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I hate fifty shades of grey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omfg that book and film has so much to answer for aaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhh

Yes I been part of swinging lifestyle for many many years in here and other sites, I have met various people with different kinks and ideas.

But omfg since that awful book and film all any (high majority of) women are after is mr friggin grey. Not all swingers do but a lot of new ppl to lifestyle or dipping toes in think it’s goin be like the book.

I was talking to a young lady who seemed fun and adventurous what she wanted to do when asked what she liked about ideas discussed she said oh it’s from.... the book,

Many profiles on fab ladies post want me grey

Ano loads blokes go on or try use it cos Jesus there are loads mr grey user names or seen reference to on page

When will this grey obsession end lol rant over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never read or seen it dont want to either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was a sadist not a dom. The bdsm community would want nothing to do with this character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has nothing to do with swinging, completely different thing altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never read or seen it dont want to either"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've read a few profiles that seem to think socials are a free meal ticket or even want guys to buy them stuff like their ticking of an Amazon wishlist. I laugh it off as it shows they can be easily influenced depending on the direction of the wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omfg that book and film has so much to answer for aaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhh

Yes I been part of swinging lifestyle for many many years in here and other sites, I have met various people with different kinks and ideas.

But omfg since that awful book and film all any (high majority of) women are after is mr friggin grey. Not all swingers do but a lot of new ppl to lifestyle or dipping toes in think it’s goin be like the book.

I was talking to a young lady who seemed fun and adventurous what she wanted to do when asked what she liked about ideas discussed she said oh it’s from.... the book,

Many profiles on fab ladies post want me grey

Ano loads blokes go on or try use it cos Jesus there are loads mr grey user names or seen reference to on page

When will this grey obsession end lol rant over lol"

Erm... Never read that book or seen the film... Sounds like I'm missing out on something

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was a sadist not a dom. The bdsm community would want nothing to do with this character. "

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

We're fucked then...

Hate that film too, but at least we did catch an STi

from it

Something to initiate... A discussion

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP most women on fab are very turned off by any reference to 50 shades of shite.

We have no interest in someone who just wants to beat the shit out us. We are knowledgeable about Bdsm and are only interested in those who are similar. "Dim doms" and Mr Grey wannabes are avoided as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I've read a few profiles that seem to think socials are a free meal ticket or even want guys to buy them stuff like their ticking of an Amazon wishlist. I laugh it off as it shows they can be easily influenced depending on the direction of the wind

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Ooh we can ask for gifts

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Never read or seen it dont want to either"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Never read any of the books or warched the films, I get the impression they are a titilarion for bored housewives who like a bit more than a Mills & Boon but do not portray the true sense of a D/s relationship. I just think I actually know people who live this lifestyle why would I want to read a book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I've read a few profiles that seem to think socials are a free meal ticket or even want guys to buy them stuff like their ticking of an Amazon wishlist. I laugh it off as it shows they can be easily influenced depending on the direction of the wind

Ooh we can ask for gifts "

Yes I'll wrap big ben in a tidy bow for you to unravel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP most women on fab are very turned off by any reference to 50 shades of shite.

We have no interest in someone who just wants to beat the shit out us. We are knowledgeable about Bdsm and are only interested in those who are similar. "Dim doms" and Mr Grey wannabes are avoided as much as possible."

Oh I am under no allusion most real swinging ladies or people into bdsm or other kinks would entertain the notion of the drivel

It was an observation about how a crap book in mainstream has influenced culture and probably brought people to fab.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

If Christian Grey lived in a trailer park she would have called the police on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omfg that book and film has so much to answer for aaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhh

Yes I been part of swinging lifestyle for many many years in here and other sites, I have met various people with different kinks and ideas.

But omfg since that awful book and film all any (high majority of) women are after is mr friggin grey. Not all swingers do but a lot of new ppl to lifestyle or dipping toes in think it’s goin be like the book.

I was talking to a young lady who seemed fun and adventurous what she wanted to do when asked what she liked about ideas discussed she said oh it’s from.... the book,

Many profiles on fab ladies post want me grey

Ano loads blokes go on or try use it cos Jesus there are loads mr grey user names or seen reference to on page

When will this grey obsession end lol rant over lol

Erm... Never read that book or seen the film... Sounds like I'm missing out on something

Mrs"

Your not...They were shite x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If Christian Grey lived in a trailer park she would have called the police on him."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was a sadist not a dom. The bdsm community would want nothing to do with this character. "

I was just thinking the exact same thing!

