FabSwingers.com forum: Friend requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it sounds weird, but why do people get so precious about friend requests on here?

On other apps friend requests are just common and people add others at random.

I can understand why requests on Facebook are rejected when there is a lot of personal information flying about. But here, everyone seems incognito anyway.

Just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want ppl I don't know to see my lovely cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume people want to see my pics in friends folder... especially if we haven't chatted

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

On what other apps do people add friends at random?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just assume people want to see my pics in friends folder... especially if we haven't chatted "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an naked pics aren’t personal information?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have pictures I only want to share with actual ‘friends’ I have met on here. I don’t want picture collectors seeing less clothed pics of me. If you want to follow someone then just ‘hotlist’ them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll send/accept friend requests if we’ve been chatting and I can see us meeting*. Other than that I ignore friend requests. Only wanting to see my friends only pics - which are boring anyway!

And I don’t accept random friend requests on other social media - if anything, I’d find it more strange

*I have a few lovely formites on my friends list, an exception to the rule

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't add randoms on other social media either. If you want to see our private pics you have to work for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They ain't my friend. What's the point in having a friends list if they aren't one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" They ain't my friend. What's the point in having a friends list if they aren't one?

Because I fancy you?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

The clue is in the name ‘friends’

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

On any site I never add anyone as a friend unless I have actually met them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On what other apps do people add friends at random? "

I get instagram friends all the time, people try add me on Facebook on the random, I've been added on POF before but don't use the app now. I'm sure there are more.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Because I don't want ppl I don't know to see my lovely cock "

Your tinky winky has caused enough trouble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What an naked pics aren’t personal information?

That is true, but most people have them all across their profile already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On what other apps do people add friends at random?

I get instagram friends all the time, people try add me on Facebook on the random, I've been added on POF before but don't use the app now. I'm sure there are more."

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

My face is in my friends pics. I like my anonymity. Only people I know or have met become friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're not meeting then you've got no need to see my face pics.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

The people on my friends list are friends. People I built up a rapport with. People I want to see the updates of.

BigCockGeorge34* sends a random request. If I accept it will just clog up my updates. There’s absolutely no point in accepting. He just wants to nosey at my friends gallery

* The characters depicted in the post are ficticious. Any similarity to actual persons, living or dead is purely coincidental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an naked pics aren’t personal information?

That is true, but most people have them all across their profile already lol"

That’s fine but if someone has lots in the friends only folder like me then there is a reason for that and I want to be selective who see’s them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its for people i want to get to know not nosey cunts

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I don’t accept friend requests from randoms on any app

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

One solution.. dont have any then you wont get asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because its for people i want to get to know not nosey cunts"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people on my friends list are friends. People I built up a rapport with. People I want to see the updates of.

BigCockGeorge34* sends a random request. If I accept it will just clog up my updates. There’s absolutely no point in accepting. He just wants to nosey at my friends gallery

* The characters depicted in the post are ficticious. Any similarity to actual persons, living or dead is purely coincidental"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On what other apps do people add friends at random?

I get instagram friends all the time, people try add me on Facebook on the random, I've been added on POF before but don't use the app now. I'm sure there are more.

But those apps don’t have pictures like we do on here. I have naked pics in mine and only want guys I’ve been intimate with to see them or people I want to meet. I don’t put naked pics of Pof or Instagram. Completely different."
I agree with your point, but there are loads of people who have naked pics on their profiles that seem special about being added as friends too. I was merely curious as to why people do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a private folder, what would be the point of it if people just accepted friend requests from anyone ? We have more intimate and naughty pics in our friends only folder because there's a possibility of meeting one day and they can see how we roll

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep - I have nekkid snaps in my private gallery and I don’t want every Tom, Dick and Harry perving, I mean *poring* over them.

I think you have your answer, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's obvious that if I get a friends request without having even chatted to someone, then they are just wanting to perv my friends only photos, and I ain't just sex object.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol that's me slapped with a kipper and told off.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I’m guessing because many have friends only pics that they don’t want just anyone to see

We only accept requests off people we’ve met or hope to meet in the future, I don’t see the point in collecting a bunch of random ‘friends’ for no reason

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it sounds weird, but why do people get so precious about friend requests on here?

On other apps friend requests are just common and people add others at random.

I can understand why requests on Facebook are rejected when there is a lot of personal information flying about. But here, everyone seems incognito anyway.

Just wondering

When was the last time you called somebody that you have never had contact with a friend??

We never have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be random but my friends are there because they're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like has been said a lot on here, many guys do it to get to see private photos.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Whole point being "friend"... if not a friend then no.

I've had guys saying they only add to see if there's a pussy pic. Shit outta luck there with me there but it's also rude.

There's plenty free porn anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want people seeing my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t accept friend requests because i like to come on, faff around and not make small talk with someone who is only saying hello because out of all their “friends” i’m the only one online.

I like to piss about on here in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get why anyone thinks thats ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because its for people i want to get to know not nosey cunts"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't add random strangers to my social media accounts.

Last time we had face pics public on here I got stalked. I am happy to show people we are chatting to our mugs but allowing anyone and everyone who sends a friends request access just puts me at risk of another nut job following me home, the same house my children live - I'll pass on that thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people know the meaning of the word friends.... afterall the request isnt titled complete strangers

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By *allisto2000Woman
over a year ago

Stafford ish

"My face is in my friends pics. I like my anonymity. Only people I know or have met become friends. "

I agree... only add friends I have met and/or played with. My face stays private to the rest!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Because people know the meaning of the word friends.... afterall the request isnt titled complete strangers "

This

The clue is in the name OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not send any so i do not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to lots of people on here but until i meet them, they aren't friends..

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"On other apps friend requests are just common and people add others at random. "

One of the good reasons for not using other apps as well

The problem on here is you can't switch them off

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Friends pics are for friends and people we have met or planning to do so.

We've had people asking to be our friend so they see a face pic of us both and try and use the fact we are on here against us in vanilla life, black mail basically.

So we learnt early on no meet no friend!

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"I chat to lots of people on here but until i meet them, they aren't friends..

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm shy.

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By *allisto2000Woman
over a year ago

Stafford ish

"Because people know the meaning of the word friends.... afterall the request isnt titled complete strangers "

Agreed!! Definition..... .

a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection. for those who keep friend requesting me without understanding the word !! Jeeeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

Perve when they are offline, then delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

Perve when they are offline, then delete

Aha, you know what I'm talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

Perve when they are offline, then delete

Aha, you know what I'm talking about

The occasional profile catches my eye and I dream a little dream

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

I do that too, I even put it in my profile but it only encourages them, they must think the friends pics will sway me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

I do that too, I even put it in my profile but it only encourages them, they must think the friends pics will sway me! "

We’re all at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept all random friend requests, but when the person is offline and then I delete them again. It's like a private little win for me

Perve when they are offline, then delete

Aha, you know what I'm talking about

The occasional profile catches my eye and I dream a little dream

There's one or two that catches mine, usually the ones who are miles away

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