun starts and the customers arrive. You work until they are fed, watered and paid. Then you clean down. You finish when its done. "Done" is frequently a couple of hours before you're due to open again for the next wave, when its all hands to the deck to prep up gain, rinse and repeat until everyone's gone home.

Frequently at stupid o'clock in the morning, at which point you restock the fridges and bar, clean down and give yourself a head start on the next day.

And now, finally, you get a break.

And its 3 in the morning........

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Back in the day anybody in Catering particulary hotels would talk about doing “BLD” which meant breakfast lunch & dinner AKA bloody long days. Nowadays they work “AFD” work out what that means.

That’s how most chefs start out in hotels & restaurants as it usually gives them the best training albeit long & arduous!!

As one gets older or gets fed up of silly hours & not having a social life, one realises you can work in catering with sensible hours. This might be contract catering in schools, nursing homes, staff canteens etc etc, with very often no evenings or weekends, it might be less pay sometimes but the trade offs are immense.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Back in the day anybody in Catering particulary hotels would talk about doing “BLD” which meant breakfast lunch & dinner AKA bloody long days. Nowadays they work “AFD” work out what that means.

That’s how most chefs start out in hotels & restaurants as it usually gives them the best training albeit long & arduous!!

As one gets older or gets fed up of silly hours & not having a social life, one realises you can work in catering with sensible hours. This might be contract catering in schools, nursing homes, staff canteens etc etc, with very often no evenings or weekends, it might be less pay sometimes but the trade offs are immense. "

"What shift you on tomorrow?"

"AFD, you?"

"Should have been my day off but Bill's called in sick so I'm on all fucking day too"

The joys.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Everything’s an experience. Instead of finding the faults encourage him to embrace the long hours and absorb everything he can. Let him find his own working boundaries. There’s not one chef who’s “made it” who’s not worked long and intensively.

He’ll leave in one of three ways. Either by disillusionment. That it’s not what he thought it was. Or by hostility where he absolutely hates the industry, or with some good coaching and management he’ll carry on and make a eventual success of it, even if that success is a staunch and robust work ethic.

Right now though good on him!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

You astonish me.

This thread is literally full of people who currently work or have worked in hospitality.

They are all singing the same song, yet you, who appear to know very little about the industry, but do have the ability to cut and paste the law, are suggesting we are all wrong.

Contracts frequently have clauses such as "working to meet the needs of the business" or similar.

Its not an office 9 to 5 job, although I seriously doubt there are any of those anymore either.

"

Less and less, but i think there's an important difference. I know a lot of people who work 60-70 hour weeks in office jobs, but half those fucking hours are spent in tedious meetings that are neither intellectually nor physically challenging. I think the intensity of having to respond within a given time to each order makes a chefs job way more challenging.


"

Myself and my staff came in early to prep up for lunch, when we were ready we took a break. Then the fun starts and the customers arrive. You work until they are fed, watered and paid. Then you clean down. You finish when its done. "Done" is frequently a couple of hours before you're due to open again for the next wave, when its all hands to the deck to prep up gain, rinse and repeat until everyone's gone home.

Frequently at stupid o'clock in the morning, at which point you restock the fridges and bar, clean down and give yourself a head start on the next day.

And now, finally, you get a break.

And its 3 in the morning........"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

Naive doesnt even begin to cover your posts

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sorry to keep rattling on, another ball ache...

You're scheduled a break from 2.30 - 3.30 for arguments sake. Delivery arrives either late or early.... bang on your break time. You can't leave it, the food will spoil and there are strict guidelines about temperatures and how long it can be out of the fridge/freezer.

Each food item comes in packaged yes? You cannot have external packaging on items in the fridge as you don't know what that external packaging had come into contact with, so it's not just putting things in a fridge, it all needs unpacking too. Oh, but you can't just take things out of the packaging and be done, you need to log batch codes etc for traceability. It's far more detailed and strict than most peeps think about.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

You astonish me.

This thread is literally full of people who currently work or have worked in hospitality.

They are all singing the same song, yet you, who appear to know very little about the industry, but do have the ability to cut and paste the law, are suggesting we are all wrong.

Contracts frequently have clauses such as "working to meet the needs of the business" or similar.

Its not an office 9 to 5 job, although I seriously doubt there are any of those anymore either.

Less and less, but i think there's an important difference. I know a lot of people who work 60-70 hour weeks in office jobs, but half those fucking hours are spent in tedious meetings that are neither intellectually nor physically challenging. I think the intensity of having to respond within a given time to each order makes a chefs job way more challenging.

Myself and my staff came in early to prep up for lunch, when we were ready we took a break. Then the fun starts and the customers arrive. You work until they are fed, watered and paid. Then you clean down. You finish when its done. "Done" is frequently a couple of hours before you're due to open again for the next wave, when its all hands to the deck to prep up gain, rinse and repeat until everyone's gone home.

Frequently at stupid o'clock in the morning, at which point you restock the fridges and bar, clean down and give yourself a head start on the next day.