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich


"He was a sadist not a dom. The bdsm community would want nothing to do with this character.

I was just thinking the exact same thing! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omfg that book and film has so much to answer for aaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhh

Yes I been part of swinging lifestyle for many many years in here and other sites, I have met various people with different kinks and ideas.

But omfg since that awful book and film all any (high majority of) women are after is mr friggin grey. Not all swingers do but a lot of new ppl to lifestyle or dipping toes in think it’s goin be like the book.

I was talking to a young lady who seemed fun and adventurous what she wanted to do when asked what she liked about ideas discussed she said oh it’s from.... the book,

Many profiles on fab ladies post want me grey

Ano loads blokes go on or try use it cos Jesus there are loads mr grey user names or seen reference to on page

When will this grey obsession end lol rant over lol

Erm... Never read that book or seen the film... Sounds like I'm missing out on something

Mrs

Your not...They were shite x"

Haha so heard...

my best mates mrs read the books an made him watch the films, was so funny one night when was drinking he passed out an she started telling me about all she discovered cos book (she’s very prim and proper princess girl) when I showed her fab an real bdsm stuff she was shocked cos her vision was based on a book and so was changed.

Just crazy the influence it has had still today seen 2 new profile referring to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He was a sadist not a dom. The bdsm community would want nothing to do with this character.

I was just thinking the exact same thing!

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Not read them or watched the films. My friend read them and told me not to bother as I would just find them annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omfg that book and film has so much to answer for aaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhh

Yes I been part of swinging lifestyle for many many years in here and other sites, I have met various people with different kinks and ideas.

But omfg since that awful book and film all any (high majority of) women are after is mr friggin grey. Not all swingers do but a lot of new ppl to lifestyle or dipping toes in think it’s goin be like the book.

I was talking to a young lady who seemed fun and adventurous what she wanted to do when asked what she liked about ideas discussed she said oh it’s from.... the book,

Many profiles on fab ladies post want me grey

Ano loads blokes go on or try use it cos Jesus there are loads mr grey user names or seen reference to on page

When will this grey obsession end lol rant over lol

Erm... Never read that book or seen the film... Sounds like I'm missing out on something

Mrs

Your not...They were shite x

Haha so heard...

my best mates mrs read the books an made him watch the films, was so funny one night when was drinking he passed out an she started telling me about all she discovered cos book (she’s very prim and proper princess girl) when I showed her fab an real bdsm stuff she was shocked cos her vision was based on a book and so was changed.

Just crazy the influence it has had still today seen 2 new profile referring to it"

I went to see the first one with 5 friends. 2 of them thought it was pure porn...another 2 were engrossed with the love story and my other pal said this is shite I done more than that last night lol I just laughed and said nothing but it was good to see how different people's perception of it. I read the books years before they were popular and was surprised how much hype it got x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I've read a few profiles that seem to think socials are a free meal ticket or even want guys to buy them stuff like their ticking of an Amazon wishlist. I laugh it off as it shows they can be easily influenced depending on the direction of the wind

Ooh we can ask for gifts

Yes I'll wrap big ben in a tidy bow for you to unravel "

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Amazing films; Arguably the greatest trilogy ever filmed.

.....These meds are awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't want to meet Mr Grey and I get the feeling that most women on here would actually agree with me.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Amazing films; Arguably the greatest trilogy ever filmed.

.....These meds are awesome! "
that actually made me laugh out loud... Double the dosage and they become twice as good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I certainly wouldn't want to meet Mr Grey and I get the feeling that most women on here would actually agree with me."

Creepy to the max. The worst aspects of power play. The film had nice interior decor though. Great lampshades and wallpaper.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Amazing films; Arguably the greatest trilogy ever filmed.

.....These meds are awesome! that actually made me laugh out loud... Double the dosage and they become twice as good "

If I take any more of these things, I may even be able to sit all the way through the cinematic masterpiece that is, Stop Or My Mom Will Shoot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Amazing films; Arguably the greatest trilogy ever filmed.

.....These meds are awesome! that actually made me laugh out loud... Double the dosage and they become twice as good

If I take any more of these things, I may even be able to sit all the way through the cinematic masterpiece that is, Stop Or My Mom Will Shoot "

Hey don’t put that film down I watched other week a.m. was hysterical granted am on a lot of pain meds that are opioids but it was still Fun,

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