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 seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I like this idea! Subtlety is often lost on me so being told directly is often the only way to get it through to me "Thought some people might be in the same situation as me so came up with this, just hope it works for people. | |||
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"I have no problem with telling people I fancy them!! "Good, I'm really pleased for you, not quite what this thread's about though. | |||
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"I might try the direct approach. It can’t be that hard can it? "I won't lie and say I'm good at it either but hope this thread nudges people to do it, just try. | |||
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"I want to fuck the arse of you.... I'm hoping 'the' person knows I'm referring to them " With all due respect you don't strike me as a person who's quite that shy, post whoever it is a message or wink. | |||
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"I want to fuck the arse of you.... I'm hoping 'the' person knows I'm referring to them With all due respect you don't strike me as a person who's quite that shy, post whoever it is a message or wink. "Damn...you've sussed me out, you're right. Shy bairns get nowt. | |||
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"I did and all he said was "I'm hopeless at reading the signs so I'm way more suttle then direct now" Okay, that does confuse me a little I'm afraid to say, if your "signs" didn't work why become more subtle? | |||
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"I have no problem with telling people I fancy them!!
Good, I'm really pleased for you, not quite what this thread's about though. "Oh....sorry Doc | |||
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"I love you #youknowwhoyouare" That’s the kind of status that makes me smile :- Thanks for last night, you know who you are.  | |||
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"I love you #youknowwhoyouare That’s the kind of status that makes me smile :- Thanks for last night, you know who you are. "Nice tits on you #youknowwhoyouare | |||
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"I’m hopeless at flirting  "You do come across as having a lot of confidence though. Although, as I know, that can be just a self projection, I mean that in the nicest possible way to you. | |||
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"I have no problem with telling people I fancy them!!
Good, I'm really pleased for you, not quite what this thread's about though.
Oh....sorry Doc "You never have to be sorry to me. | |||
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"I love you #youknowwhoyouare That’s the kind of status that makes me smile :- Thanks for last night, you know who you are. "Okay, can't really understand or know how to answer this, sorry. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
"Maybe it doesn't need to be "full on", just a "hi, you seem like a nice person to me" that sort of thing and take it from there, yes? | |||
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"They already know..." Excellent, I'm so pleased for you. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face? "I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost. "I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely "Oi back of the line no queue jumping | |||
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"It's rare that I go direct, I usually flip my hair about and wait for them to come to me. ... Maybe I'll try. " Why not, although I'm sure you don't have to! | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
"I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now  no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it | |||
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"I may just do that one day very soon because I really really want to feel his naked body. " Tonight's pretty slow, why not try? | |||
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"I may just do that one day very soon because I really really want to feel his naked body. " Surely you’re talking about me!!! And yet, we are yet to meet. Let’s change that because ... I fancy you!! | |||
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"Well I’ve waited and no messages! I’ll just have to resort to making a nuisance of myself "Sorry I forgot | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it "Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic! According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely
Oi back of the line no queue jumping "Ladies before gent....... well men | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known. "Looks like she’s offering a BJ to me | |||
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"Well I’ve waited and no messages! I’ll just have to resort to making a nuisance of myself "Fill yer boots. | |||
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"I wanna buy doc Martin a fish supper and take him ten pin bowling over a few alcohol free cocktails with umbrellas and straws." My ruse thread has worked, my knight in shining armour fell for it, when though?  | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known. "The only emoji’s I know are these:-
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known.
Looks like she’s offering a BJ to me "That's basically shame I'm not keen on blackcurrant juice. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely
Oi back of the line no queue jumping "There’s a queue already? I need to be quicker! | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely
Oi back of the line no queue jumping
There’s a queue already? I need to be quicker! "You have your own | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely
Oi back of the line no queue jumping
There’s a queue already? I need to be quicker! "I thought you were the first in the hair stroking queue. | |||
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"I wanna buy doc Martin a fish supper and take him ten pin bowling over a few alcohol free cocktails with umbrellas and straws. My ruse thread has worked, my knight in shining armour fell for it, when though? "It’s happening doc, we’ll have to nail a date down | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known.
The only emoji’s I know are these:-
People who have emoji OCD need to get out more "So you don't know these:    | |||
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"I’m very shy really lol. " Yeah right..! | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known.
The only emoji’s I know are these:-
People who have emoji OCD need to get out more
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" I like this idea! Subtlety is often lost on me so being told directly is often the only way to get it through to me "This is what im like LOL | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
Don’t be ridiculous woman, how could anyone say no to that angelic face?