And now, finally, you get a break.

And its 3 in the morning........"

Same here.

One of my recent jobs, sometimes I was lucky to get 2 hours productive work done in a day due to attending meetings. So when does that actual coal face work get done?

In whatever time you have left, resulting in 60-70 hour weeks. Add in 3 hours travel a day and before you know it the weeks over.

My biggest bugbear is always someone higher up the chain of command making commitments on behalf of my team, without bothering to ask us if it was possible.

Great, so whatever plans we did have to manage our time and workload have just gone down the crapper.

Yes, we have demanding clients, but FFS lets manage their expectations and not commit to something we cant achieve.

Hospitality is the real sharp end of customer service.

I've lost track of the number of times the owner decided to accept an after theater walk in booking for 20 people at 11pm, 50 turn up, then spend the evening moaning that certain meals were off the menu, spend the evening treating the staff like slaves snapping their fingers for service and at 4am deciding they wanted separate bills.

Allow me, that's £1500 between 50 of you, that'll be £30 each. Please feel free to decide who had chips and a desert and who didn't on the pavement outside......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a set of H&S regulations that the company have to apply by.

Firstly your son is under 18, has he had a young person risk assessment carried out with him.

There are reduced hours, increased frequency of breaks and things like that, the employer can put in place.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Long n short.

It's brutal.

Normally the pay is dire (so fair play to your young un)

Say goodbye to social life.

Say goodbye to family time.

If pot wash breaks it's all hands on deck hand washing and he'll be lucky to be out of there by 3am.

It's can be a thankless job where you feel undervalued and yes, like a slave.

The team you have around you become your new family, good and bad.

IF you put the hard work in, and make huge sacrifices it can pay off eventually.

I thought Chefs were generally the best paid of the staff? Not that waiters, cleaners or bar staff are paid well. But in the relative sense i thought Chefs did ok?

They do better the others. However only our second and head chef are on more than minimum wage. The others are on minimum the same as the waiting staff.

Tough gig. I do like watching Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares . I can see the appeal of the job in terms of creativity and being on the go. But my goodness it looks stressful. "

Ramsey disgusts me, many people who I know who work in catering feel the same.

So many people now think its acceptable to scream, berate and abuse your staff because they watch that prick.

Very good chef, not such a good human being.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

"

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank everyone needs to calm down a bit. Hard work never killed anyone

Suck it up, buttercups!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry? "

Because people are willing to make sacrifices to further their careers and work doing what they love.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

Not many people said it was right, just that it happens.

The catering industry (and the Agriculture industry in which I work) are very poorly unionised.

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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"There is a set of H&S regulations that the company have to apply by.

Firstly your son is under 18, has he had a young person risk assessment carried out with him.

There are reduced hours, increased frequency of breaks and things like that, the employer can put in place."

He hasn't had any kind of risk assessment.

He is a fabulous young chef with a potentially exciting journey ahead, I just hope that he stays in the industry, if it is his journey, and reaches his potential.

As it is his first job, I just wanted to be sure that it is normal for the industry he has chosen, as we had nothing to compare it with apart from his part-time hours, at the same restaurant, whilst he completed College.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry? "

I guess some people like it.

On the whole, I've enjoyed my time in Agriculture, but lots of that has been self employed. I'm looking for an out now because I would like an actual social life and I wouldn't want to stay in the industry past my mid 40s.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

Because people are willing to make sacrifices to further their careers and work doing what they love."

That kind of begs the question. Why would anyone love work where the conditions are so awful?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry? "

You don't always realise just how punishing it can be until you're relying on it to keep a roof over your head.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

"

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"There is a set of H&S regulations that the company have to apply by.

Firstly your son is under 18, has he had a young person risk assessment carried out with him.

There are reduced hours, increased frequency of breaks and things like that, the employer can put in place.

He hasn't had any kind of risk assessment.

He is a fabulous young chef with a potentially exciting journey ahead, I just hope that he stays in the industry, if it is his journey, and reaches his potential.

As it is his first job, I just wanted to be sure that it is normal for the industry he has chosen, as we had nothing to compare it with apart from his part-time hours, at the same restaurant, whilst he completed College."

He definitely should have had a "young person's risk assessment" done.

Would have probably had it done when he was first employed part time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

You don't always realise just how punishing it can be until you're relying on it to keep a roof over your head."

And feed your kids

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break. "

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

You don't always realise just how punishing it can be until you're relying on it to keep a roof over your head.

And feed your kids"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

Because people are willing to make sacrifices to further their careers and work doing what they love.

That kind of begs the question. Why would anyone love work where the conditions are so awful? "

Your colleagues really do turn into family.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one. "

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry?

Because people are willing to make sacrifices to further their careers and work doing what they love.

That kind of begs the question. Why would anyone love work where the conditions are so awful? "

For the love and passion of the job I'd say. The hours I worked running a restaurant were ridiculous. But the experience and fun were immense.....

