FabSwingers.com forum: Self Doubt

By *ighorn2006 OP Man
over a year ago

Ceredigion / N France

In a moment of personal reflection and self-doubt, I wonder why I stay on here.

I'm no psychologist and people seem to be here for many different reasons, some even want to meet but ...

My profile must be crap or I'm uucking fugly !

I see some lovely profiles of ladies and couples and how they want to meet men, can't accommodate but enjoy hotel meets.

I've just stayed in a hotel for a week, put a Meet in the Forum and even PM'd a few ..... not a reply.

I'm away again soon in another town and will post again but I'm not expecting a reply to be honest. .... is it me ? (rhetorical question)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a male you are a very small fish in a huge ocean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send them a face pic with your first mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean....yeah. Your profile is pretty bland

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots and lots of men here and posting this whinge won’t get you meets.

You’re not entitled!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve not asked for profile advice so I find it hard to explain what my concerns would be.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yes but cmon ffs this guy can drive a car with his cock .....

That’s got to impress someone?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think i can guess the problem op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i can guess the problem op"

Yeeeah.... I think it’s fairly clear.

OP you’ve not asked for profile advice so our hands are tied but think about what is attractive and will make people want to meet you. Whinging definitely isn’t it

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I've just stayed in a hotel for a week, put a Meet in the Forum and even PM'd a few ..... not a reply

That’s considered a fair amount of effort to meet people?

I’m curious to know how long the messages you send are and whether they are copy pasted or not. If I send a five paragraph message that’s bespoke to the user, of course I’m a little irked when there’s no reply, but the lack of reply IS my reply and I move on.

If you’re staying in new places regularly, check out their club scene. There are still no guarantees of a meet there.

The point being that no one is “entitled” to sex upon joining here nor a club.

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