I dunno. People are all kinds of peculiar. I'll give it a go now and if it fails I'll blame your ego boost.
I’ll give you extra big hugs at the social if I’m wrong. Although I’ve had my quota of wrong for this year so it’s unlikely
Oi back of the line no queue jumping
There’s a queue already? I need to be quicker!
I thought you were the first in the hair stroking queue. "Always Hatter | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known.
The only emoji’s I know are these:-
People who have emoji OCD need to get out more
So you don't know these:
Only two of them!
What is this? An exam? "No, just trying to show you that you know more than maybe you think, that's all. | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I have never had a problem telling someone I fancy them. Is this another of your surgeries? They seem to be weekly now no idea what that last emoji means I just like the look of it
Another surgery, did I do one last week, I can't remember? Didn't realise I was that empathetic!
According to "Emoji Listing" in the forum search it means supprised, which is quite ironic really because I would have thought you would have known.
The only emoji’s I know are these:-
People who have emoji OCD need to get out more
So you don't know these:
Only two of them!
What is this? An exam?
No, just trying to show you that you know more than maybe you think, that's all. "Okay | |||
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"Erm. I'm not sure why people need a thread for this. This is how fab works. If you don't message people you like how the fuck do you meet anyone that you choose??? Weird. " As one of the best teachers I ever had used to say: put your had up and ask a question if you don't know and don't be embarrassed because it won't be only you that doesn't understand. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
"There's a club if you'd like to go, You could meet somebody, who really lives you, But you go, And you stand on your own, And you leave on your own, And you go home, And you cry, And you want to die..... *fawns* | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
There's a club if you'd like to go,
You could meet somebody, who really lives you,
But you go,
And you stand on your own,
And you leave on your own,
And you go home,
And you cry,
And you want to die.....
*fawns*"I feel depressed now....!!! | |||
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"Beardy, I want your arse!" Just come and get it. And stop banging on about my whiskers. Pffft. | |||
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"But if I tell them directly they will say no.
There's a club if you'd like to go,
You could meet somebody, who really lives you,
But you go,
And you stand on your own,
And you leave on your own,
And you go home,
And you cry,
And you want to die.....
*fawns*
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"And you want to die..... *fawns* I feel depressed now....!!! "Yep same. Thanks Jimi for The Smiths so late at night. Really cheery. | |||
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Looking at you doesn't do it, staring is the only way that makes sense.
And trying not to blink, so you don't miss a thing.
And in spite of it all, you're still you.
It's just that you are drop dead crazy gorgeous.
So much so, that I'm actually considering telling you three short words before I leave.
Three short words that are used far too often but with little meaning....
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"Flirting?? Hmm..... Fancy a fuck do it? " Certainly direct, as long as you meant it otherwise the recipient could be just as confused. | |||
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"Flirting?? Hmm..... Fancy a fuck do it? " Works for me | |||
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"*checks inbox...* *dies a little inside...*" Pot and kettle I know but have you messaged? | |||
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"Hasn't worked at all for me, so just going to shrink back into my black hole" Don't do that, my friend, acorns do grow into mighty oaks. | |||
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"So tell me, how does this so called flirting work on here?? Could do with a few ice breaking tips! "Guess you don't which is very fortunate because I don't know any! | |||
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"I fancy someone who's going to The STP. There, I said it. " That narrows it down! | |||
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"I fancy someone who's going to The STP. There, I said it. That narrows it down! " It's a man, does that help a little? | |||
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"Flirting?? Hmm..... Fancy a fuck do it? Certainly direct, as long as you meant it otherwise the recipient could be just as confused. "Oh I'd only send it to those I genuinely wanted to | |||
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"I've told them in as direct a fashion as I could muster. So yay! Your thread has been a success." So pleased for you, good luck. | |||
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"Sits in the corner "I think you're stunning their I said it | |||
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"No, not the usual! Since I have no concept of flirting and this emoji seems to be used so willy-nilly that it's now almost meaningless how about plucking up the courage and just tell whoever you like directly and with no ambiguity? Doesn't have to be openly on this thread but maybe it would be nice for you to post to say you have.
I like this idea! Subtlety is often lost on me so being told directly is often the only way to get it through to me "Subtlety is my modus operandi which is why I am so unsuccessful on here/in this lifestyle | |||
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