Or maybe because any job is better than no job.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory. "

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice x"

Being a chef demands working unsocial hours and long hours I know he's young and by sounds of things he's appreciating the opportunity but it's his age that should help him because he has the stamina and the desire to be good at what he is doing, in all jobs/careers these days when you are at work you're at work they the employer demand your time and by sounds of things he's being paid well to although the break thing doesn't sound good I think he will just have to get his head down save some money and make the most of his two days off.

Most chefs I've known over the years and I've worked in hotel industry a lot work long hours once he has his relevant experience and qualifications he will then be able to dictate more about how he works it but as parents I can see how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope he does stick it out who knows what the future will bring.

Could end up a great chef maybe TV you never know

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed."

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory. "

"The customer is always right" culture has a lot to answer for.

We cannot close our business during working hours without the consent of the regional business manager (unless of course there's a major incident - fire, gang fight etc)

By the time you had permission the person's break time would be over anyway. Closing the business without permission is a sackable offence. It's bullshit, but it's the way it is.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

"The customer is always right" culture has a lot to answer for.

We cannot close our business during working hours without the consent of the regional business manager (unless of course there's a major incident - fire, gang fight etc)

By the time you had permission the person's break time would be over anyway. Closing the business without permission is a sackable offence. It's bullshit, but it's the way it is. "

I appreciate one particular business can't buck the trend. I am making a point that this can only go on because people generally think it is OK, just as people once thought child labour and slavery were OK...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Acch. As much as long hours are to be expected within the industry, I do know that it's possible to do an apprenticeship (in very good kitchens) and still get your entitled breaks etc. Yes, it happens in many kitchens through out the country but that doesn't necessarily make it right or something that should just be put up with (although I wouldn't suggest your son complains) and I know some companies are trying to change it.

As is quite clear, I'm in two minds about it.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

"

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"

I appreciate one particular business can't buck the trend. I am making a point that this can only go on because people generally think it is OK, just as people once thought child labour and slavery were OK... "

I agree, unfortunately the age of people complaining over being inconvenienced and getting free stuff for said inconvenience has overtaken and shit on people actually giving a flying fuck about the person they're screwing over, whether that be a dustman who dropped litter in someone's garden whilst trying his best to empty their full bins, to a 17 yr old who really deserves a break, but Deirdre is peckish and wants her dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catering and hospitality is a brutal industry BUT if he can be mature about it, put his social life on hold for a while, save up that money he's on working all those hours to get, in 10 years time he could be in a very enviable position while his college/school friends are still struggling to get by in their "easier" vocations.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"

I appreciate one particular business can't buck the trend. I am making a point that this can only go on because people generally think it is OK, just as people once thought child labour and slavery were OK...

I agree, unfortunately the age of people complaining over being inconvenienced and getting free stuff for said inconvenience has overtaken and shit on people actually giving a flying fuck about the person they're screwing over, whether that be a dustman who dropped litter in someone's garden whilst trying his best to empty their full bins, to a 17 yr old who really deserves a break, but Deirdre is peckish and wants her dinner. "

I've served a few Deidres. You're open, you must serve me and serve me now.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries. "

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries. "

I am not saying you might not need some flexibility in an industry like catering but making a 17 year old work 9 hours without a break is caused by bad management because the managers know they can get away with it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't been able to read the entire thread as I'm on my lunch break. Sorry if this has been said.

Has your son spoken to his assessor, what did they suggest?

It's fair to say that once he's qualified, in certain areas of the industry a 50 hour week will seem like a rest.

I'm not saying it's right or legal but it's how things currently stand.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable. "

And that was my point about sods law that your £1200 food delivery turns up bang on that time. There are so many variables that influence getting a break or not. I don't agree with it in the slightest.

Our manager gave us the option. Do you want to be guaranteed your break?

Yes please.

Ok fine. Can I have volunteers to work for an hour or 2 a day to cover breaks?.... nobody. Who wants to work an hour? Spend more time getting ready and on travel than you'll earn in that hour.

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By *avla84Man
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I use to be a chef. did the long hours worked in some amazing places.. But if he wants Monday to Friday weekends of nights off then he needs to go in to contract Catering...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So it's a industry with punishingly long hours, low pay and where workers rights are routinely ignored.

Perhaps a naive question. But why does anyone is isn't absolutely desperate for work, get involved in the industry? "

The rewards can be huge. Most good chefs are passionate about what they do.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable.

And that was my point about sods law that your £1200 food delivery turns up bang on that time. There are so many variables that influence getting a break or not. I don't agree with it in the slightest.

Our manager gave us the option. Do you want to be guaranteed your break?

Yes please.

Ok fine. Can I have volunteers to work for an hour or 2 a day to cover breaks?.... nobody. Who wants to work an hour? Spend more time getting ready and on travel than you'll earn in that hour.

"

Thars poor man management on your managers part though. If he knows he's expecting a delivery at a certain time he needs to staff accordingly, stagger shifts if needed. You don't have to send everyone for a break at the same time.

