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he was a true gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i see this term used so many times in veri's

is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?

what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"i see this term used so many times in veri's

is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?

what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?"

Why have you been reading my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see this term used so many times in veri's

is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?

what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?"

Removing one's scocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leather elbow patches on your t jacket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who doesnt wipe his cock in your curtians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see this term used so many times in veri's

is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?

what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?

Removing one's scocks? "

Freudian slip! socks!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

opening doors...and not banging them in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"opening doors...and not banging them in... "

+1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respecting people and treating them the way you like to be treated with politeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carrying a non-telescopic umbrella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always calls at the front knockers and never enters by the back passage ...... unless invited to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i think being a true gentleman is..

saying thank you after you've cum on her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never pairing a cravat and cumberband in the same outfit

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sure that they dont exist...die out years ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first sexual experience took place at Boarding school, fagging for a sixth-former (and you liked it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carrying a non-telescopic umbrella "

A social faux pas of the very highest order....

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Someone who runs the tap after they've pissed in your sink

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Your first sexual experience took place at Boarding school, fagging for a sixth-former (and you liked it) "

Two thirds of that sentence apply to me

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

sticking out ones pinkie whilst holding a cup..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one who opens the door for a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who doesnt wipe his cock in your curtians "

or hide the used condom down the side of the sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You polish your shoes properly using a brush and cloth……. and use real handkerchiefs when blowing you nose,,,, but you still carry pocket tissues just incase...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You polish your shoes properly using a brush and cloth……. and use real handkerchiefs when blowing you nose,,,, but you still carry pocket tissues just incase... "

just in case what?you blow your nose off and you need something to stem the bloodflow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You polish your shoes properly using a brush and cloth……. and use real handkerchiefs when blowing you nose,,,, but you still carry pocket tissues just incase...

just in case what?you blow your nose off and you need something to stem the bloodflow?"

Nope.... the tissues are there just incase a lady in your company, treads in dog shit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh,,,, and you'd always tactfully blame the dog if a female in your company drops a really loud or smelly fart too….!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx"

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx"
You would be surprised by how a true gent can turn into an animal in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires "

takes note.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires "

I desire to be spanked and choked...Find me a willing gentleman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

takes note..... "

within reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

takes note.....

within reason "

ohh i see reverse mode now....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

takes note.....

within reason

ohh i see reverse mode now....lol "

well I can take you to heaven and back, but around world ticket costs a little bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

takes note.....

within reason

ohh i see reverse mode now....lol

well I can take you to heaven and back, but around world ticket costs a little bit more "

do i need my cheque book????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.

A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way

The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.

A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way

The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.

Wolf

"
Have we met before, I cant believe how well you just discribed me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx

atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires

I desire to be spanked and choked...Find me a willing gentleman xx"

oh i had a lady ask for that in a mmf the other week

the other lad just looked mortified so i somewhat tentatively took the bull by the horns

not my thing (if i'm honest i had never done owt like that before) but it was obviously hers and i was glad she felt comfortable enough with us both ask in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use the word for those that deserve it ie hold the door open and have manners. It's not a word I use lightly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.

In the swinging world.

Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.

In the real world

Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.

Stands up when i leave the table.

Pulls my chair out for me

Opens car doors for me

Asks before taking their jacket off

When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.

But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bowler hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought "he was a true gentleman" was reserved for obituaries of those who everyone considered a complete scoundrel until death!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.

A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way

The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.

Wolf

Have we met before, I cant believe how well you just discribed me."

Don't think so before, but it's my pleasure all the same... lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.

In the swinging world.

Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.

In the real world

Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.

Stands up when i leave the table.

Pulls my chair out for me

Opens car doors for me

Asks before taking their jacket off

When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.

But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt "

some of us still do these things too

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.

In the swinging world.

Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.

In the real world

Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.

Stands up when i leave the table.

Pulls my chair out for me

Opens car doors for me

Asks before taking their jacket off

When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.

But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt

some of us still do these things too

Wolf

"

I know, im lucky ive got one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing

but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol

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By *annGentMan
over a year ago

With a cracking view


"to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing

but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol"

I take great pride in being a gentleman, though it has to balance up with those ladies who prefer to do it themselves.

And of course, the lady is always right

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I thought "he was a true gentleman" was reserved for obituaries of those who everyone considered a complete scoundrel until death! "

scoundrel - a much neglected and underused word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say "please" before I put it in, and "thank you" when I pull it out

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I always say "please" before I put it in, and "thank you" when I pull it out "

I really don't think the toaster cares you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing

but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol"

Duly noted.

Next time I shall know not to hold the door for you to bringt coal in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!

I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its more of a comment only to notice by its absence?

Im a gentleman in the sense I look after who im escorting out, dont push for things and situations that she isnt interested in, And still liek to open doors and that haha.

x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!

I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner."

Omg how true with what you are saying sometimes a hug to me means a million words.. I miss hugs..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!

I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner."

Yeap! I am totally with you on that one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny how different we all are in relation to what we view a gentleman to be.

I don't like men to stand up if I walk in a room, or pull a chair out or open car doors, I find that extremely patronising. I don't need or want all that.

I don't think a gentleman is a guy who could willingly slap, whip or choke a woman.

To me a gentleman is one who treats me with respect, who treats me as an equal, who does not speak to me in a crude manner, call me a slag, cunt or bitch or treat me like a piece of meat. Just to be friendly, respectful, polite, engaging and has good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sir is a true gent! I'm a lucky sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sir is a true gent! I'm a lucky sub "

and he gave you permission to post that

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