I used to manage a 24/7 call centre and had to ensure everyone got breaks based around our forecasted call volumes and re evaluate around our actual volumes.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable.

And that was my point about sods law that your £1200 food delivery turns up bang on that time. There are so many variables that influence getting a break or not. I don't agree with it in the slightest.

Our manager gave us the option. Do you want to be guaranteed your break?

Yes please.

Ok fine. Can I have volunteers to work for an hour or 2 a day to cover breaks?.... nobody. Who wants to work an hour? Spend more time getting ready and on travel than you'll earn in that hour.

Thars poor man management on your managers part though. If he knows he's expecting a delivery at a certain time he needs to staff accordingly, stagger shifts if needed. You don't have to send everyone for a break at the same time.

I used to manage a 24/7 call centre and had to ensure everyone got breaks based around our forecasted call volumes and re evaluate around our actual volumes. "

Agreed and it can work, until the delivery that was due at 11am (breakfast and lunch changeover and quietish period) turns up at 5pm due to traffic/ whatever other reason. It happens. Other staff members are late, sick or whatever reason they have. It happens.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

"

You aren't wrong.

I gave advice in my post which has been completely ignored - there are other places where he can do his apprenticeship/training which will take into consideration the law.

The catering industry is horrible - I can give loads of personal examples - it doesn't have to be that way. Just because it has always been that way, doesn't mean it a always HAS to be that way.

(Capitals used for emphasis, not shouting).

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"The people in this thread astonish me.

The law is there to protect people, but you are all saying that employers are right to ignore it, and that employees should just "put up and shut up"

Yet 99% of the posters on the forum are left-wing, hate the Conservative Party.

Suddenly laws, trade unions and employee rights can all go to hell.

You are all just insane.

Next thing you won't care about health and safety, minimum wage, payment of wages, holidays with pay, equal pay, discrimination.

It's just catering. Put up and shut up.

I tried to help, to set out the law and a bunch of idiots tell me that I am wrong.

I shall ask again.

What is your experience in the law.

It's "just" catering...

Well... I do hope next time you're in hospital the chefs take their breaks the law entitles them to, and when YOU miss the meal that could help you on the road to recovery and give you the vitamins you need, your complaint is met with "It's just catering""

I've done contract catering in a hospital - the chefs always got their breaks.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable. "

Agreed.

Particularly about not always getting it right.

We knew how many covers we had, what was on the menu and the likelihood of what time people would come in and what the most popular dishes on the menu were going to be.

It's possible to have a rough plan in place and organise breaks/down time.

And then the owner takes a walk in for 20 people who've just rocked up. In this day and age you can't turn down business like that.

Thankfully that was the exception rather than the norm.

The key is, the staff need to be flexible in their approach to the job in hand.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Same for the NHS, emergency services and most other public sector, acute jobs.

NO, the laws the law, you gotta have your breaks, ITS THE LAW.

*just thought i'd save someone else typng it as I was logged in anyway.....

The law is one thing, the practicality of the hospitality/service industry and healthcare sectors are a million miles apart at times.

Mrs Jones has just had a heart attack, get the defib now!!! Dont ask me luv, i'm on me break.......

It's hardly the same is it. No ones going to die if a kitchen worker has a break.

No, but you can't just lock the front doors and turn customers away because they're entitled to one.

Actually you could.

It's all about mindsets. The general mindset is that the customers convenience comes above the rights of 17 year olds not to be worked into the ground.

That's what we, as a society, have decided, but there's nothing that makes the mindset compulsory.

Actually you couldn't turn customers away because the staff were on a break.

Within a week you'd be closed.

Yes, because the industry operates that way and any employer who tried to behave decently would go bankrupt.

If there was a general social mindset that that sort of behaviour would not be tolerated and laws against it should be rigidly enforced then it wouldn't happen and no employer would gain a competitive advantage by shitting on their workers.

You can't legislate for when customers rock up to eat though.

If the restaurant opens at 10 and closes at 3 for lunch that's at least 2 hours prep up and the same to clean down.

Customers will turn up any when between 10 and 3. You take a break if and when there's downtime within those hours.

The customer isn't always right, but have you ever heard people moaning that they have to wait 30 minutes for their meal? Imagine saying I'm sorry, your dinner will be an hour because chefs having a break.

Long and unsociable hours go with the teritory in many industries.

You can analyse trend data though and staff accordingly the same as any customer facing service.

I've worked in lots of kitchens and you can pretty accurately predict when the busy periods will be so it's all about good management and forecasting.

You won't always get it right so flexibility is needed abd I've been called in off breaks to deal with a random coach party etc. But for the most part it's predictable.

And that was my point about sods law that your £1200 food delivery turns up bang on that time. There are so many variables that influence getting a break or not. I don't agree with it in the slightest.

Our manager gave us the option. Do you want to be guaranteed your break?

Yes please.

Ok fine. Can I have volunteers to work for an hour or 2 a day to cover breaks?.... nobody. Who wants to work an hour? Spend more time getting ready and on travel than you'll earn in that hour.

Thars poor man management on your managers part though. If he knows he's expecting a delivery at a certain time he needs to staff accordingly, stagger shifts if needed. You don't have to send everyone for a break at the same time.

I used to manage a 24/7 call centre and had to ensure everyone got breaks based around our forecasted call volumes and re evaluate around our actual volumes.

Agreed and it can work, until the delivery that was due at 11am (breakfast and lunch changeover and quietish period) turns up at 5pm due to traffic/ whatever other reason. It happens. Other staff members are late, sick or whatever reason they have. It happens. "

It does.. That's where the flexibility and re evaluating comes into it.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I hope your son gets it sorted, especially if it's something he enjoys.

I've told my kids to stay away from the hospitality industry and retail!!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??"

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my oldest friends is a head chef and he has always worked very long hours. But he has a job he truly loves, as for a social life; people in this industry tend to have a social group also in the hospitality industry and they have some wild nights out.

The main thing is that at 17 he still has a very long time to decide on what he wants to do if he decides this isn't the career for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says."

Even lovelier having a job where you have an expense account to enjoy those restaurants and pubs where people work 12 hours without a proper break

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says."

Heavenly. Unfortunately I think I'd need to start my own business for that to happen.

Wouldn't be a very successful one if I did tho!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says.

Even lovelier having a job where you have an expense account to enjoy those restaurants and pubs where people work 12 hours without a proper break"

Ah yes..... I've treated you like shit all night... make sure I get a VAT receipt

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open... "

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'"

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me... "

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says.

Even lovelier having a job where you have an expense account to enjoy those restaurants and pubs where people work 12 hours without a proper break"

I have a job where i get my expenses paid. Should I avoid restaurants?

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful."

I’m sorry but that doesn’t all have to happen!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

I’m sorry but that doesn’t all have to happen! "

What do you do then? Genuinely curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you do,don't drag the lad out on a family outing on his first day otherwise he'll mop and feel more like a chore. Just encourage him to go out with friends and not stay in all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a line cook myself i would never reccomend anyone thinking of cooking professionally, the hours, the pains in your feet after four doubles shift and a single will kill your soul slowly. I love the rush while in service but it takes a toll on your body and mind. Also how many kitchens have drug and booze problems? Ive worked in fine dining i can honestly say 90%+ takr drugs while at work. Its sad seeing your senior chefs needing to do a line to get through service. Or the head chef whi drinks 5L of beer daily. The verbal abuse, the racism you can face. Missing those important family programs. You give your life to a company and the kitchen & sacrifice your family time when the true fact is you are dispensable and willbe replaced if you dont follow suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should be having more breaks due to his age. I've worked in hospitality since I was 16 and I still had all my proper breaks at that age.

The rest of it? Comes with the territory I'm afraid.

Signed the hotel worker who can't remember the last time that she had a weekend off and is currently enjoying her midweek day off (!)

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that. "

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a line cook myself i would never reccomend anyone thinking of cooking professionally, the hours, the pains in your feet after four doubles shift and a single will kill your soul slowly. I love the rush while in service but it takes a toll on your body and mind. Also how many kitchens have drug and booze problems? Ive worked in fine dining i can honestly say 90%+ takr drugs while at work. Its sad seeing your senior chefs needing to do a line to get through service. Or the head chef whi drinks 5L of beer daily. The verbal abuse, the racism you can face. Missing those important family programs. You give your life to a company and the kitchen & sacrifice your family time when the true fact is you are dispensable and willbe replaced if you dont follow suit. "

And don't forget the chef's arse.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"As a line cook myself i would never reccomend anyone thinking of cooking professionally, the hours, the pains in your feet after four doubles shift and a single will kill your soul slowly. I love the rush while in service but it takes a toll on your body and mind. Also how many kitchens have drug and booze problems? Ive worked in fine dining i can honestly say 90%+ takr drugs while at work. Its sad seeing your senior chefs needing to do a line to get through service. Or the head chef whi drinks 5L of beer daily. The verbal abuse, the racism you can face. Missing those important family programs. You give your life to a company and the kitchen & sacrifice your family time when the true fact is you are dispensable and willbe replaced if you dont follow suit. "

I was gonna mention the drug and alcohol abuse I've witnessed myself but wasn't sure how far and wide it was spread. It's not all, but I've seen a lot.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider.

Have you ever worked in the hospitality trade?

I'm again quite sure the term "as per business needs" and others that say the same thing come into play and are commonplace, and are also recognised by those that enforce the law.

So, you've learned from reading this thread that's it's a brutal environment to work in, and hope opens your eyes, I also hope you aren't one of those cunts that arrives 5 mins before the kitchen closes and orders starters, a well done steak and then complains they want dessert when everyone is waiting to go home after slogging their guts out for the last 16 hours."

I have managed food businesses for 20 years have defended and maintained my teams rights for breaks etc.... 5 mins before the kitchen closes is when the cunt you refer to made it to your business.... within the opening hours!! While I’ve managed in support of my team I also respect the customer who comes to my business when it was open and chose to spend their money with us.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"As a line cook myself i would never reccomend anyone thinking of cooking professionally, the hours, the pains in your feet after four doubles shift and a single will kill your soul slowly. I love the rush while in service but it takes a toll on your body and mind. Also how many kitchens have drug and booze problems? Ive worked in fine dining i can honestly say 90%+ takr drugs while at work. Its sad seeing your senior chefs needing to do a line to get through service. Or the head chef whi drinks 5L of beer daily. The verbal abuse, the racism you can face. Missing those important family programs. You give your life to a company and the kitchen & sacrifice your family time when the true fact is you are dispensable and willbe replaced if you dont follow suit. "

Again, I really don't understand it. It's not as if it's like football, music, fashion or whatever, where you might put up with Shit because of the glamour and huge potential rewards.

I personally hate cooking so that probably informs my view somewhat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a line cook myself i would never reccomend anyone thinking of cooking professionally, the hours, the pains in your feet after four doubles shift and a single will kill your soul slowly. I love the rush while in service but it takes a toll on your body and mind. Also how many kitchens have drug and booze problems? Ive worked in fine dining i can honestly say 90%+ takr drugs while at work. Its sad seeing your senior chefs needing to do a line to get through service. Or the head chef whi drinks 5L of beer daily. The verbal abuse, the racism you can face. Missing those important family programs. You give your life to a company and the kitchen & sacrifice your family time when the true fact is you are dispensable and willbe replaced if you dont follow suit.

Again, I really don't understand it. It's not as if it's like football, music, fashion or whatever, where you might put up with Shit because of the glamour and huge potential rewards.

I personally hate cooking so that probably informs my view somewhat... "

We all have experiences that 'inform' our views

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it. "

Because we are replaceable and do what we can to keep our shitty paid jobs. Because those customers have the power to close down a business.

There's a saying "going above and beyond" and that's hospitality on a daily basis. Competition is everywhere, and just as keeping our jobs, we need to do what we can to keep the business trading.

Ok... If business is shit, they don't need me to work. I only get paid the hours I work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is peoples egos, mix that with cocaine and whatever else these cooks are taking and it results in abuse of power and taking advantage of people below you, manipulating etc. As long as managers see results ie profits and GP is consistant/up then they arent fussed to tackle it. Ego is a problem in the whole world.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"All the previous posters on this thread display an appalling attitude and are just plainly wrong.

The law is the law. You cannot just say - this industry doesn't employ black people; that industry won't employ disabled people; and the other industry wouldn't employ women.

Junior doctors used to work hundreds of hours a week. Now they are not allowed to. No hospital can say that they still have to.

There is no difference here.

The person is 17, and in an apprenticeship, because they have to be in some kind of education, being under 18. An apprenticeship counts. Clearly they are with a provider who should not be an apprentice provider with their attitude. They are supposed to be training this person, not using them as a slave. They are being partly funded by the Education and Skills Funding Agency. A complaint should be made to them.

A 17 year old has a right to not work more than 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week, to 2 consecutive days' rest per week and 12 hour rest between shifts. They are also entitled to a break of 30 minutes after 4.5 hours.

The only concession to the catering/bakery/hospitality trade is that they are allowed to work up to midnight and from 4am, which they would not be allowed to do, say if they were an apprentice painter and decorator.

The person in this case should make a complaint to the apprentice provider and if nothing is done, then they can bring a complaint to the employment tribunal for breach of the working time regulations. They also may have a personal injury claim if the illegal hours are affecting their health.

The person should also leave and find a responsible apprenticeship provider.

Have you ever worked in the hospitality trade?

I'm again quite sure the term "as per business needs" and others that say the same thing come into play and are commonplace, and are also recognised by those that enforce the law.

So, you've learned from reading this thread that's it's a brutal environment to work in, and hope opens your eyes, I also hope you aren't one of those cunts that arrives 5 mins before the kitchen closes and orders starters, a well done steak and then complains they want dessert when everyone is waiting to go home after slogging their guts out for the last 16 hours.

I have managed food businesses for 20 years have defended and maintained my teams rights for breaks etc.... 5 mins before the kitchen closes is when the cunt you refer to made it to your business.... within the opening hours!! While I’ve managed in support of my team I also respect the customer who comes to my business when it was open and chose to spend their money with us. "

Would you do it? I wouldn't.

That tenner they're spending doesn't even cover the wages of the staff that's now working over, and missing their last bus home.

I call lots of people cunts so don't sweat it sweet cheeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to keep rattling on, another ball ache...

You're scheduled a break from 2.30 - 3.30 for arguments sake. Delivery arrives either late or early.... bang on your break time. You can't leave it, the food will spoil and there are strict guidelines about temperatures and how long it can be out of the fridge/freezer.

Each food item comes in packaged yes? You cannot have external packaging on items in the fridge as you don't know what that external packaging had come into contact with, so it's not just putting things in a fridge, it all needs unpacking too. Oh, but you can't just take things out of the packaging and be done, you need to log batch codes etc for traceability. It's far more detailed and strict than most peeps think about."

Don't forget about the part where you need to drag stock out of the fridges and dry store to rotate it too! Urgh.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it. "

I stayed open until 4am because I had customers in, spending money.If there was nobody in, I'd close at 12, but I'm not going to call time on paying customers! Maybe that's because it was my own business and I'd take the trade when I could, but even so, any business in this current climate would be daft to turn away customers at a set time.Its part and parcel of the industry, if you turn customers away, there'll soon be plenty of time for breaks

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"No he doesn't need to "ride it out". He should complain. They are not fit to be an apprentice provider.

If they cut corners there, they will cut corners everywhere.

The industry is as it is. It will never change for the simplest of reasons that running a kitchen that there are so many jobs that need to be done in order to run a smooth operation. That's the brutal honesty of it

Add to that Joe Bloggs who puts in a fake food poisoning complaint in the hope of getting a freebie. They don't realise it's now got to be logged, a full investigation done, file on the allegation made, reported to all relevant personnel and probable visit from HSE. All this coz someone wants compo or a voucher for a free meal. If the odd customer weren't such selfish pricks out for themselves, it would make the life of a chef a touch less stressful.

I’m sorry but that doesn’t all have to happen!

What do you do then? Genuinely curious."

Initially ask for a doctors report. Record product, time date they ate. .... wait..... keep waiting..... wait some more..... it’s all gone quiet! While this appears flippant it’s genuinely what I have done. I think less than once per year the complaint would come from Council and I would respond with the information gathered, show due diligence info from the period affected, number of those meals served from that batch ... never had further action. If all things I found these easiest to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The long hours will pay off in the long run.

I ended up working for free for a short while so I could get through my apprenticeship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working in any hospitality or entertainment work by it's very nature means you work while others socialise.

There are some routes out of that, get good enough to be a 'star' in your trade so get paid enough not to need to work too often. Or go into the more wholesale end of the trade, where hours are more reasonable.

Make sure he both rests and enjoys his days off, if they are spent entirely on one or the other he will struggle to make the 14 months.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it.

I stayed open until 4am because I had customers in, spending money.If there was nobody in, I'd close at 12, but I'm not going to call time on paying customers! Maybe that's because it was my own business and I'd take the trade when I could, but even so, any business in this current climate would be daft to turn away customers at a set time.Its part and parcel of the industry, if you turn customers away, there'll soon be plenty of time for breaks "

I totally get that.

I don't get what people don't get about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long, hard and unsociable hours..you certainly need to have a passion to be a chef..I have one in the family...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Scotland I know if you’re under 18 you legally aren’t allowed to work more than 40 hours a week. I got a childcare apprenticeship when I was 17 and was contracted to 40 hours, but they were putting me down for overtime and making me do it. I eventually done some research and a senior member of staff was concerned so phoned an outside organisation so they could intervene. Even if you offer to do more than 40 hours a week, it’s still illegal.

This is what I was told and found online anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son is doing an apprenticeship as a chef, after receiving a job offer from where he was working part-time, (while at college doing a chef course), to put him through his certificated training on a very good salary.

The place that he is working has opportunities, status and a standard that would be impossible to find locally anywhere else, and in many ways is a golden opportunity for him, almost something that would come once, at an establishment of this nature, for someone so young and previously inexperience.

He is working in a very busy, organised, high status and well run kitchen and mostly enjoys his job.

The problem is he's only 17 and he's working extremely long hours and without the breaks that legally he is supposed to get.

He has occasionally worked in excess of 9 hours without even a 15-minute break. He is working a minimum of a 50 hour week.

He has tried discussing it with the head chef, but they have said that a chef job involves extremely hard work and long hours and if he wants it this is what he has to do. They are not at all receptive to the problem, although they do treat him very well apart from this issue.

He doesn't want to cause any trouble, and he doesn't want to find another job, it is unlikely he would find anything on this kind of salary, without even the fact they are going to be paying for his accreditation.

He is now getting so tired and fed up as he feels he is doing nothing else but work apart from on his two, midweek days off two days off.

He doesn't have much social life these days, with long working hours, and not a lot of time to see his friends or behave like a teenager does.

I don't really see what I can do to help, if we go in talking about a acas, and legal breaks, I don't really think it's going to help him, and his mum contacting them up would seem very juvenile in the situation adult world that he is in.

Has anybody got any suggestions, or have experienced something similar?

I really understand how is feeling, and want to support him, but neither of us have been able to think of a way, and I feel if he carries on he's going to end up leaving, and giving up an irreplaceable opportunity, although, I understand totally why he would do that.

He feels he is unable to change the situation, and just for information purposes, he also would not return to any kind of college or school situation, e feels that he has put that all behind now apart from hopefully getting his accreditation on the job.

Thanks for any advice xBeing a chef demands working unsocial hours and long hours I know he's young and by sounds of things he's appreciating the opportunity but it's his age that should help him because he has the stamina and the desire to be good at what he is doing, in all jobs/careers these days when you are at work you're at work they the employer demand your time and by sounds of things he's being paid well to although the break thing doesn't sound good I think he will just have to get his head down save some money and make the most of his two days off.

Most chefs I've known over the years and I've worked in hotel industry a lot work long hours once he has his relevant experience and qualifications he will then be able to dictate more about how he works it but as parents I can see how you feel "

My oldest daughter became a manager at a very young age she was doing 70 hours a week and not even getting paid for anything over her contracted hours but it paid off in the end she's earning extremely good money now still working long hours mind

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it.

I stayed open until 4am because I had customers in, spending money.If there was nobody in, I'd close at 12, but I'm not going to call time on paying customers! Maybe that's because it was my own business and I'd take the trade when I could, but even so, any business in this current climate would be daft to turn away customers at a set time.Its part and parcel of the industry, if you turn customers away, there'll soon be plenty of time for breaks "

I think it does make a difference if it's your own business, given that the extra money you get goes to you and you have the choice as to whether to do it or not.

It's obviously different if you're an employee and are told by your boss you have to do it.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"In Scotland I know if you’re under 18 you legally aren’t allowed to work more than 40 hours a week. I got a childcare apprenticeship when I was 17 and was contracted to 40 hours, but they were putting me down for overtime and making me do it. I eventually done some research and a senior member of staff was concerned so phoned an outside organisation so they could intervene. Even if you offer to do more than 40 hours a week, it’s still illegal.

This is what I was told and found online anyway x"

And how did that end up for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In Scotland I know if you’re under 18 you legally aren’t allowed to work more than 40 hours a week. I got a childcare apprenticeship when I was 17 and was contracted to 40 hours, but they were putting me down for overtime and making me do it. I eventually done some research and a senior member of staff was concerned so phoned an outside organisation so they could intervene. Even if you offer to do more than 40 hours a week, it’s still illegal.

This is what I was told and found online anyway x

And how did that end up for you ?

"

My manager said that if I was ‘that bothered’ then I wouldn’t do over 40 hours until I turned 18. Or I could be ‘helpful’ and not complain or tell anyone. I told them yes, I was bothered, I had course work to do on top of working 40 hours a week so I didn’t do overtime until I turned 18. And even then I didn’t do it often as I wanted a day for my coursework (I did four ten hour shifts a week with a half an hour lunch break).

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Must be nice having a life where you work 9-5, break for an hour at 12 be home for 6, tea ready at 7.

Not everyone has a job like that, despite what THE LAW says."

It's not just about working unsocial hours though. It's the number of hours which is done without a break which is illegal.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"So many people need to realise that catering in general is a vocation.If you want to down tools on the stroke of 5 and go back home to watch the early evening news and dinner then you're in the wrong job

If you want to take a break at 1pm because you're entitled to it, bugger the fact that it's the busiest time of the day, you're in the wrong job

If you're not prepared to stay after your allotted finishing time to ensure that everything is ready for the next day, or to make sure that last minute customer gets the same quality meal as the first customer of the day did, you're in the wrong job

I've run pubs and a tapas bar where I've continued serving until 4 in the morning because I had customers who wanted it and they were paying me for the service.

Lots of people look down on hospitality workers as ' only catering, anyone can do that'

So you never go out to eat and drink then??

I admire your dedication, but why is ensuring customers get food served to them at the exact moment they want it, so vital.

I mean if I want a manicure or a car service at 4am, I can't just go to the manicurist or mechanic and demand it. I have to wait until they are open...

No one goes out to eat in a restaurant when it's closed do they?

That's a daft analogy. Everyone will anticipate a wait of say 30 minutes at a busy time. I think everyone understands it takes time to cook food.....

'\/'

I was responding to the poster who said he stayed open until 4am until everyone was fed.

I suppose a better analogy would be if I turned up at a manicurist thirty Mins before closing to find a long queue and demand they stay open until they can manicure me...

Like customers that are at the bar at 11pm last orders, but because they're standing at the bar at 11 and not approaching the bar after 11 should be served? Just like that.

No, I am obviously not saying that, there has to be some reasonable flexibility.

I am just intrigued as to why everyone who has worked in the industry seems to take such masochistic pride on having a shit working life because customers demand it.

I stayed open until 4am because I had customers in, spending money.If there was nobody in, I'd close at 12, but I'm not going to call time on paying customers! Maybe that's because it was my own business and I'd take the trade when I could, but even so, any business in this current climate would be daft to turn away customers at a set time.Its part and parcel of the industry, if you turn customers away, there'll soon be plenty of time for breaks "

Are you licensed to be open until 4am?

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